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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't have any but we wouldn't see the problem for us anyway of showing them. We see from those that hide them there verification summary is shown. Can this be hidden also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can hide your verification summary, not necessary to put up if you're showing veri's!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't have any but we wouldn't see the problem for us anyway of showing them. We see from those that hide them there verification summary is shown. Can this be hidden also. "

Yes.

People hide them for all sorts of reasons. There's lots of good reasons to hide them on here and there's a few less good. There will as many reasons for each one that hides theirs. I have only recently and will probably continue to do so but will show a potential meet if they insist as I also insist.

A green tick, the green arrow and the good friends one gets on here is what is more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine and hide the summary. I don't see it as anyones business but mine as to who I've met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the green tick shows you have see someone? Only asking cuz we have gotten mail from "women" who's been members for months with no pictures ,verifications etc that we can see looking for pictures ,friends requests . Needless to say we don't do.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"So the green tick shows you have see someone? Only asking cuz we have gotten mail from "women" who's been members for months with no pictures ,verifications etc that we can see looking for pictures ,friends requests . Needless to say we don't do. "

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Just ignore those men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the green tick shows you have see someone? Only asking cuz we have gotten mail from "women" who's been members for months with no pictures ,verifications etc that we can see looking for pictures ,friends requests . Needless to say we don't do.

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Just ignore those men!! "

How true is that !

Yes, the green tick means you have met someone in person. Still could be fake tho

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So the green tick shows you have see someone? Only asking cuz we have gotten mail from "women" who's been members for months with no pictures ,verifications etc that we can see looking for pictures ,friends requests . Needless to say we don't do. "

Green tick means that person has been meet or webcam verified.

green flag is photo verified.

your summary or your verifications can be hidden, but the tick or the flag cannot.

I display my veri's for the current year only to show i'm active. my summary is hidden because it's nobody's business how many people i've met, or in what capacity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the green tick shows you have see someone? Only asking cuz we have gotten mail from "women" who's been members for months with no pictures ,verifications etc that we can see looking for pictures ,friends requests . Needless to say we don't do.

.

Just ignore those men!!

How true is that !

Yes, the green tick means you have met someone in person. Still could be fake tho"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the green tick shows you have see someone? Only asking cuz we have gotten mail from "women" who's been members for months with no pictures ,verifications etc that we can see looking for pictures ,friends requests . Needless to say we don't do.

Green tick means that person has been meet or webcam verified.

green flag is photo verified.

your summary or your verifications can be hidden, but the tick or the flag cannot.

I display my veri's for the current year only to show i'm active. my summary is hidden because it's nobody's business how many people i've met, or in what capacity. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the green tick shows you have see someone? Only asking cuz we have gotten mail from "women" who's been members for months with no pictures ,verifications etc that we can see looking for pictures ,friends requests . Needless to say we don't do.

Green tick means that person has been meet or webcam verified.

green flag is photo verified.

your summary or your verifications can be hidden, but the tick or the flag cannot.

I display my veri's for the current year only to show i'm active. my summary is hidden because it's nobody's business how many people i've met, or in what capacity. "

I'm the same .. I display my latest veris for a wee while to prove I'm genuine and active ... As to my summary .. That's my business .. Plus might scare some people lol lol .. But seriously .. It's my business as to who & how many I've met .. As for the green flag .. Yes it shows photo verified .. and you have to have your user name and date in writing with a face pic .. So think that could be genuine .. But I agree .. Some veris could be fake .. I was chatting a while to a guy .. He sent me face pic .. Then wanted me to verify him !!!!!! .. So some veris could be fake .. Most of the time I go on gut instinct .. So far I've been lucky and met very genuine people whom most I call friends now ( of course with benefits ! Lol ) ... Just my opinion and experience ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to more glance at a persons verifications by meeting and that is about it. If they are all hidden but I know someone has meet them then it is all good.

Because I get a lot of meet requests

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The sluts hide their summary of verifications

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications "

I prefer to be called manwhore thank you very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications

I prefer to be called manwhore thank you very much. "

Yeah....I'm okay with slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like the chance to be called a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see."

Really

It's nobody's business but your one if you've played or not!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see."

If you actually met those who have verified you then it's nobody's business if you played or not.

If someone mailed me asking if i played with someone who had verified me (if it wasn't already obvious) i'd tell them the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications

I prefer to be called manwhore thank you very much.

Yeah....I'm okay with slut "

...we knew that. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

Really

It's nobody's business but your one if you've played or not!

"

I totally agree with. After all arent we all supposed to be discreet?

Am happy to be blocked as its proof that I can be trusted to be discreet and not "kiss n tell"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

If you actually met those who have verified you then it's nobody's business if you played or not.

If someone mailed me asking if i played with someone who had verified me (if it wasn't already obvious) i'd tell them the same. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

Really

It's nobody's business but your one if you've played or not!

I totally agree with. After all arent we all supposed to be discreet?

Am happy to be blocked as its proof that I can be trusted to be discreet and not "kiss n tell""

...I thought if someone who has verified you, blocks you..the veri dissappears?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see."

OMG that is mad, it's nobodys business but your own & you're right to keep your veri's shown!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

Really

It's nobody's business but your one if you've played or not!

I totally agree with. After all arent we all supposed to be discreet?

Am happy to be blocked as its proof that I can be trusted to be discreet and not "kiss n tell"...I thought if someone who has verified you, blocks you..the veri dissappears?"

I understood if the verifier block you it disappears but the person in question never verified me.

Although its their prerogative to block, which i accept, i have had too many birthdays to care.

Its humour all the way for me as the hassle becomes too burdensome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

OMG that is mad, it's nobodys business but your own & you're right to keep your veri's shown!! Xxx"

Thank you Rose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every user should manage their own profile as they see fit. If someone has a problem with it, they needn't meet you.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every user should manage their own profile as they see fit. If someone has a problem with it, they needn't meet you.

Simples"

Exactly, well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every user should manage their own profile as they see fit. If someone has a problem with it, they needn't meet you.

Simples"

That's my sentiments exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

Really

It's nobody's business but your one if you've played or not!

I totally agree with. After all arent we all supposed to be discreet?

Am happy to be blocked as its proof that I can be trusted to be discreet and not "kiss n tell"...I thought if someone who has verified you, blocks you..the veri dissappears?

I understood if the verifier block you it disappears but the person in question never verified me.

Although its their prerogative to block, which i accept, i have had too many birthdays to care.

Its humour all the way for me as the hassle becomes too burdensome."

..sorry. .I thought someone who verified you , wanted you to remove it. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

Really

It's nobody's business but your one if you've played or not!

I totally agree with. After all arent we all supposed to be discreet?

Am happy to be blocked as its proof that I can be trusted to be discreet and not "kiss n tell"...I thought if someone who has verified you, blocks you..the veri dissappears?

I understood if the verifier block you it disappears but the person in question never verified me.

Although its their prerogative to block, which i accept, i have had too many birthdays to care.

Its humour all the way for me as the hassle becomes too burdensome...sorry. .I thought someone who verified you , wanted you to remove it. .."

Awk no probs no need to apologise. Probably its the way i wrote it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder what people hope to achieve by seeing them . The only purpose they serve is to show if genuine and actually physically show up to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

Really

It's nobody's business but your one if you've played or not!

I totally agree with. After all arent we all supposed to be discreet?

Am happy to be blocked as its proof that I can be trusted to be discreet and not "kiss n tell"...I thought if someone who has verified you, blocks you..the veri dissappears?

I understood if the verifier block you it disappears but the person in question never verified me.

Although its their prerogative to block, which i accept, i have had too many birthdays to care.

Its humour all the way for me as the hassle becomes too burdensome...sorry. .I thought someone who verified you , wanted you to remove it. ..

Awk no probs no need to apologise. Probably its the way i wrote it. "

Mine are hidden to avoid the drama of someones paranoia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... "
......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are hidden cause I keep getting slagged about how baaddd I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden cause I keep getting slagged about how baaddd I am "
....are the sisters on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... ......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla....."

They do it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... "

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... ......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla.....

They do it all the time "

Indeed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i nuke my profile periodically for this exact purpose , to wipe my verifications , sick and tired of being contacted by 3rd parties asking about men who have verified me ( and its often other men claiming to be enquiring for their wife )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. "

It's been happening for as long as I've been on Fab & the time before that so it's not so recent...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... ......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla.....

They do it all the time

Indeed!! "

....we've only heard good things btw....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing what some come out with on the forums lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... ......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla.....

They do it all the time

Indeed!! ....we've only heard good things btw.... "

I presume you're meaning good things about me, yeah??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazing what some come out with on the forums lol"

Everyday is a school day on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazing what some come out with on the forums lol

Everyday is a school day on here lol"

No truer words ever spoken on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazing what some come out with on the forums lol

Everyday is a school day on here lol"

Yeah, it's a learning curve that's for sure lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have all of my veris on show .until someone started messaging certain people I had met spreading rumours and causing trouble for myself and the person that gave me the veri .. so I decided to hide them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. "

Yes they have. It's been done to me a lot lately. But gossip is gossip and most with half a brain know there is always more than one side to a story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have all of my veris on show .until someone started messaging certain people I had met spreading rumours and causing trouble for myself and the person that gave me the veri .. so I decided to hide them.

"

I've heard of this happening on numerous occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden cause I keep getting slagged about how baaddd I am ....are the sisters on here? "

Yep

Wish they'd stop fighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden cause I keep getting slagged about how baaddd I am ....are the sisters on here?

Yep

Wish they'd stop fighting

"

Aww noooooo, not Pam again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden cause I keep getting slagged about how baaddd I am ....are the sisters on here?

Yep

Wish they'd stop fighting

"

Your very good with your hand Y

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... "

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!"

I just tell them I don't pimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

I just tell them I don't pimp "

Lol will be using that line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

I just tell them I don't pimp "

Pmsl you tell them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons.

Yes they have. It's been done to me a lot lately. But gossip is gossip and most with half a brain know there is always more than one side to a story. "

Not that i am making any insinuations here but i was always told theres 3 sides to every story. Your side, tgeir side and the truth. Unfortunately you cant influence which side people want to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine hidden because I was getting pestered with people asking to pass on a good word for them with some of the people I have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have all of my veris on show .until someone started messaging certain people I had met spreading rumours and causing trouble for myself and the person that gave me the veri .. so I decided to hide them.

"

This. Mine are now hidden and will show if a meet is to be arranged but otherwise it's closed from public view now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons.

Yes they have. It's been done to me a lot lately. But gossip is gossip and most with half a brain know there is always more than one side to a story.

Not that i am making any insinuations here but i was always told theres 3 sides to every story. Your side, tgeir side and the truth. Unfortunately you cant influence which side people want to believe. "

Yeah they want to believe the side they deem to be true but it's not always the case because people exaggerate things, making things worse than they actually are, making the story bigger, it's the stirrers that cause the most problems.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden cause I keep getting slagged about how baaddd I am ....are the sisters on here?

Yep

Wish they'd stop fighting

Your very good with your hand Y "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons.

Yes they have. It's been done to me a lot lately. But gossip is gossip and most with half a brain know there is always more than one side to a story.

Not that i am making any insinuations here but i was always told theres 3 sides to every story. Your side, tgeir side and the truth. Unfortunately you cant influence which side people want to believe.

Yeah they want to believe the side they deem to be true but it's not always the case because people exaggerate things, making things worse than they actually are, making the story bigger, it's the stirrers that cause the most problems..... "

Isnt it awful what we all have to do to have a quieter life on here. Just wish this would all stop and we can get on with enjoying the essence of Fab again. Probably more hope of me becoming Pope though but i live in hope!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... ......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla.....

They do it all the time

Indeed!! ....we've only heard good things btw....

I presume you're meaning good things about me, yeah?? "

......oh no rose.....we only heard how bad you are.. ...in a good way. ..if you get my meaning. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden cause I keep getting slagged about how baaddd I am ....are the sisters on here?

Yep

Wish they'd stop fighting

"

...are they fighting over you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications "

Yep .. I'm a slut .. And proud of it .. Every single user here on fab has the right to use their profile as they see fit and as to what suits them personally .. Nobody else business .. If someone don't like a profile because of hidden veris or verification summaries ( too many .. Too few .. Too old a veri

.. ) ... Come off the profile and move on !! Plenty on here who meets each individual's preference .. There's always someone for someone here in this mad fab world of ours .. Be adult .. Just so simple !! Duuuhhh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see."

Well said mr Barney bare .. Well said !! Xx

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications

Yep .. I'm a slut .. And proud of it .. Every single user here on fab has the right to use their profile as they see fit and as to what suits them personally .. Nobody else business .. If someone don't like a profile because of hidden veris or verification summaries ( too many .. Too few .. Too old a veri

.. ) ... Come off the profile and move on !! Plenty on here who meets each individual's preference .. There's always someone for someone here in this mad fab world of ours .. Be adult .. Just so simple !! Duuuhhh lol "

Agreed we re not everyones cuppa tea but we re somebodys shot of tequila

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications

Yep .. I'm a slut .. And proud of it .. Every single user here on fab has the right to use their profile as they see fit and as to what suits them personally .. Nobody else business .. If someone don't like a profile because of hidden veris or verification summaries ( too many .. Too few .. Too old a veri

.. ) ... Come off the profile and move on !! Plenty on here who meets each individual's preference .. There's always someone for someone here in this mad fab world of ours .. Be adult .. Just so simple !! Duuuhhh lol "

Well put and i agree (not the slut bit though as youre a lovely woman who is using Fab in the way its meant to be used and the same way the rest of us.want to - without the dramas!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see.

Well said mr Barney bare .. Well said !! Xx "

. Thanks Mags xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications

Yep .. I'm a slut .. And proud of it .. Every single user here on fab has the right to use their profile as they see fit and as to what suits them personally .. Nobody else business .. If someone don't like a profile because of hidden veris or verification summaries ( too many .. Too few .. Too old a veri

.. ) ... Come off the profile and move on !! Plenty on here who meets each individual's preference .. There's always someone for someone here in this mad fab world of ours .. Be adult .. Just so simple !! Duuuhhh lol

Agreed we re not everyones cuppa tea but we re somebodys shot of tequila "

Well said Ladies.

As for name caller... rejection can taint your view or out a bad attitude but nice to see that the higher road is clear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sluts hide their summary of verifications

Yep .. I'm a slut .. And proud of it .. Every single user here on fab has the right to use their profile as they see fit and as to what suits them personally .. Nobody else business .. If someone don't like a profile because of hidden veris or verification summaries ( too many .. Too few .. Too old a veri

.. ) ... Come off the profile and move on !! Plenty on here who meets each individual's preference .. There's always someone for someone here in this mad fab world of ours .. Be adult .. Just so simple !! Duuuhhh lol

Agreed we re not everyones cuppa tea but we re somebodys shot of tequila

Well said Ladies.

As for name caller... rejection can taint your view or out a bad attitude but nice to see that the higher road is clear!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... ......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla.....

They do it all the time

Indeed!! ....we've only heard good things btw....

I presume you're meaning good things about me, yeah?? ......oh no rose.....we only heard how bad you are.. ...in a good way. ..if you get my meaning. .. "

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!"

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway.... ......jesus I've never heard of anyone doing that. .we wouldn't have the balls to contact someone we hadn't chatted with before, to ask them about a third party. Having said that, people talk..and we've had friends say to us..I hear you're meeting so and so...bla bla.....

They do it all the time

Indeed!! ....we've only heard good things btw....

I presume you're meaning good things about me, yeah?? ......oh no rose.....we only heard how bad you are.. ...in a good way. ..if you get my meaning. ..

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!! "

....exactly. ..

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!! "

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Your monthly emoji allowance will be used up soon!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!!

.

Your monthly emoji allowance will be used up soon!! "

.....im up to my neck in emoji debt....is there any end to this horror. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!""

I am not on about divisions in anyway. I am referring to guy's who think contacting a friend of mine increases their chances with me or my friend. That isn't how it works for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!""

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!"

I am not on about divisions in anyway. I am referring to guy's who think contacting a friend of mine increases their chances with me or my friend. That isn't how it works for me personally "

I agree there if that's why they've contacted them. However I guess it may be hard to know sometimes as they may also have been interested in your friend too. It's a small community on fab Ireland so there's bound tobe alot of crossovers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!"

I am not on about divisions in anyway. I am referring to guy's who think contacting a friend of mine increases their chances with me or my friend. That isn't how it works for me personally "

I agree there if that's why they've contacted them. However I guess it may be hard to know sometimes as they may also have been interested in your friend too. It's a small community on fab Ireland so there's bound to be alot of crossovers.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

I am not on about divisions in anyway. I am referring to guy's who think contacting a friend of mine increases their chances with me or my friend. That isn't how it works for me personally "

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Nor me!

They are probably too scared to contact you directly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to judge but if somebody is being nasty to me for whatever the reason, I can then judge on that person & I decide what to do or not do, whether to ignore it or not......

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it. "

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I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it.

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I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!"

It sure is Sub!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it.

.

I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

It sure is Sub!! "

.

Oh sorry!! I said something sensible!

Apologies to all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it.

.

I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

It sure is Sub!!

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Oh sorry!! I said something sensible!

Apologies to all! "

You've gone and done it now

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it.

.

I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

It sure is Sub!!

.

Oh sorry!! I said something sensible!

Apologies to all!

You've gone and done it now "

.

I know, I know......

Looks like I'll be spending the night in the phone box!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it.

.

I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

It sure is Sub!!

.

Oh sorry!! I said something sensible!

Apologies to all!

You've gone and done it now

.

I know, I know......

Looks like I'll be spending the night in the phone box! "

Don't forget your can of lilt & a packet of C&O crisps!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

.

I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

It sure is Sub!!

.

Oh sorry!! I said something sensible!

Apologies to all!

You've gone and done it now

.

I know, I know......

Looks like I'll be spending the night in the phone box!

Don't forget your can of lilt & a packet of C&O crisps!! "

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Am I allowed a full can?

Darn phoneline was chewed by someone's sheep and Internet is lousy!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!!

.

Your monthly emoji allowance will be used up soon!! .....im up to my neck in emoji debt....is there any end to this horror. . "

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Should have stayed in the EU, they are restricted there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging in Ireland is such a small scene that there will always be friction and disagreement. Rejection or misunderstanding can lead to rivalry, that in turn can get out of hand until there is clearly divided camps.

Rejection isn't nice. And sometimes we lash out at others when this happens. If you think about it, it's actually quite shocking there isn't more division on here.

And Chinese whispers and misunderstanding are keystones of the internet. There is no forum ever created that doesn't have people falling out over poor grammar changing the interpretation of sentences and messages.

Or one half of a conversation deciding they don't want to talk anymore. The one side ends up chasing the other and that too can lead to passive aggressive behaviour.

We all need to be a little less sensitive and a little more empathic to our fellow members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

.

I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

It sure is Sub!!

.

Oh sorry!! I said something sensible!

Apologies to all!

You've gone and done it now

.

I know, I know......

Looks like I'll be spending the night in the phone box!

Don't forget your can of lilt & a packet of C&O crisps!!

.

Am I allowed a full can?

Darn phoneline was chewed by someone's sheep and Internet is lousy!"

....the way we heard it..it was the sheep that got chewed,along with some roast potatoes and a nice spoonful of mint sauce...but it was only a bit of gossip we heard..so we wouldn't repeat it of course...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

.

I'm too old and ugly to listen to gossip. I take people as I find them..

Life is too short for all that crap!

It sure is Sub!!

.

Oh sorry!! I said something sensible!

Apologies to all!

You've gone and done it now

.

I know, I know......

Looks like I'll be spending the night in the phone box!

Don't forget your can of lilt & a packet of C&O crisps!!

.

Am I allowed a full can?

Darn phoneline was chewed by someone's sheep and Internet is lousy!....the way we heard it..it was the sheep that got chewed,along with some roast potatoes and a nice spoonful of mint sauce...but it was only a bit of gossip we heard..so we wouldn't repeat it of course... "

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That was purely by accident! Not my fault one jumped into stove oven to get dry and my gran's mother shut the door without seeing it!

I was outside sitting on porch watching my gran run around trying to catch the Mule at the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging in Ireland is such a small scene that there will always be friction and disagreement. Rejection or misunderstanding can lead to rivalry, that in turn can get out of hand until there is clearly divided camps.

Rejection isn't nice. And sometimes we lash out at others when this happens. If you think about it, it's actually quite shocking there isn't more division on here.

And Chinese whispers and misunderstanding are keystones of the internet. There is no forum ever created that doesn't have people falling out over poor grammar changing the interpretation of sentences and messages.

Or one half of a conversation deciding they don't want to talk anymore. The one side ends up chasing the other and that too can lead to passive aggressive behaviour.

We all need to be a little less sensitive and a little more empathic to our fellow members"

Agree totally here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!!

.

Your monthly emoji allowance will be used up soon!! .....im up to my neck in emoji debt....is there any end to this horror. .

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Should have stayed in the EU, they are restricted there! "

.....excuse me....i voted against brexit....in typical South Armagh fashion...17 times!!!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!!

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Your monthly emoji allowance will be used up soon!! .....im up to my neck in emoji debt....is there any end to this horror. .

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Should have stayed in the EU, they are restricted there! .....excuse me....i voted against brexit....in typical South Armagh fashion...17 times!!!!"

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Ahhh no wonder you have so many emoji!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well, I have to go by the smiley emojis lol!!!!

.

Your monthly emoji allowance will be used up soon!! .....im up to my neck in emoji debt....is there any end to this horror. .

.

Should have stayed in the EU, they are restricted there! .....excuse me....i voted against brexit....in typical South Armagh fashion...17 times!!!!

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Ahhh no wonder you have so many emoji!! "

....perks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to judge but if somebody is being nasty to me for whatever the reason, I can then judge on that person & I decide what to do or not do, whether to ignore it or not...... "

Awh you shouldn't have deleted your comment you may have been the first person to agree with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to judge but if somebody is being nasty to me for whatever the reason, I can then judge on that person & I decide what to do or not do, whether to ignore it or not......

Awh you shouldn't have deleted your comment you may have been the first person to agree with me "

Aww sorry about that & I do agree with your comment but I felt I didn't explain what I wanted to say very well so I deleted it & started over lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it. "

I agree for the most part, I like to hear both sides though before passing judgement..... I don't like to take sides especially if it doesn't concern me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!"

Exactly

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it.

I agree for the most part, I like to hear both sides though before passing judgement..... I don't like to take sides especially if it doesn't concern me..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to judge but if somebody is being nasty to me for whatever the reason, I can then judge on that person & I decide what to do or not do, whether to ignore it or not......

Awh you shouldn't have deleted your comment you may have been the first person to agree with me

Aww sorry about that & I do agree with your comment but I felt I didn't explain what I wanted to say very well so I deleted it & started over lol!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Agreed, hate that shite or contacting who has verified me and thinks if I get in with one then the other will follow.... idiotic behaviour!

.

So it's not my imagination that there is an underlying recent "division"!

Any fool can see it! (I did!! )

Plain the be seen on the threads, by who replies to who etc.

As for Veris... If I'm verified by a female in one "camp" then I fall out with females/males/couples in the "other camp"!!

Just the sad way FAB has gone!!

As a guy on this... I have some Veris showing, as I feel it is needed to try to prove my profile is genuine!

They are what they are, accept them or not, and it is no one else business what we did or didn't do!!!!!

How many more Veris do I need to be proven genuine?? NONE!!

IF I do meet others then a Veri "Genuine guy" or whatever would suffice, not a long-winded documentary as it is no one else's business as to anything that may or may not have happened!!

No point in anyone contacting me about Who I met, what happened either!!

You'll get the answer that "It's none of your business!!"

I am not on about divisions in anyway. I am referring to guy's who think contacting a friend of mine increases their chances with me or my friend. That isn't how it works for me personally

I agree there if that's why they've contacted them. However I guess it may be hard to know sometimes as they may also have been interested in your friend too. It's a small community on fab Ireland so there's bound tobe alot of crossovers. "

Lmfao really!

Obviously it was openly discussed and unlike some I would not dare to make an assumption like that.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Sod this... I'm having a fry-up!!

Can't make out if we are all agreeing with each other or not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod this... I'm having a fry-up!!

Can't make out if we are all agreeing with each other or not!! "

Yum yum

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Sod this... I'm having a fry-up!!

Can't make out if we are all agreeing with each other or not!!

Yum yum"

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.and a few pints of Organic beer brewed locally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod this... I'm having a fry-up!!

Can't make out if we are all agreeing with each other or not!!

Yum yum

.

.and a few pints of Organic beer brewed locally!

"

How organic

Leitrim brew mmm let me think lol

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Sod this... I'm having a fry-up!!

Can't make out if we are all agreeing with each other or not!!

Yum yum

.

.and a few pints of Organic beer brewed locally!

How organic

Leitrim brew mmm let me think lol"

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The Old Brewery in Drumshanbo reopened!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Someone mentioned above that there are three sides to every story, yours, theirs and the truth. While this is true people will always believe their friend's side. So ultimately they will only hear one side, believe it and run with it. "

I can't believe I'm doing this

But you never spoke a truer word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. "

or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show my recent veris but its to acknowlege and appreciate the efforts put into writing it by the author and the great time i had in their company.

However I have been slated as a liar because of assumptions made and blocked by an individual on here because I refused to say if i played or not with those who verified me.

I will continue to show my veris despite the hassle unless i am asked by the verifier to remove them.

So until then, theyre up for all to see."

its all in the veris lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy "

That's a shame. I guess veris especially is a smaller community like the Irish forum can be more divisive than good. It would seem so by reading many of the recent posts.

It's obviously two edge. I won't contact anyone who has them hidden as i just assume rightly or wrongly their hiding something or not meeting. For me the veri's are a better litmus test than the profile by itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback "

That'll be all of them then

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

That'll be all of them then "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback "

Aren't you smart lol!!!!

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback "

I know it's tongue in cheek but that's one problem. Lack of honesty and therfore a underlying distrust that goes ahead of most on here.

I have on my profile...won't meet if you've lots of veris. Someone on here accussed me of being hypocritical and inconsistant because I met someone with lots of veris. Well my answer is rules are occasionally broken. In this case we became friends over a long time. We got to know each other very well and trust and understanding implicit as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

I know it's tongue in cheek but that's one problem. Lack of honesty and therfore a underlying distrust that goes ahead of most on here.

I have on my profile...won't meet if you've lots of veris. Someone on here accussed me of being hypocritical and inconsistant because I met someone with lots of veris. Well my answer is rules are occasionally broken. In this case we became friends over a long time. We got to know each other very well and trust and understanding implicit as a result. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

I know it's tongue in cheek but that's one problem. Lack of honesty and therfore a underlying distrust that goes ahead of most on here.

I have on my profile...won't meet if you've lots of veris. Someone on here accussed me of being hypocritical and inconsistant because I met someone with lots of veris. Well my answer is rules are occasionally broken. In this case we became friends over a long time. We got to know each other very well and trust and understanding implicit as a result.

"

Too many veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

I know it's tongue in cheek but that's one problem. Lack of honesty and therfore a underlying distrust that goes ahead of most on here.

I have on my profile...won't meet if you've lots of veris. Someone on here accussed me of being hypocritical and inconsistant because I met someone with lots of veris. Well my answer is rules are occasionally broken. In this case we became friends over a long time. We got to know each other very well and trust and understanding implicit as a result.

Too many veris

"

Yeah, what can I say I'm the exception to the rule, it happens!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

I know it's tongue in cheek but that's one problem. Lack of honesty and therfore a underlying distrust that goes ahead of most on here.

I have on my profile...won't meet if you've lots of veris. Someone on here accussed me of being hypocritical and inconsistant because I met someone with lots of veris. Well my answer is rules are occasionally broken. In this case we became friends over a long time. We got to know each other very well and trust and understanding implicit as a result.

Too many veris

Yeah, what can I say I'm the exception to the rule, it happens!!! "

Drea ea ea ea eam dream dream dream. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy "

Wow!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

That's a shame. I guess veris especially is a smaller community like the Irish forum can be more divisive than good. It would seem so by reading many of the recent posts.

It's obviously two edge. I won't contact anyone who has them hidden as i just assume rightly or wrongly their hiding something or not meeting. For me the veri's are a better litmus test than the profile by itself. "

So you won't contact anyone with their veris hidden cos you think they have something to hide .....hmm, yours are hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only show my social verifications, my play verifications i keep private xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

That's a shame. I guess veris especially is a smaller community like the Irish forum can be more divisive than good. It would seem so by reading many of the recent posts.

It's obviously two edge. I won't contact anyone who has them hidden as i just assume rightly or wrongly their hiding something or not meeting. For me the veri's are a better litmus test than the profile by itself.

So you won't contact anyone with their veris hidden cos you think they have something to hide .....hmm, yours are hidden "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

That's a shame. I guess veris especially is a smaller community like the Irish forum can be more divisive than good. It would seem so by reading many of the recent posts.

It's obviously two edge. I won't contact anyone who has them hidden as i just assume rightly or wrongly their hiding something or not meeting. For me the veri's are a better litmus test than the profile by itself.

So you won't contact anyone with their veris hidden cos you think they have something to hide .....hmm, yours are hidden "

Maybe he has a good reason for hiding his veri's....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine hidden because of hassle in the past from green eyed persons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

That'll be all of them then "

...we're going to put you're one up...everybody will know you're terrible secret then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

That'll be all of them then ...we're going to put you're one up...everybody will know you're terrible secret then.... "

No, no. please don't

ah, fuck it. Go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just hide the ones from the gangbangers who like anal... bareback

That'll be all of them then ...we're going to put you're one up...everybody will know you're terrible secret then....

No, no. please don't

ah, fuck it. Go on"

....no one warned me...why should I...

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

That's a shame. I guess veris especially is a smaller community like the Irish forum can be more divisive than good. It would seem so by reading many of the recent posts.

It's obviously two edge. I won't contact anyone who has them hidden as i just assume rightly or wrongly their hiding something or not meeting. For me the veri's are a better litmus test than the profile by itself.

So you won't contact anyone with their veris hidden cos you think they have something to hide .....hmm, yours are hidden "

My veris are mainly socials from meets and greets. To be judge on that is ridiculous. I very rarely play and i am fussy. Who I play with is between me and them. For those that refuse to meet me because of my veris is their lost not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

That's a shame. I guess veris especially is a smaller community like the Irish forum can be more divisive than good. It would seem so by reading many of the recent posts.

It's obviously two edge. I won't contact anyone who has them hidden as i just assume rightly or wrongly their hiding something or not meeting. For me the veri's are a better litmus test than the profile by itself.

So you won't contact anyone with their veris hidden cos you think they have something to hide .....hmm, yours are hidden

My veris are mainly socials from meets and greets. To be judge on that is ridiculous. I very rarely play and i am fussy. Who I play with is between me and them. For those that refuse to meet me because of my veris is their lost not mine. "

As are mine...

Couldn't agree with you more....

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over a year ago

Best those stay deleted...

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy "

Those that do this are rotten to the core and need to take a long hard look at themselves and at the reason why they're here. This is meant to be fun not jealous idiots trying to ruin it for everybody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best those stay deleted... "
.....you're rattling cages Annie. ..ha ha. ..it doesn't take much. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best those stay deleted... .....you're rattling cages Annie. ..ha ha. ..it doesn't take much. .. "

She writes her best unprintable stuff at 2am in the morning our Annie does lol

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over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

Those that do this are rotten to the core and need to take a long hard look at themselves and at the reason why they're here. This is meant to be fun not jealous idiots trying to ruin it for everybody else."

I totally agree here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best those stay deleted... "

Dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

Those that do this are rotten to the core and need to take a long hard look at themselves and at the reason why they're here. This is meant to be fun not jealous idiots trying to ruin it for everybody else."

Many seem to fail to understand that if someone chooses to filter out people for whatever reason then it's their choice. Its valid whether one agrees with it or not. To say it's their loss is a bit childish. It's no one's loss if they don't want something. It's only a loss if that's what you're wanting but can't have it....and there seems to be an element of that permitting through many of these threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People, people!!

We all have different reasons for not wanting to meet a person & yeah, we all get turned down at some point...... so bleedin' well what, it happens, get over it....... There's a few I'd like to be with too but for whatever reason or other they don't want to be with me..... but hey that's fine, I'm not going to argue the toss...... one or 2 have become my friend despite it & that's even better in my eyes!!

There are people who don't travel for a meet but they might make an exception for 1 or 2 people, it happens!! I have loads of veri's because of all the socials I go to & if somebody blocks me for that reason & somebody did with me actually but hey, that's fine, that's their perogative & on the other hand if somebody decides to meet me despite all the veri's well then that's jolly good lol!!!!

But if you're going to be getting jealous about it & getting abusive at every opportunity on the forums just because a person met Y person instead of yourself....... well then that's a sad case of affairs...... be the better person & accept it instead of getting all narky about it........ block the person if necessary & move on.....

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People, people!!

We all have different reasons for not wanting to meet a person & yeah, we all get turned down at some point...... so bleedin' well what, it happens, get over it....... There's a few I'd like to be with too but for whatever reason or other they don't want to be with me..... but hey that's fine, I'm not going to argue the toss...... one or 2 have become my friend despite it & that's even better in my eyes!!

There are people who don't travel for a meet but they might make an exception for 1 or 2 people, it happens!! I have loads of veri's because of all the socials I go to & if somebody blocks me for that reason & somebody did with me actually but hey, that's fine, that's their perogative & on the other hand if somebody decides to meet me despite all the veri's well then that's jolly good lol!!!!

But if you're going to be getting jealous about it & getting abusive at every opportunity on the forums just because a person met Y person instead of yourself....... well then that's a sad case of affairs...... be the better person & accept it instead of getting all narky about it........ block the person if necessary & move on.....

Xxx"

This definitely isn't the site to be on if you get jealous!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"

This definitely isn't the site to be on if you get jealous!"

It's actually the worst site you could be on.

I do get envious (there's a difference) when i hear about all the socials and parties I can't go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo Loncav but sadly there are jealous people here, it's ridiculous, there's somebody for everybody on this site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This definitely isn't the site to be on if you get jealous!

It's actually the worst site you could be on.

I do get envious (there's a difference) when i hear about all the socials and parties I can't go to "

Could you not get the weekend off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This definitely isn't the site to be on if you get jealous!

It's actually the worst site you could be on.

I do get envious (there's a difference) when i hear about all the socials and parties I can't go to

Could you not get the weekend off?"

It's not always easy to get a weekend off for some people...... work & family commitments play a big part, that & the expense, hotels, etc lol!!!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's the people who contact the veri's to get more info or to cause trouble are the shitty ones..... nobody has the right to do that, well, that's my opinion on the matter anyway....

Some of that been going on recently. Passing it on to other friends to as they talk about meets or for other reasons. or slating the character of a fabber to their fab friends and giving put personal details of their lives and how they were used by them and had their heart broke etc and then u see a fantastic veri done by them for that person .. As said its all in the veris ... Pmsl pmsl . My veris are hidden to protect the lovely gentlemen i have met and to protect their privacy

Those that do this are rotten to the core and need to take a long hard look at themselves and at the reason why they're here. This is meant to be fun not jealous idiots trying to ruin it for everybody else.

Many seem to fail to understand that if someone chooses to filter out people for whatever reason then it's their choice. Its valid whether one agrees with it or not. To say it's their loss is a bit childish. It's no one's loss if they don't want something. It's only a loss if that's what you're wanting but can't have it....and there seems to be an element of that permitting through many of these threads. "

Sorry you feel it's childish but "it's their lost" was a figure of speech. Not intended to offend any one.

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This definitely isn't the site to be on if you get jealous!

It's actually the worst site you could be on.

I do get envious (there's a difference) when i hear about all the socials and parties I can't go to

Could you not get the weekend off?

It's not always easy to get a weekend off for some people...... work & family commitments play a big part, that & the expense, hotels, etc lol!!! "

Oh I know. Its just a shame

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This definitely isn't the site to be on if you get jealous!

It's actually the worst site you could be on.

I do get envious (there's a difference) when i hear about all the socials and parties I can't go to

Could you not get the weekend off?

It's not always easy to get a weekend off for some people...... work & family commitments play a big part, that & the expense, hotels, etc lol!!!

Oh I know. Its just a shame "

I can't even go to them all & I've been to a lot lol!!!

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"Best those stay deleted... .....you're rattling cages Annie. ..ha ha. ..it doesn't take much. ..

She writes her best unprintable stuff at 2am in the morning our Annie does lol "

Honestly it's the only time I get to read the threads...

My mailbox is bulging....

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over a year ago


"People, people!!

We all have different reasons for not wanting to meet a person & yeah, we all get turned down at some point...... so bleedin' well what, it happens, get over it....... There's a few I'd like to be with too but for whatever reason or other they don't want to be with me..... but hey that's fine, I'm not going to argue the toss...... one or 2 have become my friend despite it & that's even better in my eyes!!

There are people who don't travel for a meet but they might make an exception for 1 or 2 people, it happens!! I have loads of veri's because of all the socials I go to & if somebody blocks me for that reason & somebody did with me actually but hey, that's fine, that's their perogative & on the other hand if somebody decides to meet me despite all the veri's well then that's jolly good lol!!!!

But if you're going to be getting jealous about it & getting abusive at every opportunity on the forums just because a person met Y person instead of yourself....... well then that's a sad case of affairs...... be the better person & accept it instead of getting all narky about it........ block the person if necessary & move on.....

Xxx"

I agree Rosie...

But some are just plain hypocritical....

And have way too high opinions of themselves...

And hate to be told that too...

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