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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Similar thread on the swingers chat. You have mailed someone and both parties are interested. Public pictures are good . Similar interests. So the crunch. Both sides need face pictures to see whether there's an attraction or not.they send first..... No attraction. So what now. You send your because you have agreed but know it's going nowhere. This hasn't happened yet but what's your view ?

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

If we have agreed to send our face pics then we stay true to our word even if we aren't interested after seeing their pic. I feel honesty is the best policy so just explaining that there's no attraction is the better option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very difficult situation to be in

Something along the lines of "you guys seem like a very nice couple but we don't feel like we would be very compatible together"

If we received a message like that after sending facepics, I'd like to think we would not take any offence at all.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Oh I hate it ... I never know what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it happens I usually thank them and say sorry afraid your not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it happens I usually thank them and say sorry afraid your not my type "

So they not get odd?? Or do I attract all the strange ones??

By then it's usually block and delete!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah usually just say thanks but sorry your not my type, most move on but u do get a few nutters that u have to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it happens I usually thank them and say sorry afraid your not my type

So they not get odd?? Or do I attract all the strange ones??

By then it's usually block and delete!!"

Not really get the very odd one that tells you your no model or the state of ya etc but very rare. I'm sure I'm not everyone's type too that's why I never start chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea. no easy way. Guess you got to take a leap of faith. If we received pictures we would honor back but only if it was an agreement and if we weren't interested would have to be honest . If the shoe was on the other foot we wouldn't take it to heart. Just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Similar thread on the swingers chat. You have mailed someone and both parties are interested. Public pictures are good . Similar interests. So the crunch. Both sides need face pictures to see whether there's an attraction or not.they send first..... No attraction. So what now. You send your because you have agreed but know it's going nowhere. This hasn't happened yet but what's your view ? "

If I get an unsolicited face photo I have no obligation to send one. If I have agreed to swap face pics I will. If you're not for me I'll say so. It's happened me before where we both agreed to swap, but he just said I wasn't his type and didn't send one back. Such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It breaks me when their public pics are of interest and there are mutual interests... then the disappointment when you don't fancy them facially

I don't send one in return. I'd rather flash my mug on a need to know basis only. I generally explain this before they send pics.

Some people have become nasty when I tactfully explain I'm not interested. We've all been rejected at some point. I wish people could be graceful about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build a bridge and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common courtesy I feel if you send you should receive but not all have that here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Similar thread on the swingers chat. You have mailed someone and both parties are interested. Public pictures are good . Similar interests. So the crunch. Both sides need face pictures to see whether there's an attraction or not.they send first..... No attraction. So what now. You send your because you have agreed but know it's going nowhere. This hasn't happened yet but what's your view ?

If I get an unsolicited face photo I have no obligation to send one. If I have agreed to swap face pics I will. If you're not for me I'll say so. It's happened me before where we both agreed to swap, but he just said I wasn't his type and didn't send one back. Such is life "

This... as a previous poster said it's about being honest even if I'm not attracted ill send my pic as agreed...honesty is important on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Common courtesy I feel if you send you should receive but not all have that here "

Yes, but only if mutually agree beforehand. No one is under obligation just because they decided to send you on randomly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Common courtesy I feel if you send you should receive but not all have that here

Yes, but only if mutually agree beforehand. No one is under obligation just because they decided to send you on randomly. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Similar thread on the swingers chat. You have mailed someone and both parties are interested. Public pictures are good . Similar interests. So the crunch. Both sides need face pictures to see whether there's an attraction or not.they send first..... No attraction. So what now. You send your because you have agreed but know it's going nowhere. This hasn't happened yet but what's your view ? "

I would have thought a face would be the last thing you'd be looking at in the heat of the moment..don't some swingers wear masks..it wouldn't be what id be looking at anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've honesty have never been sent a face picture that really bothered me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending a face pic doesn't mean you have to meet. If you've gotten to the point where both agree to send one then presumably there's a good degree of comfortability and trust.

However, I send one when and because I'm happy to not because I ever expect anything; so I can understand the other point of view.

If someone sends one unprompted then of course you're under no obligation to reciprocate, nor or you obliged to agree to swap them in the first place.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

We dont send face pics and would never ask for one eather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont send face pics and would never ask for one eather. "

Same as that

I've had lots of blind meets, and lots of meets where the person looked completely different from their pic - not in a bad way either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Similar thread on the swingers chat. You have mailed someone and both parties are interested. Public pictures are good . Similar interests. So the crunch. Both sides need face pictures to see whether there's an attraction or not.they send first..... No attraction. So what now. You send your because you have agreed but know it's going nowhere. This hasn't happened yet but what's your view ?

I would have thought a face would be the last thing you'd be looking at in the heat of the moment..don't some swingers wear masks..it wouldn't be what id be looking at anyway "

Well if there's one thing I know about women...for meet the face and all that entails. .eyes, smile and it's form plays a large part in first aspect of attraction after their mind being challenged.... you're referring to a swing party etc which is a very different type of meet. Women's brains have everything connected whereas the man's is compartmentalised as we (most) can look beyond a face, a voice or any other aspect less desirable in order to have a meet. Just my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont send face pics and would never ask for one eather. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should have said yes after a conversation yes sending random face pics I'm not a fan of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful always return the favour even if the your intention isn't to move forward,there is no need to be a dick about it

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Be respectful always return the favour even if the your intention isn't to move forward,there is no need to be a dick about it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be respectful always return the favour even if the your intention isn't to move forward,there is no need to be a dick about it"

If you have agreed to swap pics - then I agree.

If you get an unsolicited pic then I don't think you have to send one back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be respectful always return the favour even if the your intention isn't to move forward,there is no need to be a dick about it

If you have agreed to swap pics - then I agree.

If you get an unsolicited pic then I don't think you have to send one back"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No likey no lighty. They might take rejection the wrong way and save the pic.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I wouldn't know if I was interested without a face pic tbh..

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By *rash_pandaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Once I was asked for a face pic so sent one. Was immediately blocked! Powerful face I have!!

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I just have my face on profile pic no need to send then

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse


"If we have agreed to send our face pics then we stay true to our word even if we aren't interested after seeing their pic. I feel honesty is the best policy so just explaining that there's no attraction is the better option. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder. What do blind swingers do?

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By *atr247Man
over a year ago

around

I think it's only fair if both parties agree to swap that who ever sends first isn't left hanging. Maybe the powers that be in fab could set up like a secure mailbox that can only be opened once both parties have sent their pics ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Similar thread on the swingers chat. You have mailed someone and both parties are interested. Public pictures are good . Similar interests. So the crunch. Both sides need face pictures to see whether there's an attraction or not.they send first..... No attraction. So what now. You send your because you have agreed but know it's going nowhere. This hasn't happened yet but what's your view ? "

Send them THAT pic, you know, the one that is, but doesn't look like you.

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