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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I haven't been on fab that long but I am finding it very hard for meets or even to chat to a lady, I have wrote to loads of women now long msgs too not a quick hi there wanna fuck kinda msg but never seem to get much responses any advise to what I'm doing wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to say why your messages are not getting the response you would like. You do have a verification. Maybe if you added a few pics people would get a better feel for what you look like and if they like, it might enhance your chances. Most people look at the profile before deciding if they will respond so that's your window display. Maybe expand on your profile a bit.

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste your time this place is a closed shop..women here only want old meets..they don't want to meet new people because its too easy to meet what they already know which makes it very difficult for new comers like meself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't waste your time this place is a closed shop..women here only want old meets..they don't want to meet new people because its too easy to meet what they already know which makes it very difficult for new comers like meself "

I cannot agree with you lad, I am only here a v.short time less than a year and have meet with nothing but friendly support from most ladies and couples.

I have experienced no cliques to speak off (yet!)

If fact with the amount of the beautiful women and sexy couples on this site, it keeps you drawn in like a moth to a flame.

I can't wait to experience more in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't waste your time this place is a closed shop..women here only want old meets..they don't want to meet new people because its too easy to meet what they already know which makes it very difficult for new comers like meself "
Well thats a load of bollick . I for one meet newbies wit no green ticks . We were all newbies at one stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't waste your time this place is a closed shop..women here only want old meets..they don't want to meet new people because its too easy to meet what they already know which makes it very difficult for new comers like meself Well thats a load of bollick . I for one meet newbies wit no green ticks . We were all newbies at one stage "
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Ok, I'm new too and finding it difficult ...

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Don't waste your time this place is a closed shop..women here only want old meets..they don't want to meet new people because its too easy to meet what they already know which makes it very difficult for new comers like meself "

Who told you that women here only want old meets? Thats very wrong of you to say that. Ive met several newbies and gave them their first verification. Whats happening to you isnt the case for everyone else thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to say why your messages are not getting the response you would like. You do have a verification. Maybe if you added a few pics people would get a better feel for what you look like and if they like, it might enhance your chances. Most people look at the profile before deciding if they will respond so that's your window display. Maybe expand on your profile a bit.

L "
agree. Without a few pictures it's hard to get an image in your mind so a few up would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always hard on fab.....

(Just saying)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is the best craic

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Don't waste your time this place is a closed shop..women here only want old meets..they don't want to meet new people because its too easy to meet what they already know which makes it very difficult for new comers like meself "

*Scanning post*

*Post holds no merit do you wish to issue a response Y/N?*

*You have selected: no*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old recurring theme, which is always vehemently denied.

It's like in real life, you can find someone, or not. There is no guarantee don't expected to much and be relaxed.

To get no repy is normal as well because the girl are outnumbered and live by the motto " no reply not interested" not really funny but it is as it is ..

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I'm always hard on fab.....

(Just saying) "

Oh my!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Some of us gets lucky n gets lots of meets. U do get dry spells n sometimes u might not get meets n then all of a sudden u gets lots of meets .im afraid that's life it's either a famine r a feast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to say why your messages are not getting the response you would like. You do have a verification. Maybe if you added a few pics people would get a better feel for what you look like and if they like, it might enhance your chances. Most people look at the profile before deciding if they will respond so that's your window display. Maybe expand on your profile a bit.

L agree. Without a few pictures it's hard to get an image in your mind so a few up would help. "

Eum...you want a list with female profiles WITHOUT pics .. ? just to say *cough*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to say why your messages are not getting the response you would like. You do have a verification. Maybe if you added a few pics people would get a better feel for what you look like and if they like, it might enhance your chances. Most people look at the profile before deciding if they will respond so that's your window display. Maybe expand on your profile a bit.

L agree. Without a few pictures it's hard to get an image in your mind so a few up would help.

Eum...you want a list with female profiles WITHOUT pics .. ? just to say *cough* "

Oh I'd say there are loads of "lady" profiles without pics and maybe that's because a lot of them are men

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always hard on fab.....

(Just saying)

Oh my! "

Don't play the innocent with me Mikey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I haven't been on fab that long but I am finding it very hard for meets or even to chat to a lady, I have wrote to loads of women now long msgs too not a quick hi there wanna fuck kinda msg but never seem to get much responses any advise to what I'm doing wrong??"

To be honest, cold messaging is probably the least likely way to get meets from my experience. Not that it won't happen, just less likely. chat here or in the Irish chat room or M&G's are probably better ways to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh M&G's ... Not open to single chaps that often ... Hopefully people will see that photos are verified and here a while will reply to messages. Anyway, no pain no gain. Keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh M&G's ... Not open to single chaps that often ... Hopefully people will see that photos are verified and here a while will reply to messages. Anyway, no pain no gain. Keep trying "
thats wrong most meet greets u dont have to be verified now to get in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, thanks for the advice .. I'm obviously not looking in the right place. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up looli and laids one sum one mite meet u for coffee first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh M&G's ... Not open to single chaps that often ... Hopefully people will see that photos are verified and here a while will reply to messages. Anyway, no pain no gain. Keep trying thats wrong most meet greets u dont have to be verified now to get in "

Plus laid n lolli even offer to meet and verify newbies if they can and set up drinks meets so to be fair I don't think anyone can ask for more than that! Plus everyone on here has different ways about doing things and it's their perogotive to do so.

So maybe ya just need to chill out and relax a bit and keep going

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Your pics are great. Patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aim low , target your efforts on the few women that do lots of meets. A few verification's from them and you will be transformed into a total fanny magnet just like these successful gurus in this thread advising you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh M&G's ... Not open to single chaps that often ... Hopefully people will see that photos are verified and here a while will reply to messages. Anyway, no pain no gain. Keep trying thats wrong most meet greets u dont have to be verified now to get in

Plus laid n lolli even offer to meet and verify newbies if they can and set up drinks meets so to be fair I don't think anyone can ask for more than that! Plus everyone on here has different ways about doing things and it's their perogotive to do so.

So maybe ya just need to chill out and relax a bit and keep going"

I'm chilled, just asking good people for a steer, it's appreciated .. What goes around, cums around thanks. C.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new too, and I've had a mixed bag. What's worked for me is being unique. Send a message that expresses your personality, isn't too explicit but is cheeky, and hints at what you're about... It's not tinder, you don't have to make small talk always but you have to sell it first message, any weak first messages I've sent have never gotten replies. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to say why your messages are not getting the response you would like. You do have a verification. Maybe if you added a few pics people would get a better feel for what you look like and if they like, it might enhance your chances. Most people look at the profile before deciding if they will respond so that's your window display. Maybe expand on your profile a bit.

L agree. Without a few pictures it's hard to get an image in your mind so a few up would help.

Eum...you want a list with female profiles WITHOUT pics .. ? just to say *cough*

Oh I'd say there are loads of "lady" profiles without pics and maybe that's because a lot of them are men

L"

NO Really..you see me shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to say why your messages are not getting the response you would like. You do have a verification. Maybe if you added a few pics people would get a better feel for what you look like and if they like, it might enhance your chances. Most people look at the profile before deciding if they will respond so that's your window display. Maybe expand on your profile a bit.

L agree. Without a few pictures it's hard to get an image in your mind so a few up would help.

Eum...you want a list with female profiles WITHOUT pics .. ? just to say *cough*

Oh I'd say there are loads of "lady" profiles without pics and maybe that's because a lot of them are men

L

NO Really..you see me shocked "

LOL LOL ...

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

Fab is not hard at all. It's very easy actually. My cunning plan is to wait for ladies to msg me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is not hard at all. It's very easy actually. My cunning plan is to wait for ladies to msg me first. "

... #ucking funny ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is not hard at all. It's very easy actually. My cunning plan is to wait for ladies to msg me first. "

That plan sounds great.. popcorn enough ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to say why your messages are not getting the response you would like. You do have a verification. Maybe if you added a few pics people would get a better feel for what you look like and if they like, it might enhance your chances. Most people look at the profile before deciding if they will respond so that's your window display. Maybe expand on your profile a bit.

L agree. Without a few pictures it's hard to get an image in your mind so a few up would help.

Eum...you want a list with female profiles WITHOUT pics .. ? just to say *cough*

Oh I'd say there are loads of "lady" profiles without pics and maybe that's because a lot of them are men

L"

wait .. by the way, I fear some "fun seeking woman" will be not really happy to read that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hunting is fun .. But where's the equal rights for men ?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Don't worry about it!

Nice messages get swamped among the volume of crap messages women/couples get!

I used to send nice messages too but gave up as women /couples get so many

messages they might read a few or just delete them all. It happens to us all!

Don't take it personally!

FAB isn't too bad, just takes time getting used to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh M&G's ... Not open to single chaps that often ... Hopefully people will see that photos are verified and here a while will reply to messages. Anyway, no pain no gain. Keep trying "

Parties generally not to unverified no but most M&G's are just that, social meets that don't require you to be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one's there when your dreams at night get creepy

No one cares if you grow or if you shrink

No one cries when your eyes get wet and weepy

From all the cryin' you would think this place would sink

Oh, oh

Empty belly life! (empty belly life)

Rotten smelly life! (no no no no no)

Full of sorrow life! (full of sorrow life...)

No tomorrow life!

Santa Claus we never see...

Santa Claus what's that? Who's he?

No one cares for you a smidge

When you're in an orphanage

It's the hard-knock life for us

It's the hard-knock life for us

No one cares for you a smidge

When you're in an orphanage

It's the hard-knock life

It's the hard-knock life

It's the hard-knock life!

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