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"OP doubt you will have lost this quest at the first hurdle which is attracting one lady. Why would a lady be attracted to you, if you're goal is simply not her but in what she can do for you, by rounding up other ladies. If you are trying a fast track route to ffm, this not a strategy likely to work, in my opinion. I would suggest seeking a lady for one to one fun would be a start, and maybe if you find a regular fb for mutual fun, then you can couple up for fun. Enjoy the journey, meet fun people, and don't make ffm your only quest, or you may be disappointed. Good luck OP " This, only said a lot nicer than I did Good advice Red | |||
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"OP doubt you will have lost this quest at the first hurdle which is attracting one lady. Why would a lady be attracted to you, if you're goal is simply not her but in what she can do for you, by rounding up other ladies. If you are trying a fast track route to ffm, this not a strategy likely to work, in my opinion. I would suggest seeking a lady for one to one fun would be a start, and maybe if you find a regular fb for mutual fun, then you can couple up for fun. Enjoy the journey, meet fun people, and don't make ffm your only quest, or you may be disappointed. Good luck OP This, only said a lot nicer than I did Good advice Red" Well this was the edited version. By the way, like your new pic.. looking hot in red Madame B. | |||
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"This type of thing always annoys me . bi women aren’t actually threesome-dispensing good fairies. Treating a women like a sex toy because of sexual orientation is creepy . Get to know each other first and Treat her like a potential third in a really fun time because you and her both like the adventure and you may have some luck . But remember that biwomen are like unicorns and if it's 3sums she is after then then she can take her pic from the couples here so you better be prepared to bring your A game to tempt her . " | |||
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"Positives first. I am a planner so I appreciate your vision. You have a long term goal and have laid out steps to achieve that goal. It's nice and simple and clearly laid out. Your post wasn't negative or whiney. You had good positive energy. Your plan is ambitious but that's good. Aim high and don't be afraid of failure. The negatives have been mentioned. Your vision isn't unique. I'm sure 90% of men and 75% of couples on here are looking for a female partner in crime and i might be low on them figures. By stating publicly that you are only really interested in your P.I.C. as a wingman is also a bad look. That's what women would call a red flag. Most women wouldn't ignore a red flag like that. Also in your advertisement of yourself you mentioned money even if it was indirectly. That's a bit of an odd one and can be taken up in a few ways. Are you saying hey ladies, look at this cash. Open your legs and you can get nice things ... that is a bad thing generally speaking. A red flag if you will. It's demeaning and will be seen by most as reducing women to money hungry whores. You might have intended it as a demonstration of your stability and success. But as we all know in communication the important thing is what message is received not what you intended them to receive. If I were you I would shelve the long term plan for the moment. Start a new one. Go to socials and meet and greets. Meet as many people as you can and hopefully you can find a person you can connect with. Remember your wallet isn't a leg opener. It's just something that helps you pay for stuff. Happy fabbing " balanced as always | |||
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"OP doubt you will have lost this quest at the first hurdle which is attracting one lady. Why would a lady be attracted to you, if you're goal is simply not her but in what she can do for you, by rounding up other ladies. If you are trying a fast track route to ffm, this not a strategy likely to work, in my opinion. I would suggest seeking a lady for one to one fun would be a start, and maybe if you find a regular fb for mutual fun, then you can couple up for fun. Enjoy the journey, meet fun people, and don't make ffm your only quest, or you may be disappointed. Good luck OP This, only said a lot nicer than I did Good advice Red Well this was the edited version. By the way, like your new pic.. looking hot in red Madame B. " Ditto dahling Is the whip to keep the wolf from the door | |||
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"Positives first. I am a planner so I appreciate your vision. You have a long term goal and have laid out steps to achieve that goal. It's nice and simple and clearly laid out. Your post wasn't negative or whiney. You had good positive energy. Your plan is ambitious but that's good. Aim high and don't be afraid of failure. The negatives have been mentioned. Your vision isn't unique. I'm sure 90% of men and 75% of couples on here are looking for a female partner in crime and i might be low on them figures. By stating publicly that you are only really interested in your P.I.C. as a wingman is also a bad look. That's what women would call a red flag. Most women wouldn't ignore a red flag like that. Also in your advertisement of yourself you mentioned money even if it was indirectly. That's a bit of an odd one and can be taken up in a few ways. Are you saying hey ladies, look at this cash. Open your legs and you can get nice things ... that is a bad thing generally speaking. A red flag if you will. It's demeaning and will be seen by most as reducing women to money hungry whores. You might have intended it as a demonstration of your stability and success. But as we all know in communication the important thing is what message is received not what you intended them to receive. If I were you I would shelve the long term plan for the moment. Start a new one. Go to socials and meet and greets. Meet as many people as you can and hopefully you can find a person you can connect with. Remember your wallet isn't a leg opener. It's just something that helps you pay for stuff. Happy fabbing balanced as always" I second that | |||
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"Positives first. I am a planner so I appreciate your vision. You have a long term goal and have laid out steps to achieve that goal. It's nice and simple and clearly laid out. Your post wasn't negative or whiney. You had good positive energy. Your plan is ambitious but that's good. Aim high and don't be afraid of failure. The negatives have been mentioned. Your vision isn't unique. I'm sure 90% of men and 75% of couples on here are looking for a female partner in crime and i might be low on them figures. By stating publicly that you are only really interested in your P.I.C. as a wingman is also a bad look. That's what women would call a red flag. Most women wouldn't ignore a red flag like that. Also in your advertisement of yourself you mentioned money even if it was indirectly. That's a bit of an odd one and can be taken up in a few ways. Are you saying hey ladies, look at this cash. Open your legs and you can get nice things ... that is a bad thing generally speaking. A red flag if you will. It's demeaning and will be seen by most as reducing women to money hungry whores. You might have intended it as a demonstration of your stability and success. But as we all know in communication the important thing is what message is received not what you intended them to receive. If I were you I would shelve the long term plan for the moment. Start a new one. Go to socials and meet and greets. Meet as many people as you can and hopefully you can find a person you can connect with. Remember your wallet isn't a leg opener. It's just something that helps you pay for stuff. Happy fabbing balanced as always I second that " | |||
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"OP doubt you will have lost this quest at the first hurdle which is attracting one lady. Why would a lady be attracted to you, if you're goal is simply not her but in what she can do for you, by rounding up other ladies. If you are trying a fast track route to ffm, this not a strategy likely to work, in my opinion. I would suggest seeking a lady for one to one fun would be a start, and maybe if you find a regular fb for mutual fun, then you can couple up for fun. Enjoy the journey, meet fun people, and don't make ffm your only quest, or you may be disappointed. Good luck OP " Perfectly said Now I'm looking for male to join me in a mmf all the lucky guy has to do is help find another guy to join us | |||
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"Fuck sake people, the blokes only looking a threesum, its given hes not a pups chance with his thread but no need to analyse the life out of it. " Think it not the quest for ffm but the method of which he chooses to do it. So don't think the posters are analysing it, more advising him and painting out the flaws in his strategy. Mr Arrows response is wise advice | |||
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