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By *r wrecking ball OP   Man
over a year ago

eager

Hi all have been on here for quite a while and only ever meet once,(a couple) was wondering why is it so hard to meet people on here who are looking for more or less the same thing as I. I know I'm not the best on the messages but I'm great crack in person I'm told!! Was wondering are other men on here having the same problems or are people just turned away by my profile!! ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I find some users on fab quite unaccepting of married men looking for 'extra curricular' activities which could explain some of it.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hi all have been on here for quite a while and only ever meet once,(a couple) was wondering why is it so hard to meet people on here who are looking for more or less the same thing as I. I know I'm not the best on the messages but I'm great crack in person I'm told!! Was wondering are other men on here having the same problems or are people just turned away by my profile!! ??????

"

Then get better at messages.

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By *r wrecking ball OP   Man
over a year ago

eager

What about the married women ??

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I've had quite a lot of couples message me at this stage, be active on the forums and it'll probably happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??"

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"What about the married women ??"

Quite a few married women have asked me to meet them alone for a discreet meet so they're usually up for cheating, not all though.

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By *r wrecking ball OP   Man
over a year ago

eager


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is"

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy. "

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have."

i bet he didn't mean that lol

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By *eon SaintsCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

i find it such turn off to know a guy is more than willing to cheat on his partner! That's just not the kind of person I would want to engage with, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Historically swinging was about couples and open relationships looking to push boundaries. This site is more looking for casual sex and cheating spouses! I'm not judging anyone but on principle I won't meet attached having been Fucked over by my ex-husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have."
......and "quite a few" of the husbands of married women on here, will be less than pleased that their wives are arranging meets with single guys, behind their backs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have."

If i didn't know better I'd say you were string and brown nosing on that lol. He was in no way implying single women have the implied hangups lol. I'd say he was referring to that one particular hangup of meeting a married man which many do and as he inferred that they would have the same to loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have.......and "quite a few" of the husbands of married women on here, will be less than pleased that their wives are arranging meets with single guys, behind their backs.. "

My hubby gets off on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have.......and "quite a few" of the husbands of married women on here, will be less than pleased that their wives are arranging meets with single guys, behind their backs..

My hubby gets off on it "
....but he knows your doing it. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have.......and "quite a few" of the husbands of married women on here, will be less than pleased that their wives are arranging meets with single guys, behind their backs..

My hubby gets off on it ....but he knows your doing it. .. "

Every single detail

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Being attached certainly reduces your chances though it's not a deal breaker for everyone. Your biggest problem is the competition: there are way more men than women on here. So if there's no or little effort, you won't get very far here. This isn't a quick leg over site, it's a swinging site. Swinging is about having great sex in tune with ones preferences and with likeminded people, so peeps are picky and rightfully so. Fair or not fair doesn't come into play at all here, nobody does pity fucks, also there's no entitlement.

All I can advise you: up your game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have.......and "quite a few" of the husbands of married women on here, will be less than pleased that their wives are arranging meets with single guys, behind their backs..

My hubby gets off on it ....but he knows your doing it. ..

Every single detail "
....im talking about the ones who cheat with single guys, without their husbands /partner's knowledge. There are quite a few of them on here apparently...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have.......and "quite a few" of the husbands of married women on here, will be less than pleased that their wives are arranging meets with single guys, behind their backs..

My hubby gets off on it ....but he knows your doing it. ..

Every single detail ....im talking about the ones who cheat with single guys, without their husbands /partner's knowledge. There are quite a few of them on here apparently..."

I know.. I've met them Sorry just kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the married women ??

Thats a whole different ball game. Few men care whether the woman is married whereas lots of women care if the man is

It just seems unfair, I would be probably attracted more to married woman because they have the same amount to lose and married women are more likely to have less hangups when it comes to sexy.

Doubtless the single women of Fab will be thrilled to hear your opinion on how many hangups they have.......and "quite a few" of the husbands of married women on here, will be less than pleased that their wives are arranging meets with single guys, behind their backs..

My hubby gets off on it ....but he knows your doing it. ..

Every single detail ....im talking about the ones who cheat with single guys, without their husbands /partner's knowledge. There are quite a few of them on here apparently...

I know.. I've met them Sorry just kidding "
...

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By *r wrecking ball OP   Man
over a year ago

eager

Sorry for opening a can of worms ! I wasn't or meant to disrespect anyone! Each to their own!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the prospective of a self confessed Recovering Asshole. It's been over 2 years since my last episode.

I was a cheater, it's the reason I am single, the reason I joined fab. You can't, as much as you try, fuck the pain away. I found out the hard way, that when I cheated, not only did I hurt the one person who actually really cared, and would of done anything for me, but I was actually cheating myself out off a chance a true happiness.

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