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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually get what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I hear ya

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. It took us just under a year to wake up to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought "

Yes I get you

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I get you too. Suprisingly!!

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

True to a point you make sense but we as people still have needs and sometimes a meet with someone amazing restores ur faith in this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women nod in agreement, the men think 'what the fuck are you on about??' Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women nod in agreement, the men think 'what the fuck are you on about??' Haha"

The OP is a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The women nod in agreement, the men think 'what the fuck are you on about??' Haha"

you see I'm not such a thicko after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone feels that way about the place at some point .... but everyone has their needs and this serves them ... plus you get to meet some great people... make some friends and have some fantastic experiences....

Wanting or expecting more here is not advisable in my book... some have found love here and more luck to them but actively searching for more than some fun is quite possibly going to end badly...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think everyone feels that way about the place at some point .... but everyone has their needs and this serves them ... plus you get to meet some great people... make some friends and have some fantastic experiences....

Wanting or expecting more here is not advisable in my book... some have found love here and more luck to them but actively searching for more than some fun is quite possibly going to end badly..."

i don't expect to find love on a swinging site fella I'm not fucked in the head altogether..I was just talking bollox as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone feels that way about the place at some point .... but everyone has their needs and this serves them ... plus you get to meet some great people... make some friends and have some fantastic experiences....

Wanting or expecting more here is not advisable in my book... some have found love here and more luck to them but actively searching for more than some fun is quite possibly going to end badly..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is to connect without connecting....but not everyone can do this and some get caught up in their own body chemistry or are just clingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually get what you mean"
.......I read it.....then I pushed the green arrow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually get what you mean.......I read it.....then I pushed the green arrow...."

I refrained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women nod in agreement, the men think 'what the fuck are you on about??' Haha

The OP is a man"

Im well aware of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok guys n gal's...who hacked his account

We all have our bad day's...it is how it is but stay for the better moment's. Some experiences should permanently keep us away but we are mere mortals designed for this which keeps us coming back for more.

Cheer up sweet cheeks

Phil Lynette over and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys n gal's...who hacked his account

We all have our bad day's...it is how it is but stay for the better moment's. Some experiences should permanently keep us away but we are mere mortals designed for this which keeps us coming back for more.

Cheer up sweet cheeks

Phil Lynette over and out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nod to the OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys n gal's...who hacked his account

We all have our bad day's...it is how it is but stay for the better moment's. Some experiences should permanently keep us away but we are mere mortals designed for this which keeps us coming back for more.

Cheer up sweet cheeks

Phil Lynette over and out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought "

I'm not sure it affects couples the same, as they always have each other. Though I think most singles will feel that at some point or another. When I do, I usually walk away for a while. The last time that while was 2 years though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought

I'm not sure it affects couples the same, as they always have each other. Though I think most singles will feel that at some point or another. When I do, I usually walk away for a while. The last time that while was 2 years though. "

I think everyone on fab goes through the good and the bad...couples wouldn't be immune to this but I get what you are saying in that they have each other's support, I imagine that this could be a difficult balancing act at times also constantly being of the other's needs. Hat's off to the couple's that swing happily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought "

I think this is why a lot of women meet only after establishing some sort of connection and trust..and therefore possibly being much more selective in who they meet..so needs are met but respectfully and in a less empty and numb manner.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"I actually get what you mean.......I read it.....then I pushed the green arrow...."

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

First time ever agreeing with the op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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....I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? "

When you think of what that number might be let us know, in the mean time I'll be enjoying my self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time ever agreeing with the op. "

Its a first for many of us. Wonders never cease

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"First time ever agreeing with the op.

Its a first for many of us. Wonders never cease "

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yup agree with op, can't do mindless unconnected fucking.. It just doesn't work for me. Id be better off staying at home and having a lady wank. Then I'm 100% guaranteed an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought "

...but not everyone is into calculated cold fucks. Some are selective, take their time in conversation and getting to know the other person while watching the masses go about their duty. Maybe more than one thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought "

Not if you swing with your life partner...

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"

I know sites like these are just for hooking up and fucking but after a while this kind of behaviour loses its appeal..it becomes empty and numb..maybe one shouldn't have feelings when using this site..one should be cold and calculating and get what they want like with everything else in life..I think maybe there is only so many people you can fuck before you begin to think wtf is this all about really..is there a point to this at all? just a random bullshit thought

...but not everyone is into calculated cold fucks. Some are selective, take their time in conversation and getting to know the other person while watching the masses go about their duty. Maybe more than one thinks.

"

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge

If you can compartmentalise love and fucking then I reckon it works a treat and serves a great purpose

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