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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Inactive recently as I've met someone. Non site related. I've spoken to her about being on here. Should I be here if she actually doesn't mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can answer that

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If she doesn't mind it's absolutely fine, however, it may be her saying she's fine with it until the reality of it hits so be very careful.

Remember to respect what she considers to be a relationship and make sure you understand which boundaries, if any, she would like in place. Communication is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inactive recently as I've met someone. Non site related. I've spoken to her about being on here. Should I be here if she actually doesn't mind? "

playing with fire.... its hot until you get burnt then first aid is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inactive recently as I've met someone. Non site related. I've spoken to her about being on here. Should I be here if she actually doesn't mind? "

Well she might think it's in the past but the fact you rejoined might be a different kettle of fish.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only u can answer that question but the fact that u are even asking the question says it doesn't sit easy with u. If she were on the site herself and u both had access to each other's accounts and everything was above board and total transparency, then fair enough. But tbh, starting out in a new relationship do u really want to bring suspicion and doubt into bed with u both?? Eventually it may bring forth insecurities that would never have surfaced other than in relation to ur presence on site. Is it a chance u are willing to take or do u want to give this new relationship every opportunity to flourish??

U may be inactive but just being online can make her feel like 'she is not enough' and she will look for someone to whom she is 'enough'

It's a delicate subject. I wish u all the best whatever u decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you went inactive when you met her speaks volumes. I'd be annoyed if a guy I was in the early stages of getting to know was on here. Down the line maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inactive recently as I've met someone. Non site related. I've spoken to her about being on here. Should I be here if she actually doesn't mind? "
.....is she on herself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no harm , if your just doodling about on the forums and perving . You mite want to stick up a little line on your profile just saying your browsing the menu but not wanting to partake at the min , however , be prepared for hate mail and cnuts telling you to get off site if you do ! ( yep , happened to me )

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