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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another??

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Mine would chat no bother, its getting him to shut up is the problem lol

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?"

So would you do what you were told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Life is too short. Too much bitching goes on here. Doesn't bother me

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?

So would you do what you were told "

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, i will talk to anyone, no one will tell me what i can or can't do.

life to short for that crap..

if you can't make your mind up bout people yourself and have to be influence by other people. it say's a lot bout oneself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who would fall out with a person for meeting or chatting with another isn't someone I'd wish to meet myself.

As I imagine those who are influenced by that kind of thinking are a turn off to others.

I'll chat to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

I would talk to anyone. We're all adults and we all know why we're here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?

So would you do what you were told

Always

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Isn't that a contradiction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

Do people really behave like that?! How awful!!!

Have you had an experience of this, OP?

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

Nope I am an adult do what I want. If any one has a problem with that I have no problem telling them where to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone fears the Manbeast

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would well believe it's happened... jealously on this site can really be an issue . It's such a waisted emotion on a nsa site . Worry about yourself and leave others do there thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

Am I missing something here? Swinging=let's share the love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another??

Am I missing something here? Swinging=let's share the love."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another??

I would talk to anyone. We're all adults and we all know why we're here."

Some are more adult than others though. There's a lot of background stuff goes on. I've had people warn me about someone who I found to be lovely. Much prefer to make my own choices and my own decisions and the day I am the reason someone is afraid to swing is the day I'm out of here.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I'm allergic to drama so steer clear of anyone bringing it my direction..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

It all depends on the mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

Mr69: does that include us housecats?

I only have to worry about one and she's a big softie.

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By *icketyupWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

I personally haven't come across it as I don't meet men, but with all the drama that goes on on this site I'm sure that there's loads of them! In the interest of equality across the board is also say there's a few couples and women like this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr69: can one have posts edited on here?

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?

So would you do what you were told

Always

Isn't that a contradiction? "

Yes lol..

Keeping one thinking

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?

So would you do what you were told "

Me lol not a chance I could be lured away with the promice of biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?

So would you do what you were told

Me lol not a chance I could be lured away with the promice of biscuits "

Chocolate hobnob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

You may have that a bit mixed up: there are probably men on here who are afraid to talk to women in real life and find it easier to message and chat on here. Then when it comes to potential meets lose their bottle again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a sad man (or woman for that matter),who would be afraid to contact another member, because of what someone else might think of you. We talk to people on here,who we know talks to people we wouldn't be communicating with. That's where the myth about cliques and gangs comes from I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens way too much on a site that is for adults! Tis sad really, in such a small community

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By *harlieparkerCouple
over a year ago

naas

My partner is the social one and she's always encouraging me to be more brave ...Ms Car I would do anything you would ask of me

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I remember a thread on here not that long ago about 'being put off to meet someone because of her/him having met someone you don't like'. I might be wrong but that's kinda similar...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No your right DH it's similiar alright just seems like it's happening a lot and wondering what the actual Men thought about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another??

Do people really behave like that?! How awful!!!

Have you had an experience of this, OP? "

Im not a man Boldie so no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another??

Do people really behave like that?! How awful!!!

Have you had an experience of this, OP?

Im not a man Boldie so no lol "

Are you sure now?

I'm kidding!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked and had nasty stuff said about me for arranging coffee with the wrong person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked and had nasty stuff said about me for arranging coffee with the wrong person"

Thats what you get for ordering decaf...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I've been blocked and had nasty stuff said about me for arranging coffee with the wrong person"

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I'd well believe it!!

just the way it goes!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"No your right DH it's similiar alright just seems like it's happening a lot and wondering what the actual Men thought about it "

I think Ireland being the way it is, the size it is, and the scene being the way it is, that it happens a lot.

There are men here that will not rock the boat for fear of missing out on a ride, and if women want to keep them under the thumb like that the let them off.

I'm friends with two ladies here, and they don't get on with each other. It's none of my business why, but it will not put me off meeting either of them. If the fact that I won't pick sides prevents them from meeting me then they were never the type of poeple I'd want to meet anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away.

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away. "

Well said, take no shit

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Happens way too much on a site that is for adults! Tis sad really, in such a small community "

Couldn't agree more, the term adult has no meaning on this website. It's like schoolyard kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples maybe different, I'm the boss and James does what he's told... and he likes that :+)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away.

Well said, take no shit

"

Totally agree. Some real nut jobs on here. And any guy who panders to their demands are just weak minded.

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"I wouldn't think so unless there was a jealous woman here or funding ladies....is there ?

So would you do what you were told

Me lol not a chance I could be lured away with the promice of biscuits

Chocolate hobnob? "

You had me at chocolate

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away.

Well said, take no shit

Totally agree. Some real nut jobs on here. And any guy who panders to their demands are just weak minded. "

the nut jobs don't be happy with a guy who has a backbone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

Instant turn off if that were to happen to anyone I was chatting to!!

I like my men to be men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with u der hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away. "

Agree here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will talk to a person i click with , if there is issues between people i talk to then thats there issues not mine... I dont listen to lines like " dont talk to her she is a *****" "if you see her then more than likely then several people wont meet ya".... I will talk or meet people that I want to talk/meet with. If it means another person doesnt want to talk/meet with me again then thats there choice I respect I move on, life too short to worry about it. Happy Fabbing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agree with u der hun "

This goes for girls too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will talk to a person i click with , if there is issues between people i talk to then thats there issues not mine... I dont listen to lines like " dont talk to her she is a *****" "if you see her then more than likely then several people wont meet ya".... I will talk or meet people that I want to talk/meet with. If it means another person doesnt want to talk/meet with me again then thats there choice I respect I move on, life too short to worry about it. Happy Fabbing xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away.

Agree here!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked and had nasty stuff said about me for arranging coffee with the wrong person"

Ditto !!! Some very jealous childish people in this wonderful world of fab here .. We are all adults ... ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will talk to a person i click with , if there is issues between people i talk to then thats there issues not mine... I dont listen to lines like " dont talk to her she is a *****" "if you see her then more than likely then several people wont meet ya".... I will talk or meet people that I want to talk/meet with. If it means another person doesnt want to talk/meet with me again then thats there choice I respect I move on, life too short to worry about it. Happy Fabbing xxx"

Agreed !!! Couldn't of said it better myself !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away.

Agree here!!! "

Agreed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I meet is nobody else's business except the person I'm meeting. If anyone I've met tried to stop me meeting someone, or anyone I was going to meet tried, I'd cut them off straight away.

Well said, take no shit

Agreed .. Xx

Totally agree. Some real nut jobs on here. And any guy who panders to their demands are just weak minded.

the nut jobs don't be happy with a guy who has a backbone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its just us...but nobody has ever ever said to us...."don't talk to this one or that one"....we must be doing it wrong. .

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another??

Am I missing something here? Swinging=let's share the love."
should it not be share the lust? ?

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another??

I would talk to anyone. We're all adults and we all know why we're here.

Some are more adult than others though. There's a lot of background stuff goes on. I've had people warn me about someone who I found to be lovely. Much prefer to make my own choices and my own decisions and the day I am the reason someone is afraid to swing is the day I'm out of here. "

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Maybe its just us...but nobody has ever ever said to us...."don't talk to this one or that one"....we must be doing it wrong. . "

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Easily sorted!!

."don't talk to this one or that one"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe its just us...but nobody has ever ever said to us...."don't talk to this one or that one"....we must be doing it wrong. .

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Easily sorted!!

."don't talk to this one or that one".... "
....ok...just the other one then......

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Maybe its just us...but nobody has ever ever said to us...."don't talk to this one or that one"....we must be doing it wrong. .

.

Easily sorted!!

."don't talk to this one or that one".... ....ok...just the other one then......"

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The one on the left, in the hat!

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim


"No your right DH it's similiar alright just seems like it's happening a lot and wondering what the actual Men thought about it "

As a single guy: if someone told me that they'll no longer be willing to see me if I go ahead and talk to or see a particular person then, my response would be 'I'm sorry you feel like that' and would go ahead anyway.

If I was part of a couple: it would totally depend on what we agreed when we became a couple.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


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As a single guy: if someone told me that they'll no longer be willing to see me if I go ahead and talk to or see a particular person then, my response would be 'I'm sorry you feel like that' and would go ahead anyway.

If I was part of a couple: it would totally depend on what we agreed when we became a couple."

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Too right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will talk to a person i click with , if there is issues between people i talk to then thats there issues not mine... I dont listen to lines like " dont talk to her she is a *****" "if you see her then more than likely then several people wont meet ya".... I will talk or meet people that I want to talk/meet with. If it means another person doesnt want to talk/meet with me again then thats there choice I respect I move on, life too short to worry about it. Happy Fabbing xxx

Agreed !!! Couldn't of said it better myself !"

I 2nd that!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I wonder is there many men here afraid to talk or meet a women in fear of falling out with another?? "

Yes, the missus

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I'm single & independent and signed up for NSA fun so iv to answer to no one but after been on the social scene, I have realised that we are a close community so if there is drama il be neutral & still yap & hangout with whoever I want, I just probably wouldn't play with someone if I'm aware of issues/dramatics goin on.

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