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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some men like to keep their options open when trying to get a meet? As in asking a girl to meet up but then also asking other girls to meet the same night. They complain then when it all falls through

Do others do this? I certainly don't. If I'm arranging a meet then I stick to it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I think it's a trait across all sex's not something I do I'd usually focus on one cpl/fem to make the most out of any potential meet

Or maybe they think they can multitask "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hole's a goal for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe more so the fantasists with no real intention, in the hope it all actually does fall through.

Then they're able to convince themselves they could have 'had' x amount of women.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Maybe they're hoping for a ffm or fffm

I'd say it's not gender specific though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men like to keep their options open when trying to get a meet? As in asking a girl to meet up but then also asking other girls to meet the same night. They complain then when it all falls through

Do others do this? I certainly don't. If I'm arranging a meet then I stick to it

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I had it done to me once.it's probably the same guy ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whatever it is I'm not gonna meet him if the girl he decided to go with lets him down last minute. I mean come on

I'm sure it isn't just men that do that. Just wondered why is all. Greed perhaps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do some men like to keep their options open when trying to get a meet? As in asking a girl to meet up but then also asking other girls to meet the same night. They complain then when it all falls through

Do others do this? I certainly don't. If I'm arranging a meet then I stick to it

I had it done to me once.it's probably the same guy ha"

Wouldn't surprise me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he tell you he had arranged something else??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??"

As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiver me timbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book. "

Okay fair enough, but this was arranged and had met before so no need to be worried about cancelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for a meet meet but for a looksee/say hello meet. Time slots...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well then that's just greedy and very cheeky! Not cool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my two bold girls can fab cope with the naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??

As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed"

Did he admit it or did you just guess ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my two bold girls can fab cope with the naughtiness "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??

As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed

Did he admit it or did you just guess ? "

admitted it eventually so I cancelled him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??

As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed

Did he admit it or did you just guess ?

admitted it eventually so I cancelled him "

Jesus I could quadruple book and still have no luck haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??

As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed

Did he admit it or did you just guess ?

admitted it eventually so I cancelled him "

Good on you. I think its bad manners to do this

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book. "

How does that logistically work when both turn up?

I never did parallel booking, only in series

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book.

How does that logistically work when both turn up?

I never did parallel booking, only in series "

The girls finish their coffee then go shopping?

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

It can be fairly hard to get a meet with one lady on here, never mind 2.

Defo wouldnt ruin my chances by trying to arrange two at the same time.

Only way i see that that would be possible is if you jad already met one and yous were both trying to get another lady to join yous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't know why someone would do that, be in male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple attempts for a meet one struggles with one, never mind two nope I hold the end of the rope till I reach the other end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Multiple attempts for a meet one struggles with one, never mind two nope I hold the end of the rope till I reach the other end "

That's wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are idiots Fun....

They also qualify as twats...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys can find enough women to arrange multiple meets? Fair play, for most guys it's hard enough to arrange one meet, let alone multiples on one night.

I would imagine that's a minority behaviour. It's hard to arrange meets in the first place, so I certainly wouldn't be keeping my options open.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha well just wondered if it was normal to do that. As I was made out to be over reacting. Thanks for replies

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll if I'm lucky enough to get a meet i attend n would never arrange another meet on d same day r nite not that I would b so lucky to get multiple meets . But I've heard of guys having one in d morning n then another in d evening d lucky sods don't think I could have d energy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me last yr . A guy asked me for coffee meet i say sure ok 12 then he goes and mails my friend whos on here too so she says 12 too so he then mails me he was stuck in a meeting and could i move it to 2 i say sorry no can do but my friend had already td me she had a meet to wit same guy . Heel of the hunt the poor guy got nothing that day

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I have to distinguish here a bit. If it's a person you've only met once or twice, it's not a very nice thing to do.

If a regular would tell me that he finally succeeded to arrange a first meet with that xy woman but it's on the same day we've planed to meet, I'd have understanding and I'd say 'go for it'! I know he'll be back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to distinguish here a bit. If it's a person you've only met once or twice, it's not a very nice thing to do.

If a regular would tell me that he finally succeeded to arrange a first meet with that xy woman but it's on the same day we've planed to meet, I'd have understanding and I'd say 'go for it'! I know he'll be back..."

As Boldgirl once said "wise"

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Haha served him right for being greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to distinguish here a bit. If it's a person you've only met once or twice, it's not a very nice thing to do.

If a regular would tell me that he finally succeeded to arrange a first meet with that xy woman but it's on the same day we've planed to meet, I'd have understanding and I'd say 'go for it'! I know he'll be back...

As Boldgirl once said "wise" "

DH is most certainly that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't understand is why they think your so stupid in the first place

I think we all should watch X factor tonight

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