FabSwingers.com forum: Delaying climax

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am curious as to what techniques you guys use to delay that climax, and give the lady the time she deserves.

And is there anything us ladies can do to help?

I do know a guy who thinks of 'dead dogs' to distract him.

Market research purposes, of course

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i dont think of anything i general but i just hold back but if i do it too much i end up not able to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an issue with this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't have an issue with this.

Noted

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico, Gran Canaria

Pull out for a while but continue with some oral so my lover is still been pleasure.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lots of foreplay and teasing. Make the other person beg to finish them of but just prolonged the orgasm. I love how excited the person gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stop and eat a bannana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curious as to what techniques you guys use to delay that climax, and give the lady the time she deserves.

And is there anything us ladies can do to help?

I do know a guy who thinks of 'dead dogs' to distract him.

Market research purposes, of course

Jesus whatever about slowing down, thoughts like that could lose an errection.

All depends on which round it is. On the first round it's a case of slowing down and changing the point of focus. Either going back to oral or just using the fingers with and gentle movements of the hips. The second round it's easier just to hold off. Third and fourth rounds it's usually the opposite issue, so you don't have to do anything to control it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was actually thinking about posting a thread like this the other day after a lady posted about fellas cumming too quick.lol.

If u need to go to the toilet for a number one ofcourse, then just hold it in. This works very good

The other old trusted method is to have a wank before ur session.

Having a few pints virtually stops the ability for me to cum as well.

Hard on stays just not a pups chance of cumming.

Like someone above said , pulling out before u get close or stopping moving for a couple of seconds does the trick too, unless the lady moves at all then ur buggered.

Good thread tho OP, always helps for tips these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curious as to what techniques you guys use to delay that climax, and give the lady the time she deserves.

And is there anything us ladies can do to help?

I do know a guy who thinks of 'dead dogs' to distract him.

Market research purposes, of course

Sometimes I work late

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was actually thinking about posting a thread like this the other day after a lady posted about fellas cumming too quick.lol.

If u need to go to the toilet for a number one ofcourse, then just hold it in. This works very good

The other old trusted method is to have a wank before ur session.

Having a few pints virtually stops the ability for me to cum as well.

Hard on stays just not a pups chance of cumming.

Like someone above said , pulling out before u get close or stopping moving for a couple of seconds does the trick too, unless the lady moves at all then ur buggered.

Good thread tho OP, always helps for tips these

Every day is a learning day, Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was actually thinking about posting a thread like this the other day after a lady posted about fellas cumming too quick.lol.

If u need to go to the toilet for a number one ofcourse, then just hold it in. This works very good

The other old trusted method is to have a wank before ur session.

Having a few pints virtually stops the ability for me to cum as well.

Hard on stays just not a pups chance of cumming.

Like someone above said , pulling out before u get close or stopping moving for a couple of seconds does the trick too, unless the lady moves at all then ur buggered.

Good thread tho OP, always helps for tips these

Every day is a learning day, Dave

And the stupid man knows everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point there Dave if guys practice stopping the number 1 mid flow that is an extremely effective method to stop cuming.

Properly practised this method is the same used in tantric sex to prolong your erection. So you stay hard and don't cum.

Downside of this method is that often my partners will actually ask me to cum as an hour later things can get pretty tender down below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point there Dave if guys practice stopping the number 1 mid flow that is an extremely effective method to stop cuming.

Properly practised this method is the same used in tantric sex to prolong your erection. So you stay hard and don't cum.

Downside of this method is that often my partners will actually ask me to cum as an hour later things can get pretty tender down below.

Ive had that alot myself, the old "fuck sake are u gonna cum " line.lol.

You just cant win at times.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point there Dave if guys practice stopping the number 1 mid flow that is an extremely effective method to stop cuming.

Properly practised this method is the same used in tantric sex to prolong your erection. So you stay hard and don't cum.

Downside of this method is that often my partners will actually ask me to cum as an hour later things can get pretty tender down below.

Ive had that alot myself, the old "fuck sake are u gonna cum " line.lol.

You just cant win at times.lol

Mind im a horny goat so i do love a good old session. I struggle with quickies although they do have a time and place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of practice helps, change the pace when you feel you are about to cum. Switch positions, breathe deeply. Thinking of anything else doesn't work for me.

Gets better as you get older.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Usually pretty good at holding back but every now and then a man can get so turned on and into it that he just has to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seemingly we are preprogrammed to come quickly the first time with a new partner. It gives the highest chance of reproducing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer climaxes when the moment is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum much quicker if I'm not that horny sometimes...it doesn't get as hard, so the foreskin flips more.if I'm really horny and hard the head is quite big, the foreskin rolls up beneath it and stays there and ..well...it can takes a while...

.but I have no techniques...suppose a nice tight ass in front of me is the key...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads on Fab don't usually have this problem... First one is usually always fast but that's a given. I'd hate to be the one that experienced ones who can't last

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

Slight weird but in the past if I put an image of beans on toast in my head I could last longer.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"I am curious as to what techniques you guys use to delay that climax, and give the lady the time she deserves.

And is there anything us ladies can do to help?

I do know a guy who thinks of 'dead dogs' to distract him.

Market research purposes, of course

Jesus thats worse than thinkin of my ma and da at it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lads on Fab don't usually have this problem... First one is usually always fast but that's a given. I'd hate to be the one that experienced ones who can't last

I been lucky enough too with my meets. These skills are particularly important and put to the test in a ffm scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lads on Fab don't usually have this problem... First one is usually always fast but that's a given. I'd hate to be the one that experienced ones who can't last

I been lucky enough too with my meets. These skills are particularly important and put to the test in a ffm scenario

I dunno been in lots of fffmm, ffmm, scenarios the lads who usually play in group can usually hold their own well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curious as to what techniques you guys use to delay that climax, and give the lady the time she deserves.

And is there anything us ladies can do to help?

I do know a guy who thinks of 'dead dogs' to distract him.

Market research purposes, of course

squeeze glans between index finger and thumb..works for me if i want to last longer but i rarely have this problem..i'm like the energizer bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me sex is more about slowly enjoying a womans body, especially licking her pussy and bum. I like to spend a long time doing that.

Luckily when it comes down to the oral on me and actual sex I dont cum too quick..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Lads on Fab don't usually have this problem... First one is usually always fast but that's a given. I'd hate to be the one that experienced ones who can't last

I been lucky enough too with my meets. These skills are particularly important and put to the test in a ffm scenario

I know where you coming from, from my experience the talented ones are hard to find but they're out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ham and cheese toasties in between usually helps me

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Does the whole tantric thing and can have multiple dry orgasms and still last for ages.

Always looking for willing ladies to practice with.

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By *arfield 69Man
over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

Think off the gal you took home with the Beer goggles on ...

And go "ohhh No" as she snuggles into your back

That does the trick lol

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

Make the woman cum a couple of times before you start yourself, easy

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What's all this namby pamby, pinko liberal lefty leaning modern metrosexual nonsense about holding back? For feck's sake, I've been going at it for fifteen seconds or more. What more could you possibly want?

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Plenty of oral to start with, try make sure she cums or is st least close to orgasm, before penetration.

Then even when having sex and i can feel myself about to cum, would usually pull out and pay more attention to her pussy with my tongue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's all this namby pamby, pinko liberal lefty leaning modern metrosexual nonsense about holding back? For feck's sake, I've been going at it for fifteen seconds or more. What more could you possibly want?

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"I am curious as to what techniques you guys use to delay that climax, and give the lady the time she deserves.

And is there anything us ladies can do to help?

I do know a guy who thinks of 'dead dogs' to distract him.

Market research purposes, of course

I think it would be hard to hold it back if i was with a little beauty like yourself, but defo wouldnt mind testing that out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

I think if they post a positive story about themselves women will see it and deciding ah yes that's the man I want.

While the the rest of us know the truth

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By *arfield 69Man
over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

Does that include foreplay and a after sex cuddle..lol

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By *arfield 69Man
over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

Does that include foreplay and a after sex cuddle..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've 2 techniques that work well.

The first, is to fuck really hard, so that it actually hurts my balls each thrust , and then I focus on the pain and that stops me from popping

The second, is to reach back and grabs my ballsack, and pull it back towards my ass. Read that somewhere and it works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

And is there seconds Mick?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I stop and eat a bannana

Hope you share banana

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

Does that include foreplay and a after sex cuddle..lol"

What are they?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

And is there seconds Mick? "

It must've been that Lovers Guide video years ago that gave the wimmin these mad notions.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

And is there seconds Mick?

It must've been that Lovers Guide video years ago that gave the wimmin these mad notions.

Damm liberating porno's now they all want organisms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeez 15 seconds Mick, that gotta be some kinda record

I know, normally I wouldn't last that long at all

And is there seconds Mick?

It must've been that Lovers Guide video years ago that gave the wimmin these mad notions.

Damm liberating porno's now they all want organisms

CJ and Mick, the perfect MM tag team

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I've just recently met a young lady (in the vanilla world) and she is an expert at edging!!

Don't know she knows it/learnt her technique, but she had me the brink of climax for hours on Friday night.

Can't remember any tips other than to say when I finally came it was ABSOLUTELY MIND BLOWING!!!

Highly recommend it folks. Takes patience, but every second of delayed gratification is rewarded in multiples when you finally are. released.

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge

Would love to have insider information on "edging" x

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By *hefireinsideWoman
over a year ago

city

"I've just recently met a young lady (in the vanilla world) and she is an expert at edging!!

Don't know she knows it/learnt her technique, but she had me the brink of climax for hours on Friday night.

Can't remember any tips other than to say when I finally came it was ABSOLUTELY MIND BLOWING!!!

Highly recommend it folks. Takes patience, but every second of delayed gratification is rewarded in multiples when you finally are. released.

This sounds amazing.. I think some (good) men do it naturally, with an intrinsic desire to wait until she orgasms.. But I'd love to try this properly, there would be a naughty element of control too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw an episode of bottom once when Eddie was trying not to cum and he was imagining "Margaret thatcher naked on a cold day" lol. But personally I love nothing better than making a woman cum with my tongue before we have penetrative sex. any orgasm for her after that is a bonus lol .I very rarely have to think of Margaret thatcher naked on a cold day though.

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

Might not be exactly what ur looking for but a tactical wank earlier in the day has been known to slow up 2 pump chumps.

Also a condom wud reduce sensitivity especially for a guy not used to them, he'd last forever in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have just completed some patient edging on the lawn and all the neighbouring ladies say it's beautiful.

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By *lwaysforfunMan
over a year ago

Swingerstown

"Lads on Fab don't usually have this problem... First one is usually always fast but that's a given. I'd hate to be the one that experienced ones who can't last

I been lucky enough too with my meets. These skills are particularly important and put to the test in a ffm scenario

I know where you coming from, from my experience the talented ones are hard to find but they're out there. "

And ladies the that can keep up are definitely out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Work on your willpower, enjoy not coming. Everytime you wank or whatever you dont just cum but stop bifore end and repeat few times. Later on youll start enjoying and it will become new nature.

2) Change the rhythm.

3) You can stop yourself from cuming by squazing your head for few sec. After that you should be able to last longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has more to do with the female in most cases as knowing how to read the signs is a huge help. Taking someone to the edge and backing off before they cum is a skill in itself rather than the guy begging you to stop when it's to late.

I absolute love edging and mixing things up. If you can get past the first hour then you're laughing. My last meet with a female from fab lasted a few hours and I didn't cum but that was because we were very much in tune with each other and trying lots of new things. Getting so close to it so many times is a massive turn on for me but I have far more self control now than I did when I was 20. I firmly believe it's a lot to do with how familiar you are with your limits and not being afraid to ask to stop and try different positions rather than hoping to God you can go like a beast for 4 hours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This has more to do with the female in most cases as knowing how to read the signs is a huge help. Taking someone to the edge and backing off before they cum is a skill in itself rather than the guy begging you to stop when it's to late.

Brilliant informative answer. Like that you mention how a lady can help the experience. That information is now banked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys on here delay climax by not having sex in months......

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By *irArdMan
over a year ago

Rush

I just stop for 2 or 3 seconds and carry on again, that's good for an hour or two before I can't hold it any longer.

Is that long enough for you?

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