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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi - a work colleague of mine in a different office (who is always up in everyone's business and frequently backstabs people) has been sending me nasty texts about a woman I work with in the same office. The woman I work with is known to us both and he would be friendly with her as well. I am pretty sure he is playing us off against each other and I suspect he is doing the same to me (I.e, sending her derogatory messages about me). Question is - how to deal with this ? Should I just show her the messages ? Any advice much appreciated.. Thanks !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And people wonder why I keep work and friendships separate...

Tell him you're not interested in backstabbing and gossip.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Hi - a work colleague of mine in a different office (who is always up in everyone's business and frequently backstabs people) has been sending me nasty texts about a woman I work with in the same office. The woman I work with is known to us both and he would be friendly with her as well. I am pretty sure he is playing us off against each other and I suspect he is doing the same to me (I.e, sending her derogatory messages about me). Question is - how to deal with this ? Should I just show her the messages ? Any advice much appreciated.. Thanks !"

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When he sends you the next one reply,

"He is out of the Office, will tell him when he gets back!"

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Didnt you post a thread called Sneaky Colleague,a few months ago?

Its all happening in your workplace eh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Didnt you post a thread called Sneaky Colleague,a few months ago?

Its all happening in your workplace eh!"

Well remembered MDG (!) Hmmm yeah, probably about the same guy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And people wonder why I keep work and friendships separate...

Tell him you're not interested in backstabbing and gossip. "

Thanks. I am really tempted to show her the messages and hang him.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Call wikileaks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt you post this 29weeks ago too

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would call his bluff n tel him to go n ring a ding ding

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