FabSwingers.com forum: one for the males!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dear fab men,

When u reject a woman or turn her down (for whatever your reasons) do the women ever reply to ask why?? Or get smart or huffy.

Would love to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not many men who'd turn a woman down here....turn her over maybe. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not many men who'd turn a woman down here....turn her over maybe. :P"

Ah now that's not fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not many men who'd turn a woman down here....turn her over maybe. :P

Ah now that's not fair!

I meant that in a good way pp....not to hide their looks or anything like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind you, I wouldn't say no to turning a girl down either...probaly one of the first place I'd send them tbh :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not many men who'd turn a woman down here....turn her over maybe. :P

Ah now that's not fair!

I meant that in a good way pp....not to hide their looks or anything like that."

It was the first part I was referring to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not many men who'd turn a woman down here....turn her over maybe. :P

Ah now that's not fair!

I meant that in a good way pp....not to hide their looks or anything like that.

It was the first part I was referring to

What kinda men are they....I'd of thought there was no men like that on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not many men who'd turn a woman down here....turn her over maybe. :P

Ah now that's not fair!

I meant that in a good way pp....not to hide their looks or anything like that.

It was the first part I was referring to

What kinda men are they....I'd of thought there was no men like that on here."

Really? You've never turned a woman down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not yet anyway, and don't think I would, unless I was busy with something else....maybe it happens all the time, I just didn't think it did...I'd say girls turning fellahs down is much more of an ocurrance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it like turning someone down on here, or turning down sex with somebody you're going out with....if it's that, then yeah they'd get huffy and ask why.

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

"Dear fab men,

When u reject a woman or turn her down (for whatever your reasons) do the women ever reply to ask why?? Or get smart or huffy.

Would love to know

We don't fully swap. We say so on our profile, but we've had couples say hi, and then go off on a huff when we tell them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a mixed bag, some take it and don't respond, some say fair enough and others get nasty. Tbh I kind of expect nasty and am glad when it doesn't come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a mixed bag, some take it and don't respond, some say fair enough and others get nasty. Tbh I kind of expect nasty and am glad when it doesn't come. "

So you do turn people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a mixed bag, some take it and don't respond, some say fair enough and others get nasty. Tbh I kind of expect nasty and am glad when it doesn't come.

So you do turn people down

Well I don't and first people I ever met with, even though they were good looking said they didn't really giva fook what people looked like, so I kinda figured that was the same with most others, other than looks what grounds have you go to refuse people on, personality (sparce bit you know of), or behaviour on the site, in which case you wouldn't get around to the turning down point if they didn't suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my man turns me down I just sort myself out, I never turn him down - love his big cock too much!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I try to be subtle or nice about it, no major backlash yet thankfully. I have had to move away to a different part of a social before when a d*unk lady just didn't 'get' that I wasn't into her. On more than one occasion..... better to move than watch her create a scene

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Yet to have that option, mostly me contacting others first.

So i obviously have the interest in the first place.

Have been turned down by loads, but sure i know i aint going to be everyones cuppa tea.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Why should women not get smart and huffy when being turned down? It's not a nice feeling being turned down, as a counter reaction some feel the need to throw mud and insults rather than walk away with style. They think it makes them feel better.

Having had nasty messages out of the blue from women and from stuff I've read on the forum it is not hard to imagine that some will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I've turned down more than one in my time,and that not me claiming to be better than them. In one case it was distance and in at least two others it was a personality thing. One that I can remember, she's not here anymore, was really annoyed and started messaging others that I used to chat to with "truths" about what I was really like. She had a fantastic imagination. She followed me around the forum then for a while making petty comments but eventually she gave up. The amusing part was that some ladies that I used to chat to regularly decided to believe her complete nonsense and at least two blocked me as a result. At least I found out early what they were really like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only reject if she is a bitch no matter what she looks like if your a stuck up bitch I'm gone. Yeah I have told em to change their attitude. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do onto others as you would have them do onto you ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've turned down and been turned down. All part and parcel of fab I guess like wtf who in there right mind would turn me down

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have never turned down a woman but if i had to i would be polite about it.

As for myself i have being turned down amd i reply with a thank you message for letting me know.

Sometimes people think thats being smart though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a mixed bag, some take it and don't respond, some say fair enough and others get nasty. Tbh I kind of expect nasty and am glad when it doesn't come.

So you do turn people down

It's not always about looks, though obviously physical attraction is an important thing. Sometimes it's a personality thing that comes off in the first few messages. There can be lots of reasons. I've never been able to understand guys who would get up on anyone, just because they have a pussy. I'd quite honestly prefer to go without, than to just bang someone for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should women not get smart and huffy when being turned down? It's not a nice feeling being turned down, as a counter reaction some feel the need to throw mud and insults rather than walk away with style. They think it makes them feel better.

Having had nasty messages out of the blue from women and from stuff I've read on the forum it is not hard to imagine that some will. "

It's not nice for guys either but it's part and parcel of being here. I've got turned down loads more than being the one saying no. You have to just accept it and move, there's no need to lash out because you can't handle rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two times I was turned down spring to mind when I read this thread, the first time the guy had sent me his face pic and I replied along with mine and said thanks for the face pic but your not my type and he replied with "yeah your not mind either so thanks god for that" which I found hilarious and we still chat the odd time

The other time I asked someone if they fancied meeting up and no reply lol first time is ever pushed myself out of my paranoid little head and ballsed up and asked. That put me swiftly back in my little box

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By *alwayBlackcockMan
over a year ago

Galway

"Dear fab men,

When u reject a woman or turn her down (for whatever your reasons) do the women ever reply to ask why?? Or get smart or huffy.

Would love to know

Women here are generally grand except one who keeps messaging in gaps after your first initial No (probably thinking I would forget I said no before)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to cpls too.....we've sent rain a ton of msgs...plus loads of pics.......we even said we would bring loncav along for a mfff....she hasn't answered one single msg...maybe she hasn't got them?....that must be it.....I'll pop off a few more this morning. .just to make sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection in any form is not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very much an individual thing....but more often its the same as us guys when we get turned down. A simple thanks and wish you all the best...

....guess its not easy for anyone and ill be honest..being the type of person I am, I'm happier to get turned down than give bad news to others...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear fab men,

When u reject a woman or turn her down (for whatever your reasons) do the women ever reply to ask why?? Or get smart or huffy.

Would love to know

Women here are generally grand except one who keeps messaging in gaps after your first initial No (probably thinking I would forget I said no before)"
.....best block the ones you reject. ....otherwise they get false hopes.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to cpls too.....we've sent rain a ton of msgs...plus loads of pics.......we even said we would bring loncav along for a mfff....she hasn't answered one single msg...maybe she hasn't got them?....that must be it.....I'll pop off a few more this morning. .just to make sure.

Well as it happens I'm free this weekend due to no-one answering my call for a drink at the Farney Festival

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By *alwayBlackcockMan
over a year ago

Galway

"Dear fab men,

When u reject a woman or turn her down (for whatever your reasons) do the women ever reply to ask why?? Or get smart or huffy.

Would love to know

Women here are generally grand except one who keeps messaging in gaps after your first initial No (probably thinking I would forget I said no before).....best block the ones you reject. ....otherwise they get false hopes....."

Duily noted thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have turned down lots. Blondes, redheads, brunettes, bbw's and goths.

Then I usually wake up and strut like a God!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I did meet a lady ages ago but we agreed if we did not like each other no harm done n walk away . Not to b bad about her but there was not an ounce of chemistery at all .

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By *alwayBlackcockMan
over a year ago

Galway

"Have turned down lots. Blondes, redheads, brunettes, bbw's and goths.

Then I usually wake up and strut like a God!

How do you turn than a Blonde? something I havent been able to do lol

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By *r HavershamMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Twice I politely declined ladies on here.

First time I was accused of being 'a player' that probably wouldn't be seen dead with a bbw woman. I was advised not be as shallow in the future

Second time I didn't hear anything at all back.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

You never fail to put a smile on my face love it

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"I have never turned down a woman but if i had to i would be polite about it.

As for myself i have being turned down amd i reply with a thank you message for letting me know.

Sometimes people think thats being smart though "

Yep nearly always reply back with a thanks for letting me know or cheers for the reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

Not everyone is going to be someone's type. I've gotten turned down loads of times i just say happy fabbing. I do however feel a bit of a bitch when i turn people down and hate the follow up questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as it happens I'm free this weekend due to no-one answering my call for a drink at the Farney Festival"
...ooh....inbox will be busy now you hussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

.i pretty much reckon its simple when I get turned Down....im ugleeeee..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never fail to put a smile on my face love it

xx"
....in a good way...

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

Your have to be joking, people have turned you down

( are they fucking mad )

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

You never fail to put a smile on my face love it

xx....in a good way...

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

Me too Cha.. dont see the point in harassing someone because they don't fancy you. Plenty more guys here to meet.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

This is how it should be, for both sides.

Never quite sure what the nastiness is supposed to result in, other than both sides feeling like crap.

I prefer happy fabbing

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I've turned down more than one in my time,and that not me claiming to be better than them. In one case it was distance and in at least two others it was a personality thing. One that I can remember, she's not here anymore, was really annoyed and started messaging others that I used to chat to with "truths" about what I was really like. She had a fantastic imagination. She followed me around the forum then for a while making petty comments but eventually she gave up. The amusing part was that some ladies that I used to chat to regularly decided to believe her complete nonsense and at least two blocked me as a result. At least I found out early what they were really like. "
I think remember who your talking about.did she say you was her secret crush sge was mad about you.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now."
llong how did you feel when I turned you down mwahhhh

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now.llong how did you feel when I turned you down mwahhhh

Devashtated.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now.llong how did you feel when I turned you down mwahhhh

Devashtated.

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lol

haha

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now.llong how did you feel when I turned you down mwahhhh

Devashtated.

lol

haha "

Well you're a lovely woman but........... Lmao.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now.llong how did you feel when I turned you down mwahhhh

Devashtated.

lol

haha

Well you're a lovely woman but........... Lmao.

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now now now llong be nice

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now.llong how did you feel when I turned you down mwahhhh

Devashtated.

lol

haha

Well you're a lovely woman but........... Lmao.

now now now llong be nice

I was just giving example of the dreaded but syndrome. I'm always nice lets.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Interesting subject. It's a situation where you could become victim of the dreaded but syndrome. That's but with one t now.llong how did you feel when I turned you down mwahhhh

Devashtated.

lol

haha

Well you're a lovely woman but........... Lmao.

now now now llong be nice

I was just giving example of the dreaded but syndrome. I'm always nice lets."
yes you are I can vouch for the that.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

So far I can't tell as usually it's the girls waiting for the initiative to be taken by the men, hence I guess in 99% of all occasion it the man taken the risk of rejection. At least I have never been approached by a lady in such manner that I would need to reject if it doesn't fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

Me too Cha.. dont see the point in harassing someone because they don't fancy you. Plenty more guys here to meet.

Thanks but no thanks is all youd expect....say thanks back and jog on...nobody should feel bad or anything about not being sombodies particular type on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I haven't been compatible with an offer, it was always handled very well unlike some of the strops I know guys can occasionally pull.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I've turned down more than one in my time,and that not me claiming to be better than them. In one case it was distance and in at least two others it was a personality thing. One that I can remember, she's not here anymore, was really annoyed and started messaging others that I used to chat to with "truths" about what I was really like. She had a fantastic imagination. She followed me around the forum then for a while making petty comments but eventually she gave up. The amusing part was that some ladies that I used to chat to regularly decided to believe her complete nonsense and at least two blocked me as a result. At least I found out early what they were really like. I think remember who your talking about.did she say you was her secret crush sge was mad about you. "

Lol, that was another one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's quite common I'd say, for friends of the woman who got turned down to block the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a mixed bag, some take it and don't respond, some say fair enough and others get nasty. Tbh I kind of expect nasty and am glad when it doesn't come.

So you do turn people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a mixed bag, some take it and don't respond, some say fair enough and others get nasty. Tbh I kind of expect nasty and am glad when it doesn't come.

So you do turn people down

You would most certainly not be rejected!

Its all comes down to persons ability to accept another's decision, some find it easier than others, a good fuck with somebody else usually heals a wounded ego and thankfully there's suitors for most of us! So enjoy yourselves! (With me)

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By *rishgstarMan
over a year ago

the neighbourhood

I've never turned a lady down, don't get many messages or replies since there's fuck all ladies in my age group on here and coz I live in the irish outback.. that and near all the older ladies don't want younger guys.. maybe I'm an undesirable and it's not an age or geography problem

i think the forum section needs work and the search engine needs more parameters and people need to be braver in general...

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By *exyman1965Man
over a year ago

Lucan

Of course you'd turn down a lady sometimes you might be chatting for a while and not see a picture of that lady or even you might get to meet for a coffee and she's not what your into, personally I don't like large lady dosent do anything for me nothing personal everyone to the own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a mixed bag, some take it and don't respond, some say fair enough and others get nasty. Tbh I kind of expect nasty and am glad when it doesn't come.

So you do turn people down

You would most certainly not be rejected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank fuck, its not just me. Starting ou with how well maintained and manicured my digits look. When i tell them that i don't hold hands on the social suddenly i could use moisturiser and have my cuticles looked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the Times that I have done (can count on less than one hand) never been any problem or huffing mind you I've made a polite excuse as not to hurt feelings.don't think anyone likes rejection. everyone has different types. tastes they prefer.most unattractive features are arrogant & poor hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's quite common I'd say, for friends of the woman who got turned down to block the man. "

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Itd be like turning down food when u are starving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When women are drama I'd leave them tell them no thanks an if they got abusive I'd laugh an tell them to fuck off! Somtimes you really are better off just having a wank than having to go through the hard work of meeting up with somone on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... Somtimes you really are better off just having a wank than having to go through the hard work of meeting up with somone on fab!

Sometimes a nice cuppa will suffice.

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By *irArdMan
over a year ago

Rush

I've turned down one or two, face to face while on coffee meets. I felt a bit bad about it but I was honest, gentle but firm with them.

Was I right or wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do yes no different from man same thing if ur woundering haha

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

IDE rarely turn a lady down cos I'm a gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

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I wouldn't turn a girl down for her looks but if she had an awful attitude and seemed like drama I'd rather have a wank and not meet her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IDE rarely turn a lady down cos I'm a gent "

Atta boy choco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bloke turn me down from here I've turned them down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IDE rarely turn a lady down cos I'm a gent

Atta boy choco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had a bloke turn me down from here I've turned them down

With my small stature you could turn me upside down!

Reckon Id still enjoy it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply to OP.

YES to both questions. I don't think they are any more or less different in respect to the way men react.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here to reject anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not on here to reject anyone "

Dont think anyone is on here to reject or turn people down, but we're also not here to shag all that moves or offers themselves either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There a vicious circle on fab too.u upset the wrong women and it gets around,when I say upset not abuse or insult them just say ur a nice lady but not my type ,they bad mouth u then,,, not all them there's good and bad every where,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There a vicious circle on fab too.u upset the wrong women and it gets around,when I say upset not abuse or insult them just say ur a nice lady but not my type ,they bad mouth u then,,, not all them there's good and bad every where,,

That can also backfire though as I found with some recent events ....

Be very selective with who you meet, the bad mouths will alway try but it doesn't stick as it's the just the bad eggs who try bad mouthing and soon people know who they are quite quickly on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is also they thing of ,,ohhh uve met her so I won't meet u ,,is ment to be a sex site and a bit of fun also a level of respect...but u can please everyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have turned a few down but it hasn't resulted in any unpleasantness. I've always been honest as to why and I think honesty goes a long way.

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By *arfield 69Man
over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

Yer fking joking pmsl!!!!!

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

"Rejection in any form is not nice

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there's a thread for hugs here somewhere kaizer gong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have turned a few ladys down. One took it very bad, some were not happy and surprised i had said no and some were very good about it. Now I have been turned down a few times myself so not all one way traffic. I would rather have a wank than have sex with someone I did not fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That can also backfire though as I found with some recent events ....

Be very selective with who you meet, the bad mouths will alway try but it doesn't stick as it's the just the bad eggs who try bad mouthing and soon people know who they are quite quickly on here."

That is so very true. Seen it happen recently too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That can also backfire though as I found with some recent events ....

Be very selective with who you meet, the bad mouths will alway try but it doesn't stick as it's the just the bad eggs who try bad mouthing and soon people know who they are quite quickly on here."

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan

If a lady says no I thank her for taking the time to reply, it's nice to nice even better to be naughty ??

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Been turned down a couple of times but I accepted it without a blink. Everyone has different tastes/likes so if I'm not someone's then I don't take it personally and iv to say the majority of guys I turn down are fine & polite about it too.

I do however find the guys saying (here & on their profile) they would never turn any woman down etc a tad bit off putting as that means (to me) theyve no standards & would just fuck anyone. Quality over quantity is what I go by & I'd like to think the same goes for others.

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

I have turned down on occasions. My main reasons are I try avoid drama and liars or if I have not attraction to the lady. If I get the feeling there is going to be drama I just steer clear.

I had two ladies who took it very personally sending nasty messages and spreading lies and stories about me to their friends.

Their behavior just proved my decision was right in the first place. I have yet to run into this behavior when I swing in Europe though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An Irish solution to an Irish problem ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitches Be Cray...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear fab men,

When u reject a woman or turn her down (for whatever your reasons) do the women ever reply to ask why?? Or get smart or huffy.

Would love to know

I've never had the chance to reject or turn anyone down.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

It hasn't happened to me, as far as I can remember. I have turned down a few women on here and other sites but I don't remember any further contact from them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its nice to read the replies, im always reading about men and their attitudes so this evens it out.

I wouldn't turn a girl down for her looks but if she had an awful attitude and seemed like drama I'd rather have a wank and not meet her "

Happy wanking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never had a bloke turn me down from here I've turned them down

I've been turned down a few times it never gets easier lol.

Its all good thou, i still interact with them on forums, more respect to ken who know what they want. As for drama, took me a while to get the swing of things, im more chilled now than i use to be but im also alot fussier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never had a bloke turn me down from here I've turned them down

I've been turned down a few times it never gets easier lol.

*** men, not ken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do however find the guys saying (here & on their profile) they would never turn any woman down etc a tad bit off putting as that means (to me) theyve no standards & would just fuck anyone. Quality over quantity is what I go by & I'd like to think the same goes for others. "

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Would put it politely as possible if wasn't interested in them meeting them! Would get a no probs back odd time that situation happened! So that's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bitches Be Cray..."

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't reply when I have zero interest in a guy , but sometimes if they seem nice or we have interacted on the forums or socially , I will reply with a polite thanks but no , I've never had any abuse in fact I've never gotten any nasty mails on here .

My partner on the other hand has had issues with a lady who went let just say a little bit crazy when he told her he didn't want to take things any further .

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I haven't turned anyone down (not that I've had the chance yet

) but I have been chatting to people where it just seems to be going nowhere so I just left it be and packed in the conversation with no explanation.

My profile says that if the conversation has to be dragged then we probably won't have a good encounter and I genuinely feel this is true.

I never realized how picky I actually am

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

Iv turned down a few. I don't like women who have stretch marks. Just not my thing. A few got huffy but it's my preference.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Quality over quantity every time!

...but lots of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 30,000 fabbers... rejection smarts but you move on nicely. I have been turned down and turned people down. Neither is nice to participate in but this is an adult site.

Quality over quantity always...we are not everyone's cup of tea nor are they ours...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv turned down a few. I don't like women who have stretch marks. Just not my thing. A few got huffy but it's my preference."

Have no problem with stretch marks.

Skid marks though, well......

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By *eirdo with the hatMan
over a year ago

Willow Gardens

"I generally don't reply when I have zero interest in a guy , but sometimes if they seem nice or we have interacted on the forums or socially , I will reply with a polite thanks but no , I've never had any abuse in fact I've never gotten any nasty mails on here .

My partner on the other hand has had issues with a lady who went let just say a little bit crazy when he told her he didn't want to take things any further . "

This

nothing worse than a couple who won't go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have had a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have had a few times on here. In person I have Aswell I was not sure wish you meant on here distance I don't have a type and in person no chemistry there then it's a no.

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By *ocko123Man
over a year ago

Derry

I, for one, am happy to discuss, maybe too much so.... Been in the situation you describe (as in receiving end) without a word to explain what up to that point was very amicable and agreeable... Then blocked!

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