FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never thought I would see the day that I would write a post on the forum let alone complaining..... These days I am struggling with being bored, angry, annoyed and tired answering same old stuff! Last night I nearly deleted but stopped as there is too much I enjoy..... Mood swings are part of a lady's makeup, right? I will get over it..... Just needed to air my frustration...... Breathe...... Rant over!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never thought I would see the day that I would write a post on the forum let alone complaining..... These days I am struggling with being bored, angry, annoyed and tired answering same old stuff! Last night I nearly deleted but stopped as there is too much I enjoy..... Mood swings are part of a lady's makeup, right? I will get over it..... Just needed to air my frustration...... Breathe...... Rant over!!!!

Its a normal thing hun

hope u feel better after getting it off your chest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through the exact same thing last week. Glad now I didn't delete though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know exactly how you feel Hun, I was hovering over the delete button last wk but I have money down for the Halloween social so didn't. Chin up, we all have bad days, hide your profile and take a little while away and it will revitalise your love for the place xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate and a hot water bottle might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be in the air as I'm contemplating doing the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you ladies I knew you would know what I am talking about,,,,, I know I will be grand!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Know exactly how you feel Hun, I was hovering over the delete button last wk but I have money down for the Halloween social so didn't. Chin up, we all have bad days, hide your profile and take a little while away and it will revitalise your love for the place xx"

And I have my name down for that miss Lollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps block all mail or at least mail from us single guys, as we seem to cause the most trouble. Shame to see people leave like that

Hope it improves for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm defo the same. I've found lately that the attitude of a lot of guys here had completely changed. They are rude, ignorant and think all women here are an easy fuck. They don't seem to realise it's a swinging site not a will anyone fuck me now site.

I got called a timewaster last week by a guy who I had turned down after 2 messages as he wasn't my type. This coming from a guy here over a year with no veris

But just when I decide to delete I get a message from a guy who's definitely worth talking to.. so hang in there. There are some nice guys here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear ya girls...

We're literally Birds of a feather, stick together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I almost deleted my account the other day too.

Maybe hide your profile for a bit and take a break x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem.felt like saying goodbye getting mails from guys n u didn't reply the hot nasty so I had to block them.all only way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm defo the same. I've found lately that the attitude of a lot of guys here had completely changed. They are rude, ignorant and think all women here are an easy fuck. They don't seem to realise it's a swinging site not a will anyone fuck me now site.

I got called a timewaster last week by a guy who I had turned down after 2 messages as he wasn't my type. This coming from a guy here over a year with no veris

But just when I decide to delete I get a message from a guy who's definitely worth talking to.. so hang in there. There are some nice guys here

I agree with you whole heartedly and that's what keeps me from deleting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had the same problem.felt like saying goodbye getting mails from guys n u didn't reply the hot nasty so I had to block them.all only way "

I've added about 40 guys too my block list this summer and that's lot for me. I even raised my age filters to try stop the younger ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a timewaster last week by a guy who I had turned down after 2 messages as he wasn't my type. This coming from a guy here over a year with no veris

But just when I decide to delete I get a message from a guy who's definitely worth talking to.. so hang in there. There are some nice guys here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I almost deleted my account the other day too.

Maybe hide your profile for a bit and take a break x"

I thought about that but I am adicted so you go into withdrawal

Actually posting this thread and hearing that I am not alone a d getting so many positive messages have helped tremendously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's not fair on some blokes but it's the only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what about all the nice guys surely were worth a mention...oh wait that's self praise...chin up moca don't let the small majority of arse holes get u down

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I totaly know what ur saying they think we just here for a quick fook and will mount anything that batt their eye lids at us

Ooppsss jayus I thought this was a bitching thread

Hide in the bushes awhile mock u know there's lots of fun to be had in the bushes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you CJ and Bill! I know there are plenty of top class single guys I have had the pleasure of meeting some, I seem to be hearing from the not so classy at the moment, believe it or not I am feeling a lot better after getting things off my chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you CJ and Bill! I know there are plenty of top class single guys I have had the pleasure of meeting some, I seem to be hearing from the not so classy at the moment, believe it or not I am feeling a lot better after getting things off my chest

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....can we ask what was on you're chest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully it starts to pass soon.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I've seen some of the messages women get, I seriously wonder at the mental state of these men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

....can we ask what was on you're chest?

Would like to think every man and woman's dream, pity age takes its toll lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen some of the messages women get, I seriously wonder at the mental state of these men. "

Mine were the best tho John

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple
over a year ago

mayo

Keep your chin up Moca! We are not all assholes ! There are a lot of sound guys here !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank God for that Shaztone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....can we ask what was on you're chest?

Would like to think every man and woman's dream, pity age takes its toll lol"
...we couldn't possibly comment without a closer inspection. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen some of the messages women get, I seriously wonder at the mental state of these men. "
I agree some of the girls I have met showed me some message's they get.very scary worrying text's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mocha you are one of the nicest ladies on the site and I really mean lady!

You've always happy been a happy positive person especially when times were tough for me and I needed a friend...

But like many of the girls have said I too have felt like deleting my profile (don't go cracking out the champagne just yet I'm still here) because of some ridiculous drama this week!! Just when I thought things were going good for me!! So don't let it get you down..

I've realised this week especially those people don't deserve you!

Chin up xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all unreasonable bastards NOT.....but show a little class guys. One day it might well be recognised for what it is ....

Do onto others as you would have others do unto you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....can we ask what was on you're chest?

Would like to think every man and woman's dream, pity age takes its toll lol...we couldn't possibly comment without a closer inspection. ..

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how close warrior

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By *ara44Woman
over a year ago

city

Sorry for hijack guys,,,but bill is one of the true gentleman on this site top class gent ,just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man Bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks mammy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks mammy

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I've seen some of the messages women get, I seriously wonder at the mental state of these men.

Mine were the best tho John

They'd be hard to beat.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Hang in there Moca, it just seems worse because Donegal are out of the championship. There's always next year for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was close to deleting my account. Because of real life non fab problems we put the couple's account on hidden and i started this one (didn't feel right chatting on the other account without her).

I had even written a message I was going to send to a few people on here who I want to keep in touch with.

I'm glad I didn't.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I was close to deleting my account. Because of real life non fab problems we put the couple's account on hidden and i started this one (didn't feel right chatting on the other account without her).

I had even written a message I was going to send to a few people on here who I want to keep in touch with.

I'm glad I didn't.

Are you glad you didn't delete or glad you didn't send the message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the others here. Chin up and keep going! Not all us single guys are bad just as there are some fab ladies too. Connecting with the right one is the problem...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I was close to deleting my account. Because of real life non fab problems we put the couple's account on hidden and i started this one (didn't feel right chatting on the other account without her).

I had even written a message I was going to send to a few people on here who I want to keep in touch with.

I'm glad I didn't.

Are you glad you didn't delete or glad you didn't send the message? "

Wait, never mind, I know what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah youll feel better in a day or two mocca, take the good with bad like everything else in life, dont bother leving, just sign out for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and you should organise a party for your 40 snow...just for them.

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By *ocko123Man
over a year ago

Derry

Hugs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...and you should organise a party for your 40 snow...just for them.

Maybe I should post something on the mutual wank thread for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen some of the messages women get, I seriously wonder at the mental state of these men.

Mine were the best tho John

They'd be hard to beat.

Yea they even shocked me and that's not easy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hang in there Moca, it just seems worse because Donegal are out of the championship. There's always next year for that!

You just made me smile Michael lol Donegal will be back when least suspected.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a full moon hun as they are out in force! Debated deleting over the last few week's but the good few are worth trowling through the rest for...fab is fab when it's a good day and worth the rest of it...from the meets to the social side of it and the support you get on the threads...hang in there girl... you're worth it

P.s. Arrows, who will keep us informed on the threads if you leave...love your input. And as for the rest of you funny hole's...love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that lots of eejits forget that there are are real live humans at the other end of a profile here . I have lost count of the amount of times ive been told to get over myself , that this is a sex site and that women here are both ugly cnuts and desperate and that if I am not here to dole out blow jobs im on the wrong site . Now luckily , I pay fuck all attention to these idiots and my block list is off the chart . The sane , decent folk on here are very much so worth sticking around to engage , so chin up and onwards and upwards . x

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

So many ladies thinking about deleting makes me a little sad.

So many in this forum i would like to meet and a few i would love to play with.

While i get why you feel like that i live in hope that you stick around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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we all feel like that sometimes, but we should be thankful we have our health, food on the table and a roof over our head, my dad died last year my mother a few weeks ago and im trying hard to look after my young brother's and sister's, there are people out there with worse problems. So hold your head up high try to smile and keep a spring in your step.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many ladies thinking about deleting makes me a little sad.

So many in this forum i would like to meet and a few i would love to play with.

While i get why you feel like that i live in hope that you stick around. "

I will stay, too much to loose otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we all feel like that sometimes, but we should be thankful we have our health, food on the table and a roof over our head, my dad died last year my mother a few weeks ago and im trying hard to look after my young brother's and sister's, there are people out there with worse problems. So hold your head up high try to smile and keep a spring in your step."

My condolences to you and your family! Really I should be ashamed to be ranting about trivialities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My condolences. A mother's death is hard to bear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My condolences to you and your family! Really I should be ashamed to be ranting about trivialities!

A good aul' rant never killed anyone. You know you'll be fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs Moca xoxo chin up and boobs out, your a strong beautiful lady and I'm sure there's an amazing meet around the corner xxx

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"Hugs Moca xoxo chin up and boobs out, your a strong beautiful lady and I'm sure there's an amazing meet around the corner xxx"

Here Here... X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs Moca xoxo chin up and boobs out, your a strong beautiful lady and I'm sure there's an amazing meet around the corner xxx

Here Here... X x "

Hear hear!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...and you should organise a party for your 40 snow...just for them.

Maybe I should post something on the mutual wank thread for them

You wont fit 60 wanking lads in one room huddled around an ipad watching redtupe...tell them you'll meet them in a field of some sort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hugs Moca xoxo chin up and boobs out, your a strong beautiful lady and I'm sure there's an amazing meet around the corner xxx"

Thank you ms, I sure hope you are right! With all the fantastic comments I am feeling a whole lot better xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs Moca xoxo chin up and boobs out, your a strong beautiful lady and I'm sure there's an amazing meet around the corner xxx

Thank you ms, I sure hope you are right! With all the fantastic comments I am feeling a whole lot better xxx"

Good women xoxo

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Thank fook im not the only one feeling like this!! Ive never seen Fab so bad in all the 4yrs ive been here, normally it picks up after a couple of mnths but it doesnt seem to be getting any better this time round.. ive even been questioning my standards lately, thinkin im jus bein too picky but id rather delete my acc than lower them... thanx for your rant OP, big sigh of relief here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you ladies I knew you would know what I am talking about,,,,, I know I will be grand!!"
your not on your own tomorrow is another day

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

OK it is very understandable that ladies get fed up with all the crap messages they get!

Very understandable that they just Bulk delete messages!

Very understandable that they don't reply because they get abuse back!

Very understandable that there is a thread like this!

FAB has indeed gone bad... and it is into this environment genuine guys have to try to wade through!

It certainly has gone downhill in past 6 months!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK it is very understandable that ladies get fed up with all the crap messages they get!

Very understandable that they just Bulk delete messages!

Very understandable that they don't reply because they get abuse back!

I agree

Very understandable that there is a thread like this!

FAB has indeed gone bad... and it is into this environment genuine guys have to try to wade through!

It certainly has gone downhill in past 6 months!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK it is very understandable that ladies get fed up with all the crap messages they get!

Very understandable that they just Bulk delete messages!

Very understandable that they don't reply because they get abuse back!

I agree

Very understandable that there is a thread like this!

FAB has indeed gone bad... and it is into this environment genuine guys have to try to wade through!

It certainly has gone downhill in past 6 months!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK it is very understandable that ladies get fed up with all the crap messages they get!

Very understandable that they just Bulk delete messages!

Very understandable that they don't reply because they get abuse back!

I agree

Very understandable that there is a thread like this!

FAB has indeed gone bad... and it is into this environment genuine guys have to try to wade through!

It certainly has gone downhill in past 6 months!!"

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

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To all the ladies & gents out there that have ever contemplated leaving because of abuse from others, I'd just like to say one thing: As bad as it can sometimes get please don't delete yourselves because not only will the rest of us will miss you, but it means the Neanderthals won. They became extinct thousands of years ago, hopefully it won't take that long for these ones to go the same way. Rant over & soapbox broken before I get on it again....

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