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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have a certain criteria for accepting someone as a friend? I used to only except people that I had actually met in person, now I'm getting a little relaxed on that.

I've found too that I get very few requests now that I don't have any friend only photos.

Are you a free for all, the more the merrier type or very selective in who's on your friend list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only people i have met or really like chatting to ....as the friends pics are face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message a bit, if I think they not a nutter then it's ok, do turn the lads down mind, a list of friends that are guys might give the wrong impression, I attract enough male attention even without that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah and ya get to see some of whats under the kilt lol

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

If someone sends me a friend request without messaging first then I assume they just want to perv at my friends only pics and I delete the request.

If I chat to them for a bit then I'll happily accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've hardly ever removed anyone..the idea of saying I dont wanna be your friend is just mad to me...so because I was here so long it got v long...

..im sure they'll miss me...not...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My friend list is very short and a mix of lads I've met and lads I would like to meet.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"If someone sends me a friend request without messaging first then I assume they just want to perv at my friends only pics and I delete the request.

If I chat to them for a bit then I'll happily accept "

Same as this except I don't delete the request, so they can't send the request again!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"If someone sends me a friend request without messaging first then I assume they just want to perv at my friends only pics and I delete the request.

If I chat to them for a bit then I'll happily accept "

Don't delete the request it prevents them from resenting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no friends

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Mine has grown over the years from people I have met socially or sexually ladies that I'd like to meet and generally sound up for a laugh people, just because we haven't chatted or met for a bit doesn't mean I delete them cause they were special to me to get on it in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our friends list is very short, people we have met and will hopefully meet again, and people we would like to meet where there is a realistic chance of it ever happening. It's culled occasionally.

We never accept a cold friend request, and like others, don't delete the request in order to prevent them sending another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept friend requests until I've met in person..... I don't delete the friend requests either, they just get left there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to be nice and can a person have too many friends???

An acceptance of a request doesn't imply you want to meet but does give hope for the future ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have a certain criteria for accepting someone as a friend? I used to only except people that I had actually met in person, now I'm getting a little relaxed on that.

I've found too that I get very few requests now that I don't have any friend only photos.

Are you a free for all, the more the merrier type or very selective in who's on your friend list?

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OP I guess it implies and means different things to the sexes. Acceptance of a friends invite is going to give the M a certain sense of encouragement... If it's before a meet . The lady may not see things this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll accept if we have had some correspondence with a lady and especially if we like her profile .Same also from couples if we like there vibe

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"We'll accept if we have had some correspondence with a lady and especially if we like her profile .Same also from couples if we like there vibe "

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Not all of them buy a vibe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll accept if we have had some correspondence with a lady and especially if we like her profile .Same also from couples if we like there vibe

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Not all of them buy a vibe! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll accept if we have had some correspondence with a lady and especially if we like her profile .Same also from couples if we like there vibe

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Not all of them buy a vibe! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is Kaizer's friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more the merrier approach here! I've never deleted anyone off my friends list either

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Our friends list is a mixture of people we've met and people we've just chatted to for a while

We never accept random requests from ppl who wouldn't bother attempting contact. We don't accept requests after one or two messages either. We like to build on chat and accept ppl who we are genuinely interested in meeting

Tina

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Only people I have chatted to properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those I've met or in process of meeting. Rarely ever delete but have been known to go through and if they no longer are chatting then I give notice .... .. and some block and remove themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our friends list is a mixture of people we've met and people we've just chatted to for a while

We never accept random requests from ppl who wouldn't bother attempting contact. We don't accept requests after one or two messages either. We like to build on chat and accept ppl who we are genuinely interested in meeting

Tina "

Note to self hold off with invite send a wink first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be stricter. But if they seem okay after messaging for a bit then I'll accept their request. Even if we might not meet up. Having friend only pics does attract a lot of randomers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's short; a mixture of some of those I've met, would like to meet and those I enjoy chatting to.

Everyone will have their own reason for sending and accepting an invite so best not to automatically assume anything of it lol. If someone's happy enough for me to wreck their head then that's their fault

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I culled mine recently. deleted the ones i'm never likely to meet or don't chat anymore (or both!)

my hotlist is for people I want to meet and havent had the chance to chat yet and my friends list of for friends, people i chat to a fair bit, and people i know but havent met yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I culled mine recently. deleted the ones i'm never likely to meet or don't chat anymore (or both!)

my hotlist is for people I want to meet and havent had the chance to chat yet and my friends list of for friends, people i chat to a fair bit, and people i know but havent met yet. "
it's a pity you can't see who has hotlisted you. It might speed up the process of finding out who likes or is interested in you. Another site we were on you could see. However the rest of it was pure shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's a pity you can't see who has hotlisted you. It might speed up the process of finding out who likes or is interested in you. Another site we were on you could see. However the rest of it was pure shite. "

bingo there is an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I culled mine recently. deleted the ones i'm never likely to meet or don't chat anymore (or both!)

my hotlist is for people I want to meet and havent had the chance to chat yet and my friends list of for friends, people i chat to a fair bit, and people i know but havent met yet. it's a pity you can't see who has hotlisted you. It might speed up the process of finding out who likes or is interested in you. Another site we were on you could see. However the rest of it was pure shite. "

Hope my hotlist is never made public. Its full of those to avoid like the plague. would hate for them to get the wrong idea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's a very good way I try to talk to them first and then maybe add or ask to be a friend going straight in is not good

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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It's not a free for all with me.

My Friends list is that small you could put it on the back of a postage stamp & the Lyric's of Jen Bostic below it.

I Never accept random or cold request's if you cant bother to put a few words together ... Im not the hardest Person in the world to chat too.

On the other hand my Hotlist is over flowing guess like most here, was wondering how many can a hotlist hold , is there a limit !

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By *ildatlantic3wayCouple
over a year ago

donegal

We are new so finding our feet. Once we have chatted a while we are happy to add as friends.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

My friends are those that I meet or I have spoken to regularly. My profile is all about my pics as I don't have much written on it. I will not accept random request and my face pics are private.We all run our profiles to suit our needs not others

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