FabSwingers.com forum: Choosing not to get Varifications

By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

Ok so some Duchebags are only after varifified guys and women, i for one choose not to get varifications as i dont need or want praise, anybody else like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, we show ours, not cause we want praise but to show we are real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you are not judgmental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm, we show ours, not cause we want praise but to show we are real."

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so some Duchebags are only after varifified guys and women, i for one choose not to get varifications as i dont need or want praise, anybody else like this"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys and girls no doubt are complete nut jobs so I ain't gonna meet dome random with no veris

The verifications are a good indication of people's manner and personality and as a single girl on here I wouldn't dream of meeting an you who hadn't been verified but that's just me x

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Ok so some Duchebags are only after varifified guys and women, i for one choose not to get varifications as i dont need or want praise, anybody else like this"

Well for a person that doesnt want any verifications you have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys and girls no doubt are complete nut jobs so I ain't gonna meet dome random with no veris

The verifications are a good indication of people's manner and personality and as a single girl on here I wouldn't dream of meeting an you who hadn't been verified but that's just me x"

I think verifications give a good insite to what people are like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was your intention OP? were you looking for a huge upwelling of support? Or are you just lashing out after a rejection?

Some people don't like the concept of verifications. They don't need them to meet and won't use them.

Personally i think the idea is a good one. I don't want to waste my time on someone who just won't turn up or is a bad fuck or has anger issues and lashes out at people ...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

This douchebag prefers verified lads. At least it gives me some indications that they behave behind closed doors and are not time wasters.

Each on their own. I wish you good luck with your approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification"

Seat up?

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I love verifications and having my ego massaged

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

I prefer to meet Certified people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification

Seat up?

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification

Seat up?

Of course "

Any floaters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification

Seat up?

Of course

Any floaters?

I'm not looking that hard

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You spelt douchebag wrong.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

And verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One verification after the first meet is good, so others can see you are genuine and not a timewaster, but I dont see the need to get a verification from the same person each time we meet. If I felt a connection with someone I would meet them even if they had no verifications..we all started off with none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no verifications yet! But when i do i will display them as i understand why some people don't want to chance it you never know who or whats on here lol

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification"

have to give the guy credit when it's due .....he seen an opportunity..... cock out .... camera phone to hand....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another Fab bullshitter...this place just gets worse and worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't get the fascination or worth of veris, bar getting the all important green tick.

Veris do not come into the equation at all for me, and i have been the first meet and first verification for some on here. I have faith on own judgement and found it works for me.

I personally choose not to show summary or veris, as I don't like the attention, and drama they attract, good or bad. I rather my meets decide for themselves and not because of what they read on a veri.

Whilst i like getting veris, they make me smile, but keep them to myself. I am a fairly private person and don't give much away before meeting. So don't like that insight or preview of a veri, which provides potential meet with an expectation that our meet will be judged against.

Saying that I understand the worth of veris to others, so have no issue verifying my meets.

Just think.sometimes people get obsessed with veris, rather than enjoying the journey that is fab..just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification

Seat up?

Of course

Any floaters?

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Aren't you been a little bit childish. With comments like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't people use spell checker more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't people use spell checker more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't people use spell checker more often

Is there a spell chequer on Fab??

Sure it keeps the spelling Police busy....mind you, they aren't half as busy as the Grammar Police!!

did you like what I did there lol

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By *skacouplenowCouple
over a year ago

west

"I prefer to meet Certified people!"

Certified????

Certified what? one wonders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so some Duchebags are only after varifified guys and women, i for one choose not to get varifications as i dont need or want praise, anybody else like this"

Have to agree with you..I think that meet verification has this site ruined..I get that its a gamble meeting strangers off the internet but isn't that the whole fun of it all..You dont know who your meeting and that's the exciting thing about it..do any other sites have this feature or is it only here

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Why don't people use spell checker more often

20 years ago there was no spell checker so what difference does it make now? If folks can't spell, that doesn't make them bad people

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Why don't people use spell checker more often

Is there a spell chequer on Fab??

Sure it keeps the spelling Police busy....mind you, they aren't half as busy as the Grammar Police!!

did you like what I did there lol"

You used unnesccesary capital letters? Is that what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't people use spell checker more often

20 years ago there was no spell checker so what difference does it make now? If folks can't spell, that doesn't make them bad people

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not overly fussed by verification's. I find it embarrassing & cringy reading a synopsis of someone's performance. I've met "pigs" with glowing references & I wouldn't send my worst enemy to met them. I value my own opinion over others

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Why don't people use spell checker more often

20 years ago there was no spell checker so what difference does it make now? If folks can't spell, that doesn't make them bad people

Eye cud knot Cahir won weigh or an udder!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as a couple you had want to go see a psychologist if you agree to meet a couple without comments from at least 3 other couples...the amount of lunatic singles pretending to be couples is unreal....big supporters of comments,nothing got to do with praise,just proving ye are who ye say ye are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as a couple you had want to go see a psychologist if you agree to meet a couple without comments from at least 3 other couples...the amount of lunatic singles pretending to be couples is unreal....big supporters of comments,nothing got to do with praise,just proving ye are who ye say ye are."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification

Seat up?

Of course

Any floaters?

Aren't you been a little bit childish. With comments like that. "

Don't worry, you're only here three weeks, you'll get used to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm, we show ours, not cause we want praise but to show we are real."

This ^^^

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op is dead right. The site is full of fakes. What's the fun of at least narrowing down the number of muppets by using one of the only tools the site offers as some assistance

Far better to do it entirely on your own.

Vote Trump!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op is dead right. The site is full of fakes. What's the fun of at least narrowing down the number of muppets by using one of the only tools the site offers as some assistance

Far better to do it entirely on your own.

Vote Trump! "

Haha!

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By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

Sombody told me i was not verufied so chise to show this

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By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

Exactly, if i wanted to i coukd set up numerous profiles and verify myself .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to meet Certified people!"
certified or certifiable?

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By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

"You spelt douchebag wrong. "
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Tomatoe tomato , i couldnt be arsed .you get what im saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once uve a few verifications to show ur genuine thats enough. I wont ask anyone ive met to verify me nor will i verify them unless they ask. Plus all my best verifications have left the site and they just vanished so feck that for a game of darts. Its like getting an +A in the exam and the teacher taking if off u cause the fecker retired.(not that im calling any of the people of verified me and left feckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly, if i wanted to i coukd set up numerous profiles and verify myself .

and get banned

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By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

"What was your intention OP? were you looking for a huge upwelling of support? Or are you just lashing out after a rejection?

Some people don't like the concept of verifications. They don't need them to meet and won't use them.

Personally i think the idea is a good one. I don't want to waste my time on someone who just won't turn up or is a bad fuck or has anger issues and lashes out at people ..."
haha ,support for what? No i wasnt rejected , i rejected sombody and got a snotty response so i wanted to see what other people think.

But i can see most judge before they actually know what a person is like

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification"

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By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

"Ok so some Duchebags are only after varifified guys and women, i for one choose not to get varifications as i dont need or want praise, anybody else like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not overly fussed by verification's. I find it embarrassing & cringy reading a synopsis of someone's performance. I've met "pigs" with glowing references & I wouldn't send my worst enemy to met them. I value my own opinion over others "

Agree totally. Verifications can be deceiving. The nicest guys might have none and the pushy gits could have loads!

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By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

"Once uve a few verifications to show ur genuine thats enough. I wont ask anyone ive met to verify me nor will i verify them unless they ask. Plus all my best verifications have left the site and they just vanished so feck that for a game of darts. Its like getting an +A in the exam and the teacher taking if off u cause the fecker retired.(not that im calling any of the people of verified me and left feckers

I agree with some comments that it us good thing to be verified, but it seems my post is being taken up by the gobshite brigade aswell, i dont ask for veris maybe i should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem a tad hostile.

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Ok so some Duchebags are only after varifified guys and women, i for one choose not to get varifications as i dont need or want praise, anybody else like this"

Well these douchebags will be blocking you and putting private note to say how you think of us.

Best of luck on the site.

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"He has the classic cock over toilet picture. That's as good as a verification"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so some Duchebags are only after varifified guys and women, i for one choose not to get varifications as i dont need or want praise, anybody else like this"

But you are verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I agree with some comments that it us good thing to be verified, but it seems my post is being taken up by the gobshite brigade aswell, i dont ask for veris maybe i should"

Wind ur neck in not so _unnyfook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duchebags and gobshites?..i see a pattern emerging here. Would I be right in thinking,you don't hold you're fellow forumites in the highest esteem op?

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By *unnyfook OP Man
over a year ago

Naas

"Duchebags and gobshites?..i see a pattern emerging here. Would I be right in thinking,you don't hold you're fellow forumites in the highest esteem op?"

I see a pattern of similar behaviour from the same few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Duchebags and gobshites?..i see a pattern emerging here. Would I be right in thinking,you don't hold you're fellow forumites in the highest esteem op?

I see a pattern of similar behaviour from the same few"
.....lol..the ones who don't agree with you? ....sigh...name calling? . Not very nice op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few from trusted sources is all you need have, even one from a trusted source would be fine, I used to keep comments disabled on another site, but yeah they do prove your real, no doubt about it....you could disable them here and leave it as just saying verified genuine, but to be honest I'm sometimes wary of them myself, same with the triangular type veris that just lead back to the same few profiles....the veris are a good security thing to have on the site.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

It aint about praise, its to show you are genuine and maybe a bit sane too.

We all know that there is a lot of people who arent genuine on here and have been told by many about the single guys acting as couples.

I like to see profiles with comments on them, as it gives me an indication the that person is genuine.

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim

Indeed its not about praise but to show you're genuine. We post some of ours but don't generally post any explicit ones as we believe what happens in the bedroom is between us and the other party.

We don't often get opportunity to meet and don't have time for no shows. We've been let down many times.

We tend to only meet verified profiles if this makes us "douchebags" then so be it. Someone of that mentality we wouldn't be interested in meeting anyway.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Why would ye be bothered calling any one a douchebag, such an imbecile word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys and girls no doubt are complete nut jobs so I ain't gonna meet dome random with no veris

The verifications are a good indication of people's manner and personality and as a single girl on here I wouldn't dream of meeting an you who hadn't been verified but that's just me x"

Would have to totally agree you on this wouldn't dream of meeting non verified either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys and girls no doubt are complete nut jobs so I ain't gonna meet dome random with no veris

The verifications are a good indication of people's manner and personality and as a single girl on here I wouldn't dream of meeting an you who hadn't been verified but that's just me x

Would have to totally agree you on this wouldn't dream of meeting non verified either

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