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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How in the Jame of naysus does a genuine guy get a meet here, be it a single lady or a couple...????

Just seems to be a relentless series of deleted mails or not looking for single guys !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no what your saying , and it kind of funny some here think there something , that there not even in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How in the Jame of naysus does a genuine guy get a meet here, be it a single lady or a couple...????

Just seems to be a relentless series of deleted mails or not looking for single guys !!!!"

I'm with you on the above. ..it's a funny ol' shite. .I mean site ...anyway. .one of these day's. ...

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton

In fairness it does happen though not as often as we should wish. I've met couples, groups and single women and I've (we've) had a lot of adventures. This under the double curse of single male and the age bracket. Bring it on !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you mailing profiles that you fit their specific requirements and vice versa, or are you just sending random mails and hoping for a reply?

For the op!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm mailing whoever I can send one to at this stage ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm mailing whoever I can send one to at this stage ??"

That won't work.

Read profiles, read people's preferences, read them again and if you think you fit the bill, then try mailing.

Make a little effort with your mails and have a bucket load of patience. There's tonnes of single guys on here.

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never adapt the scattergun approach; compatibility is perhaps the biggest instigator of meets and not everyone will be compatible with you nor you with them.

It's not as simple as say, sending 50 messages as opposed to 5 means you'll get more replies.

You've met already, so you've some idea how to go about it . Reading your profile, if you are meeting with a friend perhaps try a couples profile?

Be patient, be discerning and look for profiles that perhaps peak a common interest. There's no expiry date on your profile so don't get hung up on having to meet people, just take things as they come and enjoy the craic on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never adapt the scattergun approach; compatibility is perhaps the biggest instigator of meets and not everyone will be compatible with you nor you with them.

It's not as simple as say, sending 50 messages as opposed to 5 means you'll get more replies.

You've met already, so you've some idea how to go about it . Reading your profile, if you are meeting with a friend perhaps try a couples profile?

Be patient, be discerning and look for profiles that perhaps peak a common interest. There's no expiry date on your profile so don't get hung up on having to meet people, just take things as they come and enjoy the craic on here "

All good advice

And all i can add is perhaps a profile pic with your pants on might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one liners.

No bull.

Pics on your profile (not all cock pics).

A good profile with what you really look like and what your looking for.

Be polite.

Ask to go to some M&Gs (let the dog see the rabbit).

Look for coffee meets to start with.

Jack

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I met a gorgeous lady on here n were very good friends . I have had a few ladies who were ladies mess me come on n then disapear on me . Why do they cum on n then disapear. Saying they want sex n must chicken out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read lots of the other 'how do I get a meet' threads on the Forum - this advice has been dished out about a thousand times and year. There is a search facility to check previous forum threads - and you could find them in the Forum archive too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How in the Jame of naysus does a genuine guy get a meet here, be it a single lady or a couple...????

Just seems to be a relentless series of deleted mails or not looking for single guys !!!!"

You have a buddy now on your profile so what you looking for ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good advice, thanks for taking the time to reply.

There was a buddy looking to dip her toes but she's since chickened out so I'm flying solo.

I've plenty of good pics on private so I'll be keeping them there.

Something will come up but a M&g will be on the cards now

Thanks guys.

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