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"Any thoughts lads?" - Alternative take...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can't help but wonder if the OP of the "Any thoughts lads?" Post was trying to make a valid point but maybe put his points across poorly...?

My interpretation is the belief that the vast majority of subscribers to Fab are men and so naturally women would have a far greater choice than guys. I sympathise as the girls I've chatted with and met have shown me their inboxes and its eye watering how many mails they have to deal with.

I've been on a few other adult sites in the UK and the picture is the same. Hence it's difficult to see it any other way than girls are pretty much spoiled for choice through natural disproportionate representation.

If you walked into a bar or nightclub, would you only see 10, 20 or 30% women...? Or course not. I would hypothesise that this affects not only the men's behaviour on fab but also women's too. My belief is backed up through experience of other sites, particularly the forums and chat rooms.

In short: lucky lucky girls...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odds may well be good for us....but unfortunately the goods are often odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The odds may well be good for us....but unfortunately the goods are often odd "

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It's funny though, with all the mails women receive, some complain and act high and mighty whereas others remain calm and mature about it.

The ones complaining are free to leave the site if they're unhappy. The gems tend to get on with things and act respectfully nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a mans world for sure !

except on fab and similar sites

the currency is pussy

those who posess one are in demand

simple as that really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In short: lucky lucky girls...!!"

If your choice is having to pick between dumb and dumber then I'm not sure how lucky you can consider yourself.

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"

In short: lucky lucky girls...!!

If your choice is having to pick between dumb and dumber then I'm not sure how lucky you can consider yourself. "

Speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

In short: lucky lucky girls...!!

If your choice is having to pick between dumb and dumber then I'm not sure how lucky you can consider yourself. "

That would make sense if the ratio was 2 guys to every girl. On AFF in the uk the ratio is 75:1. Not sure what it is on fab, but I suspect it's at least 10:1.

By simple law of averages, girls can raise the quality of who they choose to be with by having reasonable selection criteria...

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By *organ81Man
over a year ago

ennis


"The odds may well be good for us....but unfortunately the goods are often odd "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I actually have a certain understanding when the lads complaining now and then about the attitude some develop on here. Seems that the enormous attention can affect behaviour and can impact on manners and respect. The amount of messages is no excuse for being rude or arrogant. There are measures to control the message influx and they do work when used wisely.

However if someone signs up here and therefore thinks he's entitled to x amount of rides, he's completely mistaken. He obviously has no comprehension of swinging, no respect for the ladies on here and should f right off. Also my understanding is gone immediately when someone is insulting, rude, crude, arrogant and/or ignorant etcetera.

Everyone can uses this side how he/she pleases within the rules of fab. Everyone is entitled and can choose who they want to meet. Treat others with respect and you'll be treated with respect.

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I actually have a certain understanding when the lads complaining now and then about the attitude some develop on here. Seems that the enormous attention can affect behaviour and can impact on manners and respect. The amount of messages is no excuse for being rude or arrogant. There are measures to control the message influx and they do work when used wisely.

However if someone signs up here and therefore thinks he's entitled to x amount of rides, he's completely mistaken. He obviously has no comprehension of swinging, no respect for the ladies on here and should f right off. Also my understanding is gone immediately when someone is insulting, rude, crude, arrogant and/or ignorant etcetera.

Everyone can uses this side how he/she pleases within the rules of fab. Everyone is entitled and can choose who they want to meet. Treat others with respect and you'll be treated with respect. "

Well said. Nice to see unbiased opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have a certain understanding when the lads complaining now and then about the attitude some develop on here. Seems that the enormous attention can affect behaviour and can impact on manners and respect. The amount of messages is no excuse for being rude or arrogant. There are measures to control the message influx and they do work when used wisely.

However if someone signs up here and therefore thinks he's entitled to x amount of rides, he's completely mistaken. He obviously has no comprehension of swinging, no respect for the ladies on here and should f right off. Also my understanding is gone immediately when someone is insulting, rude, crude, arrogant and/or ignorant etcetera.

Everyone can uses this side how he/she pleases within the rules of fab. Everyone is entitled and can choose who they want to meet. Treat others with respect and you'll be treated with respect. "

here here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually have a certain understanding when the lads complaining now and then about the attitude some develop on here. Seems that the enormous attention can affect behaviour and can impact on manners and respect. The amount of messages is no excuse for being rude or arrogant. There are measures to control the message influx and they do work when used wisely.

However if someone signs up here and therefore thinks he's entitled to x amount of rides, he's completely mistaken. He obviously has no comprehension of swinging, no respect for the ladies on here and should f right off. Also my understanding is gone immediately when someone is insulting, rude, crude, arrogant and/or ignorant etcetera.

Everyone can uses this side how he/she pleases within the rules of fab. Everyone is entitled and can choose who they want to meet. Treat others with respect and you'll be treated with respect. "

@Doghunter33 - are you sure you're not the Oracle from the Matrix films...??? Sounds like you're telling them exactly what they need to hear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less, let the idiots show their hand, they haven't got a chance at Poker...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you may get a larger proportion of women in a night club but the percentage willing and able to go off then and have a great night of sex would be considerably lower. Especially if like on here the shop window displays what your getting before hand. ( or hoping to get )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give respect...get respect...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I always hated nightclubs and rarely went to them when I was younger, and there's no way I'd go to one now at my age I'd look like an idiot.

So fab works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its a mans world for sure !

except on fab and similar sites

the currency is pussy

those who posess one are in demand

simple as that really "

In general terms yes but certainly not absolute rule. If guys are looking to have quantity over quality then maybe true...However if they stick carefully to what they want they can get it regularly and repeatedly. There's no need to think it's all in the feline loins. The felines also like quality and there lies the balance. We all have 24hrs in the day but it's how we fill that determines our outlook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always hated nightclubs and rarely went to them when I was younger, and there's no way I'd go to one now at my age I'd look like an idiot.

So fab works for me."

Live music anyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you may get a larger proportion of women in a night club but the percentage willing and able to go off then and have a great night of sex would be considerably lower. Especially if like on here the shop window displays what your getting before hand. ( or hoping to get ) "

Sometime what you bid for and what arrived in the post needs returned with full refunds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you may get a larger proportion of women in a night club but the percentage willing and able to go off then and have a great night of sex would be considerably lower. Especially if like on here the shop window displays what your getting before hand. ( or hoping to get )

Sometime what you bid for and what arrived in the post needs returned with full refunds "

Definately as the picture is sometimes not the same as what arrives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of the numbers from sny gender on here it is hard to pluck the wheat from the chaffe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that poster not only put it badly, but if that reflects how it put his approaches, then it's not surprising he got nowhere.

To the second point, yes there are definitely females here who have become conceited and arrogant due to skewed ratios. Thankfully they are in the minority. I doubt it would be any less so the case if the numbers were reversed. Being a big fish in a small pond will affect some badly, regardless of gender.

Women have the right to define who they are attracted. Guys just have to accept that and get on with it. He couldn't and it obviously dented his ego.

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By *atdieonMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I actually have a certain understanding when the lads complaining now and then about the attitude some develop on here. Seems that the enormous attention can affect behaviour and can impact on manners and respect. The amount of messages is no excuse for being rude or arrogant. There are measures to control the message influx and they do work when used wisely.

However if someone signs up here and therefore thinks he's entitled to x amount of rides, he's completely mistaken. He obviously has no comprehension of swinging, no respect for the ladies on here and should f right off. Also my understanding is gone immediately when someone is insulting, rude, crude, arrogant and/or ignorant etcetera.

Everyone can uses this side how he/she pleases within the rules of fab. Everyone is entitled and can choose who they want to meet. Treat others with respect and you'll be treated with respect. "
I have to agree . There some female profiles on here that when read portray the profile owner as nothing short of rude and arrogant . To take the nightclub scenario if they spoke in real life the way they write their profiles they wouldn't be very popular at all. Use the message filters and remember that guy send you that one mail doesn't see the other mails you get from others on here . Most guys on here are sound and are on here fir the exact same reasons as the girls .

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I think that poster not only put it badly, but if that reflects how it put his approaches, then it's not surprising he got nowhere.

To the second point, yes there are definitely females here who have become conceited and arrogant due to skewed ratios. Thankfully they are in the minority. I doubt it would be any less so the case if the numbers were reversed. Being a big fish in a small pond will affect some badly, regardless of gender.

Women have the right to define who they are attracted. Guys just have to accept that and get on with it. He couldn't and it obviously dented his ego. "

The bad ones are in a minority but unfortunately just happen to be more active than the good ones

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By *ou want itWoman
over a year ago

a town near you

I do think it makes women way more picky on who they meet because they have so much choice which kinda makes me feel bad for the guys ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do think it makes women way more picky on who they meet because they have so much choice which kinda makes me feel bad for the guys ..."

Well that's nice to hear..

Fortunately (or maybe unfortunately..!) guys are largely immune to insults, rejections and blunt feedback and thus have superb 'bouncebackability'.. Lol

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By *ou want itWoman
over a year ago

a town near you

I feel better already lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think it makes women way more picky on who they meet because they have so much choice which kinda makes me feel bad for the guys ...

Well that's nice to hear..

Fortunately (or maybe unfortunately..!) guys are largely immune to insults, rejections and blunt feedback and thus have superb 'bouncebackability'.. Lol"

Some guys, I don't think your man yesterday was one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give respect...get respect...

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Exactly..and that means NOT no reply no interest. But that topic is old and busted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have a certain understanding when the lads complaining now and then about the attitude some develop on here. Seems that the enormous attention can affect behaviour and can impact on manners and respect. The amount of messages is no excuse for being rude or arrogant. There are measures to control the message influx and they do work when used wisely.

However if someone signs up here and therefore thinks he's entitled to x amount of rides, he's completely mistaken. He obviously has no comprehension of swinging, no respect for the ladies on here and should f right off. Also my understanding is gone immediately when someone is insulting, rude, crude, arrogant and/or ignorant etcetera.

Everyone can uses this side how he/she pleases within the rules of fab. Everyone is entitled and can choose who they want to meet. Treat others with respect and you'll be treated with respect. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have a certain understanding when the lads complaining now and then about the attitude some develop on here. Seems that the enormous attention can affect behaviour and can impact on manners and respect. The amount of messages is no excuse for being rude or arrogant. There are measures to control the message influx and they do work when used wisely.

However if someone signs up here and therefore thinks he's entitled to x amount of rides, he's completely mistaken. He obviously has no comprehension of swinging, no respect for the ladies on here and should f right off. Also my understanding is gone immediately when someone is insulting, rude, crude, arrogant and/or ignorant etcetera.

Everyone can uses this side how he/she pleases within the rules of fab. Everyone is entitled and can choose who they want to meet. Treat others with respect and you'll be treated with respect. I have to agree . There some female profiles on here that when read portray the profile owner as nothing short of rude and arrogant . To take the nightclub scenario if they spoke in real life the way they write their profiles they wouldn't be very popular at all. Use the message filters and remember that guy send you that one mail doesn't see the other mails you get from others on here . Most guys on here are sound and are on here fir the exact same reasons as the girls . "

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