FabSwingers.com forum: Numbers game

By *exyDownUnder OP Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Hi, this has been on my mind ever since it happened and would like to hear your thoughts.

I was messaging a guy little while ago, getting on well and looking to meet. He asked me how many had I met from here and I said about 9 and slept with 4 (2 of those I met a few times).

He made the comment ... that's alot and haven't really heard from him since.

Now I've been on here about 7mths and was happily thinking that was a conservative number. But now it's got me thinking ... this is a sex site so what did he expect.

Has anyone else had this and look forward to your comments on my numbers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's an insecure person who's not really a swinger

A person who will pass judgment on you for doing what tthey are here to do is the worst type of hypocrite

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

For a swingers site that isn't "a lot"

If that's what he thinks his head would explode if I told him my numbers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiver me timbers

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

First thing first if I liked a lady I would never ask how many she slept with n second it's none of his bloody business how many u slept with .

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I always look at comments like this in a positive way: it's better when a person reveals his/her real character before you meet them.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Sure 4 that's nothing in d world of swinging . It's his loss

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By *exyDownUnder OP Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Thank you. Didn't think the issue was me ... more himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a swingers site that isn't "a lot"

If that's what he thinks his head would explode if I told him my numbers!"

Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that asks me how many i have met on here will all get the same answer

if its a issue your not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always look at comments like this in a positive way: it's better when a person reveals his/her real character before you meet them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's an insecure person who's not really a swinger

A person who will pass judgment on you for doing what tthey are here to do is the worst type of hypocrite

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

men get judged like this too more and a few women both on fab and in civilian life have asked and didn't like the answer

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"men get judged like this too more and a few women both on fab and in civilian life have asked and didn't like the answer "

When I'm asked I answer honestly:

"I don't remember"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's his insecurity, it's nothing to do with you. Whether you meet one person in a year or 25 a week it's your choice and no one should judge you for that. For a sex site there's an awful lot of judgment on it, yet you think you would be escaping it...obviously not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has a problem with who or how many people you have met then its their problem not yours. If people want to judge me and it has happened on who I met then fine it doesnt bother me, its not a case of their or my loss as it gives impression I /they are better than someone. Its a simple fine I will wake up next day, breath fresh air and move on. Life is too short for Drama

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Just Block him and move on...

Plenty like him here!

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By *exyDownUnder OP Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Another thought ... you can only get better at sex when you practice

How else are you going to perfect your skills!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time you are asked the same question reply ..its none of your concern, no one needs to know your swing business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them 500 horses and one donkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's an insecure person who's not really a swinger

A person who will pass judgment on you for doing what they are here to do is the worst type of hypocrite.

Hear, hear. Lucky escape I'd say.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"Another thought ... you can only get better at sex when you practice

How else are you going to perfect your skills!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

Lol! That coffee can be a hard one to better, usually best to let it wear off!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Phwooarr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell anybody anything I don't care about guys numbers it's a swing site there are people here on site with over 100 veris but we're all different on here but don't let anyone make you feel bad for meeting who ya want when you want! We're all adults here for a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

Lol! That coffee can be a hard one to better, usually best to let it wear off!"

I know!! Maybe he was really really allergic to coffee remnants...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

What as special little snowflake that guy is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

Coffee 2nds

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

With cream

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By *exyDownUnder OP Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath

"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question."

We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.

We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake! "

Yep been there

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had her verifications at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Phwooarr!

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By *exyDownUnder OP Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath

"had her verifications at all? "

He did indeed.

I'll just chalk it up to experience and not divulge details like that again. Just thought it odd... with us all looking for sex on a sex site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.

We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake! "

It's different when you're chatting away with some one though you think you can be honest away but shur feck it Tis his loss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never provide an answer for this line of questioning . Insecure misogynistic prats cant handle the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

Lol! That coffee can be a hard one to better, usually best to let it wear off!

I know!! Maybe he was really really allergic to coffee remnants...

"
he didn't want sloppy coffees lol

What a muppet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications

at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets

but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will

Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before

Lol! That coffee can be a hard one to better, usually best to let it wear off!

I know!! Maybe he was really really allergic to coffee remnants...

he didn't want sloppy coffees lol

What a muppet"

And i don't even drink coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.

We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake!

It's different when you're chatting away with some one though you think you can be honest away but shur feck it Tis his loss!!"

It's not different, it's an intrusive question.

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...

"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.

We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake! "

Being honest isn't a mistake. If you hadn't been honest - you wouldn't have figured out he has issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.

We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake!

Being honest isn't a mistake. If you hadn't been honest - you wouldn't have figured out he has issues

Have to agree dodged a bullet , there I would say OP . None of his business .

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By *arfield 69Man
over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

Most women half there number off partners when asked

Most guys double the count..

Ya need a cricket score to be a pla

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By *arfield 69Man
over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

Most women half there number off partners when asked

Most guys double the count..

Ya need a cricket score to be a player pmsl

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

"Another thought ... you can only get better at sex when you practice

How else are you going to perfect your skills!"
its his loss op nobodys buisness but yours how many have u met best of luck mike x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question for the ladies, Is this site a life sentence for women ? Once your number goes past 25 any non swinger would vanish in a cloud of dust if you are honest with him. yes/no

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By *arfield 69Man
over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

"A question for the ladies, Is this site a life sentence for women ? Once your number goes past 25 any non swinger would vanish in a cloud of dust if you are honest with him. yes/no"

25 ... fk I'm doomed to a life off loneliness

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, no-ones business and his loss.

I don't display my summary nor my veris and if anyone asks, and gets tetchy when I don't divulge, they already lost.

Have fun OP..feck the haters

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By *exyDownUnder OP Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath

"OP, no-ones business and his loss.

I don't display my summary nor my veris and if anyone asks, and gets tetchy when I don't divulge, they already lost.

Have fun OP..feck the haters

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