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"Your a couple so it's about a show for you both which is totally cool. More single ladies I find." ....can't see the point in doing something as a single that you don't enjoy? | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? " Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight | |||
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"We are both bi curious....its part of the fun as a couple,watching your partner. With someone else..be it male or female.we might be. Putting on a. Show...but its for us.." I like the putting on a show bit with the same sex partner | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight "^^^Nods^^^^ | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight
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"I think it should be bi comfortable bi curious and bi sexual as very few women are really bi sexual " Technically speaking all women are bi sexual. That's a purely from a psychological perspective of course. The sociological aspect of is a different matter. Probably a more pertinent one in this environment. In the end of the day, it's what ever and individual decides is right for them. | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight
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"I think quiet a lot of girls do it for show for the partner or hubby.... I like 1-2-1... But I'm hoping for a FFF soon.... "That's quite erotic | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight
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Yes...absolutely " wonders would never cease us two agreeing on a forum post but no that's my take on it,,, some women are bicurious,,, like the kissing,, fondling ect but don't want to give,,, with me that's completely fine once I'm allowed give,, of not then it's your straight darling so don't pretend to be bi,, bicurious for anyone and certainly not for the hubbie or fella,,, it just won't work
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed " ...i don't mean a show in that sense...i mean we like watching each other...it isn't really a spectator sport after all... | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed ...i don't mean a show in that sense...i mean we like watching each other...it isn't really a spectator sport after all... "I meant a show in that sense. I just get the impression that some couples looking for a female to join them want her for the mans enjoyment. Whether its for him to watch the two women or for him to have two women play with him. It just seems one sided | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight
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wonders would never cease us two agreeing on a forum post but no that's my take on it,,, some women are bicurious,,, like the kissing,, fondling ect but don't want to give,,, with me that's completely fine once I'm allowed give,, of not then it's your straight darling so don't pretend to be bi,, bicurious for anyone and certainly not for the hubbie or fella,,, it just won't work
Be whoever you are for you,,, no one else "This is exactly my take on it too.. And I think so many girls do it just for the partner, and probably aren't into it at all... Yes we are agreeing... Is there a blue moon??? Lol | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight
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wonders would never cease us two agreeing on a forum post but no that's my take on it,,, some women are bicurious,,, like the kissing,, fondling ect but don't want to give,,, with me that's completely fine once I'm allowed give,, of not then it's your straight darling so don't pretend to be bi,, bicurious for anyone and certainly not for the hubbie or fella,,, it just won't work
Be whoever you are for you,,, no one else
This is exactly my take on it too..
And I think so many girls do it just for the partner, and probably aren't into it at all...
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Is there a blue moon???
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over." | |||
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"See I don't mind what I'm called I play with both give and receive but and here is the point the OP seems to miss. Only with people I'm attracted to or want to enjoy myself with. I'm not going to meet someone I'm not attracted to just because they're a woman who likes women and I think telling people what they are and what they should and shouldn't call themselves here is as bad as the curvy/fat arguement. That's my take on it " Were you typing same time as me lol lol | |||
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"See I don't mind what I'm called I play with both give and receive but and here is the point the OP seems to miss. Only with people I'm attracted to or want to enjoy myself with. I'm not going to meet someone I'm not attracted to just because they're a woman who likes women and I think telling people what they are and what they should and shouldn't call themselves here is as bad as the curvy/fat arguement. That's my take on it Were you typing same time as me lol lol " usually bite my tongue I couldn't | |||
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"See I don't mind what I'm called I play with both give and receive but and here is the point the OP seems to miss. Only with people I'm attracted to or want to enjoy myself with. I'm not going to meet someone I'm not attracted to just because they're a woman who likes women and I think telling people what they are and what they should and shouldn't call themselves here is as bad as the curvy/fat arguement. That's my take on it " | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight
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wonders would never cease us two agreeing on a forum post but no that's my take on it,,, some women are bicurious,,, like the kissing,, fondling ect but don't want to give,,, with me that's completely fine once I'm allowed give,, of not then it's your straight darling so don't pretend to be bi,, bicurious for anyone and certainly not for the hubbie or fella,,, it just won't work
Be whoever you are for you,,, no one else
This is exactly my take on it too..
And I think so many girls do it just for the partner, and probably aren't into it at all...
Yes we are agreeing...
Is there a blue moon???
Lol"No blue moon but there was alot of thunder and lighten last night | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over." I agree here!! | |||
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"See I don't mind what I'm called I play with both give and receive but and here is the point the OP seems to miss. Only with people I'm attracted to or want to enjoy myself with. I'm not going to meet someone I'm not attracted to just because they're a woman who likes women and I think telling people what they are and what they should and shouldn't call themselves here is as bad as the curvy/fat arguement. That's my take on it Were you typing same time as me lol lol
usually bite my tongue I couldn't "I was the same lol could have typed for an hour | |||
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"See I don't mind what I'm called I play with both give and receive but and here is the point the OP seems to miss. Only with people I'm attracted to or want to enjoy myself with. I'm not going to meet someone I'm not attracted to just because they're a woman who likes women and I think telling people what they are and what they should and shouldn't call themselves here is as bad as the curvy/fat arguement. That's my take on it " Well said!!  | |||
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"See I don't mind what I'm called I play with both give and receive but and here is the point the OP seems to miss. Only with people I'm attracted to or want to enjoy myself with. I'm not going to meet someone I'm not attracted to just because they're a woman who likes women and I think telling people what they are and what they should and shouldn't call themselves here is as bad as the curvy/fat arguement. That's my take on it " So true. There's a huge difference watching two ladies that are into each other than two just doing it for the sake of others. So many just do it to please men and aren't really into it. | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed ...i don't mean a show in that sense...i mean we like watching each other...it isn't really a spectator sport after all...
I meant a show in that sense. I just get the impression that some couples looking for a female to join them want her for the mans enjoyment.
Whether its for him to watch the two women or for him to have two women play with him.
It just seems one sided"...thats why we don't meet single women. ...we wouldn't want to give the impression that they were just a fucktoy....more fun in numbers anyway. ..lol | |||
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"(jilly) ...I dont like the whole labelling thing but can say I love being with a guy im totally attracted to and equally love being with a girl im totally attracted to ..in neither scenarios is it for show its purely down to sexually chemistry..Ive seen both sides of the coin, girls on show and girls playing out of sexual attraction and chemistry and theres a massive difference ..I wont play with girl for the sake of it or for anyone elses pleasure only mine and the person/persons im playing with..Being in a FFF with no one else there was one of my best sexual encounters on our swing journey lol even poor jack didnt see it ..So im Tri-sexual ...try it if it feels good "Totally | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed ...i don't mean a show in that sense...i mean we like watching each other...it isn't really a spectator sport after all...
I meant a show in that sense. I just get the impression that some couples looking for a female to join them want her for the mans enjoyment.
Whether its for him to watch the two women or for him to have two women play with him.
It just seems one sided...thats why we don't meet single women. ...we wouldn't want to give the impression that they were just a fucktoy....more fun in numbers anyway. ..lol"The more he merrier | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Yep quite afew,,, been on and off the site about 4 + years both as a singleton aswell as a couple,, and have come across a lot of ' Bisexual' 'Bicurious' women who when meeting turns out aren't either,,, I am very bi but when it comes to women I don't mind being the giver if that's what they prefer,,,, when they don't even want a giver then it's time you changed your profile to Straight
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wonders would never cease us two agreeing on a forum post but no that's my take on it,,, some women are bicurious,,, like the kissing,, fondling ect but don't want to give,,, with me that's completely fine once I'm allowed give,, of not then it's your straight darling so don't pretend to be bi,, bicurious for anyone and certainly not for the hubbie or fella,,, it just won't work
Be whoever you are for you,,, no one else
This is exactly my take on it too..
And I think so many girls do it just for the partner, and probably aren't into it at all...
Yes we are agreeing...
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"I know quite a few 'bi' women in real life and none have sex with other women. They do love to flirt with them in bars though, especially when there's a guy watching from across the room. "Ah the "bi for attention" girls. Annoying. Don't get with a girl to give me a "show", get with a girl because you want to and it turns YOU on, and then the end result will be a better time for all involved. I find a bi woman who wants to be with another woman for her own reasons and pleasure to be far more of a turn on. | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed ...i don't mean a show in that sense...i mean we like watching each other...it isn't really a spectator sport after all...
I meant a show in that sense. I just get the impression that some couples looking for a female to join them want her for the mans enjoyment.
Whether its for him to watch the two women or for him to have two women play with him.
It just seems one sided...thats why we don't meet single women. ...we wouldn't want to give the impression that they were just a fucktoy....more fun in numbers anyway. ..lol
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!! "Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label. When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away. I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk. only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced. | |||
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"I think quiet a lot of girls do it for show for the partner or hubby.... I like 1-2-1... But I'm hoping for a FFF soon.... "Me too lol | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed ...i don't mean a show in that sense...i mean we like watching each other...it isn't really a spectator sport after all...
I meant a show in that sense. I just get the impression that some couples looking for a female to join them want her for the mans enjoyment.
Whether its for him to watch the two women or for him to have two women play with him.
It just seems one sided...thats why we don't meet single women. ...we wouldn't want to give the impression that they were just a fucktoy....more fun in numbers anyway. ..lol
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced."Whats a cure head? | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed ...i don't mean a show in that sense...i mean we like watching each other...it isn't really a spectator sport after all...
I meant a show in that sense. I just get the impression that some couples looking for a female to join them want her for the mans enjoyment.
Whether its for him to watch the two women or for him to have two women play with him.
It just seems one sided...thats why we don't meet single women. ...we wouldn't want to give the impression that they were just a fucktoy....more fun in numbers anyway. ..lol
The more he merrier ...slapper. ..
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?"Someone who was a big fan of the cure back in the day and had a haircut to match Robert smith's | |||
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" Whats a cure head?" A fan of a band called the cure. Big in the 90s. Big in a small way | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!! "All I'm going to say is .....I'm gently Purring no argument here ..... I Absolutley adore both . FF , MF , FFM ,FFF , MMF (oooooh maybe I'm being greedy) I'm totally Bi enjoy the erotic delicious delights of both , thinking the more the merrier , it's all about enjoying the experience without labels , non judgemental without any inhibitions Happy Fabbing ye all | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over." I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. | |||
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" Whats a cure head? A fan of a band called the cure. Big in the 90s. Big in a small way " Thanks
I vaguely remember them. Would have said they were earlier than the 90's. I missed nearly all the 90's music due to listening to my babies listen to crap
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
Someone who was a big fan of the cure back in the day and had a haircut to match Robert smith's
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" Whats a cure head? A fan of a band called the cure. Big in the 90s. Big in a small way Thanks
I vaguely remember them. Would have said they were earlier than the 90's. I missed nearly all the 90's music due to listening to my babies listen to crap
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced."I agree it is only a clarification but it just feels like a bit of a pick and mix at time's and not in a good way...in a vague way. Alcohol can carry us all off and relax us or lower inhibitions. I get that it can be daunting figuringit out, curious covers that. My peeve is saying that you are bi and then saying but.... I get we all like different thing's but equal attraction and participation isa reasonable expectation I believe | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced." | |||
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" Whats a cure head? A fan of a band called the cure. Big in the 90s. Big in a small way Thanks
I vaguely remember them. Would have said they were earlier than the 90's. I missed nearly all the 90's music due to listening to my babies listen to crap
They were at their most popular in the 80's"That would explain me having heard of them | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
A love cat that fall's in love every Friday"Harsh But fair | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
All I'm going to say is .....I'm gently Purring no argument here ..... I Absolutley adore both . FF , MF , FFM ,FFF , MMF (oooooh maybe I'm being greedy) I'm totally Bi enjoy the erotic delicious delights of both , thinking the more the merrier , it's all about enjoying the experience without labels , non judgemental without any inhibitions Happy Fabbing ye all " | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
A love cat that fall's in love every Friday
Harsh
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
I agree it is only a clarification but it just feels like a bit of a pick and mix at time's and not in a good way...in a vague way.
Alcohol can carry us all off and relax us or lower inhibitions.
I get that it can be daunting figuringit out, curious covers that.
My peeve is saying that you are bi and then saying but....
I get we all like different thing's but equal attraction and participation isa reasonable expectation I believe "But is this your personal perspective colouring how you view other people. Is there no room for a little attraction? You might be 50:50 but some others might be 40:60 or 20:80 | |||
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Lol me too
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
A love cat that fall's in love every Friday
Harsh
But fair
I have a wicked tongue...in and out of the bedroom"I have proof of one ... must see about the other next | |||
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"Labels are for clothes. " ......I think that labels isn't the right word....you haveto have some kind of guidelines...how else would you find a one legged midget who's bi sexual and into xdressing in pvc?... | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
Someone who was a big fan of the cure back in the day and had a haircut to match Robert smith's
.....and matching make up.."Mary quant lipstick.
And God help the bloke who mocked me for it | |||
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Lol me too
We used to call them the boppers...
Ha
We didn't care what you called us in front of your friends, cos we had our hands down your knickers as soon as we were alone "I remember the dancing... All arms wavin... Feet never moved... | |||
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I have this big void in my music when I indulged my kids and let them listen to all sorts of rubbish. While I drank wine
I'm now a huge fan of Matt Monro and Dean Martin and Tom Jones, the 70's. Any sloppy song and I'm singing along. Gotta love Adele
And people are surprised at my choices. Everyone seems to think I'd be some sort of 'rock chick' | |||
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"Now I'm singing "love cats" great
Lol me too
We used to call them the boppers...
Ha
We didn't care what you called us in front of your friends, cos we had our hands down your knickers as soon as we were alone
I remember the dancing...
All arms wavin...
Feet never moved... "I had a slow shuffle
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. " It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
Someone who was a big fan of the cure back in the day and had a haircut to match Robert smith's
.....and matching make up..Mary quant lipstick.
And God help the bloke who mocked me for it"Guy liner....lol | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. " Its nice to see opinions given and no slagging | |||
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"I'm too shocked to post that LonCav didn't know who the cure were.... Off opens a bottle of wine... I'd heard of them Just
I have this big void in my music when I indulged my kids and let them listen to all sorts of rubbish. While I drank wine
I'm now a huge fan of Matt Monro and Dean Martin and Tom Jones, the 70's. Any sloppy song and I'm singing along. Gotta love Adele
And people are surprised at my choices. Everyone seems to think I'd be some sort of 'rock chick' "We must continue our music chat next time we meet, I even got you to see Abba in a new light. | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. " True, but I don't think that someone who doesn't fully participate should be told they're straight just because they'll receive oral but not give it. What about gay men who are strictly top or bottom? Should the one who only receives say he's straight? | |||
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"I'm too shocked to post that LonCav didn't know who the cure were.... Off opens a bottle of wine... I'd heard of them Just
I have this big void in my music when I indulged my kids and let them listen to all sorts of rubbish. While I drank wine
I'm now a huge fan of Matt Monro and Dean Martin and Tom Jones, the 70's. Any sloppy song and I'm singing along. Gotta love Adele
And people are surprised at my choices. Everyone seems to think I'd be some sort of 'rock chick'
We must continue our music chat next time we meet, I even got you to see Abba in a new light. "You really did! I'd always written them off as crap | |||
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"I'm too shocked to post that LonCav didn't know who the cure were.... Off opens a bottle of wine... I'd heard of them Just
I have this big void in my music when I indulged my kids and let them listen to all sorts of rubbish. While I drank wine
I'm now a huge fan of Matt Monro and Dean Martin and Tom Jones, the 70's. Any sloppy song and I'm singing along. Gotta love Adele
And people are surprised at my choices. Everyone seems to think I'd be some sort of 'rock chick' ""Rock chick" Guilty...I did too... 
But your still cool even if one of your ice cubes melted because you didn't know the cure.. | |||
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"I'm too shocked to post that LonCav didn't know who the cure were.... Off opens a bottle of wine... I'd heard of them Just
I have this big void in my music when I indulged my kids and let them listen to all sorts of rubbish. While I drank wine
I'm now a huge fan of Matt Monro and Dean Martin and Tom Jones, the 70's. Any sloppy song and I'm singing along. Gotta love Adele
And people are surprised at my choices. Everyone seems to think I'd be some sort of 'rock chick'
"Rock chick"
Guilty...I did too...
But your still cool even if one of your ice cubes melted because you didn't know the cure.. "Half melted - I'd heard of them | |||
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" Its nice to see opinions given and no slagging" Agreed..however it's bisexual women were discussing if it was men however then it's a completely different scenario...  | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
Someone who was a big fan of the cure back in the day and had a haircut to match Robert smith's
.....and matching make up..Mary quant lipstick.
And God help the bloke who mocked me for it
Guy liner....lol""I'm not defined by what I wear, im bending gender roles ... i just want to be alone !!!! " Fuckin teenagers. I would slap the teenager me lol | |||
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"I'm too shocked to post that LonCav didn't know who the cure were.... Off opens a bottle of wine... I'd heard of them Just
I have this big void in my music when I indulged my kids and let them listen to all sorts of rubbish. While I drank wine
I'm now a huge fan of Matt Monro and Dean Martin and Tom Jones, the 70's. Any sloppy song and I'm singing along. Gotta love Adele
And people are surprised at my choices. Everyone seems to think I'd be some sort of 'rock chick'
We must continue our music chat next time we meet, I even got you to see Abba in a new light. "Should I even ask about that lol!!!?  | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. True, but I don't think that someone who doesn't fully participate should be told they're straight just because they'll receive oral but not give it. What about gay men who are strictly top or bottom? Should the one who only receives say he's straight? " My understanding of gay men top and bottom is not to do with oral sex. Sorry Penelope but if I was chatting to a guy and he said he didn't give oral just received I would say he was being a selfish lover, I am not going to tone it down because you are female. In my opinion a person who receives and doesn't give is being a bit of a selfish lover...male or female. We are talking about oral sex here. If you don't care about receiving it and don't give it and say this to couple's, going on the info here does that mean you play with couple's but not FF? Sorry but a female who doesn't participate fully with another female Is not gay or bi then you tell me what that leaves. | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I agree here!!
Labels can be very important to us. They help identify us for other people. I am a cure head. So people looking for an old cure head can find me. But we need to remember that we are not only what the label says. We are more than a label.
When dealing with sexuality it gets even more complicated. There are so many degrees of attraction. Without a doubt there are straight women who can have sex with women. Alcohol, arousal and just not caring can carry you away.
I know a gay man who likes to lick pussy when he's hammered. He's still gay. He doesn't feel attraction to women. He just enjoys licking pussy when d*unk.
only you know if you are attracted to both. You can be attracted to women and not actually want to have sex with women. You are allowed to be nuanced.
Whats a cure head?
Someone who was a big fan of the cure back in the day and had a haircut to match Robert smith's
.....and matching make up..Mary quant lipstick.
And God help the bloke who mocked me for it
Guy liner....lol
"I'm not defined by what I wear, im bending gender roles ... i just want to be alone !!!! "
Fuckin teenagers. I would slap the teenager me lol"Lol my first boyfriend was a cure head and me a bit of a punk...what a cute couple we made! | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. True, but I don't think that someone who doesn't fully participate should be told they're straight just because they'll receive oral but not give it. What about gay men who are strictly top or bottom? Should the one who only receives say he's straight? My understanding of gay men top and bottom is not to do with oral sex. Sorry Penelope but if I was chatting to a guy and he said he didn't give oral just received I would say he was being a selfish lover, I am not going to tone it down because you are female. In my opinion a person who receives and doesn't give is being a bit of a selfish lover...male or female. We are talking about oral sex here. If you don't care about receiving it and don't give it and say this to couple's, going on the info here does that mean you play with couple's but not FF? Sorry but a female who doesn't participate fully with another female Is not gay or bi then you tell me what that leaves. " | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. True, but I don't think that someone who doesn't fully participate should be told they're straight just because they'll receive oral but not give it. What about gay men who are strictly top or bottom? Should the one who only receives say he's straight? My understanding of gay men top and bottom is not to do with oral sex. Sorry Penelope but if I was chatting to a guy and he said he didn't give oral just received I would say he was being a selfish lover, I am not going to tone it down because you are female. In my opinion a person who receives and doesn't give is being a bit of a selfish lover...male or female. We are talking about oral sex here. If you don't care about receiving it and don't give it and say this to couple's, going on the info here does that mean you play with couple's but not FF? Sorry but a female who doesn't participate fully with another female Is not gay or bi then you tell me what that leaves." Of course, I'm not asking you to tone it down because I'm a 'female'. The top and bottom was an example of one person not participating fully, so I think it's relevant. It leaves bi curious | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the giver receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. True, but I don't think that someone who doesn't fully participate should be told they're straight just because they'll receive oral but not give it. What about gay men who are strictly top or bottom? Should the one who only receives say he's straight? my thoughts exactly on this "Well at least one person got it | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the over receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. True, but I don't think that someone who doesn't fully participate should be told they're straight just because they'll receive oral but not give it. What about gay men who are strictly top or bottom? Should the one who only receives say he's straight? My understanding of gay men top and bottom is not to do with oral sex. Sorry Penelope but if I was chatting to a guy and he said he didn't give oral just received I would say he was being a selfish lover, I am not going to tone it down because you are female. In my opinion a person who receives and doesn't give is being a bit of a selfish lover...male or female. We are talking about oral sex here. If you don't care about receiving it and don't give it and say this to couple's, going on the info here does that mean you play with couple's but not FF? Sorry but a female who doesn't participate fully with another female Is not gay or bi then you tell me what that leaves. Of course, I'm not asking you to tone it down because I'm a 'female'. The top and bottom was an example of one person not participating fully, so I think it's relevant. It leaves bi curious
Curious is for those trying to figure out what they do or don't like. You clearly know what you don't like so that doesn't leave curious just a person receiving!
And I wasn't toning it down because you are female, I was pointing out same rules apply to both sexes.
As for thinking that comparing anal to oral is a valid point... I don't even think this deserves a response.
If someone claims to be bi sexual it means they have sex with males or females... it's a clear statement of this is what you are, not terms and conditions apply because I can do what I want or in this case what I don't want. Sex between two females involves oral. "I know you weren't toning it down because I'm female, read my comment again. Sorry, but why can't terms and conditions apply? Oh and I never claimed to be bisexual, but apparently I can't claim to be bi curious either. I think the comparison is perfectly accurate. For two gay men to have sex, anal penetration is involved. So one gives and the other receives. If one receives exclusively does that make him not gay? | |||
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Curious is for those trying to figure out what they do or don't like. You clearly know what you don't like so that doesn't leave curious just a person receiving!
And I wasn't toning it down because you are female, I was pointing out same rules apply to both sexes.
As for thinking that comparing anal to oral is a valid point... I don't even think this deserves a response.
If someone claims to be bi sexual it means they have sex with males or females... it's a clear statement of this is what you are, not terms and conditions apply because I can do what I want or in this case what I don't want. Sex between two females involves oral.
I know you weren't toning it down because I'm female, read my comment again.
Sorry, but why can't terms and conditions apply? Oh and I never claimed to be bisexual, but apparently I can't claim to be bi curious either.
I think the comparison is perfectly accurate. For two gay men to have sex, anal penetration is involved. So one gives and the other receives. If one receives exclusively does that make him not gay?"Ah hear now really! This is getting repetitive! Good night | |||
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"This baffles me...you are or your not...but don't come into the restaurant and complain about the fecking menu! Cop on people, stop with the over receiver shit... that'sjust selfish loving. I am BI and I hate labels except in situations like this. I play FF and every other combo of m and f that fab can come up with. Stop the nonsense. Say curious while figuring it out. Straight if you don't fully participate and bi if you like both. This is about pleasure not performing! Pet peeve rant over. I don't give oral and I can take or leave receiving. I tell this to any couple who are interested in meeting, but I'll keep the bi curious on my profile, thanks. It's your profile Penelope and I am just stating where I am at...a bit loudly but that's me and my fiery nature. Hat tip to you for publicly saying what a lot are not. At the end of the day it's only two different opinions. True, but I don't think that someone who doesn't fully participate should be told they're straight just because they'll receive oral but not give it. What about gay men who are strictly top or bottom? Should the one who only receives say he's straight? My understanding of gay men top and bottom is not to do with oral sex. Sorry Penelope but if I was chatting to a guy and he said he didn't give oral just received I would say he was being a selfish lover, I am not going to tone it down because you are female. In my opinion a person who receives and doesn't give is being a bit of a selfish lover...male or female. We are talking about oral sex here. If you don't care about receiving it and don't give it and say this to couple's, going on the info here does that mean you play with couple's but not FF? Sorry but a female who doesn't participate fully with another female Is not gay or bi then you tell me what that leaves. Of course, I'm not asking you to tone it down because I'm a 'female'. The top and bottom was an example of one person not participating fully, so I think it's relevant. It leaves bi curious
Curious is for those trying to figure out what they do or don't like. You clearly know what you don't like so that doesn't leave curious just a person receiving!
And I wasn't toning it down because you are female, I was pointing out same rules apply to both sexes.
As for thinking that comparing anal to oral is a valid point... I don't even think this deserves a response.
If someone claims to be bi sexual it means they have sex with males or females... it's a clear statement of this is what you are, not terms and conditions apply because I can do what I want or in this case what I don't want. Sex between two females involves oral.
I know you weren't toning it down because I'm female, read my comment again.
Sorry, but why can't terms and conditions apply? Oh and I never claimed to be bisexual, but apparently I can't claim to be bi curious either.
I think the comparison is perfectly accurate. For two gay men to have sex, anal penetration is involved. So one gives and the other receives. If one receives exclusively does that make him not gay?
Ah hear now really! This is getting repetitive! Good night"Great reply
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"Once again, everyone is different, and reacts differently in a sex scenario. I'm bisexual, because I enjoy and like to have sex with both gender(giving and receiving),but I'm voyeuristic as well, and I love to see my man with another girl pleasing her, and I find it more enjoyable to have them both at the same time, love them both to pleasure me, and us(girls) pleasuring him. So to be honest in a ff situation I would like a guy to join eventually because that's what I like personally and that itself doesn't make any me less bisexual." this
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"The whole attaching labels to people in here troubles me. There are so many levels of being bi and have met people who class themselves as straight but in the right company who knows. I prefer the bi comfortable to curious idea but i would be really slow to be attaching labels to people. Its all about having fun with others and sometimes i think we forget that and get hung up on labels and veris. Its all about that connection and being in the moment and being comfortable enough with the person to relax let go and enjoy yourself. But thats hard to find sometimes. " | |||
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"The whole attaching labels to people in here troubles me. There are so many levels of being bi and have met people who class themselves as straight but in the right company who knows. I prefer the bi comfortable to curious idea but i would be really slow to be attaching labels to people. Its all about having fun with others and sometimes i think we forget that and get hung up on labels and veris. Its all about that connection and being in the moment and being comfortable enough with the person to relax let go and enjoy yourself. But thats hard to find sometimes. " | |||
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"My wife is bi curious so if she finds the lady attraction she is open to kissing and oral receiving but not giving. I'm sure there's different levels of curious some bi lady's are. " also where it works for us she does enjoy watching me with another lady so long as everyone is involved in some way. | |||
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"The whole attaching labels to people in here troubles me. There are so many levels of being bi and have met people who class themselves as straight but in the right company who knows. I prefer the bi comfortable to curious idea but i would be really slow to be attaching labels to people. Its all about having fun with others and sometimes i think we forget that and get hung up on labels and veris. Its all about that connection and being in the moment and being comfortable enough with the person to relax let go and enjoy yourself. But thats hard to find sometimes. " I wouldn't look upon them as labels, they're more guidelines/interests and shouldn't be read as bare values. Everyone has his/her own definition like with the body shape descriptions. In order to get the meet you desire it needs communication between the interested parties to clarify those grey areas. However I can't get rid of the feeling that some 'label' themselves as bi curious either to please the partner or to make themselves more interesting, what I would call deceiving, and the ones who are really seek and enjoy same gender fun are the ones that will be mislead. Though again good pre-meet communication should reveal the false intentions. | |||
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"The whole attaching labels to people in here troubles me. There are so many levels of being bi and have met people who class themselves as straight but in the right company who knows. I prefer the bi comfortable to curious idea but i would be really slow to be attaching labels to people. Its all about having fun with others and sometimes i think we forget that and get hung up on labels and veris. Its all about that connection and being in the moment and being comfortable enough with the person to relax let go and enjoy yourself. But thats hard to find sometimes. I wouldn't look upon them as labels, they're more guidelines/interests and shouldn't be read as bare values. Everyone has his/her own definition like with the body shape descriptions. In order to get the meet you desire it needs communication between the interested parties to clarify those grey areas. However I can't get rid of the feeling that some 'label' themselves as bi curious either to please the partner or to make themselves more interesting, what I would call deceiving, and the ones who are really seek and enjoy same gender fun are the ones that will be mislead. Though again good pre-meet communication should reveal the false intentions. " | |||
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"The whole attaching labels to people in here troubles me. There are so many levels of being bi and have met people who class themselves as straight but in the right company who knows. I prefer the bi comfortable to curious idea but i would be really slow to be attaching labels to people. Its all about having fun with others and sometimes i think we forget that and get hung up on labels and veris. Its all about that connection and being in the moment and being comfortable enough with the person to relax let go and enjoy yourself. But thats hard to find sometimes. I wouldn't look upon them as labels, they're more guidelines/interests and shouldn't be read as bare values. Everyone has his/her own definition like with the body shape descriptions. In order to get the meet you desire it needs communication between the interested parties to clarify those grey areas. However I can't get rid of the feeling that some 'label' themselves as bi curious either to please the partner or to make themselves more interesting, what I would call deceiving, and the ones who are really seek and enjoy same gender fun are the ones that will be mislead. Though again good pre-meet communication should reveal the false intentions. " | |||
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"The whole attaching labels to people in here troubles me. There are so many levels of being bi and have met people who class themselves as straight but in the right company who knows. I prefer the bi comfortable to curious idea but i would be really slow to be attaching labels to people. Its all about having fun with others and sometimes i think we forget that and get hung up on labels and veris. Its all about that connection and being in the moment and being comfortable enough with the person to relax let go and enjoy yourself. But thats hard to find sometimes. I wouldn't look upon them as labels, they're more guidelines/interests and shouldn't be read as bare values. Everyone has his/her own definition like with the body shape descriptions. In order to get the meet you desire it needs communication between the interested parties to clarify those grey areas. However I can't get rid of the feeling that some 'label' themselves as bi curious either to please the partner or to make themselves more interesting, what I would call deceiving, and the ones who are really seek and enjoy same gender fun are the ones that will be mislead. Though again good pre-meet communication should reveal the false intentions. " I agree but good pre meet communication is based on all being honest. Someone said above that they have left a meet because of a guy trying to get in on the action (my understanding of it, not a direct quote). This happened to me on my first bi experience and I went with it because I was young and innocent and afraid of offending him (I was innocent once, I swear) but it was an early lesson for me. Is this a common occurrence still? Do you have women claiming to be bi and when you meet for a threesome they only dabble. This is where the clarity of a label is useful as long as all involved clarify their understanding of it also. I suppose like all areas of fab, without honest clear communication it won't work. | |||
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"It's interesting to read all the different definitions on this thread. I've changed my profile to bisexual now, I prefer one on ones to threesomes so maybe bicurious was the wrong option for me as I don't need a man there to enjoy another fem" So lolli are you finally gonna take me up on my offer then lol | |||
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"It's interesting to read all the different definitions on this thread. I've changed my profile to bisexual now, I prefer one on ones to threesomes so maybe bicurious was the wrong option for me as I don't need a man there to enjoy another fem" Oh lolli now you've gone and done it. I'm imagining a mff between you me and a very good friend of mine. A guy can dream. | |||
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"It's interesting to read all the different definitions on this thread. I've changed my profile to bisexual now, I prefer one on ones to threesomes so maybe bicurious was the wrong option for me as I don't need a man there to enjoy another fem So lolli are you finally gonna take me up on my offer then lol " any time | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed " we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all "This. I sometimes play with a fully bi lady and the aim for us is that everyone gets some pleasure out of it. Yeah watching can be fun but but it's a whole lot better when everyone's involved! | |||
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" I'm doomed we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all "I'm sorry but this to me is the prime example of putting it on for the partner..... | |||
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I sometimes play with a fully bi lady and the aim for us is that everyone gets some pleasure out of it.
Yeah watching can be fun but but it's a whole lot better when everyone's involved!"When everyone is on the same page about giving and receiving...the intensity is fantastic. Getting the mix right is a key part then the numbers can just keep going up like the pleasure. | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all "I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give. But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for me | |||
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I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for me" | |||
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"I'm 100% lesbian can I get invited to the all girl parties please
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I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for me"no all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet. | |||
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I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? " Good thread the start Op! Interesting opinions above. In our opinion, there are some (though not a huge amount of) women on here who advertise as bi, but are not. Possibly because they're under pressure from their partner or because they feel they'd get less meets/party invites if they were down as straight. If you're referring to "single" women on here who only meet with a male friend of theirs, that's a pet peeve of ours too. But it isn't breaking any site rules and each to their own. In terms of lack of lesbians on here, we're amazed that there's any on here at all. For non-swing reasons I (Johnson) know and socially interact with a relatively good few lesbian women of all shapes, sizes and social backgrounds. From what I've discussed and seen over the years lesbians generally have little interest in actively bi women and zero interest in sexual situations involving men. Fab is a site mostly comprised of men, either as part of a cpl or singles. There are plenty of other established social means for lesbian women to interact, flirt and meet without men being involved. While obviously your friend is very welcome here and wish her the best, maybe she might might have more luck through those? In terms of that most women on here "only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved". In order "to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted", we couldn't disagree more based on our fab journey so far. Perhaps the difference is between "putting on a show" and "sharing an experience". For us swinging is about sharing sexual experiences, between ourselves and with other participants. If EDP and another woman are having sex she is 100% doing it because she wants to and she wants the other women to enjoy it. We have a strict "no taking one for the team" rule and don't get involved in sexual situations purely for one persons pleasure. We would be very confident in saying the same thing about most of our social circle on here. Not saying it doesn't happen, just that we don't believe its common. | |||
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I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
I'd love to know what a straight woman would get outta of a fmf? But that's maybe a topic for another thread...."it would be two straight women pleasing a man, him pleasing them.. same as in mfm | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all
I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
I'd love to know what a straight woman would get outta of a fmf? But that's maybe a topic for another thread....
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I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
I'd love to know what a straight woman would get outta of a fmf? But that's maybe a topic for another thread....
it would be two straight women pleasing a man, him pleasing them.. same as in mfm "Fair enough, I'm sure it works for some, it wouldn't for me, I'm hard work and from my experience the men with supernatural stamina are rather rare | |||
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I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
I'd love to know what a straight woman would get outta of a fmf? But that's maybe a topic for another thread....
it would be two straight women pleasing a man, him pleasing them.. same as in mfm
Fair enough, I'm sure it works for some, it wouldn't for me, I'm hard work and from my experience the men with supernatural stamina are rather rare "I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango! "A tango, lilt and a Pepsi Max....now that's a threesome | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
A tango, lilt and a Pepsi Max....now that's a threesome"Oh ya ditch the Diet Coke.... very risque thing to do lol | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
A tango, lilt and a Pepsi Max....now that's a threesome Oh ya ditch the Diet Coke.... very risque thing to do lol"Lmfao....never but both love different flavours...have even tried Iron brew | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
A tango, lilt and a Pepsi Max....now that's a threesome Oh ya ditch the Diet Coke.... very risque thing to do lol
Lmfao....never but both love different flavours...have even tried Iron brew"How did it go would you try it again lol | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
A tango, lilt and a Pepsi Max....now that's a threesome Oh ya ditch the Diet Coke.... very risque thing to do lol
Lmfao....never but both love different flavours...have even tried Iron brew
How did it go would you try it again lol"A lady doesn't tell...read the verification lol | |||
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"I am genuinely bi. I have no interest in putting on a show to please some girls man. When I partake in a mff it will be because me and the other lady want to share a cock. I'm sure the guys don't feel too used Haha" Love the username lol | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
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... It's all in the mix!! "But wait....do you drink tango and Pepsi Max | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
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... It's all in the mix!!
But wait....do you drink tango and Pepsi Max". try anything once.... | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
A tango, lilt and a Pepsi Max....now that's a threesome
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all
I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
I'd love to know what a straight woman would get outta of a fmf? But that's maybe a topic for another thread....
it would be two straight women pleasing a man, him pleasing them.. same as in mfm
Fair enough, I'm sure it works for some, it wouldn't for me, I'm hard work and from my experience the men with supernatural stamina are rather rare
I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol
I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. " I'm no selfish meet but also not self sacrificing. A great meet to me is a mutual giving and receiving. | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all
I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
I'd love to know what a straight woman would get outta of a fmf? But that's maybe a topic for another thread....
it would be two straight women pleasing a man, him pleasing them.. same as in mfm
Fair enough, I'm sure it works for some, it wouldn't for me, I'm hard work and from my experience the men with supernatural stamina are rather rare
I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol
I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say.
I'm no selfish meet but also not self sacrificing. A great meet to me is a mutual giving and receiving."100% agreed, wasn't saying that just that I am the same | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
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... It's all in the mix!!
But wait....do you drink tango and Pepsi Max
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How totally tropical of you"You should try anything twice. Just in case you did it wrong the first time | |||
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" I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say. . It takes 3 to Tango!
A tango, lilt and a Pepsi Max....now that's a threesome
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But wait....do you drink tango and Pepsi Max
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How totally tropical of youYou should try anything twice. Just in case you did it wrong the first time "Lol repeats between the sheet's can be great | |||
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"I think it's a complicated thing and different for everyone for me I'm bi long enough to know to know its not a curiosity but when it comes to female partners I am extremely picky so there are times that we've played with couples and I havnt been into the female half, but that doesnt make me not bi. I guess just it's bi selective "Or just selective. Attraction and chemistry regardless of sex. I agree. | |||
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"I'm not bi. Events in my past are a block to that being an option. But i do know about attraction. There are some stunning women on here who don't elicit a sexual response from me. I don't think I could "take one for the team" and have sex, enthusiastic sex, with someone who does nothing for me. And i wouldn't expect my wife to do it either. " Agreed attraction for me is a package deal...not just about the physical appearance...that is just part of it | |||
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"I'm bi curious and would like to meet a couple but hate the thought of putting on 'a show'. To me that seems like its all for the mans enjoyment. And I don't want to meet a woman on a 1 - 2 - 1. I guess I need to find a partner. And I don't want one of those either. I'm doomed we see this sometimes where a lady seeing couples with a bi curious woman thinks there putting on a show for the man. My wife loves oral receiving from men and women. As she says a tongue is a tongue. When she's getting pleasure from the lady I'm pleasuring the other lady. So if your into seeing couples is it not a win win for all
I don't really think it is a win for all. I think if you receive then you should give.
But please don't take that as a criticism - you have to do things that work for you . I just don't think that would work for meno all feedback is welcome. Every situation is different. For example a straight lady looking to see a couple MF. She's not into woman but is obviously getting something from this type of meet.
I'd love to know what a straight woman would get outta of a fmf? But that's maybe a topic for another thread....
it would be two straight women pleasing a man, him pleasing them.. same as in mfm
Fair enough, I'm sure it works for some, it wouldn't for me, I'm hard work and from my experience the men with supernatural stamina are rather rare
I am hard work to but give as good as I get lol
I have found in my experience mfm and ffm very different but both pleasing and my preference is ffm. Some great insights here and valid point's I must say.
I'm no selfish meet but also not self sacrificing. A great meet to me is a mutual giving and receiving."agree 100%, as i said before on a different thread, if all involved ain't getting pleasure out of it, what is the point.. | |||
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"Does that make me greedy?? "all swingers are greedy by societies rules. We could have sex with one person but we choose to have sex with many people. Embrace the greed | |||
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"Are some women who claim to be bisexual/bi curious here being honest? I'm surprised how few lesbians there are. Most women who claim to swing both ways only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved. It seems like women want to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted and involved in fun with just a women. I've a gay friend who has no interest in guys and she's having no luck. I know there are some genuine women but not many. Opinions? Good thread the start Op! Interesting opinions above. In our opinion, there are some (though not a huge amount of) women on here who advertise as bi, but are not. Possibly because they're under pressure from their partner or because they feel they'd get less meets/party invites if they were down as straight. If you're referring to "single" women on here who only meet with a male friend of theirs, that's a pet peeve of ours too. But it isn't breaking any site rules and each to their own. In terms of lack of lesbians on here, we're amazed that there's any on here at all. For non-swing reasons I (Johnson) know and socially interact with a relatively good few lesbian women of all shapes, sizes and social backgrounds. From what I've discussed and seen over the years lesbians generally have little interest in actively bi women and zero interest in sexual situations involving men. Fab is a site mostly comprised of men, either as part of a cpl or singles. There are plenty of other established social means for lesbian women to interact, flirt and meet without men being involved. While obviously your friend is very welcome here and wish her the best, maybe she might might have more luck through those? In terms of that most women on here "only want to play with a man present to watch or be involved". In order "to put on a show rather than being sexually attracted", we couldn't disagree more based on our fab journey so far. Perhaps the difference is between "putting on a show" and "sharing an experience". For us swinging is about sharing sexual experiences, between ourselves and with other participants. If EDP and another woman are having sex she is 100% doing it because she wants to and she wants the other women to enjoy it. We have a strict "no taking one for the team" rule and don't get involved in sexual situations purely for one persons pleasure. We would be very confident in saying the same thing about most of our social circle on here. Not saying it doesn't happen, just that we don't believe its common." Couldn't agree more.... | |||
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