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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey why is it so hard to get meeting plp are even get a reply back from msg I've been on this before but had to delete for personal reasons I had meets before but only 2 and that was after been on the site for a year I don't be hateful in my msgs are anything and still no reply just looking to chat and maybe meet up and have some fun can't anyhow explain why it's so hard are any tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no pics, no info about you, so maybe sort that out firstly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures, very little information about you and you describe yourself as a "genuine guy". All those of things aren't just going to hinder your search.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had pics up before when I was last on and abit about myself and still made no difference I must get onto it tho but can't see it helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had pics up before when I was last on and abit about myself and still made no difference I must get onto it tho but can't see it helping "

Well it's a start isn't it? For me I need pics and some personality in the profile

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Most ladies don't bother to engage with no pics on profile men (including me). It might not make an obvious difference to you but your chances to even get a chat equal zero. Don't give up and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not very hopeful are you op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had pics up before when I was last on and abit about myself and still made no difference I must get onto it tho but can't see it helping "

I hope this doesn't come across as offensive but a bit of grammar and punctuation would probably be a good help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before a message even gets opened arguably the first thing noticeable is the profile pic.

Even then it wouldn't be uncommon for someone to check out the profile before reading the message; if there's little to no effort put into presenting yourself, why would anyone think any different of your message.

Your profile isn't just there to allow you to browse the site, it's there as a means for you to express yourself and set yourself apart so take advantage

Also, don't get hung up on the number of meets equating to "success". Don't think of it as having met just two people in a year, think of it that you got to meet two new people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice I'm. Not sure what to write about myself but ill upload a pic but I've nailed a few with out reply

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