FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone use the Irish chat room?

By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Is it me or does it feel like it's separated into clique and non-clique? If you're not in the clique you don't get any kind of acknowledgement/response.

The longer I'm here the more it begins to feel like a secondary school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You put in what you get out ...join in .mit does take time but once you go in regulary and actually chat people get to know u

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Drop in there every now and again never had a problem well excluding pub kicking out time u get some messers in but always a laugh to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in a couple of times and always made welcome and included..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I've ever used it. The chat rooms confuse me. All those little boxes popping up with pm's - you reply to one and the rest sod off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a look for the first time last week and was shocked and impressed it's like a whole other side of Fab

. Was made feel welcome by who was there though

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I pop in every now and then, and I'm made welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never gone in to it, wouldn't have a clue how it works

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It's nice go chat n have a laugh n get to know people on here . U can air ur views n voice ur opinion .

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By *ncognito4nowWoman
over a year ago

Greater (much greater) Belfast

Aww give it time.... I'll say hi to you if I see you x

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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I suppose I'm comparing it to the Scottish and General room.

When I entered both of those it was friendliness and welcome to the site from the beginning whereas the Irish room just had about 6/7 people chatting among themselves and ignored everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose I'm comparing it to the Scottish and General room.

When I entered both of those it was friendliness and welcome to the site from the beginning whereas the Irish room just had about 6/7 people chatting among themselves and ignored everyone else. "

Always get that vibe when I've popped in to have a look although to be fair I never really join in. I usually just have a nosey. Always find there is too much noise in there to have a coherent conversation. Probably good for a laugh and the craic though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the Irish chat room alot and I am always friendly to people that come in! There are a lot of regular chat users who know each other and would be chatting amongst themselves but just join in and chat away, spark up a conversation with someone, we are all friendly, well for the most part!

Katie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or does it feel like it's separated into clique and non-clique? If you're not in the clique you don't get any kind of acknowledgement/response.

The longer I'm here the more it begins to feel like a secondary school.

I popped in a few times when I first joined and felt it a bit like a few regulars chatting to themselves and obviously on their own wavelength, I felt like a gooseberry....I'm sure if I'd been a female I might have been made more welcome. Chat rooms are in themselves generally a group who know each other and want to chat in a familiar group. Some are comfortable with that others better one to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pop in every now and then and the only reason I don't don't more is because I'm a day dreamer and never keep up with the conversation. It's a good laugh and I've always been made feel very welcome. As most have already said you get out what you put in

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

I pop in now & then ,show my face but only accompany-ed by an adult .

Id Say there a good Brady bunch of people if met out.

Jump in with your two feet first see how you go. good luck.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I much prefer the chat to the forums. Its way more interactive.

Turn the pms off if you a newbie to it and just join in as much as you can.

A day or so and you will have the hang of it.

And yes some of us know each other but i talk to anyone and everyone and there are lots like that in there.

Always good to see new faces.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It may seem like there's only a few but anyone can join in n voice their opinion . There is a few regulars on like myself but everyone is more than welcome . Most of d top regular r away for d weekend .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them. "

i go in there now and again,

dont take crap from anyone..

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By *ob GobbMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh no, never use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

i go in there now and again,

dont take crap from anyone..

It wasn't anyone giving shit. It was just 2 or 3 women that were ruling the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them. "

So little difference than the rest of fab then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them. "

This.

The lady holding court is usually the one with her tits out on cam.

No problem with it. Each to their own. Not for me though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

This.

The lady holding court is usually the one with her tits out on cam.

No problem with it. Each to their own. Not for me though..."

Nor for me

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them. "

Bit like the forums so

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By *trongcuddlesMan
over a year ago

Europe

Haha I know what you mean, sometimes I am there and banter flows but majority of the time I'm ignored too, having cam on helps.

But I only enter the Irish chat to find Irish members , for fun and flirting bi chat room is the one I find more fun and for checking talent it's the directing rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

i go in there now and again,

dont take crap from anyone..

It wasn't anyone giving shit. It was just 2 or 3 women that were ruling the room "

yes, you don't have the same opinion on a subject, god forbid.. then you got the white nights. same as on here..

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I drop in and out of it. Might be in every day for a week one week and not back for a fortnight. I don't find it cliquey at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried once went so fast was like in a room full of Glaswegians couldnt keep up so left but the banter was friendly enough well what i could keep up with it was...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

So little difference than the rest of fab then...

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....good man, get your shot in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

Bit like the forums so

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.......dear dear....victims everywhere tonight. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or does it feel like it's separated into clique and non-clique? If you're not in the clique you don't get any kind of acknowledgement/response.

The longer I'm here the more it begins to feel like a secondary school.

The stuff you were saying the other day when we were there no one was going to chat to you. What do you expect. A lot of people ended up blocking you over this so they couldn't see your posts anymore. Mabey this is why there not chatting to you. Just an option here.

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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Is it me or does it feel like it's separated into clique and non-clique? If you're not in the clique you don't get any kind of acknowledgement/response.

The longer I'm here the more it begins to feel like a secondary school.

What are you talking about? You mean when the guy was talking on the video and I was replying in the chat? and then one guy called me an idiot and another said I was asking personal questions lol.

That was hilarious, I was bantering with a Scottish guy about Scotland being useless and he was asking me Q's and I was asking him the same.

One person even admitted they weren't listening to him speak on cam so it looked far worse seeing one side.

I then apologised for all my text on the chat and wasn't actually able to pm at the time.

It was fine and dandy when your chat was all over it but there was an issue because you couldn't see your conversation over mine.

Two people emailed me to apologise for making comments without realising it was banter between me and the guy but thanks for your input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to use the chat room a lot the last time I was here. This time it just seems a little dead anytime I've been in it, so havent really been bothered.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

Bit like the forums so

.......dear dear....victims everywhere tonight. .

I'm no victim. It's the truth and everybody knows it. A few women on a power trip and a few spineless guys sucking up to them afraid they won't get meets. I'm my own person and don't need to suck up to anyone to get a meet.

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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Hence why it seems cliquey to me, you can all spam it with your conversation amongst 5 of you (20 people in the room) and the second someone else was talks more where it became difficult to see YOUR conversation, they need to express their dissatisfaction.

Apologies, cocks and flirting was obviously more important than us having a laugh.

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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

Bit like the forums so

.......dear dear....victims everywhere tonight. .

Looking back on it, that sums it up right there. If you're not licking arse you're not worth a hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just log on when I feel like broadcasting my wanking to spice things up. I prefer forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I joined I always went into the chat room and I've to say I've never had a problem with it then as a newbie! I still remember the first person who spoke to me and tried to get me to get my tits out was Cj...only jokin!!

But I love the Irish chat room it's mighty craic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the chatroom regularly.

Please bear in mind that during school holiday season, a lot of the folks don't get chance to pop in for a natter - due to Parenthood Club duties.

Plenty folks know each other well, because we attend the socials run by some of the members here. That is not a 'clique' - that's called Friendships.

Drop in, say hiya if you see me lurkin' - we really don't bite - even if you ask nicely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the chatroom regularly.

Please bear in mind that during school holiday season, a lot of the folks don't get chance to pop in for a natter - due to Parenthood Club duties.

Plenty folks know each other well, because we attend the socials run by some of the members here. That is not a 'clique' - that's called Friendships.

Drop in, say hiya if you see me lurkin' - we really don't bite - even if you ask nicely!

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... Marie. ..you're always lurking while knitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True

it's a great place to lurk

"... Marie. ..you're always lurking while knitting.

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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I have to say there are some nice people in it, my opinion was just on first experiences compared to other chat rooms, it was an overall experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

John I always make you feel welcome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's lots of "how's it going,"but never know if the whisper thing is a good plan, should you, shouldn't you. If you don't it's very difficult to have a conversation. Will persevere and annoy

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I can't handle the chat rooms, I can't keep up, I'm a dinosaur when it comes down to those kinda media things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't handle the chat rooms, I can't keep up, I'm a dinosaur when it comes down to those kinda media things.

Ha ha! This is me too. It's too fast for me. Can't keep track of anything!

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I wouldn't whisper at anyone without asking them first. You have to be prepared to join in on the general conversation before you hope to get a private one.

Its kinda like walking into a bar and trying to whisper into some strangers ear. It probably wouldnt end well there either.

Chat quieter at the min with the hoildays but will probably pick up again in the next couple of weeks.

Pop in a few times and say hi. You never know who you might meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't handle the chat rooms, I can't keep up, I'm a dinosaur when it comes down to those kinda media things.

Ha ha! This is me too. It's too fast for me. Can't keep track of anything!

And me

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Ive been in a few times and the conversation does go quick enough and yes some tend to ignore people in chat but sure thats upto them i usually only stay a few mins maybe longer if i strike up a convo but does be hard to get started bit like a dumper on a site on a very frosty morning lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a little bit of a clique but over all I find it friendly. I use the irish chat room often and nearly all my meets have been from people I've met on there.

Yes when my cam is on(face only) I do get a lot of people starting a conversation with me. I don't put my cam on to try rule the roost I like to see others on cam and its only fair mine is on

I always welcome people who come on and block the idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the chat rooms regularly,

Really enjoy the craic and chat to everyone....

Would have thought we were a very friendly bunch tbh ??

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By *ncognito4nowWoman
over a year ago

Greater (much greater) Belfast

I use the room mostly to pm friends... sorry if I appear to ignore anyone who wants a long getting-to-know-you chat but it moves too fast for that and I miss some of it or I'm on a kindle and can't chat on both windows!

IfI have cam on its primarily for the person I'm in pm with... if others look at it that's grand, I try and say thanks if complimented, and if friends want to have a bit of craic with cams then happy days! I'm not sure that equates holding court?

We all started somewhere, and we can't please all of the people all of the time

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By *ncognito4nowWoman
over a year ago

Greater (much greater) Belfast

"I use the chat rooms regularly,

Really enjoy the craic and chat to everyone....

Would have thought we were a very friendly bunch tbh ??"

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I put it on, usually open another tab with poker or paddy power on it and forget I am there until I am rudely poked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentle nudge - never a rude pokin'

Just to make sure you haven't fallen asleep in your dinner though

"I put it on, usually open another tab with poker or paddy power on it and forget I am there until I am rudely poked "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked into it a few times. A lot of chat going on and a little hard to follow but if you interact most are friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The few times I popped in to have a look (and I can't remember which rooms) I found there were 2 or 3 women 'holding court' and men sucking up to them.

So little difference than the rest of fab then...

....good man, get your shot in.

Someone's trolling again

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"John I always make you feel welcome lol "

That you do

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By *ieranabcMan
over a year ago

athlone

"I use the Irish chat room alot and I am always friendly to people that come in! There are a lot of regular chat users who know each other and would be chatting amongst themselves but just join in and chat away, spark up a conversation with someone, we are all friendly, well for the most part!

Katie x"

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By *ieranabcMan
over a year ago

athlone

Hi katie its kieran here love to chat with you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hi katie its kieran here love to chat with you"

Hi Kieran. It's RB here. You do realise this thread is years old and Katie is no longer on the site?

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

You are, of course, aware, Kieran, that this - and the other 'irish chatroom' chat is over one year old?

That does not mean that you should not be chatting in said room. The more, the merrier, it's quite quiet on there a lot of times, even though people are in.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The disparate threads on the Forum are infinitely better than the chatrooms including Irish version.

The chat, in my opinion, is too shallow, ephemeral and franly 'juvenile'.

The contributors to forum tend to put a considerable amount of thought into the replies, although topics can be somewhat 'puzzling'

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"When I joined I always went into the chat room and I've to say I've never had a problem with it then as a newbie! I still remember the first person who spoke to me and tried to get me to get my tits out was Cj...only jokin!!

But I love the Irish chat room it's mighty craic...

But u did get ur tits out

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