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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Is there any dominant ladies on here would luv to chat please !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a few I think there are search boxes for this in the advanced search, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of bossy ones about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BSexyBitch

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm blocked bye her I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant people tend not to like pushy people. It's not their thing. If shes not interested and you kept messaging it would annoy her. Could be why you got blocked? Idk.

Your best chance at finding a dominant woman is to go to a bdsm event. Meeting people real life is easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww chocko you've been looking for that for ages here... maybe try other places?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are only so many dominant women. If you are here looking I assume you have tried the dedicated fetish lifestyle websites and not found it there either. You need to try something different.

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have Snow White thanks

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm on that site but it's very hard n don't get chances to go to these events . I suppose I will have to try n get to them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant women dislike wannabe subs who have no clue about the role it entails or the correct protocols to establish a conversation with them . What you need to understand is that mainly in a female Dommés mind , she doesnt give a damn what YOU want , because its all about what YOU can do for her ! There is some crossover between swinging and bdsm but there are actually very few Dominant women on this website who are seeking submissive men . Hope that helps ( and dont contact me )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who knows her own mind .... OP sure sent we all dominated by the women

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Yes ur probably right there lol

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Thanks Avalon I know it's all about giving pleasure to d Domme n it's not about sex . I know u have to give urself freely to d domme n I know a good bit about d relationship between a sub n a Domme . Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on that site but it's very hard n don't get chances to go to these events . I suppose I will have to try n get to them . "

Why don't you get a chance ?

You are a grown ass man. If your wife doesn't know, you need to have a long talk with her. If it's fear that is stopping you then you need to have a long talk with yourself too.

A dominant expects dedication and commitment. It's easy to play submissive online. But nothing compares to real life. It will change your life. But you have to step forward and put effort in

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

I will would luv to b a full blown sub to a domme lady . I think I will have to put an effort into it . Thanks Arrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And indeed if you have taken ten years off your actual age like chocko has you might have an added issue trying to convince any woman (dominant or otherwise ) your not a muppet ?

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin


"Dominant women dislike wannabe subs who have no clue about the role it entails or the correct protocols to establish a conversation with them . What you need to understand is that mainly in a female Dommés mind , she doesnt give a damn what YOU want , because its all about what YOU can do for her ! There is some crossover between swinging and bdsm but there are actually very few Dominant women on this website who are seeking submissive men . Hope that helps ( and dont contact me ) "

Well said, but I think u may have missed the point of using a subs likes and dislikes, my understanding is a true Domme does take into consideration a subs desires?

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ooh I know that as we'll . But ur whole life changes u give up ur freedom . U actually become her property to do as she pleases . It becomes ur duty to pleasure ur Domme .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh I know that as we'll . But ur whole life changes u give up ur freedom . U actually become her property to do as she pleases . It becomes ur duty to pleasure ur Domme . "

No it becomes your pleasure to do your duty for your Dominant.

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Thanks for that Arrows

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Think you would have better luck on bdsm or fetish sites finding a femdom.

Most here looking for fun not a Dom.

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm on one but it's a lot harder than on here but I will have to try harder on it . Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dominant women dislike wannabe subs who have no clue about the role it entails or the correct protocols to establish a conversation with them . What you need to understand is that mainly in a female Dommés mind , she doesnt give a damn what YOU want , because its all about what YOU can do for her ! There is some crossover between swinging and bdsm but there are actually very few Dominant women on this website who are seeking submissive men . Hope that helps ( and dont contact me )

Well said, but I think u may have missed the point of using a subs likes and dislikes, my understanding is a true Domme does take into consideration a subs desires?"

yes of course your absolutely correct , but i thought for the purpose of what I wanted to relay to the OP it wasnt necessary to get into the minuate of it all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dominant women dislike wannabe subs who have no clue about the role it entails or the correct protocols to establish a conversation with them . What you need to understand is that mainly in a female Dommés mind , she doesnt give a damn what YOU want , because its all about what YOU can do for her ! There is some crossover between swinging and bdsm but there are actually very few Dominant women on this website who are seeking submissive men . Hope that helps ( and dont contact me )

Well said, but I think u may have missed the point of using a subs likes and dislikes, my understanding is a true Domme does take into consideration a subs desires?

yes of course your absolutely correct , but i thought for the purpose of what I wanted to relay to the OP it wasnt necessary to get into the minuate of it all . "

Bdsm is complicated and confusing and stupidly simple all at the same time. It's just a relationship.

In a vanilla relationship you just need to match sexual, spiritual and emotional needs. That's not easy to do. I think of it like two jigsaw pieces. Lots of different pieces can fit together. They don't show the picture and they don't sit flush but they fit and in a vanilla relationship that's often enough

In a bdsm relationship you need to match kinks as well. Sounds simple but it's another dimension. A jigsaw piece becomes a 3 dimensional puzzle. Much harder to find two that can work properly together.

But at the end of the day it's still just a relationship. Of course a Dominant will take into consideration the subs desires. Just like a good husband will takes his wife's into consideration and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry. I like the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dominant women dislike wannabe subs who have no clue about the role it entails or the correct protocols to establish a conversation with them . What you need to understand is that mainly in a female Dommés mind , she doesnt give a damn what YOU want , because its all about what YOU can do for her ! There is some crossover between swinging and bdsm but there are actually very few Dominant women on this website who are seeking submissive men . Hope that helps ( and dont contact me ) "

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By *hocko87 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

I know n I'm a member on there. I will have to get to munches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know n I'm a member on there. I will have to get to munches "

U certainly need to do something, I have given you no end of advice but u still go on about it....... get the finger out and organise yourself to go to a munch or to nimhneach, you are in Dublin so it shouldn't be that difficult.....time to stand up and be counted instead of whining about it all the time......sorry if this sounds harsh but you are a bit like a broken record and I have done my best for you and been kind and nice etc....so now to this..... good luck in your hunt but it won't come to you, you gotta go looking for it properly, do your research etc.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pay for one.

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