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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on/off here for a number of months and to date have had no luck with ladies. Is it just that you are all overwhelmed with the number of us horny guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much. Plus a percentage of single guys on here are idiot jerks who give the rest of us a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'll be honest, I'm not single, but at the same time I'm not a jerk!

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Put more pics up, different angles mix it up a little.

State your attached then your being honest and up front and the woman can decide to meet or not.

My 2c worth anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'll be honest, I'm not single, but at the same time I'm not a jerk!"

Maybe that should be on your profile...

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath


"Well I'll be honest, I'm not single, but at the same time I'm not a jerk!

Maybe that should be on your profile..."

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Put more pics up, different angles mix it up a little.

State your attached then your being honest and up front and the woman can decide to meet or not.

My 2c worth anyways.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I add that as a single male who has been on here a while - you may like to display your new veri.

Lots of women don't trust the one veri'd male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all - no idea who left the verification. It says it won't display verifications for users who gave left fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all - no idea who left the verification. It says it won't display verifications for users who gave left fab."

They veri'd and left the site in 40 minutes. Wow!! - what did you do to them? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a cock-pic as your avatar would be an instant No-No - try a body shot without the meat-and-two veg!

Cute Derrierre though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all - no idea who left the verification. It says it won't display verifications for users who gave left fab.

They veri'd and left the site in 40 minutes. Wow!! - what did you do to them? lol"

Your guess is as good as mine!?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It can be difficult for established males too, so keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on/off here for a number of months and to date have had no luck with ladies. Is it just that you are all overwhelmed with the number of us horny guys?

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Our 2c would be to change ur profile pic to something else, like a teasing pic, every single person on here knows what a cock looks like so be a bit different,another thing is to have a few pics up instead of just the two, your married which some women and couples wont entertain but then again some are looking for that, for us picking someone its all about attitude and manners....have both and you should do ok to be fair, obviously if ur an arse then ur gunna get nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I add that as a single male who has been on here a while - you may like to display your new veri.

Lots of women don't trust the one veri'd male"

One veri male here myself but it can be hard get a second one. Have chatted a few people and couples, been let down on a couple of meets and had to pull out of one myself due to work commitments at short notice. I can understand why women wary of some with one veri but there are some of us genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a cock-pic as your avatar would be an instant No-No - try a body shot without the meat-and-two veg!

Cute Derrierre though"

You just want to see his ass Marie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct sir

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Your cock looks like it's throwing a punch but I agree, nice ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's there - on his profile - I couldn't miss it - but it is a lovely derrierre!

Shame he's nowhere near Cork, though


"You just want to see his ass Marie "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's there - on his profile - I couldn't miss it - but it is a lovely derrierre!

Shame he's nowhere near Cork, though

You just want to see his ass Marie "

Now now maire we all know u just love to pinch his buff cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note though. Does anyone actually find cock pics attractive? I really can't think of a worse part of the body to lead with. I know most guys love their cock, but it's a bit like having an ugly child. You may real love that child but you're not going to enter it in a beauty pageant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG yes!! I hate getting dick pics lol. They're just not aesthetically pleasing are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a serious note though. Does anyone actually find cock pics attractive? I really can't think of a worse part of the body to lead with. I know most guys love their cock, but it's a bit like having an ugly child. You may real love that child but you're not going to enter it in a beauty pageant. "

Pmsl but true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I add that as a single male who has been on here a while - you may like to display your new veri.

Lots of women don't trust the one veri'd male

One veri male here myself but it can be hard get a second one. Have chatted a few people and couples, been let down on a couple of meets and had to pull out of one myself due to work commitments at short notice. I can understand why women wary of some with one veri but there are some of us genuine "

It was more the hidden veri'd ones I was on about (tho not always).

Good luck with your second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pictures are a major turn off. Photos of your bits don't excite me. Your cock in front of me yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the hiddens ones always throw me off a profile...they tell me nothing about how genuine a person might be...but each to their own, some people prefer to hide them...cock pics aint that all bad, i think mine looks lovely ...but you can bet a lot of girls dont like them, and if theyre attracting any attention its generally other fellahs checking them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I add that as a single male who has been on here a while - you may like to display your new veri.

Lots of women don't trust the one veri'd male

One veri male here myself but it can be hard get a second one. Have chatted a few people and couples, been let down on a couple of meets and had to pull out of one myself due to work commitments at short notice. I can understand why women wary of some with one veri but there are some of us genuine

It was more the hidden veri'd ones I was on about (tho not always).

Good luck with your second "

I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha"

Get to a meet and greet, be friendly and be polite. You'll get verified and maybe more.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

If you're polite, respectful and not pushy you're off to a good start, even better if your profile expresses a bit of your personality. Use your pics to your advantage, post a pic that is maybe somewhat unique compared to the 100s of other generic pics on the site.

After that it just requires patience. While I only have the one veri I have made a few connections with ladies from around the country on here and we chat on Whatsapp, KIK and on here but we could go weeks without contacting each other. There's no need to bombard the ladies with messages every few days.

Just take it handy and don't stress about it. It's not easy but then anything (or anyone) worth doing never is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha

Get to a meet and greet, be friendly and be polite. You'll get verified and maybe more. "

I must do that just been bad timing with the ones I looked at so far, don't want to say I'll attend if not sure I can make it. Plus I'd be spotted a mile away as a first timer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha

Get to a meet and greet, be friendly and be polite. You'll get verified and maybe more.

I must do that just been bad timing with the ones I looked at so far, don't want to say I'll attend if not sure I can make it. Plus I'd be spotted a mile away as a first timer lol "

Don't ever worry about being a first timer - we were all that once. And I'd bet a pound to a penny you wouldn't be the only first timer on the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will keep an eye on the meets and greets and hopefully make it to one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once again, thanks everyone! I'll get some more pics up asap

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha

Get to a meet and greet, be friendly and be polite. You'll get verified and maybe more.

I must do that just been bad timing with the ones I looked at so far, don't want to say I'll attend if not sure I can make it. Plus I'd be spotted a mile away as a first timer lol

Don't ever worry about being a first timer - we were all that once. And I'd bet a pound to a penny you wouldn't be the only first timer on the night"

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The worst bit is when you arrive and the people at the door announce you under a spotlight.. "This is XXXX, a first timer here!" and then put a sticker on you and they then get you to read your profile out for all to hear!

After that it's grand!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha

Get to a meet and greet, be friendly and be polite. You'll get verified and maybe more.

I must do that just been bad timing with the ones I looked at so far, don't want to say I'll attend if not sure I can make it. Plus I'd be spotted a mile away as a first timer lol

Don't ever worry about being a first timer - we were all that once. And I'd bet a pound to a penny you wouldn't be the only first timer on the night

.

The worst bit is when you arrive and the people at the door announce you under a spotlight.. "This is XXXX, a first timer here!" and then put a sticker on you and they then get you to read your profile out for all to hear!

After that it's grand!! "

......and the hat....tell him about the hat...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha

Get to a meet and greet, be friendly and be polite. You'll get verified and maybe more.

I must do that just been bad timing with the ones I looked at so far, don't want to say I'll attend if not sure I can make it. Plus I'd be spotted a mile away as a first timer lol

Don't ever worry about being a first timer - we were all that once. And I'd bet a pound to a penny you wouldn't be the only first timer on the night

.

The worst bit is when you arrive and the people at the door announce you under a spotlight.. "This is XXXX, a first timer here!" and then put a sticker on you and they then get you to read your profile out for all to hear!

After that it's grand!! ......and the hat....tell him about the hat..."

.

Don't want to scare anyone away... the hat can be very very embarrassing!!

Anyway it is only worn for an hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I may have to give up soon if I don't get one haha

Get to a meet and greet, be friendly and be polite. You'll get verified and maybe more.

I must do that just been bad timing with the ones I looked at so far, don't want to say I'll attend if not sure I can make it. Plus I'd be spotted a mile away as a first timer lol

Don't ever worry about being a first timer - we were all that once. And I'd bet a pound to a penny you wouldn't be the only first timer on the night

.

The worst bit is when you arrive and the people at the door announce you under a spotlight.. "This is XXXX, a first timer here!" and then put a sticker on you and they then get you to read your profile out for all to hear!

After that it's grand!! ......and the hat....tell him about the hat...

.

Don't want to scare anyone away... the hat can be very very embarrassing!!

Anyway it is only worn for an hour!"

Cruel - but funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on/off here for a number of months and to date have had no luck with ladies. Is it just that you are all overwhelmed with the number of us horny guys?

Our 2c would be to change ur profile pic to something else, like a teasing pic, every single person on here knows what a cock looks like so be a bit different,another thing is to have a few pics up instead of just the two, your married which some women and couples wont entertain but then again some are looking for that, for us picking someone its all about attitude and manners....have both and you should do ok to be fair, obviously if ur an arse then ur gunna get nothing lol "

I've been on this ages now, but still nothing, can some one please tell me what am I doing wrong, It seems when I message people, my messages gets deleted straight away with out even been read, or it gets read but never get a reply, am I that Ugly ? lol I've explained on my profile about me and what I'm looking for and have pics up of me,

I just think theres far to many picky stuck up girls on this, Theres far to many Guys and not enough Girls on this, so the Girls have plenty to choose from, its so unfair lol

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Don't ever worry about being a first timer - we were all that once. And I'd bet a pound to a penny you wouldn't be the only first timer on the night

.

The worst bit is when you arrive and the people at the door announce you under a spotlight.. "This is XXXX, a first timer here!" and then put a sticker on you and they then get you to read your profile out for all to hear!

After that it's grand!! ......and the hat....tell him about the hat...

.

Don't want to scare anyone away... the hat can be very very embarrassing!!

Anyway it is only worn for an hour!

Cruel - but funny "

.

It was a bit cruel!! Was glad when first hour was over...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Been on/off here for a number of months and to date have had no luck with ladies. Is it just that you are all overwhelmed with the number of us horny guys?

Our 2c would be to change ur profile pic to something else, like a teasing pic, every single person on here knows what a cock looks like so be a bit different,another thing is to have a few pics up instead of just the two, your married which some women and couples wont entertain but then again some are looking for that, for us picking someone its all about attitude and manners....have both and you should do ok to be fair, obviously if ur an arse then ur gunna get nothing lol

I've been on this ages now, but still nothing, can some one please tell me what am I doing wrong, It seems when I message people, my messages gets deleted straight away with out even been read, or it gets read but never get a reply, am I that Ugly ? lol I've explained on my profile about me and what I'm looking for and have pics up of me,

I just think theres far to many picky stuck up girls on this, Theres far to many Guys and not enough Girls on this, so the Girls have plenty to choose from, its so unfair lol "

1. You have one veri from a webcam from a year ago that isn't shown. Some would see that you're not making an effort to get meet verified.

Solution: have a social verify either by coffee meet or go to a larger meet and greet.

2. Your pics are friends pics only. How can potential meets browse/perv you?

Solution: make more of your pics public, and tasteful. We dont need to see ten different pics of your cock.

3. Who are you?

Solution: get involved in the forums. Contribute to discussions. Show some of your personality here, but most of all don't be an Asshole.

This has been brought to you by the John Mingo school of getting meets.

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