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By *s2b3c OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm just curious about what people here do when they attend a swingers party and there's interest from someone you're not interested in?

If it's a small gathering how does it not get awkward after you've just told someone they're not what you're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You generally can read if someone interested or not and if you have to say no or you are on the recieving end of a no you have to be mature enough to accept it and still have a good time without bad feeling...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If you can't take rejection in a mature manner then you've no business being at a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use ur 9 mil say fuk off

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

U definitely don't say that u just politly say sorry ur not for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're attending a party, we will know who else is going. ..we will usually have met before on our own. ..so no doesn't come up....simple really.

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By *s2b3c OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I do think it's a good idea to know who's attending beforehand, even a list of usernames.

I know it's life but you just don't want to see one person get rejected by everyone else there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think it's a good idea to know who's attending beforehand, even a list of usernames.

I know it's life but you just don't want to see one person get rejected by everyone else there. "

Usually the organisers don't give out a list of names causes it usually ends up causing hassle if they do. As one person don't want to go because another person be there etc.

We been in this situation of having to say sorry not interested and it's hard as we felt bad. Also it's awarked as well after wards for all. But it's best to say it at the start and not lead anyone on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think it's a good idea to know who's attending beforehand, even a list of usernames.

I know it's life but you just don't want to see one person get rejected by everyone else there.

Usually the organisers don't give out a list of names causes it usually ends up causing hassle if they do. As one person don't want to go because another person be there etc.

We been in this situation of having to say sorry not interested and it's hard as we felt bad. Also it's awarked as well after wards for all. But it's best to say it at the start and not lead anyone on."
...well I suppose for bigger parties it wouldn't be practical. We would only be interested in 3/4 couples maximum. ...boring I know. .

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