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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet a fellow English fabber in Dubrovnik last year and she had an interesting inside into people's perception of, horniness, naughtiness and kinkiness.
Her, for want of a better word, argument was that, for example, the Browns next door, they leave the lights on when they have sex, and for them that's kinky, the smiths across the road, like to role play, and when they dress up and act out there fantasies, that's kinky to them, where as the Jones 3 doors down have a cockold scenario thing going on, and the O'Briens are mad into their S&M, now to some some people that's hot, for some it's timid and then there is some where that's just weird.
And the same can be said how frequently you have sex, for some people one a week is a lot for others not nearly enough.
It's perspective and respecting other people's boundaries and limitations and not forcing your sexual appetites on to others much the same as I feel about forcing your own religious views on to others.
Man I could go on all day. Sex is an amazing subject to discuss. The science, the cliches, the relevance to different cultures and periods through out history. |