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"Mine is hidden as I like privacy though if asked I will show it. Some show all their verifs Some show a few Some show none Some straight men show verifs from bi guys Some women who def dont meet married men show verifs from married men Its the very strange world of Fab! "so true lol | |||
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"I'm only suspicious of hidden veris if they only have one from months ago. Or if they're verified very shortly after joining and that's hidden too. " And the dozens of men that have a veri from one of 1 or 2 women who happen to live miles and miles away | |||
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"I'm only suspicious of hidden veris if they only have one from months ago. Or if they're verified very shortly after joining and that's hidden too. " Oops! I only have one and that was from a fab friend that i had met the last time i was on fab. Saying that, i hide it because the details are private. I see veri's simply. They confirm if you are genuine. If i feel a fabber is genuine to their profile, i will verify them. If not, i won't. | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met " Rude!!  | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met " Never dream of asking people about putting a word in for me with others. Infact i wouldnt even mention any one from comments on some ones profile, that would not be discreet. Golden rule of swinging, dont mention anyones name or profile. | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Rude!! "Not rude! The way it is for a lot of people... it's rude when someone has been turned down by someone else and then asks the verification people to vouch for them. Drives me bonker's | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met " Yes! This happens a lot!!!! | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!!" Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask!   | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met " I've never had that happen, but I can see why that would make you want to hide them! | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!! Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask! "You don't need favours mickey, your reputation precedes you lol | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Rude!!
Not rude! The way it is for a lot of people... it's rude when someone has been turned down by someone else and then asks the verification people to vouch for them. Drives me bonker's "I meant rude of someone asking you to put a good word on for them. They should do their own chatting and rapport building etc. Personally i am not here to do the ground work for others. | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Rude!!
Not rude! The way it is for a lot of people... it's rude when someone has been turned down by someone else and then asks the verification people to vouch for them. Drives me bonker's
I meant rude of someone asking you to put a good word on for them. They should do their own chatting and rapport building etc. Personally i am not here to do the ground work for others. "Totally agree  | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!! Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask!
You don't need favours mickey, your reputation precedes you lol "Is that fecker looking for another favour? He's never satisfied  | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Rude!!
Not rude! The way it is for a lot of people... it's rude when someone has been turned down by someone else and then asks the verification people to vouch for them. Drives me bonker's
I meant rude of someone asking you to put a good word on for them. They should do their own chatting and rapport building etc. Personally i am not here to do the ground work for others.
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!! Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask!
You don't need favours mickey, your reputation precedes you lol
Is that fecker looking for another favour?
He's never satisfied "So the rumours have it anyway  | |||
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"Yeah, they're all fake & hidden so you can't check who gave them. It's a dark circle... "....come with me to the dark side luke.. | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!! Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask!
You don't need favours mickey, your reputation precedes you lol
Is that fecker looking for another favour?
He's never satisfied
So the rumours have it anyway "It takes at least twenty seconds. I'm a big fan of edging now. . Apologies for the diversion | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!! Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask!
You don't need favours mickey, your reputation precedes you lol
Is that fecker looking for another favour?
He's never satisfied
So the rumours have it anyway
It takes at least twenty seconds. I'm a big fan of edging now.
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Apologies for the diversion "I see what you did there... Is there a certain tool for that? (You being a horticulturist and paving man) | |||
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!! Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask!
You don't need favours mickey, your reputation precedes you lol
Is that fecker looking for another favour?
He's never satisfied
So the rumours have it anyway
It takes at least twenty seconds. I'm a big fan of edging now.
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Apologies for the diversion
I see what you did there...
Is there a certain tool for that?
(You being a horticulturist and paving, synthetic grass, fencing and general landscaping services man in the greater Dublin area)
"No, I'm not big into edging lawns 
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"I've mine hidden at the moment and the only reason I have them hidden is because I'm tired of people asking me to put a word in for them with the people I've met Yes! This happens a lot!!!! Hey, gimme a shout, I have a favour to ask!
You don't need favours mickey, your reputation precedes you lol
Is that fecker looking for another favour?
He's never satisfied
So the rumours have it anyway
It takes at least twenty seconds. I'm a big fan of edging now.
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Apologies for the diversion
I see what you did there...
Is there a certain tool for that?
(You being a horticulturist and paving, synthetic grass, fencing and general landscaping services man in the greater Dublin area)
No, I'm not big into edging lawns
Will you stop or people will think you're advertising my services "A man who services on fab...never before seen... | |||
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"Why do people do this so much on here....anybody ever meet many on here that work their profole that way." I hide veris and summary because we have freedom of choice and I choose not to, for various reasons. Firstly, I am a very private person believe it or not, i blush and get embarrassed. I don't like the attention good or bad and drama that veris bring. So simply my meets have met me based on their own judgement and not judged me from others opinions or on who I have met. It works for me anyhow... | |||
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"I've my veris on display, only hiding veris from repeat meets, my summary is no ones business. " None of its anybodies business...but they provide some security as to who you might be meeting with, i think they do any anyway....not complete security...some security though. | |||
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"Oh that was at cup of tea dh." ? No cup of teas or coffees here | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. "  | |||
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"Oh that was at cup of tea dh. ? No cup of teas or coffees here" Noo...cup of teas post above you. | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. " That's awful... respect is a two way street...lucky escape I say | |||
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"Oh that was at cup of tea dh. ? No cup of teas or coffees here Noo...cup of teas post above you. " Ah ok, I already became suspicious that my alter ego did coffee meets I don't know of... | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. "See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met." Why would it matter who they had met? | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x.
See what verifications can attract...
I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it.
Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met."They can be very telling though, and I've met guys who completely live up to their veris! These are the gems! | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met?" It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters." I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met? | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met?" Oh I see the problem
I think he meant than... | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met?" Think he was saying 'than' with who they met there....predict a text. | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met?" Wouldnt be going through their verifications to see who they have met. Would be more drawn to their profile and chatting to them myself. Might read a few of the comments some times, if i got chattimg to them. But i wouldnt set out reading comments on everyones profiles. | |||
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"I feel sorry for the poor single guys here sometimes,, they find it hard to get meets at times,,, then when they do you have some women,, well verified women not meeting them cause they don't get on with someone that guy has met,,,,happens a lot,,so yes I do feel sorry for the single well verified genuine guys sometimes "The politics of fab. | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met? Oh I see the problem
I think he meant than..."Yep, excuse my grammar. Maybe a lttle dyslexic. | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met? Think he was saying 'than' with who they met there....predict a text." Gotcha. | |||
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"I feel sorry for the poor single guys here sometimes,, they find it hard to get meets at times,,, then when they do you have some women,, well verified women not meeting them cause they don't get on with someone that guy has met,,,,happens a lot,,so yes I do feel sorry for the single well verified genuine guys sometimes "
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"Oh that was at cup of tea dh. ? No cup of teas or coffees here Noo...cup of teas post above you. " Cheers. It was all a bit disturbing tbh. The discretion and respect on fab/swinging is half the fun, yes! Anyway, hopefully it's just a storm in a tea cup! Pun intended, | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met? Oh I see the problem
I think he meant than...
Yep, excuse my grammar.
Maybe a lttle dyslexic. "No worries, I understood what you meant | |||
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met? Oh I see the problem
I think he meant than...
Yep, excuse my grammar.
Maybe a lttle dyslexic.
No worries, I understood what you meant "
Sorry for any confusion, maybe the weekend has caught up with me too.
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" See what verifications can attract... I think they can be good for some and maybe others dont like the attention of it. Very rare i would read peoples verifications, more interested in their profiles, then with who they have met. Why would it matter who they had met? It doesnt, thats my point. As long as i can get along with someone, thats really all that matters. I'm not following... If it doesn't matter, why would you be interested in who they'd met? Oh I see the problem
I think he meant than...
Yep, excuse my grammar.
Maybe a lttle dyslexic.
No worries, I understood what you meant
Sorry for any confusion, maybe the weekend has caught up with me too.
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"Mine is hidden as I like privacy though if asked I will show it. Some show all their verifs Some show a few Some show none Some straight men show verifs from bi guys Some women who def dont meet married men show verifs from married men Its the very strange world of Fab! "I like this one.... | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. " Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks" The facebook thing happens if you each have one anthers phone numbers and your numbers are linked to your facebook accounts Someone will explain it better Some women are nuts | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks" They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks" I don't think there is any point in reporting them here. People like this are just about smart enough to do their threatening away from the site. | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse..." Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks" .....just an idea.....make a note of their veries and friends list....message them....tell them what they are like....if you name them here, you will get a ban | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? " Was just a suggestion, wasnt saying he should. But if the person is desaperate to stalk some one on facebook then better off not. Cant imagine why anyone would think its ok to look up and contact anyone here on facebook. | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? Was just a suggestion, wasnt saying he should. But if the person is desaperate to stalk some one on facebook then better off not. Cant imagine why anyone would think its ok to look up and contact anyone here on facebook." I wasn't really aiming my comment about the veri at you. I was just saying I wouldn't
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? Was just a suggestion, wasnt saying he should. But if the person is desaperate to stalk some one on facebook then better off not. Cant imagine why anyone would think its ok to look up and contact anyone here on facebook. I wasn't really aiming my comment about the veri at you. I was just saying I wouldn't
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"I have a nasty feeling if you give your phone number then that allows a search that can lead to face book. Which is why when I see "no kik " I just whistle on by. Kik is safe and seperate. You can do real time camera pics to prove it's a real person. The no kik no Skype folk are dopes " .....have a good generalise why don't you. .. | |||
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"I have a nasty feeling if you give your phone number then that allows a search that can lead to face book. Which is why when I see "no kik " I just whistle on by. Kik is safe and seperate. You can do real time camera pics to prove it's a real person. The no kik no Skype folk are dopes " Thats their perference, probably because they dont want to be bombarded with naked guys wanking on cam and cock pics. | |||
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"Well rather than a snide one liner having a go maybe tell me given the experience of the op who was contacted on Facebook by a creep why kik is a bad idea? Or is it easier to just throw a bit of abuse at someone making a reasoned and logical argument? " It was logical - and then you called me a dope. Thats when you went wrong I don't skype or kik. But nor do I have my phone number on fb | |||
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"Well rather than a snide one liner having a go maybe tell me given the experience of the op who was contacted on Facebook by a creep why kik is a bad idea? Or is it easier to just throw a bit of abuse at someone making a reasoned and logical argument? " ....calling people dopes is a reasoned and logical argument? | |||
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"No warrior queen. It's the end of a reasoned argument. Now tell me again what a one liner is? " ....when you start calling people names, you've lost the argument. | |||
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"No warrior queen. It's the end of a reasoned argument. Now tell me again what a one liner is? ....when you start calling people names, you've lost the argument. " | |||
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"It is their choice of course. On the other hand they could use the block button to discourage the cock pics. The sensible thing is to talk to someone on fab and see if he or she interests you. If they do sd certainly before meeting then chat on kik. My point here is the "no kik no Skype " attitude that is so prevalent. It's pretty much impossible to conclude here that the person just couldn't be arsed installing kik or getting used to using it. Yesterday I had someone wanting me to travel to a meet without been willing to do anything other than message on fab. It is entirely about choice and staying safe. Perhaps if people read the thread and realise how dangerous giving out phone numbers is in the world of Google search they will reach the reasonable conclusion that someone who can't be arsed to set up something as simple as kik should not be trusted " Its not that I cba to set up these things - I don't have them for 2 reason 1) I only use a basic phone - not even a camera on it 2) even if I had a fancy phone, I wouldn't have a clue how to use it. Nor would I be interested in knowing how to use it. You are jumping to conclusions by saying I'm now untrustworthy | |||
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"At least I've made an argument and hopefully warned folk about the danger of giving up a phone number. At least I tried to explain my point of view. Rather than three one line comments having a go and inventing insults. " ....at least I didn't resort to name calling. .. | |||
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"No warrior queen. It's the end of a reasoned argument. Now tell me again what a one liner is? " Not everyone wants to download every socisl app. I have gone to meet people without conact them by phone and just messaging them on here before. Cant call people dopes, just because they dont want kik or skype. Whats next the apps they should download??? Viber, snapchat, line and so on. | |||
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"Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it." My daughter who's 10 showed me recently how to do this!!!
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"I have a nasty feeling if you give your phone number then that allows a search that can lead to face book. Which is why when I see "no kik " I just whistle on by. Kik is safe and seperate. You can do real time camera pics to prove it's a real person. The no kik no Skype folk are dopes " | |||
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"Again I said no such thing. I said that kik was far safer than giving out phone numbers. I said your Facebook account can be tracked down from your phone number. I suggested that people think about that the next time someone suggests a phone conversation. I went on to give the (very common ) experience of demanding a meet without offering any kind of background and the dangers of it. I spoke from my experience of people that I've spoken to. YOU decided I was commenting about your situation and rather than reading what I wrote YOU decided that I was insulting YOU. Now I've explained myself more than enough and will leave the thread back with the ops excellent warning about been careful who yo give out personal information to " Who were you talking to here? | |||
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"I never give out my number and have rarely needed to phone to meet, messages on site are good enough, have rang a few people with my number hidden though. Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it." I wouldn't accept a call from a hidden number. If they can have mine - then I can have theirs | |||
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"I never give out my number and have rarely needed to phone to meet, messages on site are good enough, have rang a few people with my number hidden though. Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. I wouldn't accept a call from a hidden number. If they can have mine - then I can have theirs" No, neither would I. | |||
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"Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. My daughter who's 10 showed me recently how to do this!!!
I was shocked......"Yeah i never even answer my phone...but if i get a missed call i google the number and 75% of the time i can find out who it was. | |||
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"I never give out my number and have rarely needed to phone to meet, messages on site are good enough, have rang a few people with my number hidden though. Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. I wouldn't accept a call from a hidden number. If they can have mine - then I can have theirs" No thats been like message from site and say ill call now in a minute so theyd know its me ringing from a hidden number. | |||
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"Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. My daughter who's 10 showed me recently how to do this!!!
I was shocked......
Yeah i never even answer my phone...but if i get a missed call i google the number and 75% of the time i can find out who it was."Must try google my own... | |||
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"I never give out my number and have rarely needed to phone to meet, messages on site are good enough, have rang a few people with my number hidden though. Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. I wouldn't accept a call from a hidden number. If they can have mine - then I can have theirs No thats been like message from site and say ill call now in a minute so theyd know its me ringing from a hidden number." I've had that - I still wouldn't accept. If I give my number to anyone then I think they should give me theirs | |||
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"Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. My daughter who's 10 showed me recently how to do this!!!
I was shocked......
Yeah i never even answer my phone...but if i get a missed call i google the number and 75% of the time i can find out who it was.
Must try google my own..."Let us know if anything came up, could get your name, address or an add on done deal or nothing. | |||
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"I never give out my number and have rarely needed to phone to meet, messages on site are good enough, have rang a few people with my number hidden though. Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. I wouldn't accept a call from a hidden number. If they can have mine - then I can have theirs No thats been like message from site and say ill call now in a minute so theyd know its me ringing from a hidden number. I've had that - I still wouldn't accept. If I give my number to anyone then I think they should give me theirs" Im talking about when youve organised a meet and your on the way to their house and they want you to ring when you get to some place near them....if that the case ill ring, but still hide my number. | |||
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"I never give out my number and have rarely needed to phone to meet, messages on site are good enough, have rang a few people with my number hidden though. Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. I wouldn't accept a call from a hidden number. If they can have mine - then I can have theirs No thats been like message from site and say ill call now in a minute so theyd know its me ringing from a hidden number. I've had that - I still wouldn't accept. If I give my number to anyone then I think they should give me theirs Im talking about when youve organised a meet and your on the way to their house and they want you to ring when you get to some place near them....if that the case ill ring, but still hide my number." I know when you mean. But why is it ok for you to have someones number but they can't have yours? | |||
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"I hide mine and my summary as its no-one elses business who I've met. I would display them if I wanted an invite to a party/club" | |||
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"Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. My daughter who's 10 showed me recently how to do this!!!
I was shocked......
Yeah i never even answer my phone...but if i get a missed call i google the number and 75% of the time i can find out who it was.
Must try google my own...
Let us know if anything came up, could get your name, address or an add on done deal or nothing."Luckily enough nothing came up. Just some sort of number generating things for searches on facebook and that. Never add my number on any site, just give it out some times to untrustworthy people who dont have kik or skype. Lol | |||
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"Its too easy to google my number and find out where i live etc so i never use it. My daughter who's 10 showed me recently how to do this!!!
I was shocked......
Yeah i never even answer my phone...but if i get a missed call i google the number and 75% of the time i can find out who it was.
Must try google my own...
Let us know if anything came up, could get your name, address or an add on done deal or nothing.
Luckily enough nothing came up.
Just some sort of number generating things for searches on facebook and that.
Never add my number on any site, just give it out some times to untrustworthy people who dont have kik or skype. Lol" | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? Was just a suggestion, wasnt saying he should. But if the person is desaperate to stalk some one on facebook then better off not. Cant imagine why anyone would think its ok to look up and contact anyone here on facebook. I wasn't really aiming my comment about the veri at you. I was just saying I wouldn't
I can see your point about it getting rid of them tho
"Hi guys, thanks for the input... Just to clarify, the abuse started within a couple of hours - sometimes it's been weeks later when I've posted/received a veri. The person was clearly impatient and then demanding. But the FB thing, I mean, RESPECT! That's what this whole thing is based on... A no means no, etc...yes?! The experience is very disconcerting, but hopefully the person will mature up. | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? Was just a suggestion, wasnt saying he should. But if the person is desaperate to stalk some one on facebook then better off not. Cant imagine why anyone would think its ok to look up and contact anyone here on facebook. I wasn't really aiming my comment about the veri at you. I was just saying I wouldn't
I can see your point about it getting rid of them tho
Hi guys, thanks for the input...
Just to clarify, the abuse started within a couple of hours - sometimes it's been weeks later when I've posted/received a veri.
The person was clearly impatient and then demanding.
But the FB thing, I mean, RESPECT!
That's what this whole thing is based on...
A no means no, etc...yes?!
The experience is very disconcerting, but hopefully the person will mature up.
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"Mine are hidden, summary and all. I don't think its anyones business how many I have met or what I have done " | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? Was just a suggestion, wasnt saying he should. But if the person is desaperate to stalk some one on facebook then better off not. Cant imagine why anyone would think its ok to look up and contact anyone here on facebook. I wasn't really aiming my comment about the veri at you. I was just saying I wouldn't
I can see your point about it getting rid of them tho
Hi guys, thanks for the input...
Just to clarify, the abuse started within a couple of hours - sometimes it's been weeks later when I've posted/received a veri.
The person was clearly impatient and then demanding.
But the FB thing, I mean, RESPECT!
That's what this whole thing is based on...
A no means no, etc...yes?!
The experience is very disconcerting, but hopefully the person will mature up.
Were they already verified?"Yes. I have only ever met verified people. This is a total surprise. | |||
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"Well, I've just had a disturbing experience re verifications: After a quick meet yesterday, the person demanded a verification. Then, later in the day kept annoying/harassing me for one. And this morning, the person became abusive on threatening. I don't know what the person is planning ('just you wait and see', etc). Totally uncalled for behaviour. Simply, there is no obligation to verify someone after a meeting. Regardless, the abusive and threatening language goes against the most fundamental value in swinging, respect. I've reported the profile, but folks, this is a lifestyle place, a playground. Not a bully-ground. To all the good guys, be respectful and keep swinging, x. Well, now, just an update. This 'person' contacted me again last giving me another warning about verifying them. They actually threatened and did contact me on Facebook! (How on earth is that possible?!). Why would they do that? I mentioned respect earlier, but this person is showing none of that. I've met some great people here (they know who they are) and in clubs too. I don't intend to let this unfortunate experience dilute any future ones. Suffice to say, just use kik in future, or continue to message via here. Any point reporting this person? Thanks They must be desperate for a verification to go to some vendictive lengths. Would you not send them just a quick non descriptive veri, just to get them off your case, as it might get the nutter off your back. I know a lot wont agree with that, but it could help you from further abuse... Would I feck do one for them Did they already have veris? Was just a suggestion, wasnt saying he should. But if the person is desaperate to stalk some one on facebook then better off not. Cant imagine why anyone would think its ok to look up and contact anyone here on facebook. I wasn't really aiming my comment about the veri at you. I was just saying I wouldn't
I can see your point about it getting rid of them tho
Hi guys, thanks for the input...
Just to clarify, the abuse started within a couple of hours - sometimes it's been weeks later when I've posted/received a veri.
The person was clearly impatient and then demanding.
But the FB thing, I mean, RESPECT!
That's what this whole thing is based on...
A no means no, etc...yes?!
The experience is very disconcerting, but hopefully the person will mature up.
Were they already verified?
Yes. I have only ever met verified people. This is a total surprise. "Well I hope she veri'd you the second she left you ! | |||
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