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"Those guys shouldn't be on here. It's the wrong attitude and narrow minded thinking. They're obviously here for a 'free' shag and don't get it at all. " Agree totally,it's pretty insulting to make that assumption. .but helps when figuring out who to avoid too I guess  | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life ! "The hilarious thing is that they are so stupid they think this is complimentary to the woman they are "chatting up", when in reality it's exposing their dismal attitude towards women in general. | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life ! "not sure but any guy who thinks you can't pull in "real life" is a little mad. you would pull in a mortuary! you'd have an effect like lazarus  | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
not sure but any guy who thinks you can't pull in "real life" is a little mad.
you would pull in a mortuary! you'd have an effect like lazarus "Off down to the mortuary I go so !! | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
not sure but any guy who thinks you can't pull in "real life" is a little mad.
you would pull in a mortuary! you'd have an effect like lazarus
Off down to the mortuary I go so !! "See you down there lol | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
not sure but any guy who thinks you can't pull in "real life" is a little mad.
you would pull in a mortuary! you'd have an effect like lazarus
Off down to the mortuary I go so !!
See you down there lol"Haha I hope lazaruz stays away or we are in trouble   | |||
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"Aaaaw you hear the sweetest things on fab  "Feirce charming bunch ! | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
not sure but any guy who thinks you can't pull in "real life" is a little mad.
you would pull in a mortuary! you'd have an effect like lazarus
Off down to the mortuary I go so !! "Shall i book an undertaker for yous young Gals know a very good one. | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
not sure but any guy who thinks you can't pull in "real life" is a little mad.
you would pull in a mortuary! you'd have an effect like lazarus
Off down to the mortuary I go so !!
Shall i book an undertaker for yous young Gals know a very good one."Haha.. then there really would be something quite wrong then !! | |||
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"Those guys shouldn't be on here. It's the wrong attitude and narrow minded thinking. They're obviously here for a 'free' shag and don't get it at all. " In a nutshell | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
not sure but any guy who thinks you can't pull in "real life" is a little mad.
you would pull in a mortuary! you'd have an effect like lazarus
Off down to the mortuary I go so !!
Shall i book an undertaker for yous young Gals know a very good one.
Haha.. then there really would be something quite wrong then !! "well the very least i could promise yous would get a Fab send off. | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life ! "Like others have said, it says more about them than it does about women. They see their own motivations in your actions. They feel like they are desperate and they assume that you are too. Obviously these guys are not swingers. The guy who said "older women are grateful for the fuck", to me that sounds like a) he's trying to justify a desire he has for older women or b) he is looking for needy women because he hasn't much luck with women in general. He's the guy who walks around after hen parties in carrick in Shannon waiting for one of the d*unk girls to "seperate from the herd". I work with a guy like that and those are his words. We have had messages from guys who have said similar things. One guy told us my wife was about 5 years away from entering her prime and he wanted to show her what a real man was like so she would know what to expect. She replied that she had a great sex life, that she had married the man of her dreams ect. His reply was then why are you here you fat cow. No one wants to fuck people like you. He didn't see the irony when we pointed it out to him | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
Like others have said, it says more about them than it does about women. They see their own motivations in your actions. They feel like they are desperate and they assume that you are too. Obviously these guys are not swingers.
The guy who said "older women are grateful for the fuck", to me that sounds like a) he's trying to justify a desire he has for older women or b) he is looking for needy women because he hasn't much luck with women in general. He's the guy who walks around after hen parties in carrick in Shannon waiting for one of the d*unk girls to "seperate from the herd". I work with a guy like that and those are his words.
We have had messages from guys who have said similar things. One guy told us my wife was about 5 years away from entering her prime and he wanted to show her what a real man was like so she would know what to expect. She replied that she had a great sex life, that she had married the man of her dreams ect.
His reply was then why are you here you fat cow. No one wants to fuck people like you.
He didn't see the irony when we pointed it out to him"I fully agree with you about the desperate guys. The comment someone mad and I quote 'One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! I am over 50 but I am probably even more particular as I know that there is so much more to a great 'fuck' than a guy with just a cock and a pulse! Maturity is so much more appealing guys. A vibrator can do as good a job as a 'young stud' and you dont have to even pretend hes interesting!!!!!   | |||
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"Yep it's an unfortunate reality here, I was just chatting about this in pm to a lad, the amount of lads I would see on a fishy dating site that I would pop a mail to and get no reply, then to have the very same lads email me here! I don't want to find dates here but at the same time if your view is that I'm not good enough to date but I'm alright for a quick fuck? Nah, no respect. Next!!!" | |||
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"It's a sad truth but women who are comfortable in their sexuality threaten some guys. So they make up little fantasies in their heads to minimize the threat. She must be ugly, she must be mad, there must be something wrong with her. It's probably fostered by the societal myth that all men just want sex and all women just want love and they only use sex to get men lmfao. Those sort of comments don't speak well of their experience of sexually liberated women. The same sort of guys who would gladly fuck a swinger but would never date one. " Well said mister , I am Impressed !  | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ?" Another question,what is free sex/shag ? | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ?" I'm guessing this is directed at me ? I think the reason why I'm here is pretty obvious. ..We all use the site in different ways. I'm well aware of what a swinger is but I think you know this... are you aware that plenty of singles use this site too? Single males..females. .and couples enjoy fab .. call it what ever you like | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? I'm guessing this is directed at me ? I think the reason why I'm here is pretty obvious. ..We all use the site in different ways. I'm well aware of what a swinger is but I think you know this... are you aware that plenty of singles use this site too? Single males..females. .and couples enjoy fab .. call it what ever you like "No, these questions were directed at everyone that participated in the thread ! | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? I'm guessing this is directed at me ? I think the reason why I'm here is pretty obvious. ..We all use the site in different ways. I'm well aware of what a swinger is but I think you know this... are you aware that plenty of singles use this site too? Single males..females. .and couples enjoy fab .. call it what ever you like
No, these questions were directed at everyone that participated in the thread !"Ah ok cool ! Not sure how it's related to topic ..? | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ?" You're asking too much
There's the paid shag as in woman gets paid for the man using her body to satisfy himself
Free shag is the man is using her body to satisfy himself without having to pay for it. | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life ! "Some guys are just d*cks. Well some people for that matter. They're probably just insecure and think that demeaning you will make them appear more attractive to you. | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ? You're asking too much
There's the paid shag as in woman gets paid for the man using her body to satisfy himself
Free shag is the man is using her body to satisfy himself without having to pay for it. "That's all very sexist! | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ? You're asking too much
There's the paid shag as in woman gets paid for the man using her body to satisfy himself
Free shag is the man is using her body to satisfy himself without having to pay for it.
That's all very sexist! "Unfortunately yes, it is indeed. The whole terminology is negative, I'm afraid However thankfully there are loads of lovely fabbers on here who are meeting to have great sex by giving and receiving pleasure mutually | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life ! "It's just a line , your so good looking , your so hot , your profile pic is very sexy or variations of those . They say the same crap to every girl on here thinking someone will fall for it eventually . Picking out the good ones is the hard part . | |||
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"It's a sad truth but women who are comfortable in their sexuality threaten some guys. So they make up little fantasies in their heads to minimize the threat. She must be ugly, she must be mad, there must be something wrong with her. It's probably fostered by the societal myth that all men just want sex and all women just want love and they only use sex to get men lmfao. Those sort of comments don't speak well of their experience of sexually liberated women. The same sort of guys who would gladly fuck a swinger but would never date one. "
I think some men are conflicted. They want the confident, experienced woman but they also want the virgin | |||
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"It's a sad truth but women who are comfortable in their sexuality threaten some guys. So they make up little fantasies in their heads to minimize the threat. She must be ugly, she must be mad, there must be something wrong with her. It's probably fostered by the societal myth that all men just want sex and all women just want love and they only use sex to get men lmfao. Those sort of comments don't speak well of their experience of sexually liberated women. The same sort of guys who would gladly fuck a swinger but would never date one. " | |||
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"It's a sad truth but women who are comfortable in their sexuality threaten some guys. So they make up little fantasies in their heads to minimize the threat. She must be ugly, she must be mad, there must be something wrong with her. It's probably fostered by the societal myth that all men just want sex and all women just want love and they only use sex to get men lmfao. Those sort of comments don't speak well of their experience of sexually liberated women. The same sort of guys who would gladly fuck a swinger but would never date one.
I think some men are conflicted. They want the confident, experienced woman but they also want the virgin "Think I'll leave the virgins to the Muslim terrorists | |||
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"It's a sad truth but women who are comfortable in their sexuality threaten some guys. So they make up little fantasies in their heads to minimize the threat. She must be ugly, she must be mad, there must be something wrong with her. It's probably fostered by the societal myth that all men just want sex and all women just want love and they only use sex to get men lmfao. Those sort of comments don't speak well of their experience of sexually liberated women. The same sort of guys who would gladly fuck a swinger but would never date one.
I think some men are conflicted. They want the confident, experienced woman but they also want the virgin
Think I'll leave the virgins to the Muslim terrorists " | |||
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"In the last while after chatting with guys and exchanging pics. I'v noticed quiet a few with the same response.... You seem sane or what's a good looking girl doing here/you don't need to be here! Any girls heard something similar? One young guy even said he likes older ladies as 'they are more grateful of a fuck' !! Got me thinking..do some guy's think girls are here because they are desperate or can't pull in real life !
Like others have said, it says more about them than it does about women. They see their own motivations in your actions. They feel like they are desperate and they assume that you are too. Obviously these guys are not swingers.
The guy who said "older women are grateful for the fuck", to me that sounds like a) he's trying to justify a desire he has for older women or b) he is looking for needy women because he hasn't much luck with women in general. He's the guy who walks around after hen parties in carrick in Shannon waiting for one of the d*unk girls to "seperate from the herd". I work with a guy like that and those are his words.
We have had messages from guys who have said similar things. One guy told us my wife was about 5 years away from entering her prime and he wanted to show her what a real man was like so she would know what to expect. She replied that she had a great sex life, that she had married the man of her dreams ect.
His reply was then why are you here you fat cow. No one wants to fuck people like you.
He didn't see the irony when we pointed it out to him"Oh it's when they get abusive that the real banter begin's
Some absolute gem's on here and in the real world...a pinch of salt and move on. Valid point's | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ?" For me a swinger is someone who is consciously non monogamous, Either alone or with a partner often forming social networks of people as possible playmates. I believe that a swinger is someone with a particular mindset with how they look at sex and relationships | |||
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"Whoa..whoa whoa..stall the digger there... ..you can get a free shag on here.....AND...there are sane people about...
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ? You're asking too much
There's the paid shag as in woman gets paid for the man using her body to satisfy himself
Free shag is the man is using her body to satisfy himself without having to pay for it. "Can a free shag also mean a man and a woman using their bodies to satisfy themselves and each other which is what being a swinger is all about !! It's just that a couple of comments seem to make free sex sound like a bad thing or did I just read it all wrong | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ? For me a swinger is someone who is consciously non monogamous, Either alone or with a partner often forming social networks of people as possible playmates. I believe that a swinger is someone with a particular mindset with how they look at sex and relationships" With the ultimate goal being sex and not a relationship ! | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ? For me a swinger is someone who is consciously non monogamous, Either alone or with a partner often forming social networks of people as possible playmates. I believe that a swinger is someone with a particular mindset with how they look at sex and relationships With the ultimate goal being sex and not a relationship !" It's a blurry line. There are people who are not looking for relationships and there are people who are. A pair of single swingers can form a relationship and still be swingers. A couple can have a particular guy or gal who they play with once a month ... Isn't that a relationship? | |||
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"I've two questions that I need to ask after reading this thread. The first is why are you/ye here ? The second is what exactly do you think a "swinger" is ? Another question,what is free sex/shag ? You're asking too much
There's the paid shag as in woman gets paid for the man using her body to satisfy himself
Free shag is the man is using her body to satisfy himself without having to pay for it.
Can a free shag also mean a man and a woman using their bodies to satisfy themselves and each other which is what being a swinger is all about !!
It's just that a couple of comments seem to make free sex sound like a bad thing or did I just read it all wrong "I should have put 'free' sex in apostrophes. Some people use this site simply to get their leg over for their own satisfaction only in comparison to someone who seeks mutual pleasure. This normally goes hand in hand with a derogative attitude how they regard sexually liberated women but at the same time use the opportunity to get their shag without having to pay for a prostitute. A swinger is in my eyes open minded and accepts sexual liberation for both gender and strives to give pleasure and receive pleasure but also enjoys the social side of meeting someone. Now I'm not saying that every non swinger who seeks NSA fun is just out there for his own satisfaction only. As we know giving pleasure can be very pleasurable too. | |||
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"Yes !! I'm delighted this thread has brought some genuine opions to light. In the same school of thought . .. Are "real" life standards applicable here ? Is personality. ..chemistry. and...raw attraction still important. ...They are to me anyway. I cannot sleep with someone unless there is chemistry and attraction despite the shallowness of the sex site ness of it all ! " Ah yes, the shallow 'insult' gets thrown around a lot on here | |||
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"Yep it's an unfortunate reality here, I was just chatting about this in pm to a lad, the amount of lads I would see on a fishy dating site that I would pop a mail to and get no reply, then to have the very same lads email me here! I don't want to find dates here but at the same time if your view is that I'm not good enough to date but I'm alright for a quick fuck? Nah, no respect. Next!!!" totally agree | |||
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"yes I have heard that a few times before and I'm a newbie! I don't "need" fab I'm young (ish) free and not scary looking. I can pull if I want to pull but I choose fab for no drama fun. It's suits me for now. If I meet a few friends along the way then great. As for the "you seem normal" remark I'm insulted. Who wants to be normal anyway?! And grateful for a shag, what a cheeky wee shit! " That's an excellent point. I have never felt normal in my life. | |||
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"yes I have heard that a few times before and I'm a newbie! I don't "need" fab I'm young (ish) free and not scary looking. I can pull if I want to pull but I choose fab for no drama fun. It's suits me for now. If I meet a few friends along the way then great. As for the "you seem normal" remark I'm insulted. Who wants to be normal anyway?! And grateful for a shag, what a cheeky wee shit! " .uhmmm...a wee bit scary...
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"yes I have heard that a few times before and I'm a newbie! I don't "need" fab I'm young (ish) free and not scary looking. I can pull if I want to pull but I choose fab for no drama fun. It's suits me for now. If I meet a few friends along the way then great. As for the "you seem normal" remark I'm insulted. Who wants to be normal anyway?! And grateful for a shag, what a cheeky wee shit! " Normality is over rated. Embrace your inner weird-O | |||
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"yes I have heard that a few times before and I'm a newbie! I don't "need" fab I'm young (ish) free and not scary looking. I can pull if I want to pull but I choose fab for no drama fun. It's suits me for now. If I meet a few friends along the way then great. As for the "you seem normal" remark I'm insulted. Who wants to be normal anyway?! And grateful for a shag, what a cheeky wee shit! " Normal scares the shit out of me | |||
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