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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

would you have a blind meet? as in meet somebody without having seen a pic of them beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No"

nor would I

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Never

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I did last night actually. It went very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had lots of social meets with no pics

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

Nope, while the idea of meeting complete strangers is kinda hot to me in reality I need some attraction so it's better to have some idea first to avoid awkwardness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here."

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, while the idea of meeting complete strangers is kinda hot to me in reality I need some attraction so it's better to have some idea first to avoid awkwardness!"

yea it is kinda hot cause you never know what you'll get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't....time is precious so cant afford to waste it,better to have a good idea before you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik "
...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. ."

sending a face pic doesnt mean youre desperate..i don't know about you but i couldn't have sex with someone who has a head like a busted slipper..the head is important also

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. ."

How does sending face pics make someone desperate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

sending a face pic doesnt mean youre desperate..i don't know about you but i couldn't have sex with someone who has a head like a busted slipper..the head is important also "
....its not about who you have sex with. Its about security....sending pictures to random strangers comes across as slightly desperate to us....that's only our opinion of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met for coffee without exchanging face photos. If I ever send a face photo it's on kik only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see any need for a pic if its just a social meet

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Yip I have had a social coffee that ended up in a hotel and a repeat meet had a good sence of her trough mails first and just went for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? "
....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? ....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion"

Wow

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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would you have a blind meet? as in meet somebody without having seen a pic of them beforehand "

Don't usually but some three years ago i did with a nice cpl honest to god they were.

Anyhow it turned out to be a vast difference our ages ,he was a lanesbrough look a like & il not comment on his mrs

Never again.

Use kik now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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would you have a blind meet? as in meet somebody without having seen a pic of them beforehand

Don't usually but some three years ago i did with a nice cpl honest to god they were.

Anyhow it turned out to be a vast difference our ages ,he was a lanesbrough look a like & il not comment on his mrs

Never again.

Use kik now."

lanesborough lookalike

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? ....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion"

You're entitled to your opinion but I don't think many will share it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it twice. Wasn't worst experience ever. I only have social meets first anyway.

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"I've had lots of social meets with no pics"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its far from desperate sharing face pictures. Im not going to waste my time meeting someone who im not attracted to. When guys hold off showing photos and eventually they show them I have found its for a good reason they hide their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? ....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion

You're entitled to your opinion but I don't think many will share it.

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...I don't form my opinions to suit other people tbh

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? ....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion

You're entitled to your opinion but I don't think many will share it.

...I don't form my opinions to suit other people tbh"

No one's saying you do. I'm merely stating that your opinion will most likely be in the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? ....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion

You're entitled to your opinion but I don't think many will share it.

...I don't form my opinions to suit other people tbh

No one's saying you do. I'm merely stating that your opinion will most likely be in the minority."
...and that's your opinion. ..

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Its far from desperate sharing face pictures. Im not going to waste my time meeting someone who im not attracted to. When guys hold off showing photos and eventually they show them I have found its for a good reason they hide their face "

Guilty. I'm not a good looking man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? ....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion

You're entitled to your opinion but I don't think many will share it.

...I don't form my opinions to suit other people tbh

No one's saying you do. I'm merely stating that your opinion will most likely be in the minority."

First 1 or 2 guys I met for a coffee meet never showed their face picture and they were very uncomfortable experiences. It is hard to spend time with a person that you do not fancy dressed never mind naked. Especially when think they think they are gorgeous

But are not my cup of tea

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here."

I have met people without seeing their face pics, some dont like to post them on here like WarriorQueen.

Would also meet people socially without any pics, sure what harm can it do.

If there is nothing there, i find it ok just meeting people for a chat and a drink...

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By *unguy151Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

No id find it odd if they refused to send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic no meet. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every other day there's someone starting a thread about" someone stole my pics and is threatening to expose me"...blah blah blah....I just find it unbelievable that anyone would send a face pic to a relative stranger.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy


"Every other day there's someone starting a thread about" someone stole my pics and is threatening to expose me"...blah blah blah....I just find it unbelievable that anyone would send a face pic to a relative stranger. "

Fair point, there was 1 a couple of days ago on here.

Yous wouldnt need to some me your face pics, your body pics look real fine, WarriorQueen....

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

If u don't have a face photo how do u know who u are meeting , n one other thing if I'm meeting a person I would have to insist on a phone number cos if u are genuine u won't mind swapping nos .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya I would because a picture does not always give a true picture!!Nothing like meeting face to face

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Every other day there's someone starting a thread about" someone stole my pics and is threatening to expose me"...blah blah blah....I just find it unbelievable that anyone would send a face pic to a relative stranger. "

No one would want to steal my face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every other day there's someone starting a thread about" someone stole my pics and is threatening to expose me"...blah blah blah....I just find it unbelievable that anyone would send a face pic to a relative stranger.

No one would want to steal my face pic. "
...we rent ours out for haunting houses..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u don't have a face photo how do u know who u are meeting , n one other thing if I'm meeting a person I would have to insist on a phone number cos if u are genuine u won't mind swapping nos . "

Simple, arrange a time and place and give an indication as to what you will be wearing and a brief description of yourself. I have never had the need to give my phone number out and nor will I.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If u don't have a face photo how do u know who u are meeting , n one other thing if I'm meeting a person I would have to insist on a phone number cos if u are genuine u won't mind swapping nos .

Simple, arrange a time and place and give an indication as to what you will be wearing and a brief description of yourself. I have never had the need to give my phone number out and nor will I."

you wouldn't be too hard to find you're arse would be hanging out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u don't have a face photo how do u know who u are meeting , n one other thing if I'm meeting a person I would have to insist on a phone number cos if u are genuine u won't mind swapping nos .

Simple, arrange a time and place and give an indication as to what you will be wearing and a brief description of yourself. I have never had the need to give my phone number out and nor will I."
...we have a fone just for fab purposes. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u don't have a face photo how do u know who u are meeting , n one other thing if I'm meeting a person I would have to insist on a phone number cos if u are genuine u won't mind swapping nos .

Simple, arrange a time and place and give an indication as to what you will be wearing and a brief description of yourself. I have never had the need to give my phone number out and nor will I....we have a fone just for fab purposes. .... "

I did too but never used it for phone calls so I got rid and just use kik now

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I did two meets without a face pic, one was excellent, the other one was a walk out. I don't think I'd do it again, the risk of a no go is too big and my fun time too precious.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy


"Ya I would because a picture does not always give a true picture!!Nothing like meeting face to face"

Have been told by a few i have met that i look much better than in my pics.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

It wouldn't bother me. As long as they know from the start it's a coffee and nothing else. If it's someone I don't fancy or I don't want to spend time with then it's a short coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm sure I would and have done before, like most people look much the same anyway, more or less....unless I met somebody a few times, I wouldn't even recognize them if I was sitting across from them....but if I saw a picture of them, and never even met them on a meet i probably would, my brain seems to store images pretty well, faces on meets not as well, it's kinda odd.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Yeah I'm sure I would and have done before, like most people look much the same anyway, more or less....unless I met somebody a few times, I wouldn't even recognize them if I was sitting across from them....but if I saw a picture of them, and never even met them on a meet i probably would, my brain seems to store images pretty well, faces on meets not as well, it's kinda odd. "

Rhino you need a pair of glasses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Rhino you need a pair of glasses! "

You might be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets were blind meets...social. not a hope in hell of us ever putting face pics on here.

I dont mean on here..pics can be sent on kik ...anywhere. ...we would never send face pics to strangers...we're horny, not desperate. .

How does sending face pics make someone desperate? ....we think that anyone who sends random strangers face pic's from a sex site, is slightly desperate. ..its just our opinion

You're entitled to your opinion but I don't think many will share it. "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

Rhino you need a pair of glasses!

You might be right. "

Nothing to be ashamed of. Once you hit the 40ties it's only natural. Wait until the knee replacements and the hearing aid kicks in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did ye say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm rapidly going downhill since i hit 40...I must've aged 20 years in the last ten...at least.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Yeah I'm rapidly going downhill since i hit 40...I must've aged 20 years in the last ten...at least."

Do you still get it up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'm rapidly going downhill since i hit 40...I must've aged 20 years in the last ten...at least.

Do you still get it up? "

Not as often as I used to.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Yeah I'm rapidly going downhill since i hit 40...I must've aged 20 years in the last ten...at least.

Do you still get it up?

Not as often as I used to. "

The advantage of being a woman, I think I get more horny as older I get...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

:P ...ah that's good.

Yeah defo sliding the other direction here, I guess life is getting the way more the older I get....and I sure ain't getting any better looking either....things better start changing (..or I better start changing things)

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


":P ...ah that's good.

Yeah defo sliding the other direction here, I guess life is getting the way more the older I get....and I sure ain't getting any better looking either....things better start changing (..or I better start changing things) "

Bit of grey hair and a wrinkle here and there can be sexy for some

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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago

Dublin

No way, they'd at least need a body pic.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"No face pic no meet. Simple "

This

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Have done coffee meets blind. Sure its only coffee.

Thats the whole idea of the social meet in the first place.

And have seen many pics that look nothing like they do in real. Several on the site using older pics that i have met at the socials that look nothing like their pics.

10 seconds face to face is better than a dozen pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, if it was a social drink/coffee.

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By *urious2013cCouple
over a year ago

Co Cork

It's far from desperate looking for a face pic before meeting we have no intention of walking into a room to meet someone not having a clue what they look like and won't meet even for a coffee without seeing one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's far from desperate looking for a face pic before meeting we have no intention of walking into a room to meet someone not having a clue what they look like and won't meet even for a coffee without seeing one "
.....we did say it was our opinion. ...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's far from desperate looking for a face pic before meeting we have no intention of walking into a room to meet someone not having a clue what they look like and won't meet even for a coffee without seeing one .....we did say it was our opinion. ..."

you're repeating yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's far from desperate looking for a face pic before meeting we have no intention of walking into a room to meet someone not having a clue what they look like and won't meet even for a coffee without seeing one .....we did say it was our opinion. ...

you're repeating yourself "
.....its an age thing. ....just you wait. .....

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's far from desperate looking for a face pic before meeting we have no intention of walking into a room to meet someone not having a clue what they look like and won't meet even for a coffee without seeing one .....we did say it was our opinion. ...

you're repeating yourself .....its an age thing. ....just you wait. ..... "

ehh? What did you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's was set out as a social meet with no further expectation's then yes I would but from a man's point of view the risks aren't as great.

If the meet was open to more as in play then no because I would hate to put myself in a position to have to say no I'm just not into someone physically. Both could come away feeling hurt and if you can avoid hurting someone's feeling then you should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's was set out as a social meet with no further expectation's then yes I would but from a man's point of view the risks aren't as great.

If the meet was open to more as in play then no because I would hate to put myself in a position to have to say no I'm just not into someone physically. Both could come away feeling hurt and if you can avoid hurting someone's feeling then you should "

Well said hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll not send a face pick unless asked or will I ask for one, it's only a social meet first so it doesn't matter....

However some of the face pictures I have got are at least 10yrs old and some guys who claim to be 42 are more like 62....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll not send a face pick unless asked or will I ask for one, it's only a social meet first so it doesn't matter....

However some of the face pictures I have got are at least 10yrs old and some guys who claim to be 42 are more like 62....

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I don't get it...what do they think is going to happen when you see that they have obviously lied... I doubt anyone is going to think ah sure I have dressed up now I might as well!!! I would walk out of that situation and not bloody politely! It's hard enough to balance fab and real world and get time to go on meets so if that happens to me... I would make mince meat of them and not in a kinky way. Open honesty makes fab work. Just don'tget it! #baffled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have done coffee meets blind. Sure its only coffee.

Thats the whole idea of the social meet in the first place.

And have seen many pics that look nothing like they do in real. Several on the site using older pics that i have met at the socials that look nothing like their pics.

10 seconds face to face is better than a dozen pics. "

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