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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

... to proof that you've read my profile.

Does this work in any way? I guess most guys just check the last paragraph of a profile for the 'code' word.

Or what if a guy messages you and the avatar pic makes you go wow and mmmm but the subject keyword isn't there?

How does the other side feel about the given subject title for your first contact message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awh I thought this was going to be a way more naughty type of thread!

putting lube in the subject!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... to proof that you've read my profile.

Does this work in any way? I guess most guys just check the last paragraph of a profile for the 'code' word.

Or what if a guy messages you and the avatar pic makes you go wow and mmmm but the subject keyword isn't there?

How does the other side feel about the given subject title for your first contact message? "
...we put this on our profile once.. Please put supercalafragalistic in your opening message, to prove you've read or message and to stroke our massive egos. ..we got lots of replies. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you could put it in the middle of the profile to mix things up. Then again if any guy read your profile, he wouldn't be messaging you anyway, so what difference would it make lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... to proof that you've read my profile.

Does this work in any way? I guess most guys just check the last paragraph of a profile for the 'code' word.

Or what if a guy messages you and the avatar pic makes you go wow and mmmm but the subject keyword isn't there?

How does the other side feel about the given subject title for your first contact message? ...we put this on our profile once.. Please put supercalafragalistic in your opening message, to prove you've read or message and to stroke our massive egos. ..we got lots of replies. . "

Did you get more than your egos stroked lol?

'Antidisestablishmentarianism' sorts out the intellectuals from the Julie Andrews fans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read folk's profiles before messaging, its only polite. I know what i want, they know what they want. Why waste time contacting somebody if I'm not their shot o whiskey

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"awh I thought this was going to be a way more naughty type of thread!

putting lube in the subject! "

Sorry to disappoint you

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Well you could put it in the middle of the profile to mix things up. Then again if any guy read your profile, he wouldn't be messaging you anyway, so what difference would it make lol "

I've no intention to use anything like it, was more wondering if it works.

As for the rest - good, mission accomplished

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I read folk's profiles before messaging, its only polite. I know what i want, they know what they want. Why waste time contacting somebody if I'm not their shot o whiskey "

Yep, me too.

The only thing is, if a profile asks to send a face pic in the first message, I'll usually not message them, because it's my preference not to do that. If i did, i'd never get any replies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read folk's profiles before messaging, its only polite. I know what i want, they know what they want. Why waste time contacting somebody if I'm not their shot o whiskey

Yep, me too.

The only thing is, if a profile asks to send a face pic in the first message, I'll usually not message them, because it's my preference not to do that. If i did, i'd never get any replies! "

I don't mind sending face pic if its reciprocated

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I always read a persons profile even if it's a real long one . D first thing I look at is d age to see if I can message her r that's she looking for guys n then if she is I read further n then if she not to far away then if I'm intetested I will message her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was into the thread, hit reply privately on the op so lube was in the subject......denied

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I was into the thread, hit reply privately on the op so lube was in the subject......denied "

It's my age filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was into the thread, hit reply privately on the op so lube was in the subject......denied

It's my age filters "

That's what fab said too, I'll come back when I'm all grown up though I'm no pup

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I read folk's profiles before messaging, its only polite. I know what i want, they know what they want. Why waste time contacting somebody if I'm not their shot o whiskey

Yep, me too.

The only thing is, if a profile asks to send a face pic in the first message, I'll usually not message them, because it's my preference not to do that. If i did, i'd never get any replies!

I don't mind sending face pic if its reciprocated "

trouble is 50% of the time it isn't.

they disappear like a fart in the wind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always read profiles. Some have these requests, some don't. Some i message, some i don't. My decision to message someone, depends on the rest of the profile content. I usually get a feel for a person from their profile content. I love reading, so I don't mind these subject line requests. It's the other lists of demands that would put me off a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always read profiles. Some have these requests, some don't. Some i message, some i don't. My decision to message someone, depends on the rest of the profile content. I usually get a feel for a person from their profile content. I love reading, so I don't mind these subject line requests. It's the other lists of demands that would put me off a profile. "
...nah....people telling you what to write? ... school is over a long time, for us im afraid. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned off by aggressive profiles. It's like your being scolded from the outset. Do this, do that, jump when I say. No face pic no reply is another. Seriously I wouldn't send it out randomely so why would I demand it off anyone else.

I used to have a longer blurb on my profile but I've found keeping it simple works as good.

Not sure adding a key word in your mail makes any difference. You'll still get the one liner and wanna fuck messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always read profiles. Some have these requests, some don't. Some i message, some i don't. My decision to message someone, depends on the rest of the profile content. I usually get a feel for a person from their profile content. I love reading, so I don't mind these subject line requests. It's the other lists of demands that would put me off a profile. ...nah....people telling you what to write? ... school is over a long time, for us im afraid. . "

That's the beauty of this world. We all have our own minds and we all have our own opinions. School may be over for the majority of us here on Fab and many moons ago at that! We are still learning every day though.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"i always read profiles. Some have these requests, some don't. Some i message, some i don't. My decision to message someone, depends on the rest of the profile content. I usually get a feel for a person from their profile content. I love reading, so I don't mind these subject line requests. It's the other lists of demands that would put me off a profile. "


"i always read profiles. Some have these requests, some don't. Some i message, some i don't. My decision to message someone, depends on the rest of the profile content. I usually get a feel for a person from their profile content. I love reading, so I don't mind these subject line requests. It's the other lists of demands that would put me off a profile. "

Welcome back fabfunny!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always read profiles. Some have these requests, some don't. Some i message, some i don't. My decision to message someone, depends on the rest of the profile content. I usually get a feel for a person from their profile content. I love reading, so I don't mind these subject line requests. It's the other lists of demands that would put me off a profile.

i always read profiles. Some have these requests, some don't. Some i message, some i don't. My decision to message someone, depends on the rest of the profile content. I usually get a feel for a person from their profile content. I love reading, so I don't mind these subject line requests. It's the other lists of demands that would put me off a profile.

Welcome back fabfunny!!! "

Thank you did i get you all flustered that you quoted me twice?

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


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Welcome back fabfunny!!!

Thank you did i get you all flustered that you quoted me twice? "

How did I do that?

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I get turned off by aggressive profiles. It's like your being scolded from the outset. Do this, do that, jump when I say. No face pic no reply is another. Seriously I wouldn't send it out randomely so why would I demand it off anyone else.

I used to have a longer blurb on my profile but I've found keeping it simple works as good.

Not sure adding a key word in your mail makes any difference. You'll still get the one liner and wanna fuck messages."

I agree there people only get lost on a too long blurb and the key word won't make any difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Welcome back fabfunny!!!

Thank you did i get you all flustered that you quoted me twice?

How did I do that? "

Flustered! It's ok, just relax.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"... to proof that you've read my profile.

Does this work in any way? I guess most guys just check the last paragraph of a profile for the 'code' word.

Or what if a guy messages you and the avatar pic makes you go wow and mmmm but the subject keyword isn't there?

How does the other side feel about the given subject title for your first contact message? "

Will never respond to someone looking a "code word" - screams self importance to us........We'll pass thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Load of rubbish is you ask me. Oh please read my text and put this word in or your message will be deleted. Fecking delete my message and block me while your at you cockwomble. Same goes for those that require a face pic

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume they are going to be very high maintenance and wonder how many more tests you'll be expected to pass.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Load of rubbish is you ask me. Oh please read my text and put this word in or your message will be deleted. Fecking delete my message and block me while your at you cockwomble. Same goes for those that require a face pic

Rant over "

Cockwomble ......... Love it

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Load of rubbish is you ask me. Oh please read my text and put this word in or your message will be deleted. Fecking delete my message and block me while your at you cockwomble. Same goes for those that require a face pic

Rant over "
Totally agree with you! Anyone that does put that in their profile is full of themselves or just a drama queen!!!!!

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