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"I'm curious..... A lot of guys on fab describe themselves as pleasure givers, yet I've been left most times unsatisfied and very frustrated!! Does a 5 minute bout of oral constitute "being a giver"? Or do most men assume that the actual fucking is what is their way of giving?? I understand it's subjective and each woman is different in what satisfies them. But my time on fab (previously) has always resulted in very similar experiences.....this is despite me being very clear beforehand what works best for me. " I am happy to teach you what it means if a gentleman is a giver. But I warn you, the joy can be so intense that it hurts you in the aftermath | |||
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"I'm curious..... A lot of guys on fab describe themselves as pleasure givers, yet I've been left most times unsatisfied and very frustrated!! Does a 5 minute bout of oral constitute "being a giver"? Or do most men assume that the actual fucking is what is their way of giving?? I understand it's subjective and each woman is different in what satisfies them. But my time on fab (previously) has always resulted in very similar experiences.....this is despite me being very clear beforehand what works best for me. " I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. | |||
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"I'm curious..... A lot of guys on fab describe themselves as pleasure givers, yet I've been left most times unsatisfied and very frustrated!! Does a 5 minute bout of oral constitute "being a giver"? Or do most men assume that the actual fucking is what is their way of giving?? I understand it's subjective and each woman is different in what satisfies them. But my time on fab (previously) has always resulted in very similar experiences.....this is despite me being very clear beforehand what works best for me. I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure." Fook how do I get my name on ur page  | |||
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"I'm curious..... A lot of guys on fab describe themselves as pleasure givers, yet I've been left most times unsatisfied and very frustrated!! Does a 5 minute bout of oral constitute "being a giver"? Or do most men assume that the actual fucking is what is their way of giving?? I understand it's subjective and each woman is different in what satisfies them. But my time on fab (previously) has always resulted in very similar experiences.....this is despite me being very clear beforehand what works best for me. I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure." Knew my ears were burnin  | |||
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But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.  | |||
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!! "Damm wands will lead to the extinction good men | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed. "See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I?? | |||
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!!
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"Do prefer receiving prolonged oral?" Yes that's the only way I can cum..... | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??"You must be meeting the wrong men | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
Your picking the wrong fellas then my dear
Some blokes may have the gift of the gabb and think they are gods gift.
Me im just dynamite in the sack lol" | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You must be meeting the wrong men "I totally hear you! But how do I know they're the wrong men when they tell me at a social meet how important it is for them to please me and make me cum then it's as if they've forgotten what they say? | |||
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!!
Damm wands will lead to the extinction good men "Your love those wands too | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
Your picking the wrong fellas then my dear
Some blokes may have the gift of the gabb and think they are gods gift.
Me im just dynamite in the sack lol" | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You must be meeting the wrong men
I totally hear you!
But how do I know they're the wrong men when they tell me at a social meet how important it is for them to please me and make me cum then it's as if they've forgotten what they say?"Sit on his face till he gives what he promised and tell him he's going nowhere till u see stars 
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!!
Damm wands will lead to the extinction good men
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You must be meeting the wrong men
I totally hear you!
But how do I know they're the wrong men when they tell me at a social meet how important it is for them to please me and make me cum then it's as if they've forgotten what they say?
Sit on his face till he gives what he promised and tell him he's going nowhere till u see stars
Just make sure u have his arms trapped incase he looks to take the easy way our "Hahaha brilliant idea | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You must be meeting the wrong men
I totally hear you!
But how do I know they're the wrong men when they tell me at a social meet how important it is for them to please me and make me cum then it's as if they've forgotten what they say?
Sit on his face till he gives what he promised and tell him he's going nowhere till u see stars
Just make sure u have his arms trapped incase he looks to take the easy way our
Hahaha brilliant idea "See I am not all talk | |||
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"Pleasing a woman. Haaaaaaaaa. That made me laugh " ... laughed at that...Hal paint her sittingroom and hallway, Install bookcases,lights,new door handles ( having sanded the scratch marks off the doors and repainted them...)she claims it was the dog..... 
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and only this...then you can claim to be a "Pleasure Giver"...
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!! "Question of communication and reciprocation me thinks.... if he/she is not enjoying themselves as well than you need to change tack until they are. It's not race to the finish line! lol | |||
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"I'm curious..... A lot of guys on fab describe themselves as pleasure givers, yet I've been left most times unsatisfied and very frustrated!! Does a 5 minute bout of oral constitute "being a giver"? Or do most men assume that the actual fucking is what is their way of giving?? I understand it's subjective and each woman is different in what satisfies them. But my time on fab (previously) has always resulted in very similar experiences.....this is despite me being very clear beforehand what works best for me. I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure." Now you have it... Lady leaves with a smile, with anticipation of next meet  | |||
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"heard this so many times.. oh i just love to give.. love oral.. Then ya go meet them.. leave unfulfilled and feeling stoopid.. " Challenge accepted! | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You must be meeting the wrong men
I totally hear you!
But how do I know they're the wrong men when they tell me at a social meet how important it is for them to please me and make me cum then it's as if they've forgotten what they say?"Keep going till I hear you purr, or you close you thighs, and I have to go by taste, | |||
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!! "That's your second preference.... ;-) | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??"You should always be expecting a 5* performance,aim high my dear aim high | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You should always be expecting a 5* performance,aim high my dear aim high "Not too high though. Belly buttons don't always taste great | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You should always be expecting a 5* performance,aim high my dear aim high
Not too high though. Belly buttons don't always taste great "They're OK if you use them as an appetiser on your way down | |||
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"Pleasing a woman. Haaaaaaaaa. That made me laugh ... laughed at that...Hal paint her sittingroom and hallway, Install bookcases,lights,new door handles ( having sanded the scratch marks off the doors and repainted them...)she claims it was the dog.....
when you have done all this....
and only this...then you can claim to be a "Pleasure Giver"...
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"I love giving a woman oral , problem is I love it to much , could do it for hours, love licking and putting my tounge deep inside during and after she cums " hours? i think she would be asleep by then.. lol. i am no expert, i think 15/20 minutes if done right, women that like oral would be happy. some like having their clit kissed and teased some dont, some like having they lips kissed and licked some dont, most like having their gspot massaged with the tip of your finger as you find the right spot to please with your tongue and lips.. | |||
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"The ones that are bragging about it, are normally the ones to avoid. The more they tell you how good they are, the more suspicious you should become. Some promise you the blue of the sky, lure you into their fairy land, just to get their own run. It's the ones that are able to listen and to understand what you're saying, the more quiet ones, these normally the ones worthwhile meeting. " Isn't that valid for either gender? | |||
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"The ones that are bragging about it, are normally the ones to avoid. The more they tell you how good they are, the more suspicious you should become. Some promise you the blue of the sky, lure you into their fairy land, just to get their own run. It's the ones that are able to listen and to understand what you're saying, the more quiet ones, these normally the ones worthwhile meeting. Isn't that valid for either gender?" Of course it is. The op just happens to be a woman and unfortunately we woman might be a bit tricker to please. | |||
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"The ones that are bragging about it, are normally the ones to avoid. The more they tell you how good they are, the more suspicious you should become. Some promise you the blue of the sky, lure you into their fairy land, just to get their own run. It's the ones that are able to listen and to understand what you're saying, the more quiet ones, these normally the ones worthwhile meeting. Isn't that valid for either gender?" Most definitely......those that shout the loudest are not always the best | |||
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"The ones that are bragging about it, are normally the ones to avoid. The more they tell you how good they are, the more suspicious you should become. Some promise you the blue of the sky, lure you into their fairy land, just to get their own run. It's the ones that are able to listen and to understand what you're saying, the more quiet ones, these normally the ones worthwhile meeting. Isn't that valid for either gender? Of course it is. The op just happens to be a woman and unfortunately we woman might be a bit tricker to please." LOL DH OP said 5mins oral I'm normally dressed and on the way out the door after 5 mins . I didn't even know wimmin could cum | |||
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"There is no one size fits all approach to sex, what drives one woman wild will do nothing for another. I think most guys actually want to please the person their with. Though making claims that you will before hand is either arrogant or stupid. Sometimes it comes easy, sometimes it takes patience and good communicaton. Mind you finding out is often half the fun. " Exclaty this... Everyone is different,pleasure comes in many different ways. Alex | |||
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"I rarely post,but I found when I went looking on here that guys tactics were to constantly compliment with a side of 'brag'.It got to the point I could predict almost to the word what a reply would be.I did find a good one though "..lol..just good???...  | |||
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"Maybe people need to be more honest in their veris .. Now wouldn't that be fun!! "..i thought they were... | |||
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"I tend to give a bit of direction if needed. Sometimes a little nudge works wonders. " I for one am always quite happy to receive that direction. Sometimes you find what works for one woman does absolutely nothing for another. So I've no problem being told 'up/down/left/right/faster/slower' etc. | |||
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"Maybe people need to be more honest in their veris .. Now wouldn't that be fun!!
..i thought they were... "Aw that's cos ur way too nice | |||
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"Maybe people need to be more honest in their veris .. Now wouldn't that be fun!!
..i thought they were...
Aw that's cos ur way too nice "..dont worry...there's a naughty side.. | |||
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"Ive always thought i was abit of a pleaser, not because i thought i was a good ride (even tho im bloody amazing by the way )
But more so because i would get more out of making a lady cum before i even let myself get close to it. I would always play about with the hands and tongue before even using the cock as well and plus i got pretty good at stopping myself from cumming which helps for a good session. Then usually when i do cum its way more intense. First play meet is the time where u certainly have to be on ur game too so no 5 min quickies allowed.
See....messages like that are what lure me in haha. Then what follows is pure disappointment when they guy doesn't follow through. I'm not expecting a 5* experience but it would be nice to remember that if you get to cum then so should I??
You must be meeting the wrong men " | |||
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"Maybe people need to be more honest in their veris .. Now wouldn't that be fun!!
..i thought they were...
Aw that's cos ur way too nice
..dont worry...there's a naughty side.. "Oh I know.... Sure , ur gonna show me one day . Right? | |||
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"I think it depends on the chemistry too. It takes 2 to make a great meet(or more). Some meets just has it all and others are just ok " This..... too many think it's about them....its about all those involved. Usually less selfish and it becomes a better meet...especially on the 2nd, 3rd or 4th time as you watch listen and learn....oh and try out new things that they thought didn't work...what works with one partner may not have the same desired effect with another...as you say it's all about the chemistry. | |||
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"Sometimes I just wonder if it's worth the effort,I've had it a few times just lying back pussy in my face and I'm going flat out then she starts to shake rattle and hum,wow that's great I think and keep doin my thing and she jumps off rolls over hands between legs shaking puffing and panting in spasm,I then drop the hand and I'm pushed away and told it's too sensitive don't touch me and I'm left there like a child that dropped his ice cream mid lick with me feckin tongue hanging outa me feckin mouth,ah jazus I don't know,I can't figure them at all lads but I'm not giving up yet "Paddy... try rolling her over... there's always another way... | |||
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"Most men just spout what women want to hear...then you get to the reality and its rarely the same thing. I've heard it all too op and as a fellow oral lover its not that easy to find men who know what they're up to. I tend to give a bit of direction if needed. Sometimes a little nudge works wonders. But there are some total gems on this who can back up their claims. You just have to find them! " Well oral is something I really do enjoy and love going down many times but having said that I don't claim to be an expert and would take a bit of direction if prodded as its what the lady wants and makes for better sex after | |||
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"The ones that are bragging about it, are normally the ones to avoid. The more they tell you how good they are, the more suspicious you should become. Some promise you the blue of the sky, lure you into their fairy land, just to get their own run. It's the ones that are able to listen and to understand what you're saying, the more quiet ones, these normally the ones worthwhile meeting. " Been quiet hasn't done much for me on here lol | |||
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"Sometimes I just wonder if it's worth the effort,I've had it a few times just lying back pussy in my face and I'm going flat out then she starts to shake rattle and hum,wow that's great I think and keep doin my thing and she jumps off rolls over hands between legs shaking puffing and panting in spasm,I then drop the hand and I'm pushed away and told it's too sensitive don't touch me and I'm left there like a child that dropped his ice cream mid lick with me feckin tongue hanging outa me feckin mouth,ah jazus I don't know,I can't figure them at all lads but I'm not giving up yet
Paddy... try rolling her over... there's always another way... "Ah no no no no no you couldn't be doin that,sure if they want to leave before the job is done you couldn't be stopping them | |||
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"The ones that are bragging about it, are normally the ones to avoid. The more they tell you how good they are, the more suspicious you should become. Some promise you the blue of the sky, lure you into their fairy land, just to get their own run. It's the ones that are able to listen and to understand what you're saying, the more quiet ones, these normally the ones worthwhile meeting. Been quiet hasn't done much for me on here lol" I'm not a quiet one either
good sex is like a good conversation, it involves talking and listening, disputing and understanding, picking up on was has been said and take it further. Bragging or senseless selfish taking is not a conversation.... | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. " Don't be. Some of us get a lot of pleasure seeing/hearing/knowing the other person is in the throes of ecstasy
It's a massive turn on for me anyway. | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. Don't be. Some of us get a lot of pleasure seeing/hearing/knowing the other person is in the throes of ecstasy
It's a massive turn on for me anyway. "I'm still quite skeptical Penelope, I think I need convincing on that.
I can definitely see how it's enjoyable and a turn-on but if someone told me they'd be just as happy giving a orgasm as receiving one then I'd struggle to believe that.
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"The ones that are bragging about it, are normally the ones to avoid. The more they tell you how good they are, the more suspicious you should become. Some promise you the blue of the sky, lure you into their fairy land, just to get their own run. It's the ones that are able to listen and to understand what you're saying, the more quiet ones, these normally the ones worthwhile meeting. Been quiet hasn't done much for me on here lol I'm not a quiet one either
good sex is like a good conversation, it involves talking and listening, disputing and understanding, picking up on was has been said and take it further. Bragging or senseless selfish taking is not a conversation...."Well I do like a good conversation also ms hunter as I not Planning to try ride my way through the site like I'm going for champion jockey at Cheltenham | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. Don't be. Some of us get a lot of pleasure seeing/hearing/knowing the other person is in the throes of ecstasy
It's a massive turn on for me anyway. "This...
If one is skeptical then one misses out on a potentially great meet. | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. Don't be. Some of us get a lot of pleasure seeing/hearing/knowing the other person is in the throes of ecstasy
It's a massive turn on for me anyway. " | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. Don't be. Some of us get a lot of pleasure seeing/hearing/knowing the other person is in the throes of ecstasy
It's a massive turn on for me anyway. "I have to agree,it is a great feeling knowing your giving that kind of pleasure | |||
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"Here Cum the I love to give oral for hours/ all day... lol!!! If you have to go hours you not doing it right but that's none of my business "Means they can lick like Lassie but cant fuck | |||
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!!
Question of communication and reciprocation me thinks.... if he/she is not enjoying themselves as well than you need to change tack until they are. It's not race to the finish line! lol "I've tried many times to ensure they know what works for me and they assure me they've listened.....have they heck!!!! | |||
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"heard this so many times.. oh i just love to give.. love oral.. Then ya go meet them.. leave unfulfilled and feeling stoopid.. " Wish I had a pound for every man that's said that to me!!! All bark no bite they are babe. | |||
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"Most men just spout what women want to hear...then you get to the reality and its rarely the same thing. I've heard it all too op and as a fellow oral lover its not that easy to find men who know what they're up to. I tend to give a bit of direction if needed. Sometimes a little nudge works wonders. It's soooo frustrating!!! I've tried nudges....moving my hips....downright direction by speaking.....and sure they lift their head and it's done. They even expect you to praise them in their non existent skills!!! But there are some total gems on this who can back up their claims. You just have to find them! " | |||
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"I rarely post,but I found when I went looking on here that guys tactics were to constantly compliment with a side of 'brag'.It got to the point I could predict almost to the word what a reply would be.I did find a good one though "Would you share him?? Lol | |||
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"Maybe people need to be more honest in their veris .. Now wouldn't that be fun!! "Hahaha now your talking!!! | |||
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"I rarely post,but I found when I went looking on here that guys tactics were to constantly compliment with a side of 'brag'.It got to the point I could predict almost to the word what a reply would be.I did find a good one though
Would you share him?? Lol"..oh..she shares.. | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. " Some of us do... I love the sounds people make...it is not a completely selfless act | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. Some of us do... I love the sounds people make...it is not a completely selfless act "Yes please x x | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. Some of us do... I love the sounds people make...it is not a completely selfless act
Yes please x x "Lol that's not exactly how it works | |||
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"I buy them chips after
Let me guess how you eat them too....I floss regularly "I meant out of her knickers! Lmfao brilliant | |||
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"Lads on here aren't going to write "Hate giving pleasure, just want to receive it.". I'm always very sceptical of people who claim they love giving just as much as receiving. Some of us do... I love the sounds people make...it is not a completely selfless act
Yes please x x
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded "100% | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded "Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom. | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded
Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom. "You have to keep it not too long and not too short So between 10 and 30 minutes | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded
Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom. "Every woman is different.....oral just happens to be the thing that pushes my buttons | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded
Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom.
You have to keep it not too long and not too short
So between 10 and 30 minutes"For some women ten minutes is more than enough | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded
Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom.
You have to keep it not too long and not too short
So between 10 and 30 minutes
For some women ten minutes is more than enough "True and its all about how you do it. I like to tease first | |||
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"I always make sure my needs are the last thing to happen because if you do a job good enough and well mannered or have the potty mouth they desire then your always remembered and invited back for more "Exactly | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded
Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom.
Every woman is different.....oral just happens to be the thing that pushes my buttons "Exactly that's why it's wise to listen when the woman in question gives some useful hints how to pleasure her. I'm sure in return the men will be rewarded too by having a steamy meet. And yes the same applies the other way around | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded
Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom.
Every woman is different.....oral just happens to be the thing that pushes my buttons
Exactly that's why it's wise to listen when the woman in question gives some useful hints how to pleasure her. I'm sure in return the men will be rewarded too by having a steamy meet. And yes the same applies the other way around "That's exactly right!! If I'm turned on by a guy giving me pleasure then I'm much more likely to push boundaries and go the extra mile for him. | |||
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"Lots of bullshitters on fab...if I'm being down on a lady ..I fully intend to stay there til she's numb with pleasure...and only then I want to hear that she's more than happy to return the favor...lads put in the time and you'll get rewarded
Not every woman wants that though. Tbh I would be numb with boredom.
Every woman is different.....oral just happens to be the thing that pushes my buttons
Exactly that's why it's wise to listen when the woman in question gives some useful hints how to pleasure her. I'm sure in return the men will be rewarded too by having a steamy meet. And yes the same applies the other way around
That's exactly right!! If I'm turned on by a guy giving me pleasure then I'm much more likely to push boundaries and go the extra mile for him. "Or two | |||
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" I know that problem they hear but they don't really listen, not even to mention the understanding and applying... I think it's one of the problems with NSA fun, especially when it's a one off, no pride in the work. Having said all that there are some very talented men on this page, not easy to find, but even more ecstatic when you find one and every follow up meet with one of those diamonds is leading to more pleasure. I think you just hit the nail on the head.....maybe it's due to the fact that it's NSA that it doesn't really matter what I think of their "skills"!!! It's sooo frustrating though when they message you promising all sorts of wonderful and swearing they love to give, and the reality is totally different!!! Damn it......I might stick with my wand!!! "wands rabbits inflatable butt plugs what more could a girl want .. always at hand. Don't let u down and the worst that can happen ul run out of batteries | |||
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"I'm curious..... A lot of guys on fab describe themselves as pleasure givers, yet I've been left most times unsatisfied and very frustrated!! Does a 5 minute bout of oral constitute "being a giver"? Or do most men assume that the actual fucking is what is their way of giving?? I understand it's subjective and each woman is different in what satisfies them. But my time on fab (previously) has always resulted in very similar experiences.....this is despite me being very clear beforehand what works best for me. " I suppose technically 5 mins does qualify someone as a giver, but I hope no ones deluded enough to think or believe it qualifies them as a pleasure giver. Because every lady's different, I like to chat about our likes and dislikes, and if I'm just not quite doing it right, then don't hesitate to correct me: after all we're meeting for Our pleasure not just mine aren't we? | |||
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