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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it turns out that we re not a " real couple " , who knew lol.

After chatting to a couple for a bit and all seamed to be going well when we mentioned that we re not a living together, wildly in love ,ring wearing, card caring couple....pooof .. thanks but no thanks .. without the thanks bit lol .

We re two people that have had great fun and great craic on here as singles but said screw it let's team up.. safety in numbers as they say .

So my question is what's yer thoughts or feelings about ..not real couples . Star clear or makes no difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Steer clear even ... doh!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally don't see the problem, thought it would be a good thing to have a wing girl myself on some occasions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When into cpls we pref a cpl in a relationship rather than fb (hate that term) but that's just us it's all about what suits individuals

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By *eedycplCouple
over a year ago

belfast

Not a prob for us a cpl is a cpl does it really matter if it's a married cpl engaged cpl long term relationship cpl or 2 friends that play as a cpl as long as everyone plays safe that's wot we think , but everyone will have their own views and preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having met ye both, one fully clothed & one fully undressed (ahem!)

I can say that ye obviously make an explosive team and people would be mad not to spend a night with ye

Just my opinion....

Cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no problem with us . Once there is a male & female. Your a couple,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah don't get me wrong .. whatever suits or whatever floats your boat . I just find it funny that they seemed to have the air of them looking down on us kinda thing lol . When ya see some of the stuff that goes on between seemingly proper couples . Lol ah well such is life . Smile and wave boys ... smile and wave .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't see how it would be a problem? Plenty of folks team up and become swing buddies specifically to meet others and go to parties with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thought? That if "real couples" want to swing only with others in the same situation, that is their preference and should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When into cpls we pref a cpl in a relationship rather than fb (hate that term) but that's just us it's all about what suits individuals"

Guys totaly respect your opinion on what ye look for and have no prob or issue with it in any way.

Can I ask , in your opinion, what's the difference? .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy in your situation is so so much better off.

Doesn't have to cut the grass, phone home, get the shopping, come home on time-or not go out with his mates for a few, paint the kitchen, put out the bins, walk the dog, talk to your mother, file your toe nails, etc. etc.

NIRVANA!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy in your situation is so so much better off.

Doesn't have to cut the grass, phone home, get the shopping, come home on time-or not go out with his mates for a few, paint the kitchen, put out the bins, walk the dog, talk to your mother, file your toe nails, etc. etc.

NIRVANA!!!!!"

People are in relationships through their own choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd Prefer a couple in the same boat as us, long term. It was explained to me a long time ago that Fuck Buddies can't have the same depth & understanding of care for their partner.

Oh how I laughed! Have you seen some of the hate-filled relationships around. In other words, if you want to have fun with a couple all that matters is that one is male & one is female but we'd prefer a couple that knew each other's depths & limits.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I've had this in the past when I was part of a couple.

We had been together quite a while and were very "together" and open. But nope not good enough. They even suggested I come along but leave him behind, yet they had a big blah blah about being a couple and don't meet separately and don't ask..

I don't know.. Nothing as strange as folk!

(I'd love to find someone to couple up with again, I enjoyed the couple meets, just don't like being a unicorn)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this in the past when I was part of a couple.

We had been together quite a while and were very "together" and open. But nope not good enough. They even suggested I come along but leave him behind, yet they had a big blah blah about being a couple and don't meet separately and don't ask..

I don't know.. Nothing as strange as folk!

(I'd love to find someone to couple up with again, I enjoyed the couple meets, just don't like being a unicorn) "

hey

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse


"So it turns out that we re not a " real couple " , who knew lol.

After chatting to a couple for a bit and all seamed to be going well when we mentioned that we re not a living together, wildly in love ,ring wearing, card caring couple....pooof .. thanks but no thanks .. without the thanks bit lol .

We re two people that have had great fun and great craic on here as singles but said screw it let's team up.. safety in numbers as they say .

So my question is what's yer thoughts or feelings about ..not real couples . Star clear or makes no difference."

To me there is no real or unreal couple. A couple is when a man and a woman decided to have the same account on here, full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others .

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By *ustful desiresCouple
over a year ago

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We prefer couples as well m/f or f/f

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others ."

I would also imagine that for some couples who have gone to the trouble of renegotiating the boundaries of their relationship, they might see it as being taken advantage of by sexual opportunists...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others . "

I'm the other half of Strawberry blonde, myself and himself have a great dynamic between us, we know each others bodies inside out and have a massive mutal respect for each other.. We are very much into what pleases each other and will not play with anyone unless we both are comfortable... Nobody takes one for the team.. No we are not married, we are both single and free to explore without hurting anyone else... We have a great banter with each other and any couples that we have met. Our veris can confirm that... So in a nutshell, even though we are not married or in a serious relationship we are great fun, love sex and respect all parties involved... Much love.. S...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this in the past when I was part of a couple.

We had been together quite a while and were very "together" and open. But nope not good enough. They even suggested I come along but leave him behind, yet they had a big blah blah about being a couple and don't meet separately and don't ask..

I don't know.. Nothing as strange as folk!

(I'd love to find someone to couple up with again, I enjoyed the couple meets, just don't like being a unicorn) "
...... Total agreement .. I've had similar experiences.. And fed up being a " unicorn " myself .. Lol ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others .

I'm the other half of Strawberry blonde, myself and himself have a great dynamic between us, we know each others bodies inside out and have a massive mutal respect for each other.. We are very much into what pleases each other and will not play with anyone unless we both are comfortable... Nobody takes one for the team.. No we are not married, we are both single and free to explore without hurting anyone else... We have a great banter with each other and any couples that we have met. Our veris can confirm that... So in a nutshell, even though we are not married or in a serious relationship we are great fun, love sex and respect all parties involved... Much love.. S... "
.... Well said Hun !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others .

I'm the other half of Strawberry blonde, myself and himself have a great dynamic between us, we know each others bodies inside out and have a massive mutal respect for each other.. We are very much into what pleases each other and will not play with anyone unless we both are comfortable... Nobody takes one for the team.. No we are not married, we are both single and free to explore without hurting anyone else... We have a great banter with each other and any couples that we have met. Our veris can confirm that... So in a nutshell, even though we are not married or in a serious relationship we are great fun, love sex and respect all parties involved... Much love.. S... .... Well said Hun !! "

That's as may be, however if others choose not to play with couples who aren't "together", that is their preference and should be respected as such. If you're not for them, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh we do appreciate that, have no issues with it... The whole point of the thread is just an opinion from ppl on the situation, do most cpls prefer couples to be in a relationship or does it matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others .

I'm the other half of Strawberry blonde, myself and himself have a great dynamic between us, we know each others bodies inside out and have a massive mutal respect for each other.. We are very much into what pleases each other and will not play with anyone unless we both are comfortable... Nobody takes one for the team.. No we are not married, we are both single and free to explore without hurting anyone else... We have a great banter with each other and any couples that we have met. Our veris can confirm that... So in a nutshell, even though we are not married or in a serious relationship we are great fun, love sex and respect all parties involved... Much love.. S... .... Well said Hun !! "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being in one of those couples I can see why "real" couples would find it off putting meeting buddies who swing. They sign up to the whole swing experience/lifestyle to meet couples who like themselves are looking for another element to their sexual relationship, not to meet singles. Even though the dynamics might be fantastic and sex amazing they are still single people not a commited loving couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others .

I'm the other half of Strawberry blonde, myself and himself have a great dynamic between us, we know each others bodies inside out and have a massive mutal respect for each other.. We are very much into what pleases each other and will not play with anyone unless we both are comfortable... Nobody takes one for the team.. No we are not married, we are both single and free to explore without hurting anyone else... We have a great banter with each other and any couples that we have met. Our veris can confirm that... So in a nutshell, even though we are not married or in a serious relationship we are great fun, love sex and respect all parties involved... Much love.. S... "

Well said... respect for getting it right and in all honesty there are some couple's that are not respectful of the others need's as there are singles too. A lot of valid point's made for and against but I feel it has to be figured out on an individual basis and surely respecting people's wishes is a two way street. I think you guy's make a fab couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think many "real couples " want to meet long term couples because sometimes its blatantly obvious that the two of them in a "pretend" couple barely know each other and have zero understanding of the couples dynamic.. ie they are still thinking with the selfish "i am out for what i can get "mentality, and not "WE are out for what WE can get "ideal.

Also with "pretend " couples it is often the case that they are both married to different people and playing without permission and that often leaves a bad taste with real couples who do not wish to be complicit in the deception of others .

I'm the other half of Strawberry blonde, myself and himself have a great dynamic between us, we know each others bodies inside out and have a massive mutal respect for each other.. We are very much into what pleases each other and will not play with anyone unless we both are comfortable... Nobody takes one for the team.. No we are not married, we are both single and free to explore without hurting anyone else... We have a great banter with each other and any couples that we have met. Our veris can confirm that... So in a nutshell, even though we are not married or in a serious relationship we are great fun, love sex and respect all parties involved... Much love.. S...

Well said... respect for getting it right and in all honesty there are some couple's that are not respectful of the others need's as there are singles too. A lot of valid point's made for and against but I feel it has to be figured out on an individual basis and surely respecting people's wishes is a two way street. I think you guy's make a fab couple"

Thank you, we think so too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to say I wasn't nor ever would belittle or complain about anyone's reason for saying no or why there not interested.

My only point was the tone in which it was said . For the want of a better phrase , that it was a class kinda thing. And it was just a general question to everyone on there though on it .

Not ment as bitching whinging or complaining , just a straw pole on one aspect in this community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having met ye both, one fully clothed & one fully undressed (ahem!)

I can say that ye obviously make an explosive team and people would be mad not to spend a night with ye

Just my opinion....

Cat "

Behave Cat... Lol.. Thanks hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having met ye both, one fully clothed & one fully undressed (ahem!)

I can say that ye obviously make an explosive team and people would be mad not to spend a night with ye

Just my opinion....

Cat "

I'd have to second that

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Have read through most peoples opinions here and its fair to say that each couples opinions are right because everyone that is on fab is entitled to use it in whatever way they please.We are not here to judge just to participate and hopefully have some fun.Our take on it is that we are usually more comfortable meeting a couple who are in a long term relationship but again thats just us .But in saying that we have met strawberry blonde on more than one occasion now and they are a great couple loads of fun and im sure they wont mind me saying "their like an auld married couple" So they have kind of changed our mind a little on the fb couples scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met both couples who are together and those that pair for fun. I have to say I enjoy the dynamic of both, and it is irrelevant to me if the couple are paired for fun or they are a living together couple. The only thing for me is that I connect with couple in particular lady and that it is obvious both are willing participants. I more at ease to be honest with a couple paired for fun, as on a few occasions, and only a few, I kinda don't feel the interest is 3 way I.e. like a playtoy for more the the man of a living together couple. And also had male of couple asking to meet on own. So for me, I will only meet a couple where the lady is bi and has an active interest in playing. So as long as this the case,I am happy, in fact very happy. The status of the couple is irrelevant and not an issue for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have met both couples who are together and those that pair for fun. I have to say I enjoy the dynamic of both, and it is irrelevant to me if the couple are paired for fun or they are a living together couple. The only thing for me is that I connect with couple in particular lady and that it is obvious both are willing participants. I more at ease to be honest with a couple paired for fun, as on a few occasions, and only a few, I kinda don't feel the interest is 3 way I.e. like a playtoy for more the the man of a living together couple. And also had male of couple asking to meet on own. So for me, I will only meet a couple where the lady is bi and has an active interest in playing. So as long as this the case,I am happy, in fact very happy. The status of the couple is irrelevant and not an issue for me "

Thanks for your comment..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have read through most peoples opinions here and its fair to say that each couples opinions are right because everyone that is on fab is entitled to use it in whatever way they please.We are not here to judge just to participate and hopefully have some fun.Our take on it is that we are usually more comfortable meeting a couple who are in a long term relationship but again thats just us .But in saying that we have met strawberry blonde on more than one occasion now and they are a great couple loads of fun and im sure they wont mind me saying "their like an auld married couple" So they have kind of changed our mind a little on the fb couples scenario"

Ah thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met both couples who are together and those that pair for fun. I have to say I enjoy the dynamic of both, and it is irrelevant to me if the couple are paired for fun or they are a living together couple. The only thing for me is that I connect with couple in particular lady and that it is obvious both are willing participants. I more at ease to be honest with a couple paired for fun, as on a few occasions, and only a few, I kinda don't feel the interest is 3 way I.e. like a playtoy for more the the man of a living together couple. And also had male of couple asking to meet on own. So for me, I will only meet a couple where the lady is bi and has an active interest in playing. So as long as this the case,I am happy, in fact very happy. The status of the couple is irrelevant and not an issue for me "
my thoughts exactly ... 100% agree with you .. Well said !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's def not a class thing and if anyone looks down on someone else then they are not worth a single thought and better off without them in your life,as said before for us its all about the trust and dynamics in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that we re not a " real couple " , who knew lol.

After chatting to a couple for a bit and all seamed to be going well when we mentioned that we re not a living together, wildly in love ,ring wearing, card caring couple....pooof .. thanks but no thanks .. without the thanks bit lol .

We re two people that have had great fun and great craic on here as singles but said screw it let's team up.. safety in numbers as they say .

So my question is what's yer thoughts or feelings about ..not real couples . Star clear or makes no difference."

I bet you are glad someone took the time to let you know

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple
over a year ago

mayo

No problem with ye here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have played with both couples in relationships and couples paired for fun , yes the dynamic is totally different but we do enjoy both . We have found though that with some of the couples paired for fun we get the impression that they guy is using the girl as "bait" and doesn't really have any respect for her those are the couples we avoid . We would normally start a group chat so we can get to know each other and It is also been our experience that with couples paired for fun the guy is more likely to contact Mrsswingswing offline and ask for fun one on one and those guys get instantly blocked as we find this disrespectful to our relationship .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have played with both couples in relationships and couples paired for fun , yes the dynamic is totally different but we do enjoy both . We have found though that with some of the couples paired for fun we get the impression that they guy is using the girl as "bait" and doesn't really have any respect for her those are the couples we avoid . We would normally start a group chat so we can get to know each other and It is also been our experience that with couples paired for fun the guy is more likely to contact Mrsswingswing offline and ask for fun one on one and those guys get instantly blocked as we find this disrespectful to our relationship . "

Ugh! we met a couple like that, she seemed totally oblivious to the fact that he was using her to get meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd Prefer a couple in the same boat as us, long term. It was explained to me a long time ago that Fuck Buddies can't have the same depth & understanding of care for their partner.

Oh how I laughed! Have you seen some of the hate-filled relationships around. In other words, if you want to have fun with a couple all that matters is that one is male & one is female but we'd prefer a couple that knew each other's depths & limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that we re not a " real couple " , who knew lol.

After chatting to a couple for a bit and all seamed to be going well when we mentioned that we re not a living together, wildly in love ,ring wearing, card caring couple....pooof .. thanks but no thanks .. without the thanks bit lol .

We re two people that have had great fun and great craic on here as singles but said screw it let's team up.. safety in numbers as they say .

So my question is what's yer thoughts or feelings about ..not real couples . Star clear or makes no difference."

Well as part of a so called not real cpl I think it's a bit naive to judge people because they are not in a long term relationship. Have have know my play partner for quite some time now and it is only lately we decided to have a cpls profile. We know each other and know the limits of what's OK for each of us when we play. And we are happy which is the main thing. Isn't that whatever all about... being happy in whatever all do here ????? ... just saying sorry for the rant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter at all we think as long as the chemistry is there and everyone is attracted why the hell not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we get the same problems on here whats wrong with been fuck buddies at the end of the day its still a man and women meeting cant see why people are so hung up about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi we get the same problems on here whats wrong with been fuck buddies at the end of the day its still a man and women meeting cant see why people are so hung up about this "

It's a matter of preference for some but hey that's fine!! Each to their own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having met ye both, one fully clothed & one fully undressed (ahem!)

I can say that ye obviously make an explosive team and people would be mad not to spend a night with ye

Just my opinion....

Cat

I'd have to second that "

Cheers geordielass... They really are a class couple, hope to hook up with them soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having met ye both, one fully clothed & one fully undressed (ahem!)

I can say that ye obviously make an explosive team and people would be mad not to spend a night with ye

Just my opinion....

Cat

Behave Cat... Lol.. Thanks hun xx"

I try to behave the best I can, but my bi-polar sometimes makes me do crazy things in bed... sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, it makes no difference. It's about how people interact with us and each other. You only really get to see that when you chat and have that initial drink together.

Everyone has their preference and they are entitled to it, but if there are issues with a certain pairing or configuration of the couple, then it should be made clear early on and in a respectful way. Then people know what they are getting when they make contact.

We are a "real" couple but haven't met other couples as that is our preference. If we get mails off men or women we are very clear on the first reply what the situation is right now (it's changeable). So yes, everyone entitled to want certain things, it is about creating the experience that suits best, but if there are conditions it is the nice thing to do to get them out of the way early in the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you look real to me

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