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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seeing if anyone has some advice for me?

Been trying to organise a meet for a while now and have had no luck.

I've photo verified myself always sent face pics and always put a bit effort into my mails (always tell a bit about myself and what I'd like to try)

And still no luck.

Any ideas why?

Could it be the age?

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By *he HunterMan
over a year ago

leitrim

Do a forum search for newbie advice. You'll find several threads with lots of help tips. Also it takes time and patience. Join in on forums. Let people get a sense of you and it will all fall into place eventually

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By *oxPhoenixCouple
over a year ago

Ravenstone

I, me, myself ?

May be "you, your profile or would you like?" Might be more interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do a forum search for newbie advice. You'll find several threads with lots of help tips. Also it takes time and patience. Join in on forums. Let people get a sense of you and it will all fall into place eventually "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the age for me. And the inexperienced bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could possibly be your age or the fact that you're inexperienced.

But I'm sure they're are ladies who don't mind your age or the fact that you want to be taught.

Stick with it. It takes time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I, me, myself ?

May be "you, your profile or would you like?" Might be more interesting. "

I'm not sure I understand?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand the age thing but doesn't everyone start of inexperienced Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I, me, myself ?

May be "you, your profile or would you like?" Might be more interesting.

I'm not sure I understand?"

Ya, me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is actually nicely written, upbeat and positive and not crude. It would be the age for me personally but stick with it. You'll find your feet, best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like teaching younger people. Some people are just not that interested in the extra work involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is actually nicely written, upbeat and positive and not crude. It would be the age for me personally but stick with it. You'll find your feet, best of luck "

Well thank you nice to get some positive feed back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I, me, myself ?

May be "you, your profile or would you like?" Might be more interesting.

I'm not sure I understand?

Ya, me neither "

Must be a riddle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people like teaching younger people. Some people are just not that interested in the extra work involved. "

Let's hope I find one lol

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

It's jus your age ... I could be yer ma. . Lol

But your profile is nicely written. Maybe a torso pic too...and a bum pic..

Good luck X

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea


"I, me, myself ?

May be "you, your profile or would you like?" Might be more interesting.

I'm not sure I understand?

Ya, me neither

Must be a riddle "

I think what they mean is, instead of just talking/telling about yourself in your mails ask about the people you are mailing to about themselves & mentiom things they have mentioned on their profile so they know you have actually read it.

Apart from that the most common reply to you, & the countless others who have posted the same question, will be it takes time & patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I, me, myself ?

May be "you, your profile or would you like?" Might be more interesting.

I'm not sure I understand?

Ya, me neither

Must be a riddle

I think what they mean is, instead of just talking/telling about yourself in your mails ask about the people you are mailing to about themselves & mentiom things they have mentioned on their profile so they know you have actually read it.

Apart from that the most common reply to you, & the countless others who have posted the same question, will be it takes time & patience."

That's what I thought. If that's the case they should practice what they preach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 is very young for people on here, pretend your mid to late 20's and even then, you still gotta be pretty patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say hi in your mails, if they're interested they'll come back to you if they like your profile, put your work into that instead of dead end mails....that's what i reckon anyway, no point in mailing people that live a hundred miles away unless you're gonna go there.....unless you really like typing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"19 is very young for people on here, pretend your mid to late 20's and even then, you still gotta be pretty patient."

Id prefer to be honest with people especially when your trying to organise a meet with them.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"19 is very young for people on here, pretend your mid to late 20's and even then, you still gotta be pretty patient.

Id prefer to be honest with people especially when your trying to organise a meet with them.

"
ah that's a good attitude u have.... xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"19 is very young for people on here, pretend your mid to late 20's and even then, you still gotta be pretty patient.

Id prefer to be honest with people especially when your trying to organise a meet with them.

"

You can tell them you're 19 after you get them a little interested in you....that's allowed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"19 is very young for people on here, pretend your mid to late 20's and even then, you still gotta be pretty patient.

Id prefer to be honest with people especially when your trying to organise a meet with them.

ah that's a good attitude u have.... xxx "

Thank you xx

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