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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk


"Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men"

I'd say it's almost the opposite. The majority of couples are looking for a bi female for both to play with.

But you don't have yourself down and a bi female which is maybe why you haven't had as much interest????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they ALL don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id like to try it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't despair. There is some folk for everyone here. Just takes a while. Good luck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put bi curious on your profile. ..lol.....watch your inbox fill up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put bi curious on your profile. ..lol.....watch your inbox fill up.."

Hope you weren't asking me to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put bi curious on your profile. ..lol.....watch your inbox fill up..

Hope you weren't asking me to do that "
...nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put bi curious on your profile. ..lol.....watch your inbox fill up..

Hope you weren't asking me to do that ...nope"

Phew, thank goodness, I have enough trouble as it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still a lot of fake couples i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still a lot of fake couples i think "
...yes and single women as well I believe. We have a phone especially for swinging. A quick call early in the negotiations eliminates the fakes we find.

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk


"Still a lot of fake couples i think "

That's where the verifications help hun. Take your time, there's no rushing into this kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of single girls say there single then bang oh I've a bf r I'm married wdf why have a single profile

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

B very carefull tel them u want to talk on d phone to each of them before u go to meet them , then u will know if there fake r not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men"

Get yourself verified, go to a meet and great, a social, or even a coffee meet with someone and I don't think you'll have a problem meeting who you want. There is quite few M&Gs/Socials coming up in different parts of the country over the next few weeks so no excuses. Just keep an eye on the forums. Good luck and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of single girls say there single then bang oh I've a bf r I'm married wdf why have a single profile "

Because their partner or husband doesn't know they are on Fab. Each to their own as far as I am concerned, but I find the single guys who have couples profiles far worse than the married or attached girls who have single profiles. Just saying

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Hello wee dolly!

Debs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men

Get yourself verified, go to a meet and great, a social, or even a coffee meet with someone and I don't think you'll have a problem meeting who you want. There is quite few M&Gs/Socials coming up in different parts of the country over the next few weeks so no excuses. Just keep an eye on the forums. Good luck and happy fabbing"
..the op is verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men

Get yourself verified, go to a meet and great, a social, or even a coffee meet with someone and I don't think you'll have a problem meeting who you want. There is quite few M&Gs/Socials coming up in different parts of the country over the next few weeks so no excuses. Just keep an eye on the forums. Good luck and happy fabbing..the op is verified. "

so she is, my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men

Get yourself verified, go to a meet and great, a social, or even a coffee meet with someone and I don't think you'll have a problem meeting who you want. There is quite few M&Gs/Socials coming up in different parts of the country over the next few weeks so no excuses. Just keep an eye on the forums. Good luck and happy fabbing..the op is verified.

so she is, my bad"
...easy to miss the green tick on th phone

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Make your verifications visible - hidden verifications are no verifications at all.

Real couples are cynical due to all the fakes (couples, females) and timewasters (males) they have dealt with so showing meet validations is a big big plus.

This applies to all profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make your verifications visible - hidden verifications are no verifications at all.

Real couples are cynical due to all the fakes (couples, females) and timewasters (males) they have dealt with so showing meet validations is a big big plus.

This applies to all profiles. "
.......its all about personal choice really. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't orientation specific...anyone can be fake just as all can be wary...fab life but time teaches us a lot and you can still be fooled by some but for those brilliant moment's in between all worth it. Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't orientation specific...anyone can be fake just as all can be wary...fab life but time teaches us a lot and you can still be fooled by some but for those brilliant moment's in between all worth it. Happy fabbing "
.....who were you in between?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't orientation specific...anyone can be fake just as all can be wary...fab life but time teaches us a lot and you can still be fooled by some but for those brilliant moment's in between all worth it. Happy fabbing .....who were you in between? "

Some absolutely fab people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find as a single girl that the meet and greets/socials are a great way to meet genuine couples and single's. It's great to find out if the physical attraction is there also. Good luck, Dolly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't orientation specific...anyone can be fake just as all can be wary...fab life but time teaches us a lot and you can still be fooled by some but for those brilliant moment's in between all worth it. Happy fabbing .....who were you in between?

Some absolutely fab people"
... ....is that the jealous emoji?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't orientation specific...anyone can be fake just as all can be wary...fab life but time teaches us a lot and you can still be fooled by some but for those brilliant moment's in between all worth it. Happy fabbing .....who were you in between?

Some absolutely fab people ... ....is that the jealous emoji? "

Can't figure out the emojis...too busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't orientation specific...anyone can be fake just as all can be wary...fab life but time teaches us a lot and you can still be fooled by some but for those brilliant moment's in between all worth it. Happy fabbing .....who were you in between?

Some absolutely fab people ... ....is that the jealous emoji?

Can't figure out the emojis...too busy "
...you're just boasting now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make your verifications visible - hidden verifications are no verifications at all.

Real couples are cynical due to all the fakes (couples, females) and timewasters (males) they have dealt with so showing meet validations is a big big plus.

This applies to all profiles. "

Really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men"

Could you please point me in the direction of these couples. I'll pay a finders fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they tell me all is good then want to meet them say oh btw I have a bf r I'm.married ehhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they tell me all is good then want to meet them say oh btw I have a bf r I'm.married ehhhhhhh"
...are you a Catholic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lol

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down


"Make your verifications visible - hidden verifications are no verifications at all.

Real couples are cynical due to all the fakes (couples, females) and timewasters (males) they have dealt with so showing meet validations is a big big plus.

This applies to all profiles. "

Sorry, have to disagree...we are real but choose not to show verifications as its our business who we have met. It works for us and dont have problems getting meets.

Debs

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin


"Make your verifications visible - hidden verifications are no verifications at all.

Real couples are cynical due to all the fakes (couples, females) and timewasters (males) they have dealt with so showing meet validations is a big big plus.

This applies to all profiles.

Sorry, have to disagree...we are real but choose not to show verifications as its our business who we have met. It works for us and dont have problems getting meets.

Debs "

You can disagree all you like, thats your right. But its perfectly clear that the more assurances a profile can give that its valid and genuine the more reliance can be put on it.

You can choose not to show validations

You can choose not to accept validations

You can choose not to show the validations summary

You can choose not to show pictures

You can choose not to show face pictures

You can choose not to say hi on the phone

Its all choice, but every choice 'away' from giving every possible indication that you are a genuine couple is one that will limit the effectivness of the system.

This site, due to the low membership cost, is riddled with fakes. When your choosing to 'be discreet' you're thowing your lot in with a bunch of fakes who have one (or more) self-given validation. Thats your choice.

And anyway I doubt most people care if you've slept with X, Y or Z, they just care to see that you're what your profile represents.

The OP was complaining that she couldn't meet couples. Just maybe if couples didn't have to deal with endless fake single female profiles with no visible validations she wouldn't be encountering such a 'strange' problem.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Id love to meet an older couple but they all want men

Could you please point me in the direction of these couples. I'll pay a finders fee. "

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5 degrees East of North!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want bit of advice dont want anyone falling out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run your profile the way you want to.

The socials are the best way to meeting genuine folks.

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Just be yourself & ignore anyone that doesn't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make your verifications visible - hidden verifications are no verifications at all.

Real couples are cynical due to all the fakes (couples, females) and timewasters (males) they have dealt with so showing meet validations is a big big plus.

This applies to all profiles.

Sorry, have to disagree...we are real but choose not to show verifications as its our business who we have met. It works for us and dont have problems getting meets.

Debs

You can disagree all you like, thats your right. But its perfectly clear that the more assurances a profile can give that its valid and genuine the more reliance can be put on it.

You can choose not to show validations

You can choose not to accept validations

You can choose not to show the validations summary

You can choose not to show pictures

You can choose not to show face pictures

You can choose not to say hi on the phone

Its all choice, but every choice 'away' from giving every possible indication that you are a genuine couple is one that will limit the effectivness of the system.

This site, due to the low membership cost, is riddled with fakes. When your choosing to 'be discreet' you're thowing your lot in with a bunch of fakes who have one (or more) self-given validation. Thats your choice.

And anyway I doubt most people care if you've slept with X, Y or Z, they just care to see that you're what your profile represents.

The OP was complaining that she couldn't meet couples. Just maybe if couples didn't have to deal with endless fake single female profiles with no visible validations she wouldn't be encountering such a 'strange' problem."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree xxxx

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn


"I just want bit of advice dont want anyone falling out"

Everyone falls out on here

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over a year ago

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