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Mistresses dommes and methods of training

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good afternoon

Could anyone help ? I fear maybe not but here lets try

Are there any mistresses or dommes out tgere who know how to train a sub

Would the help a sub in his training

Im sure there are not many out there and i shall remain untrained but if you have it in your heart to advise help take on and control order me to kneel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your best bet is one of the many pro Dommes any of the lifestyle dommes I know would have zero interest in inexperienced subs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the dedicated fetish website, go to the numerous social events that are posted there and meet people. Its the best and safest way to proceed.

That's the advice I always give, that no one ever takes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you maybe i should have said that i have had some training

And i understand what you are saying

But i have visited pro dommes before and to be honest its like topping from the bottom and the ones i met were more about getting an easy payment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

I have tried looking but like here so very clicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most Dommes do not like subs who try to top from the bottom . You are no doubt aware that the type of interaction you are looking for requires a considerable amount of effort and as such the only so called dominant women you will find on this site are all talk and very little real experience . As said by mr arrow your best bet is interact with folks on the fetish site there is a considerable Irish scene there with plenty of advice and contacts to be had .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you

I have tried looking but like here so very clicky "

You are looking for a electronic goods in a sweet shop.

I have gotten messages from female Dominants on here agreeing with some of the things I have said in the past. They are generally in long term relationships, they are generally quite happy and they all say pretty much the same thing. They are not here to collect another sub.if they wanted a sub they would go to a fetish website.

I understand that you might feel pressure to submit. You dont feel like you are at your best, something might be missing, you feel incomplete. Sub frenzy isn't pleasant.

I have not found this place cliquey. And i certainly didn't find munches cliquey. They were wonderful experiences where I felt at home. I felt like I belonged, that I had found my people. But i didnt go looking for a sub. I went looking for friends. We all choose our own level of interaction.

Go to munches, make friends, let the D/s aspect sort itself out in its own good time.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Thanks Avalon n mr arrow n I will heed ur good advice

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By *iss SadisticWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Thank you

I have tried looking but like here so very clicky

You are looking for a electronic goods in a sweet shop.

I have gotten messages from female Dominants on here agreeing with some of the things I have said in the past. They are generally in long term relationships, they are generally quite happy and they all say pretty much the same thing. They are not here to collect another sub.if they wanted a sub they would go to a fetish website.

I understand that you might feel pressure to submit. You dont feel like you are at your best, something might be missing, you feel incomplete. Sub frenzy isn't pleasant.

I have not found this place cliquey. And i certainly didn't find munches cliquey. They were wonderful experiences where I felt at home. I felt like I belonged, that I had found my people. But i didnt go looking for a sub. I went looking for friends. We all choose our own level of interaction.

Go to munches, make friends, let the D/s aspect sort itself out in its own good time. "

Munches are cliquey, the entire dublin scene is cliquey. But if you go to them to generally will find a clique to fit into. Dom females are few and far between in ireland and ones they aren't professional are even less common. It will take some persistence on your part if you want to snag one or find someone who is interested in taking on another sub.

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