FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting...or not

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know I'll probably get slated on here for posting this about not meeting... but truth be known I'm getting sick of fellas sending messages telling me "it's a sex site not a chatting site"

I have my reasons for not meeting at the present moment in time...but on the other hand I've made some good friends on here that I like to come on and chat to in the chatrooms etc..

It's coming to a stage were Im getting fed up of logging in and seeing a message telling me I shouldn't be on here...

What gives any fella the right to tell me how I should and shouldn't be using my profile?

Grrr rant over....

Happy Sunday folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have no right.

Delete - or read, mark as unread and delete

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

You do what you like to do. It's no ones business.

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Sur what are the forms for only chatting ! I could talk all day long ....nobody would listen though .... Chat away girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I'll probably get slated on here for posting this about not meeting... but truth be known I'm getting sick of fellas sending messages telling me "it's a sex site not a chatting site"

I have my reasons for not meeting at the present moment in time...but on the other hand I've made some good friends on here that I like to come on and chat to in the chatrooms etc..

It's coming to a stage were Im getting fed up of logging in and seeing a message telling me I shouldn't be on here...

What gives any fella the right to tell me how I should and shouldn't be using my profile?

Grrr rant over....

Happy Sunday folks

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....how dare you not meet those poor men when they ask....?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a lifestyle site where likeminded folk can connect.. yes, sex is high on the agenda but it is not the only thing on the agenda.. everybody's comfort zone needs to be respected...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt worry about it. Men and cpls tell me that all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to fook themselves, don't reply to their mails though, they'll never mail again if you never answer.

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

"I know I'll probably get slated on here for posting this about not meeting... but truth be known I'm getting sick of fellas sending messages telling me "it's a sex site not a chatting site"

I have my reasons for not meeting at the present moment in time...but on the other hand I've made some good friends on here that I like to come on and chat to in the chatrooms etc..

It's coming to a stage were Im getting fed up of logging in and seeing a message telling me I shouldn't be on here...

What gives any fella the right to tell me how I should and shouldn't be using my profile?

Grrr rant over....

Happy Sunday folks

Your dead right blondies stick to your guns, id a cool friend like yourself left here this morning over the same sh1t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Op. . You do what you wanna do....don't let anyone on here question you.... delete. ..block... goodbye assholes

X xx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself. "

Take control of your own swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging. "

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging. "

Yes I agree with this. Don't worry about the haters but if you are not meeting, filters might be a way to control who cam mail you. You choose,who you chat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they look like shit messages or profiles don't even open them to read the full thing....fook the filters....it's nice to get mails to pass the time....surely people rarely mail again with the no response message, I don't anyway....do what you want and find who you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging.

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

From what I can see single men and women can mail you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging.

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

From what I can see single men and women can mail you."

Yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging.

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

From what I can see single men and women can mail you.

Yes?"

Maybe use those filters is what I was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like i said i have filters on...

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Female couple

Can't be newbies (must have been on site for a few days)

Must have public photos on their profile

Must be verified (or photo verified)

Must be aged 25 to 40 (if couple, one of them must be that age)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But men can......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging.

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

From what I can see single men and women can mail you.

Yes?

Maybe use those filters is what I was trying to say

It's not women messaging me that I have the problem with...so I don't see the point in blocking them? And like I said I'm here to chat...to new and old friends so I'd find it personally pointless if I blocked males...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging.

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

Could you have maybe replied to them in the past? Even a "no" gets them past your filters. Anyways you do what you want on here. Nobody's business but yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like i said i have filters on...

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Female couple

Can't be newbies (must have been on site for a few days)

Must have public photos on their profile

Must be verified (or photo verified)

Must be aged 25 to 40 (if couple, one of them must be that age)

Well from reading your op it's clearly not enough. I was offering another solution. It's up to you if you want to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like i said i have filters on...

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Female couple

Can't be newbies (must have been on site for a few days)

Must have public photos on their profile

Must be verified (or photo verified)

Must be aged 25 to 40 (if couple, one of them must be that age)

Yeah you've left your self open to a massive pool of shitheads....you need to change it to males only over 40

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It's none of their business if u say ur not meeting so b it. Blank them if they annoy u .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging.

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

Could you have maybe replied to them in the past? Even a "no" gets them past your filters. Anyways you do what you want on here. Nobody's business but yours. "

I always check the profile to see if we previously messaged before...and 90% of the time its a case there had been no previous contact, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how dare you not meet those poor men when they ask....?..

I know....

She's ruining it for the rest of us...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like i said i have filters on...

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Female couple

Can't be newbies (must have been on site for a few days)

Must have public photos on their profile

Must be verified (or photo verified)

Must be aged 25 to 40 (if couple, one of them must be that age)

Well from reading your op it's clearly not enough. I was offering another solution. It's up to you if you want to use it

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on your filters and pick who you want to chat with yourself.

Take control of your own swinging.

Filters are on! but as I've posted before the aren't working either!

seems to be some sort of glitch in them...and I'm not the only one who has noticed it

From what I can see single men and women can mail you.

Yes?

Maybe use those filters is what I was trying to say

So if it's males that you have the problem with why not just block them and find the ones you want to talk to instead?

If not then there's not a whole lo you can do except delete the messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness."

I floated that idea already

Next!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Problem sorted...thanks folks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness."

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody should lighten up... Enjoy the site for what reason perving, chatting or if you're lucky enough to to connect with someone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

But you must have block a load everyday though...no....or just read a bit of them for entertainment....that's what I'd do.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Site getting worse and the A/holes are ruining it for the rest of us. Causing a lot of mistrust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everybody should lighten up... Enjoy the site for what reason perving, chatting or if you're lucky enough to to connect with someone..."

Ah we're all just buzzin here john.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing more annoying though than a guy who feels entitled to a meet

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

NAAS

I think you need to delete your profile as this is a sex only site

Joking of course

Some chaps have no shame

No wonder most of us cant get a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing more annoying though than a guy who feels entitled to a meet "

Especially when they get abusive when you say no...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to delete your profile as this is a sex only site

Joking of course

Some chaps have no shame

No wonder most of us cant get a meet lol"

Well I've made a good enough start at removing my pic and hiding my profile

lol

Some a**holes on here, but that's not saying there's not some nice ones here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

But you must have block a load everyday though...no....or just read a bit of them for entertainment....that's what I'd do."

Only read them if needed..

But if I liked a profile I don't mail them....

I wait...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

But you must have block a load everyday though...no....or just read a bit of them for entertainment....that's what I'd do.

Only read them if needed..

But if I liked a profile I don't mail them....

I wait..."

Like a lioness waits for its prey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

But you must have block a load everyday though...no....or just read a bit of them for entertainment....that's what I'd do.

Only read them if needed..

But if I liked a profile I don't mail them....

I wait...

Like a lioness waits for its prey!

Yeah...the spider and the fly kinda thing

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

But you must have block a load everyday though...no....or just read a bit of them for entertainment....that's what I'd do.

Only read them if needed..

But if I liked a profile I don't mail them....

I wait...

Like a lioness waits for its prey!

Yeah...the spider and the fly kinda thing

Ya duurty fecker ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u have every right on here as anyone else don't be bullied by dickheads

u do whats good for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing more annoying though than a guy who feels entitled to a meet

Especially when they get abusive when you say no...

Nobodies entitled to have anything, even if it's your dole if you have no job....probably an ancient thing going back to kings and peasants or whatever...tell them to fook off.

'Convinced of one's own righteousness, justifiability of one's actions or right to have something, especially wrongly so; demanding and pretentious'.

Yeah that's them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"u have every right on here as anyone else don't be bullied by dickheads

u do whats good for u"

Thanks

best I go into hiding for now...seems like I should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

But you must have block a load everyday though...no....or just read a bit of them for entertainment....that's what I'd do.

Only read them if needed..

But if I liked a profile I don't mail them....

I wait...

Like a lioness waits for its prey!

Yeah...the spider and the fly kinda thing

Ya duurty fecker ya!

Cummere and I'll show you how duurteeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

But you must have block a load everyday though...no....or just read a bit of them for entertainment....that's what I'd do.

Only read them if needed..

But if I liked a profile I don't mail them....

I wait...

Like a lioness waits for its prey!

Yeah...the spider and the fly kinda thing

Ya duurty fecker ya!

Cummere and I'll show you how duurteeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how dare you not meet those poor men when they ask....?..

I know....

She's ruining it for the rest of us...

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....I wonder did she read the small print regarding the weekly sympathy fucks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how dare you not meet those poor men when they ask....?..

I know....

She's ruining it for the rest of us...

....I wonder did she read the small print regarding the weekly sympathy fucks?

Weekly?

I thought that read weakly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how dare you not meet those poor men when they ask....?..

I know....

She's ruining it for the rest of us...

....I wonder did she read the small print regarding the weekly sympathy fucks?

Weekly?

I thought that read weakly"
.....no...weekly. ...put your back into it....and your front as well. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how dare you not meet those poor men when they ask....?..

I know....

She's ruining it for the rest of us...

....I wonder did she read the small print regarding the weekly sympathy fucks?

Weekly?

I thought that read weakly.....no...weekly. ...put your back into it....and your front as well. .

I've a bad back. My front is ok tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

Same girl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how dare you not meet those poor men when they ask....?..

I know....

She's ruining it for the rest of us...

....I wonder did she read the small print regarding the weekly sympathy fucks?

Weekly?

I thought that read weakly.....no...weekly. ...put your back into it....and your front as well. .

I've a bad back. My front is ok tho

"
....yeah. ..rain did say you're front was ok...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

Same girl xx "

What if they never come?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

Same girl xx

What if they never come? "

Ah yeah kinda see that point too....guess ye just got to take the good with bad then....not a major pain the face is it.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"...actually, probably better turning males off altogether and find them yourself, they're not hard to spot in fairness.

I don't contact guys I usually let them come to me...

Same girl xx

What if they never come?

Ah yeah kinda see that point too....guess ye just got to take the good with bad then....not a major pain the face is it."

Each on their own, if I see a juicy piece of meat I want a bite of, I try to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose receiving too much mail of a demanding nature can make people feel under pressure..but as I know only too well from contacts that have drifted, if we guys dont put some pressure on, we generally get left behind..

.personally..im happy out the back looking for meets with mutually enthusiastic people, that's the type of person I enjoy having sex with...but there's no two ways about it...if your a guy and you want volume...pressure and repetition works..

.the block button...is the best button on fab..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block the fools ,I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile huni do what you want they don't like block them only way

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