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By *rsmith21 OP   Man
over a year ago

Never never land

Is it just me or have the ratio of women to men on here took a serious nose dive in the last few months !!

It seam there's always 300+ men on line and 40 to 60 women on line

Anyone care to comment ???

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

but tge ratio of decent guys to women is still a good ratio

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Is it just me or have the ratio of women to men on here took a serious nose dive in the last few months !!

It seam there's always 300+ men on line and 40 to 60 women on line

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Anyone care to comment ???"

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No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but tge ratio of decent guys to women is still a good ratio "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but tge ratio of decent guys to women is still a good ratio "

How about decent men to decent women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but tge ratio of decent guys to women is still a good ratio

How about decent men to decent women? "

.....we prefer indecent. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it ever any different? That's a ratio of 5:1 I'd say the true ratio is probably closer to 50:1

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"but tge ratio of decent guys to women is still a good ratio

How about decent men to decent women? .....we prefer indecent. . "

Ooohh - so I'm in with a shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women think because guys are so plentiful that they can pick from the best.

And these same women would have trouble trying to get a guy in a pub. They only getting meets because some guys here would get up on a horse. But guys are dicks too. Guys make alot of women leave because of the abusive messages and non stop dick pics. It's mens fault the women are so scarce.

That's just my opinion. Take it or leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love how when women turn someone down its automatically assumed we think we're high and mighty and that this place is the only way we can get a fuck.

Honestly we do get a lot of messages, some more than others. But at the end of the day we have lives outside fab. Work, family, kids, friends. I rarely meet anyone simply because I have little free time.

I'm not full of myself, I pick guys I'm attracted to and click with. And because of this I'm full of myself.

If I was meeting every guy who messaged I'd be a tramp. You cant win here can you.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I'm not sure who you are messaging. But not all women are like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but tge ratio of decent guys to women is still a good ratio "

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members. "
Well said sir totally agree with everything you said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how when women turn someone down its automatically assumed we think we're high and mighty and that this place is the only way we can get a fuck.

Honestly we do get a lot of messages, some more than others. But at the end of the day we have lives outside fab. Work, family, kids, friends. I rarely meet anyone simply because I have little free time.

I'm not full of myself, I pick guys I'm attracted to and click with. And because of this I'm full of myself.

If I was meeting every guy who messaged I'd be a tramp. You cant win here can you.

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Your right and i understand what your saying. What i mean is that.... You can go offline for an hour, sign in an hour later an have enough messages an offers to afford you the luxury of picking someone that looks good to talk to. Men don't have that here. Iam not saying your stuck up but some women that struggle to pull good lookin men in every day life experience that here and it goes to there head. It's why imo the site is addictive to some people.

Iam not necessarily arguing here. It's all totally understandable but if your a single guy here it can be very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah women are only on fab because they can't score anywhere else. They punch above their weight and pic ridiculously good looking men who pity fuck them. Their heads inflate and they stick the middle finger up to the other dregs on the site. And then they cry when guy's message them and remind them they're ugly fat cunts that wouldn't score anywhere. That's basically it right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a superiority complex, I meet when I can and with who I want. If I turn someone down that's not me being above anyone else I just don't want to meet them!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Yeah women are only on fab because they can't score anywhere else. They punch above their weight and pic ridiculously good looking men who pity fuck them. Their heads inflate and they stick the middle finger up to the other dregs on the site. And then they cry when guy's message them and remind them they're ugly fat cunts that wouldn't score anywhere. That's basically it right? "

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Unfortunately it seems to be!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how when women turn someone down its automatically assumed we think we're high and mighty and that this place is the only way we can get a fuck.

Honestly we do get a lot of messages, some more than others. But at the end of the day we have lives outside fab. Work, family, kids, friends. I rarely meet anyone simply because I have little free time.

I'm not full of myself, I pick guys I'm attracted to and click with. And because of this I'm full of myself.

If I was meeting every guy who messaged I'd be a tramp. You cant win here can you.

Your right and i understand what your saying. What i mean is that.... You can go offline for an hour, sign in an hour later an have enough messages an offers to afford you the luxury of picking someone that looks good to talk to. Men don't have that here. Iam not saying your stuck up but some women that struggle to pull good lookin men in every day life experience that here and it goes to there head. It's why imo the site is addictive to some people.

Iam not necessarily arguing here. It's all totally understandable but if your a single guy here it can be very frustrating "

Then you're talking about a very small % of women here because most women here are not like that at all.

Why shouldn't we pick the guys we find most attractive? Pretty sure men do it with women too. Just because some guys get turned down a lot is not the fault of the entire female population of fab. They complain about it... yet were not seeing their approach to women. Trust me if you saw what ends up in my mailbox you'd be fussy too. I'm not here purely for guys to get their leg over (which let's face it is the main reason for most men). I'm here to haven fun with people I find attractive and have that sexual spark with. A picture of your dick and a message stating the the wife's away for the weekend if I fancy a quicky isn't going get you a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members. Well said sir totally agree with everything you said!! "

To a point I agree with this too

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I think you guys need to rethink who you message. If this keeps happening then maybe it's not the woman's fault but more yours.

There are alot of decent women on here who have the right to choose who they fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah women are only on fab because they can't score anywhere else. They punch above their weight and pic ridiculously good looking men who pity fuck them. Their heads inflate and they stick the middle finger up to the other dregs on the site. And then they cry when guy's message them and remind them they're ugly fat cunts that wouldn't score anywhere. That's basically it right? "

basically what a huge amount of guys here think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members. Well said sir totally agree with everything you said!!

To a point I agree with this too"

A small % of women do and huge amount of men think they're entitled to a fuck simply because you have a profile here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah women are only on fab because they can't score anywhere else. They punch above their weight and pic ridiculously good looking men who pity fuck them. Their heads inflate and they stick the middle finger up to the other dregs on the site. And then they cry when guy's message them and remind them they're ugly fat cunts that wouldn't score anywhere. That's basically it right? "

There ye go. Superiority complex right there. Can't see anothers point of view. Any perceived insult gets taken personally and they respond with the likes of the above.

We all know guys can be assholes but for some reason you think that guys are assholes for no reason but when your the assholes it's a case of 101 reasons.

And alot of you here are punching above your weight. If that's offensive to you and you take it personally then sorry but i don't bullshit talk to tell ppl what they wanna hear like others here. It's also not a pity fuck. It's a guy loving the fact that his perception of you is this naughty girl shaggin men off the Internet. Women are being played here more then they care to admit or realise and you can't handle that reality so you react with anger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members. Well said sir totally agree with everything you said!!

To a point I agree with this too

A small % of women do and huge amount of men think they're entitled to a fuck simply because you have a profile here. "

Thats very true about the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone woman here that thinks they have never been played and that every guy they met here was sweet / genuine are extremely niave.

More often then not you are being played and being told what you want to hear so that some dude can take What's between your legs. Crude but it's truth and you love the fact ur gettin with this smoking hot guy so much that ur judgment gets clouded.

This isn't aimed at everyone here btw but alot of ppl. Guys get a bad rap here and it's always the women that are the victim but nobody ever fails to see the wrong doings of the women because everyone is too busy licking her ass to get her into bed. Rant over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members. "

Everyone can choose who they'd like to meet. It's not gender exclusive, it's preference.

Posts like the above, to me, smack of sour grapes.

Just because a woman may not wish to meet you or another doesn't mean they think they're above them; that's inane and ignorant. There are women you won't be attracted to, that means you won't meet them and it's as simple as that; would you say you're too good for, or above, them?

If you're attracted to someone and they wish to meet then what's the issue?

Perhaps it's not some mythical superiority complex but you're own approach and attitude. If you think of Fab and women in that manner, then you're the one hindering yourself.

Nobody "get played". We're all here for ourselves, not for others, and to enjoy ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone woman here that thinks they have never been played and that every guy they met here was sweet / genuine are extremely niave.

More often then not you are being played and being told what you want to hear so that some dude can take What's between your legs. Crude but it's truth and you love the fact ur gettin with this smoking hot guy so much that ur judgment gets clouded.

This isn't aimed at everyone here btw but alot of ppl. Guys get a bad rap here and it's always the women that are the victim but nobody ever fails to see the wrong doings of the women because everyone is too busy licking her ass to get her into bed. Rant over lol"

I am well aware of the bullshit that men here spout in order to get me to meet and I do enjoy some ass licking

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Anyone woman here that thinks they have never been played and that every guy they met here was sweet / genuine are extremely niave.

More often then not you are being played and being told what you want to hear so that some dude can take What's between your legs. Crude but it's truth and you love the fact ur gettin with this smoking hot guy so much that ur judgment gets clouded.

This isn't aimed at everyone here btw but alot of ppl. Guys get a bad rap here and it's always the women that are the victim but nobody ever fails to see the wrong doings of the women because everyone is too busy licking her ass to get her into bed. Rant over lol

I am well aware of the bullshit that men here spout in order to get me to meet and I do enjoy some ass licking "

It's a very lickable bottom, to be fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah women are only on fab because they can't score anywhere else. They punch above their weight and pic ridiculously good looking men who pity fuck them. Their heads inflate and they stick the middle finger up to the other dregs on the site. And then they cry when guy's message them and remind them they're ugly fat cunts that wouldn't score anywhere. That's basically it right?

There ye go. Superiority complex right there. Can't see anothers point of view. Any perceived insult gets taken personally and they respond with the likes of the above.

We all know guys can be assholes but for some reason you think that guys are assholes for no reason but when your the assholes it's a case of 101 reasons.

And alot of you here are punching above your weight. If that's offensive to you and you take it personally then sorry but i don't bullshit talk to tell ppl what they wanna hear like others here. It's also not a pity fuck. It's a guy loving the fact that his perception of you is this naughty girl shaggin men off the Internet. Women are being played here more then they care to admit or realise and you can't handle that reality so you react with anger "

I don't find you or your views offensive more laughable and I would never take your view of the women here personally. I enjoy reading the views of you and the other males on here about what you and they truly think about fabs female members. I'm far from angry but you seem a little bitter still....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone woman here that thinks they have never been played and that every guy they met here was sweet / genuine are extremely niave.

More often then not you are being played and being told what you want to hear so that some dude can take What's between your legs. Crude but it's truth and you love the fact ur gettin with this smoking hot guy so much that ur judgment gets clouded.

This isn't aimed at everyone here btw but alot of ppl. Guys get a bad rap here and it's always the women that are the victim but nobody ever fails to see the wrong doings of the women because everyone is too busy licking her ass to get her into bed. Rant over lol"

If you really think we're stupid enough ough to fall for the bullshit that is thrown our way you're mistaken. I don't need to be told I'm this that and the other to want to meet someone. And I'm more likely to meet someone who's not full of that shit. You have a poor opinion of women here if you think we're all like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members.

Everyone can choose who they'd like to meet. It's not gender exclusive, it's preference.

Posts like the above, to me, smack of sour grapes.

Just because a woman may not wish to meet you or another doesn't mean they think they're above them; that's inane and ignorant. There are women you won't be attracted to, that means you won't meet them and it's as simple as that; would you say you're too good for, or above, them?

If you're attracted to someone and they wish to meet then what's the issue?

Perhaps it's not some mythical superiority complex but you're own approach and attitude. If you think of Fab and women in that manner, then you're the one hindering yourself.

Nobody "get played". We're all here for ourselves, not for others, and to enjoy ourselves."

Technically you could argue that you think your above someone if your not attracted to them then you clearly feel your worthy of someone that looks better so you are in essence looking down on them.

If you don't think women are being played here then your deluded. Men are here for sex in general and they'll tell you whatever it takes to get it from you. Some women are niave to think and take it as charming, genuine etc but it's merely a load of bullshit to get in to ur knickers. However,if the woman has the same mindset n is just here for sex and to use men for they're pleasure then it works. The problem is that some women are are clearly not aware they are being used and are foooling themselves here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone woman here that thinks they have never been played and that every guy they met here was sweet / genuine are extremely niave.

More often then not you are being played and being told what you want to hear so that some dude can take What's between your legs. Crude but it's truth and you love the fact ur gettin with this smoking hot guy so much that ur judgment gets clouded.

This isn't aimed at everyone here btw but alot of ppl. Guys get a bad rap here and it's always the women that are the victim but nobody ever fails to see the wrong doings of the women because everyone is too busy licking her ass to get her into bed. Rant over lol"

....just to clarify something with you. ..is it your belief that women get played on here by guys, and we're unable to see whats happening? . And do you also believe that they cant see white knights coming? Just wondering. .thats all

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah, my chances have improved dramatically since this thread started. Woohoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members.

Everyone can choose who they'd like to meet. It's not gender exclusive, it's preference.

Posts like the above, to me, smack of sour grapes.

Just because a woman may not wish to meet you or another doesn't mean they think they're above them; that's inane and ignorant. There are women you won't be attracted to, that means you won't meet them and it's as simple as that; would you say you're too good for, or above, them?

If you're attracted to someone and they wish to meet then what's the issue?

Perhaps it's not some mythical superiority complex but you're own approach and attitude. If you think of Fab and women in that manner, then you're the one hindering yourself.

Nobody "get played". We're all here for ourselves, not for others, and to enjoy ourselves.

Technically you could argue that you think your above someone if your not attracted to them then you clearly feel your worthy of someone that looks better so you are in essence looking down on them.

If you don't think women are being played here then your deluded. Men are here for sex in general and they'll tell you whatever it takes to get it from you. Some women are niave to think and take it as charming, genuine etc but it's merely a load of bullshit to get in to ur knickers. However,if the woman has the same mindset n is just here for sex and to use men for they're pleasure then it works. The problem is that some women are are clearly not aware they are being used and are foooling themselves here.

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Eh women are here for sex too. Maybe it's the men that are being played. You're quite sexist really assuming all women or most of the women become attached and the men are just getting their leg over.

And you meet anyone that asks you to? No preferences at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look. As a woman you want to feel you made the guy like you. Iam simply saying that the very fact ur on a swingers site is enough to make the guy want you because the vast majority have a preconceived perception that your slutty an therefore they charm you into bed using there good looks etc but some women are niave into thinking they've met a genuine sweetheart lol

Some of you are being made fools of. I've asked guys that are on sites like fab before why they use the site and they all say the same thing "because it's easy sex and the women are filthy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone woman here that thinks they have never been played and that every guy they met here was sweet / genuine are extremely niave.

More often then not you are being played and being told what you want to hear so that some dude can take What's between your legs. Crude but it's truth and you love the fact ur gettin with this smoking hot guy so much that ur judgment gets clouded.

This isn't aimed at everyone here btw but alot of ppl. Guys get a bad rap here and it's always the women that are the victim but nobody ever fails to see the wrong doings of the women because everyone is too busy licking her ass to get her into bed. Rant over lol....just to clarify something with you. ..is it your belief that women get played on here by guys, and we're unable to see whats happening? . And do you also believe that they cant see white knights coming? Just wondering. .thats all"

I believe every man that starts a message with 'Hi Sexy'. After all, who wouldn't find a grey silhouette sexy.

No notice is taken of the flattery or flannel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look. As a woman you want to feel you made the guy like you. Iam simply saying that the very fact ur on a swingers site is enough to make the guy want you because the vast majority have a preconceived perception that your slutty an therefore they charm you into bed using there good looks etc but some women are niave into thinking they've met a genuine sweetheart lol

Some of you are being made fools of. I've asked guys that are on sites like fab before why they use the site and they all say the same thing "because it's easy sex and the women are filthy"

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But why do you think women are here? For flattery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look. As a woman you want to feel you made the guy like you. Iam simply saying that the very fact ur on a swingers site is enough to make the guy want you because the vast majority have a preconceived perception that your slutty an therefore they charm you into bed using there good looks etc but some women are niave into thinking they've met a genuine sweetheart lol

Some of you are being made fools of. I've asked guys that are on sites like fab before why they use the site and they all say the same thing "because it's easy sex and the women are filthy"

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Apparently not that easy of they can't get women to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but tge ratio of decent guys to women is still a good ratio "

Touché

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Ah, my chances have improved dramatically since this thread started. Woohoo! "

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Darn... you got there before me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look. As a woman you want to feel you made the guy like you. Iam simply saying that the very fact ur on a swingers site is enough to make the guy want you because the vast majority have a preconceived perception that your slutty an therefore they charm you into bed using there good looks etc but some women are niave into thinking they've met a genuine sweetheart lol

Some of you are being made fools of. I've asked guys that are on sites like fab before why they use the site and they all say the same thing "because it's easy sex and the women are filthy"

"

.......tbh....the guys that are telling you stuff like that are the ones who aren't getting any action. ..because of their attitude.fab is like a pub or club in reverse. . Most of us are here for sex...get the hello's out of the way....and then down to business. .. we choose who we want to meet. ..and like most people, can smell bullshit a mile away. ...just as a social experiment. ..ask those guys how many meets they had with "filthy" women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look. As a woman you want to feel you made the guy like you. Iam simply saying that the very fact ur on a swingers site is enough to make the guy want you because the vast majority have a preconceived perception that your slutty an therefore they charm you into bed using there good looks etc but some women are niave into thinking they've met a genuine sweetheart lol

Some of you are being made fools of. I've asked guys that are on sites like fab before why they use the site and they all say the same thing "because it's easy sex and the women are filthy"

But why do you think women are here? For flattery?"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Look. As a woman you want to feel you made the guy like you. Iam simply saying that the very fact ur on a swingers site is enough to make the guy want you because the vast majority have a preconceived perception that your slutty an therefore they charm you into bed using there good looks etc but some women are niave into thinking they've met a genuine sweetheart lol

Some of you are being made fools of. I've asked guys that are on sites like fab before why they use the site and they all say the same thing "because it's easy sex and the women are filthy"

But why do you think women are here? For flattery?"

Can we please just talk about your bottom for a while. I think I'm in love!

I wish I was in, love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members.

Everyone can choose who they'd like to meet. It's not gender exclusive, it's preference.

Posts like the above, to me, smack of sour grapes.

Just because a woman may not wish to meet you or another doesn't mean they think they're above them; that's inane and ignorant. There are women you won't be attracted to, that means you won't meet them and it's as simple as that; would you say you're too good for, or above, them?

If you're attracted to someone and they wish to meet then what's the issue?

Perhaps it's not some mythical superiority complex but you're own approach and attitude. If you think of Fab and women in that manner, then you're the one hindering yourself.

Nobody "get played". We're all here for ourselves, not for others, and to enjoy ourselves.

Technically you could argue that you think your above someone if your not attracted to them then you clearly feel your worthy of someone that looks better so you are in essence looking down on them.

If you don't think women are being played here then your deluded. Men are here for sex in general and they'll tell you whatever it takes to get it from you. Some women are niave to think and take it as charming, genuine etc but it's merely a load of bullshit to get in to ur knickers. However,if the woman has the same mindset n is just here for sex and to use men for they're pleasure then it works. The problem is that some women are are clearly not aware they are being used and are foooling themselves here.

Eh women are here for sex too. Maybe it's the men that are being played. You're quite sexist really assuming all women or most of the women become attached and the men are just getting their leg over.

And you meet anyone that asks you to? No preferences at all? "

Omg exactly lol in some cases men are being played but nowhere near as often. It's all understandable. It's just the way it is. If you would stop taking opinions as personal attacks on you then maybe you would see where iam coming from.

Do women think guys here are messaging them to be there friend lol or because they care? Get real. Most guys wanna just use u for sex. If ur ok with that then happy days but if ur not then don't lie to urself. Likewise some women are here to use guys for sex.

The statement iam trying to make is all the bullshit n fakeness inbeteeen. Women being won over by some hot guy because they believe he likes them when in reality he's just wanting your pussy.

The reason my thoughts are being met with such animosity however is because naturally you do not want to believe that. You want to believe ur personality is so amazing that that's the reason ur getting guys here but it's not. It's ur naughty pictures, the fact ur here etc

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

To be fair now, a lot of men will meet based on personality before anything else. I know I'm one of them.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I am going to use the word naive at least once tonight,I dont think I have ever said it out loud

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away"

This. I'm certainly no cut from rock Adonis and I get meets. In fact the biggest problem I have is getting scheduling to sync up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair now, a lot of men will meet based on personality before anything else. I know I'm one of them. "

Yes but they already had the preconceived perfection that the person is naughty etc The interest was already created before the personality was known.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

The reason my thoughts are being met with such animosity however is because naturally you do not want to believe that. You want to believe ur personality is so amazing that that's the reason ur getting guys here but it's not. It's ur naughty pictures, the fact ur here etc

The reason us women commenting here are getting heated, is because we are not the women you are referring to.

We will have sex with who we want and you'll just have to deal with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away"

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"To be fair now, a lot of men will meet based on personality before anything else. I know I'm one of them.

Yes but they already had the preconceived perfection that the person is naughty etc The interest was already created before the personality was known.

"

Well presumably anyone on this site has a naughty disposition so that's not related to photos. I think you're underestimating the complexity of your fellow men and the common sense of more women than you imagine.

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By *electivepleasureWoman
over a year ago

somewhere local

Just because I am on a swinging site doesn't mean I'm going to fuck every single guy who msgs. Especially with the rotten Messages that some guys send ,not to mention the abuse us single women get. A ripped body etc can never hide an ugly personality.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either. "

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Just because I am on a swinging site doesn't mean I'm going to fuck every single guy who msgs. Especially with the rotten Messages that some guys send ,not to mention the abuse us single women get. A ripped body etc can never hide an ugly personality.

"

Ah shite. Just ignore that message I sent you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?"

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable "

Wouldn't they fall into the hot category? So if you're saying in an earlier post that it's not just the hot guys getting meets then who,in your opinion are the non hot guys getting meets and why?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable "

I'm not so sure about that. Most of the many moany threads about lack of meets come from fairly fit looking lads. Well, I suppose when you're looking from my side, everybody is fit looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either. "

how am i getting it om a plate??

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

"

That's hardly a surprise. Sure they're probably only online when the wife is at bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable "

I don't agree with you there. I would far rather have an average guy than a gym fit one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

how am i getting it om a plate?? "

Maybe u have low standards. I dunno lol Maybe ur hot. I can't answer that dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable

I don't agree with you there. I would far rather have an average guy than a gym fit one"

And are you really good looking / fit?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

how am i getting it om a plate??

Maybe u have low standards. I dunno lol Maybe ur hot. I can't answer that dude "

nice one thanks or it could be i know how to talk and treat women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off course women fabbers choose the people they're most attracted to for meets, who wudnt ? There's only so much free time anyone has for meets and if a girl is getting fifty messages why wud they choose to meet someone other than the person they are most attracted to, I certainly wouldn't just to avoid hurting someone's fragile feelings. Everyone here is an adult and here for themselves whether that be purely for sex or for the social aspect or for any other reason, everyone should do what feels right for them. If you're feelings or ur ego get hurt by rejection then perhaps fab isn't for u whether ur male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye ...its just a pity she hasn't got the courage of her convictions. And maybe post , it would be interesting to hear her point of view.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

"

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ladies, I'm making a list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken. "

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable

I don't agree with you there. I would far rather have an average guy than a gym fit one

And are you really good looking / fit? "

Nope, I'm just a very average woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

how am i getting it om a plate??

Maybe u have low standards. I dunno lol Maybe ur hot. I can't answer that dude

nice one thanks or it could be i know how to talk and treat women? "

Well lucky you because some guys here don't even get the chance to talk to women never mind treat them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I'm making a list "

A sort of Christmas wish list??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc "

Simply because I'm not going meet them if I'm not attracted to them so they can say what they like. I don't need any guy to flatter my ego to get me in to bed. You really think I'd fuck some guy because he calls me sexy and beautiful and says all the right things? You must really think women are stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc "

...are you not exhibiting the same superiority complex by assuming that women can be fooled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

how am i getting it om a plate??

Maybe u have low standards. I dunno lol Maybe ur hot. I can't answer that dude

nice one thanks or it could be i know how to talk and treat women?

Well lucky you because some guys here don't even get the chance to talk to women never mind treat them. "

Some guys make a rod for their own back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I'm making a list

A sort of Christmas wish list?? "

....don't forget to check it twice. .....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Ladies, I'm making a list

A sort of Christmas wish list?? "

I'm working on my sack as we speak!

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over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc

Simply because I'm not going meet them if I'm not attracted to them so they can say what they like. I don't need any guy to flatter my ego to get me in to bed. You really think I'd fuck some guy because he calls me sexy and beautiful and says all the right things? You must really think women are stupid."

So you think that because your attracted to him means he can't possibly have a hidden motive? Then you are stupid. It's usually the guys that know ur attracted to them that play you. Why is it so hard to accept!?

You know that guys play women and fab is the perfect playground for it but somehow Oh no not you, because ur no fool. Your displaying superiority complex as we speak for God sake

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable

Wouldn't they fall into the hot category? So if you're saying in an earlier post that it's not just the hot guys getting meets then who,in your opinion are the non hot guys getting meets and why?"

Just quoting myself again for hifiman as I'm interested in hearing his opinion on this....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What's this notion about hidden motives? Aren't we all here for the ride?

Some people realise that they're not just entitled to it simply because they're here

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over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc

Simply because I'm not going meet them if I'm not attracted to them so they can say what they like. I don't need any guy to flatter my ego to get me in to bed. You really think I'd fuck some guy because he calls me sexy and beautiful and says all the right things? You must really think women are stupid.

So you think that because your attracted to him means he can't possibly have a hidden motive? Then you are stupid. It's usually the guys that know ur attracted to them that play you. Why is it so hard to accept!?

You know that guys play women and fab is the perfect playground for it but somehow Oh no not you, because ur no fool. Your displaying superiority complex as we speak for God sake "

The hidden motive as in they want sex? As in my hidden motive to meet them?

Guys can play me all they like but I'll still only meet who I want to, the exact same as they do. I don't think I'm superior to anyone, I think we're all here for the same thing. The difference being I don't bitch that no one will reply to me.

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over a year ago


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable

Wouldn't they fall into the hot category? So if you're saying in an earlier post that it's not just the hot guys getting meets then who,in your opinion are the non hot guys getting meets and why?

Just quoting myself again for hifiman as I'm interested in hearing his opinion on this...."

Quiet simply the non hot guys are getting non hot women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc

Simply because I'm not going meet them if I'm not attracted to them so they can say what they like. I don't need any guy to flatter my ego to get me in to bed. You really think I'd fuck some guy because he calls me sexy and beautiful and says all the right things? You must really think women are stupid.

So you think that because your attracted to him means he can't possibly have a hidden motive? Then you are stupid. It's usually the guys that know ur attracted to them that play you. Why is it so hard to accept!?

You know that guys play women and fab is the perfect playground for it but somehow Oh no not you, because ur no fool. Your displaying superiority complex as we speak for God sake "

Oh ffs

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over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc

Simply because I'm not going meet them if I'm not attracted to them so they can say what they like. I don't need any guy to flatter my ego to get me in to bed. You really think I'd fuck some guy because he calls me sexy and beautiful and says all the right things? You must really think women are stupid.

So you think that because your attracted to him means he can't possibly have a hidden motive? Then you are stupid. It's usually the guys that know ur attracted to them that play you. Why is it so hard to accept!?

You know that guys play women and fab is the perfect playground for it but somehow Oh no not you, because ur no fool. Your displaying superiority complex as we speak for God sake

Oh ffs"

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"it seems to me the only people who complain about women being picky are the ones that don't get picked. if women were so picky and only picked the best looking ripped bodied guys with 12" cocks please explain how i get meets?? the lad's on here's approach is shocking to say the least and women can smell desperation a mile away

But of course. You don't expect ppl that are getting it on a plate to complain. Nobody is saying it's only the hot guys getting meets either.

So who, in your opinion are the guys getting meets and why?

Well obviously the good looking guys with fit bodies are getting most meets in comparison to average guys. Again, it's understandable

Wouldn't they fall into the hot category? So if you're saying in an earlier post that it's not just the hot guys getting meets then who,in your opinion are the non hot guys getting meets and why?

Just quoting myself again for hifiman as I'm interested in hearing his opinion on this....

Quiet simply the non hot guys are getting non hot women "

Hotness is subjective. I'm failing to see a problem.

Are you simply annoyed that you're not bedding any "hot" women?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

This is way too much laughing for one day. I'm off back to my synthetic lawn!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

If any guy here thinks that they can fool any women on FAB about anything then they are seriously deluded!!

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want!

Yes, at present Men vastly outnumber the Ladies BUT even if it changed to where there were more Ladies than Males, they would still be ENTITLED to meet whoever they wanted!

To try to insult "ladies who wouldn't get a Male if it weren't for FAB" is extremely insulting to ALL ladies!!

Frankly, I'm surprised there are so many Ladies here given the crap and insults they have to deal with!

what is being posted on this thread is HIGHLY offensive not just to Ladies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally just received mail from a girl who said she agrees with me and that she is gettin guys here that are charming her who she knows would never show her interest in real life. She knows they are only after a fuck and a goodbye

Nobody said guys don't do that. What we said is that if you think we're stupid enough to fall for it you're mistaken.

But how can you kno you haven't been fooled? This is the superiority complex iam on about. You think no man can fool u n u have never been played here? You don't wanna believe ur stupid enough to fall for it an i get that but some of you are and do fall for it n it's not necessarily anything ye should feel bad about. Some guys are just expert charmers and it's passed off daily as him being a genuine good guy etc

Simply because I'm not going meet them if I'm not attracted to them so they can say what they like. I don't need any guy to flatter my ego to get me in to bed. You really think I'd fuck some guy because he calls me sexy and beautiful and says all the right things? You must really think women are stupid.

So you think that because your attracted to him means he can't possibly have a hidden motive? Then you are stupid. It's usually the guys that know ur attracted to them that play you. Why is it so hard to accept!?

You know that guys play women and fab is the perfect playground for it but somehow Oh no not you, because ur no fool. Your displaying superiority complex as we speak for God sake

Oh ffs

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav. "

Of course you are Snow. My oh ffs was to him

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Oh ffs

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav.

Of course you are Snow. My oh ffs was to him"

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Oh ffs can't you not ffs the right person ffs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any guy here thinks that they can fool any women on FAB about anything then they are seriously deluded!!

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want!

Yes, at present Men vastly outnumber the Ladies BUT even if it changed to where there were more Ladies than Males, they would still be ENTITLED to meet whoever they wanted!

To try to insult "ladies who wouldn't get a Male if it weren't for FAB" is extremely insulting to ALL ladies!!

Frankly, I'm surprised there are so many Ladies here given the crap and insults they have to deal with!

what is being posted on this thread is HIGHLY offensive not just to Ladies!!"

Ye can't post anything here without it offending someone. What's new. I stand and stood up for what i believe to be the truth. Each to their own. Nobody ever suggested women shouldn't meet who they want to. I've had my say. Nothing else to add

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over a year ago


"

Oh ffs

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav.

Of course you are Snow. My oh ffs was to him

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Oh ffs can't you not ffs the right person ffs?? "

I thought I had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh ffs

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav.

Of course you are Snow. My oh ffs was to him

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Oh ffs can't you not ffs the right person ffs??

I thought I had "

You had

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Oh ffs

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav.

Of course you are Snow. My oh ffs was to him

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Oh ffs can't you not ffs the right person ffs??

I thought I had "

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"If any guy here thinks that they can fool any women on FAB about anything then they are seriously deluded!!

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want!

Yes, at present Men vastly outnumber the Ladies BUT even if it changed to where there were more Ladies than Males, they would still be ENTITLED to meet whoever they wanted!

To try to insult "ladies who wouldn't get a Male if it weren't for FAB" is extremely insulting to ALL ladies!!

Frankly, I'm surprised there are so many Ladies here given the crap and insults they have to deal with!

what is being posted on this thread is HIGHLY offensive not just to Ladies!!

Ye can't post anything here without it offending someone. What's new. I stand and stood up for what i believe to be the truth. Each to their own. Nobody ever suggested women shouldn't meet who they want to. I've had my say. Nothing else to add "

Not saying it doesn't go on,i just don't think it goes on as much as you think it does.

You can play the game and still be respectful to other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any guy here thinks that they can fool any women on FAB about anything then they are seriously deluded!!

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want!

Yes, at present Men vastly outnumber the Ladies BUT even if it changed to where there were more Ladies than Males, they would still be ENTITLED to meet whoever they wanted!

To try to insult "ladies who wouldn't get a Male if it weren't for FAB" is extremely insulting to ALL ladies!!

Frankly, I'm surprised there are so many Ladies here given the crap and insults they have to deal with!

what is being posted on this thread is HIGHLY offensive not just to Ladies!!

Ye can't post anything here without it offending someone. What's new. I stand and stood up for what i believe to be the truth. Each to their own. Nobody ever suggested women shouldn't meet who they want to. I've had my say. Nothing else to add "

Then what was your point? Because you clearly had a go at women who meet who they like by saying were all being played and only meet the hot attractive people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh ffs

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav.

Of course you are Snow. My oh ffs was to him

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Oh ffs can't you not ffs the right person ffs??

I thought I had

You had "

Now you tell me - after I scrolled back and re-read 3 times

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Not saying it doesn't go on,i just don't think it goes on as much as you think it does.

You can play the game and still be respectful to other people. "

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Respectful being the key word!!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Oh ffs

I didn't know I wasn't allowed a different opinion to his loncav.

Of course you are Snow. My oh ffs was to him

.

Oh ffs can't you not ffs the right person ffs??

I thought I had

You had "

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Oh ffs am glad that ffs is cleared up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any guy here thinks that they can fool any women on FAB about anything then they are seriously deluded!!

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want!

Yes, at present Men vastly outnumber the Ladies BUT even if it changed to where there were more Ladies than Males, they would still be ENTITLED to meet whoever they wanted!

To try to insult "ladies who wouldn't get a Male if it weren't for FAB" is extremely insulting to ALL ladies!!

Frankly, I'm surprised there are so many Ladies here given the crap and insults they have to deal with!

what is being posted on this thread is HIGHLY offensive not just to Ladies!!

Ye can't post anything here without it offending someone. What's new. I stand and stood up for what i believe to be the truth. Each to their own. Nobody ever suggested women shouldn't meet who they want to. I've had my say. Nothing else to add

Then what was your point? Because you clearly had a go at women who meet who they like by saying were all being played and only meet the hot attractive people. "

You can't see my point so leave it go. And don't attempt to twist things with ur above bullshit. No wonder you couldn't see my point. You heard what u wanted to hear. Your post above proves it. I can tell you won't stop replying until you have the last word so ur superiority complex can feel like u won.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't read all this trend...but a little sociological pondering....why do 1/5th as many women seek casual no strings sex as men? Wired differently? It doesnt tally for me with the arguments against slut shaming etc etc. and how girls can have their fun too...which i agree with but why do so few choose to?

Or is tinder where it's at?

Could it be argued that slut shaming stems from other women and not society/men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez but there's a lot of uninformed opinions, sour grapes and entitlement issues floating on this thread today.

Clearly the fact that some get more than others is a sore point for the few who are faced with rejection.

This isn't school, you don't get gold stars just for attending. Your attitude determines your perception, so rather than moaning about how you're getting the short end of the stick and that it's everyone else's fault but our own, change your attitude and be happy with whatever you've got - happy people are successful people! #justsaying

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Jeez but there's a lot of uninformed opinions, sour grapes and entitlement issues floating on this thread today.

Clearly the fact that some get more than others is a sore point for the few who are faced with rejection.

This isn't school, you don't get gold stars just for attending. Your attitude determines your perception, so rather than moaning about how you're getting the short end of the stick and that it's everyone else's fault but our own, change your attitude and be happy with whatever you've got - happy people are successful people! #justsaying"

Pretty much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any guy here thinks that they can fool any women on FAB about anything then they are seriously deluded!!

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want!

Yes, at present Men vastly outnumber the Ladies BUT even if it changed to where there were more Ladies than Males, they would still be ENTITLED to meet whoever they wanted!

To try to insult "ladies who wouldn't get a Male if it weren't for FAB" is extremely insulting to ALL ladies!!

Frankly, I'm surprised there are so many Ladies here given the crap and insults they have to deal with!

what is being posted on this thread is HIGHLY offensive not just to Ladies!!

Ye can't post anything here without it offending someone. What's new. I stand and stood up for what i believe to be the truth. Each to their own. Nobody ever suggested women shouldn't meet who they want to. I've had my say. Nothing else to add

Then what was your point? Because you clearly had a go at women who meet who they like by saying were all being played and only meet the hot attractive people.

You can't see my point so leave it go. And don't attempt to twist things with ur above bullshit. No wonder you couldn't see my point. You heard what u wanted to hear. Your post above proves it. I can tell you won't stop replying until you have the last word so ur superiority complex can feel like u won. "

I'm asking you a simple question. If you can't answer it then that's fine but you can leave out the insults because I'm questioning you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above. The problem with way too many men is that women get to pick and choose and if your hot looking.... They choose you. What happens as a result is that a lot of women start feeling like they are above others but fail to realize that (and iam sorry if this sounds harsh) but it's fact. Most of the guys they are gettin with here are merely using them for sex and in the real world the guy would want nothing to do with them. Great if you don't care and it's just sex you want but alot of women clearly want more. Look at how many women here get attached to men after just one meet. Iam not trying to offend anyone. Just saying what i honestly think and that's that way to many average lookin women here at best have developed superiority complex simply because fab allows them to pull hot guys an as a result they look down on other members.

Everyone can choose who they'd like to meet. It's not gender exclusive, it's preference.

Posts like the above, to me, smack of sour grapes.

Just because a woman may not wish to meet you or another doesn't mean they think they're above them; that's inane and ignorant. There are women you won't be attracted to, that means you won't meet them and it's as simple as that; would you say you're too good for, or above, them?

If you're attracted to someone and they wish to meet then what's the issue?

Perhaps it's not some mythical superiority complex but you're own approach and attitude. If you think of Fab and women in that manner, then you're the one hindering yourself.

Nobody "get played". We're all here for ourselves, not for others, and to enjoy ourselves.

Technically you could argue that you think your above someone if your not attracted to them then you clearly feel your worthy of someone that looks better so you are in essence looking down on them.

If you don't think women are being played here then your deluded. Men are here for sex in general and they'll tell you whatever it takes to get it from you. Some women are niave to think and take it as charming, genuine etc but it's merely a load of bullshit to get in to ur knickers. However,if the woman has the same mindset n is just here for sex and to use men for they're pleasure then it works. The problem is that some women are are clearly not aware they are being used and are foooling themselves here.

Eh women are here for sex too. Maybe it's the men that are being played. You're quite sexist really assuming all women or most of the women become attached and the men are just getting their leg over.

And you meet anyone that asks you to? No preferences at all? "

Ok now i've read about half the thread..i might get to the end yet.

I agree...for the most part it's the men (some) getting played...transformed into the sycophants falling over themselves in praise of false goddesses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy know there's not much sport on the box!

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

There's so much I could say. .. but I won't .. cause I'm being on my bestest behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want"

I'll have to stop you there...i've seen that word at least a few times here..nobody is entitled to anything and therein lies the problem in this thread

Two people meet when they both AGREE to meet and are mutually attracted.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want

I'll have to stop you there...i've seen that word at least a few times here..nobody is entitled to anything and therein lies the problem in this thread

Two people meet when they both AGREE to meet and are mutually attracted. "

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OK...then they're not entitled to meet whoever they want..

Yeah right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want

I'll have to stop you there...i've seen that word at least a few times here..nobody is entitled to anything and therein lies the problem in this thread

Two people meet when they both AGREE to meet and are mutually attracted.

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OK...then they're not entitled to meet whoever they want..

Yeah right!!"

Make your mind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll agree with whoever needs agreeing. Or argue with whoever needs.....

Jasis have I nothing better to be doin......

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want

I'll have to stop you there...i've seen that word at least a few times here..nobody is entitled to anything and therein lies the problem in this thread

Two people meet when they both AGREE to meet and are mutually attracted.

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OK...then they're not entitled to meet whoever they want..

Yeah right!!

Make your mind up"

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Of course they're entitled to meet whoever they want!!

Like I already posted....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know what entitled means?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want

I'll have to stop you there...i've seen that word at least a few times here..nobody is entitled to anything and therein lies the problem in this thread

Two people meet when they both AGREE to meet and are mutually attracted.

.

OK...then they're not entitled to meet whoever they want..

Yeah right!!

Make your mind up

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Of course they're entitled to meet whoever they want!!

Like I already posted...."

I know

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Do you know what entitled means?

"

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I know what Entitled means.,.

..and I know what Entitled to means,

...but thanks for asking.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Ladies on FAB range in Ages, Size etc etc and are entitled to meet whoever they want

I'll have to stop you there...i've seen that word at least a few times here..nobody is entitled to anything and therein lies the problem in this thread

Two people meet when they both AGREE to meet and are mutually attracted.

.

OK...then they're not entitled to meet whoever they want..

Yeah right!!

Make your mind up

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Of course they're entitled to meet whoever they want!!

Like I already posted....

I know "

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and you are entitled to know or not know!!

I couldn't care less!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure you know?...

I'm taking you literally and being pedantic to make the point but you are saying a woman of ANY age or size .... Either...

believes themselves to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment...

Or....

Has a legal right or a just claim to receive or do something

With ANY guy?

....Yes i've binged watched suits this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By Jesse and JamesFind posts by Jesse an

Maybe women are less likely to use fab, less likely to meet men with impunity because women in society in general have more to fear from men than women have from men.

As women from a really young age we are aware of how physically vulnerable we are, no one wants to talk about rape, or sexual assault of physical danger, but this is an issue women have to take into account. I don't think men generally realise this.

No maybe I'm completely out of the box here but I think women want to be treated with respect at all times, even in a sex site, a message or a thread like this seems to insinuate anger toward women in general. Which (unless it's a really messed up fetish) is not a quality women feel comfortable with or find attractive. Even in a sub/dom situation there has to be respect and trust.

I hate to use the word, but mysigony is every where, and any man who thinks a woman in a sex site like this is a free prostitute needs to get the dictionary out.

I don't know how the single women on here do it, the anonymity of the keyboard allows people to show their true selves. I'm sure no man turned down by a woman in a club would proceed to say she should fuck him because she obviously wanted sex as she was wearing slutty clothes and was out on her own???

Jess

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers. "

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Feck off... I'm washing my hair!

..and you aren't entitled to lube!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am not reading all these posts but surely the ratio don't matter, if any lady likes what you have to say or how you look then you then you will get on, be it on a swinging site or a church meeting.... just cos you write a profile one take a photo of yer mickey don't mean you gonna get laid.....

I'm perfectly happy here...

Bulge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers. "

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers. "

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Oh I know it is hilarious!! DH admitting to wearing knickers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even the dogs on the street know it's very one sided, take 50% of men off here it would still be one sided, just get over it. make the best of what it is..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers.

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Oh I know it is hilarious!! DH admitting to wearing knickers.... "

Yeah I'm wearing the pants because I can on here!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers.

.

Oh I know it is hilarious!! DH admitting to wearing knickers....

Yeah I'm wearing the pants because I can on here! "

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Tease!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers.

.

Oh I know it is hilarious!! DH admitting to wearing knickers....

Yeah I'm wearing the pants because I can on here!

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Tease!! "

No, just superior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers.

.

Oh I know it is hilarious!! DH admitting to wearing knickers....

Yeah I'm wearing the pants because I can on here! "

you can't be cycling around commando autumn and winter months, you might get a cold..

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers.

.

Oh I know it is hilarious!! DH admitting to wearing knickers....

Yeah I'm wearing the pants because I can on here!

.

Tease!!

No, just superior "

.

Typical!!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"The sad thing about this whole argument is an underlying narrow minded and very conservative attitude and opinion regarding sex as a such and towards women in particular but also doesn't draw a great picture of men.

Now lads, send me some verbal lube and I'll drop my knickers.

.

Oh I know it is hilarious!! DH admitting to wearing knickers....

Yeah I'm wearing the pants because I can on here!

you can't be cycling around commando autumn and winter months, you might get a cold.. "

For that I've my Lycra, short and long ones, no panties when wearing them ones, they only get stuck and that's uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't get this idea of "punching above you're weight", in reality here is no different than any club in Dublin tonight. I think there are a few guys here with over inflated senses of themselves alright. That think they can pull whoever they want and maybe sometimes so when alcohol is involved. But 90% of the lads on here who bitch and moan, would probably go to house or coppers tonight and draw a blank there too. There is just this odd perception, this is a sex site, all the women should want me. If you're in a pub or club you have to work for it too and probably 9 out of 10 times you'd come up short. It's not just women who can have an over inflated ego here. Just theirs is less likely to get bruised.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"I really don't get this idea of "punching above you're weight", in reality here is no different than any club in Dublin tonight. I think there are a few guys here with over inflated senses of themselves alright. That think they can pull whoever they want and maybe sometimes so when alcohol is involved. But 90% of the lads on here who bitch and moan, would probably go to house or coppers tonight and draw a blank there too. There is just this odd perception, this is a sex site, all the women should want me. If you're in a pub or club you have to work for it too and probably 9 out of 10 times you'd come up short. It's not just women who can have an over inflated ego here. Just theirs is less likely to get bruised. "

Rounders for president

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I really don't get this idea of "punching above you're weight", in reality here is no different than any club in Dublin tonight. I think there are a few guys here with over inflated senses of themselves alright. That think they can pull whoever they want and maybe sometimes so when alcohol is involved. But 90% of the lads on here who bitch and moan, would probably go to house or coppers tonight and draw a blank there too. There is just this odd perception, this is a sex site, all the women should want me. If you're in a pub or club you have to work for it too and probably 9 out of 10 times you'd come up short. It's not just women who can have an over inflated ego here. Just theirs is less likely to get bruised. "

This is 100% true. It's all about how you approach the opposite sex.

I've got a playmate and her brother is a professional PUA. He has published books about this and they're very interesting to read. I think people should read these type of books and educate themselves on how to approach and succeed and put it to use here and in clubs etc

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I really don't get this idea of "punching above you're weight", in reality here is no different than any club in Dublin tonight. I think there are a few guys here with over inflated senses of themselves alright. That think they can pull whoever they want and maybe sometimes so when alcohol is involved. But 90% of the lads on here who bitch and moan, would probably go to house or coppers tonight and draw a blank there too. There is just this odd perception, this is a sex site, all the women should want me. If you're in a pub or club you have to work for it too and probably 9 out of 10 times you'd come up short. It's not just women who can have an over inflated ego here. Just theirs is less likely to get bruised.

This is 100% true. It's all about how you approach the opposite sex.

I've got a playmate and her brother is a professional PUA. He has published books about this and they're very interesting to read. I think people should read these type of books and educate themselves on how to approach and succeed and put it to use here and in clubs etc"

That whole PUA scene is creepy. People should read those books so they know when those moves are being tried on them.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"I really don't get this idea of "punching above you're weight", in reality here is no different than any club in Dublin tonight. I think there are a few guys here with over inflated senses of themselves alright. That think they can pull whoever they want and maybe sometimes so when alcohol is involved. But 90% of the lads on here who bitch and moan, would probably go to house or coppers tonight and draw a blank there too. There is just this odd perception, this is a sex site, all the women should want me. If you're in a pub or club you have to work for it too and probably 9 out of 10 times you'd come up short. It's not just women who can have an over inflated ego here. Just theirs is less likely to get bruised.

This is 100% true. It's all about how you approach the opposite sex.

I've got a playmate and her brother is a professional PUA. He has published books about this and they're very interesting to read. I think people should read these type of books and educate themselves on how to approach and succeed and put it to use here and in clubs etc

That whole PUA scene is creepy. People should read those books so they know when those moves are being tried on them. "

What's pua

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I really don't get this idea of "punching above you're weight", in reality here is no different than any club in Dublin tonight. I think there are a few guys here with over inflated senses of themselves alright. That think they can pull whoever they want and maybe sometimes so when alcohol is involved. But 90% of the lads on here who bitch and moan, would probably go to house or coppers tonight and draw a blank there too. There is just this odd perception, this is a sex site, all the women should want me. If you're in a pub or club you have to work for it too and probably 9 out of 10 times you'd come up short. It's not just women who can have an over inflated ego here. Just theirs is less likely to get bruised.

This is 100% true. It's all about how you approach the opposite sex.

I've got a playmate and her brother is a professional PUA. He has published books about this and they're very interesting to read. I think people should read these type of books and educate themselves on how to approach and succeed and put it to use here and in clubs etc

That whole PUA scene is creepy. People should read those books so they know when those moves are being tried on them. "

No its not creepy. It's like most things in life there's good and bad. His methods are no way creepy. It's tried tested and I've seen it put in action and succeed.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Pick Up Artist

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I really don't get this idea of "punching above you're weight", in reality here is no different than any club in Dublin tonight. I think there are a few guys here with over inflated senses of themselves alright. That think they can pull whoever they want and maybe sometimes so when alcohol is involved. But 90% of the lads on here who bitch and moan, would probably go to house or coppers tonight and draw a blank there too. There is just this odd perception, this is a sex site, all the women should want me. If you're in a pub or club you have to work for it too and probably 9 out of 10 times you'd come up short. It's not just women who can have an over inflated ego here. Just theirs is less likely to get bruised.

This is 100% true. It's all about how you approach the opposite sex.

I've got a playmate and her brother is a professional PUA. He has published books about this and they're very interesting to read. I think people should read these type of books and educate themselves on how to approach and succeed and put it to use here and in clubs etc

That whole PUA scene is creepy. People should read those books so they know when those moves are being tried on them.

What's pua "

Pick up artist

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Oh ..never heard of it

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Oh ..never heard of it "

Google it

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"Oh ..never heard of it

Google it"

Doing so as I type ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh ..never heard of it "

Like Neil Strauss who wrote the game? He had a great time, but now he's a dad

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Oh ..never heard of it

Like Neil Strauss who wrote the game? He has a great time, but now he's a dad

"

Neill Strauss isn't a PUA he's a journalist and ghost writer who wrote the game based on a PUA called mystery and the mystery method.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

"Oh ..never heard of it "

Like Neil Strauss who wrote the game? He had a great time, but now he's a dad"

Can dads not have a great time? Feck!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh ..never heard of it

Like Neil Strauss who wrote the game? He has a great time, but now he's a dad

Neill Strauss isn't a PUA he's a journalist and ghost writer who wrote the game based on a PUA called mystery and the mystery method. "

He wrote for rolling stone I know

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it. "

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"Oh ..never heard of it "

Like Neil Strauss who wrote the game? He had a great time, but now he's a dad

Can dads not have a great time? Feck! "

Of course dads can have fun, he's just had so much craic... and crack he's grand being a settled dad ( publicly at least )

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical "

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

"Oh ..never heard of it "

Like Neil Strauss who wrote the game? He had a great time, but now he's a dad

Can dads not have a great time? Feck!

Of course dads can have fun, he's just had so much craic... and crack he's grand being a settled dad ( publicly at least )"

Woohoo! Back in the game! Roll up ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"Oh ..never heard of it "

Like Neil Strauss who wrote the game? He had a great time, but now he's a dad

Can dads not have a great time? Feck!

Of course dads can have fun, he's just had so much craic... and crack he's grand being a settled dad ( publicly at least )

Woohoo! Back in the game! Roll up ladies! "

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Personally, I think if more ladies joined the ratios would change!

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said. "

Have you read any of the books??

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it. "

This is the problem. Most don't want to learn. They have no method and then get frustrated and abusive and whinge about not getting any.

I mean this in general and not about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??"

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Personally, I think if more ladies joined the ratios would change!"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

This is the problem. Most don't want to learn. They have no method and then get frustrated and abusive and whinge about not getting any.

I mean this in general and not about you "

Point taken, although I'm not sure if Irish women are susceptible to such things. One or two have even failed to succumb to my charm

On a serious note though, I'm happy enough with my lot and prefer to address females as individuals and my conversations will vary depending on the person. I just don't love the idea of a one size fits all system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thread ive read in a while. Some small narrowed men in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess"

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol "

Do women's minds work? That's the big question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If shes not your type dont drop your standards just for the sake of getting your hole.

Easier said than done tho

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol "

.

I can't comment at the moment as I've only got as far as Volume 79!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol

Do women's minds work? That's the big question! "

Oohh I'm getting popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol

Do women's minds work? That's the big question!

Oohh I'm getting popcorn "

You must have heard that big intake of breath from all the lady forumites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol

Do women's minds work? That's the big question! "

I'm always amazed when a man says something like this... would you say that to your mother? Daughter? Sister?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol

Do women's minds work? That's the big question!

I'm always amazed when a man says something like this... would you say that to your mother? Daughter? Sister?

"

Lol, yes, repeatedly

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

This is the problem. Most don't want to learn. They have no method and then get frustrated and abusive and whinge about not getting any.

I mean this in general and not about you

Point taken, although I'm not sure if Irish women are susceptible to such things. One or two have even failed to succumb to my charm

On a serious note though, I'm happy enough with my lot and prefer to address females as individuals and my conversations will vary depending on the person. I just don't love the idea of a one size fits all system. "

I'm happy with my lot too. I mean it about those that complain about not getting lucky. It's like everything if you need help seek it out and that's where these books come in to play for those not happy with their lot.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess"

So Jess what did you think of it?

Would this approach work on you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

How women's minds works? We have better chance of understanding quantum physics lol

Do women's minds work? That's the big question!

I'm always amazed when a man says something like this... would you say that to your mother? Daughter? Sister?

Lol, yes, repeatedly "

Wowzers! I'm off to read the Naomi Wolfe to my sons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

So Jess what did you think of it?

Would this approach work on you?"

I'm all about the brain no hustle

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I have to say I have no interest in learning a formula to pull women. Sure that takes the unpredictability and fun out of it.

I agree ..jus Googled what it means.. It makes it sounds clinical

...and a touch creepy, as John M said.

Have you read any of the books??

I read the game out of curiosity, how men thought women's minds worked

Jess

So Jess what did you think of it?

Would this approach work on you?

I'm all about the brain no hustle"

Lol so would it work on you if you hadn't read the book?

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