Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to Ireland |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. " It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to." Well you got two meets so thats not too bad. But im sure both men and women do it. Best thing to do is forget about it and move on to someone else. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe they're just not into you  "very possible they aren't but why chat then? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to." You have one pic...and its of your cock. Youre dead in the water before youve even started | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe they're just not into you very possible they aren't but why chat then?"Because people like to chat. Maybe they're too nice to tell you no? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to. Well you got two meets so thats not too bad. But im sure both men and women do it. Best thing to do is forget about it and move on to someone else." True! I suppose I just have to keep putting up with the timewasters to find the good ones! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP is right though. There are a lot of timewasters on here and nothing wrong with discussing it. We've had it happen a few times where we'll be chatting for ages with someone, they've seen plenty of pics of us, nothing has changed with the conversation, meet is planned...and then all of a sudden radio silence for absolutely no apparent reason. Very frustrating. " Of course it happens. Because people get nervous, overwhelmed; wife or hubby finds out etc. It's not always about you.. it's in their heads mostly. But you brush it off and move on. There's numerous posts on this every week. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP is right though. There are a lot of timewasters on here and nothing wrong with discussing it. We've had it happen a few times where we'll be chatting for ages with someone, they've seen plenty of pics of us, nothing has changed with the conversation, meet is planned...and then all of a sudden radio silence for absolutely no apparent reason. Very frustrating. " Well thats their loss as the fem in your couple is hot  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to. You have one pic...and its of your cock. Youre dead in the water before youve even started" I think you're missing the point. I don't have a problem finding people to chat to, it's when it comes to meeting people that don't actually follow through which to me seems like they get a thrill out of the thought of meeting but don't actually want to | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP is right though. There are a lot of timewasters on here and nothing wrong with discussing it. We've had it happen a few times where we'll be chatting for ages with someone, they've seen plenty of pics of us, nothing has changed with the conversation, meet is planned...and then all of a sudden radio silence for absolutely no apparent reason. Very frustrating. Of course it happens. Because people get nervous, overwhelmed; wife or hubby finds out etc. It's not always about you.. it's in their heads mostly. But you brush it off and move on. There's numerous posts on this every week." So? It happens a lot so people are going to discuss it, and not all of us sit on the forums all day every day, so we don't know what conversations go on weekly. I don't think anyone was alluding to things being all about them, but it's an annoying and prevalent part of the experience on this site. Along with "regulars" on the forum trying to dictate to others what they should and shouldn't talk about. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to. You have one pic...and its of your cock. Youre dead in the water before youve even started I think you're missing the point. I don't have a problem finding people to chat to, it's when it comes to meeting people that don't actually follow through which to me seems like they get a thrill out of the thought of meeting but don't actually want to" Maybe they like the thought of meeting but are actually shy when it comes to meeting. Also are the profiles verified that your talking too | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP is right though. There are a lot of timewasters on here and nothing wrong with discussing it. We've had it happen a few times where we'll be chatting for ages with someone, they've seen plenty of pics of us, nothing has changed with the conversation, meet is planned...and then all of a sudden radio silence for absolutely no apparent reason. Very frustrating. Well thats their loss as the fem in your couple is hot "She is isn't she  thank you  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP is right though. There are a lot of timewasters on here and nothing wrong with discussing it. We've had it happen a few times where we'll be chatting for ages with someone, they've seen plenty of pics of us, nothing has changed with the conversation, meet is planned...and then all of a sudden radio silence for absolutely no apparent reason. Very frustrating. Well thats their loss as the fem in your couple is hot
She is isn't she thank you "Is this the male or female though  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I think you're missing the point. I don't have a problem finding people to chat to, it's when it comes to meeting people that don't actually follow through which to me seems like they get a thrill out of the thought of meeting but don't actually want to" . In a way you aren't really verified if you have one unpublished veri.. that is the way your veri will be seen!! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to. You have one pic...and its of your cock. Youre dead in the water before youve even started I think you're missing the point. I don't have a problem finding people to chat to, it's when it comes to meeting people that don't actually follow through which to me seems like they get a thrill out of the thought of meeting but don't actually want to Maybe they like the thought of meeting but are actually shy when it comes to meeting. Also are the profiles verified that your talking too" Yes all verified and phone numbers exchanged so it's not like they are fakes. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"A few reasons I think... - People just aren't comfortable rejecting another person. It's evident in nearly ever facet of life so Fab isn't any different. - People bottle it. The idea of meeting someone from here is a great fantasy but for some people once that fantasy gets closer to reality they just panic and run, then revert to the above point. - People like the attention/ego boost they get from guys/women messaging them. " Well said | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP is right though. There are a lot of timewasters on here and nothing wrong with discussing it. We've had it happen a few times where we'll be chatting for ages with someone, they've seen plenty of pics of us, nothing has changed with the conversation, meet is planned...and then all of a sudden radio silence for absolutely no apparent reason. Very frustrating. Of course it happens. Because people get nervous, overwhelmed; wife or hubby finds out etc. It's not always about you.. it's in their heads mostly. But you brush it off and move on. There's numerous posts on this every week. So? It happens a lot so people are going to discuss it, and not all of us sit on the forums all day every day, so we don't know what conversations go on weekly. I don't think anyone was alluding to things being all about them, but it's an annoying and prevalent part of the experience on this site. Along with "regulars" on the forum trying to dictate to others what they should and shouldn't talk about. " Along with those and their sly digs too. I never said he couldn't post about it what I said was there's numerous posts about it. Which might offer some advice to him. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If i was you i wouldnt be posting about this. Its just the way things are and there are some lovely people on this site and posting something like this wont help you. It's hardly defamation, it's just a question and I'm sure I'm not the only one it happens to. You have one pic...and its of your cock. Youre dead in the water before youve even started I think you're missing the point. I don't have a problem finding people to chat to, it's when it comes to meeting people that don't actually follow through which to me seems like they get a thrill out of the thought of meeting but don't actually want to Maybe they like the thought of meeting but are actually shy when it comes to meeting. Also are the profiles verified that your talking too Yes all verified and phone numbers exchanged so it's not like they are fakes. " Its just the way things go and sometimes things can go as planned and sometimes they go down the drain. Its the same with dating sites. Dont take it to heart. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. " by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"A few reasons I think... - People just aren't comfortable rejecting another person. It's evident in nearly ever facet of life so Fab isn't any different. - People bottle it. The idea of meeting someone from here is a great fantasy but for some people once that fantasy gets closer to reality they just panic and run, then revert to the above point. - People like the attention/ego boost they get from guys/women messaging them. " Unfortunately I think you're right especially point 3! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting "If they are then they should be upfront about it and not waste people's time and let on they're up for meeting. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting "If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time."I'm here since January. . But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ???? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.
I'm here since January. .
But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????"Of course you shouldnt with that teasing pic  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I'm here since January. . But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????" NO you shouldn't! You should be in Leitrim!! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I'm here since January. . But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ???? NO you shouldn't! You should be in Leitrim!! "Ahaha. . Love it | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.
I'm here since January. .
But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????
Of course you shouldnt with that teasing pic "Awww sorrreeee | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.
I'm here since January. .
But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????"Well I presume your not chatting organising meets and then not turning up or cancelling.... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I'm here since January. . But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????" Swinging isn't always just sex. It's a social activity with lots of sex. And rains boobs make me think of sex ... it all makes sense | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.
I'm here since January. .
But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????
Of course you shouldnt with that teasing pic
Awww sorrreeee "Its ok your forgiven  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.
I'm here since January. .
But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????
Well I presume your not chatting organising meets and then not turning up or cancelling...."True. .. good point | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time."maybe because they like the sexual chat they get here no one should dictate what anyone is here for . Perhaps change your own selection process where you establish fairly quickly whether people are her to meet or not | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I'm here since January. . But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ???? Swinging isn't always just sex. It's a social activity with lots of sex. And rains boobs make me think of sex ... it all makes sense "Lol... love it | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.maybe because they like the sexual chat they get here no one should dictate what anyone is here for .
Perhaps change your own selection process where you establish fairly quickly whether people are her to meet or not "The OP and other people have specifically said that they have arranged meets with others only for them to go quiet. How do you suppose people establish whether a person is here to meet or not if they're lying or just using them for titillation? This is a swinging site. People's profiles by default say they are looking to meet. If they're not looking to meet then they should be upfront from the start. It's implausible how you can somehow twist this to make it out that someone's "selection process" is to be blamed. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.maybe because they like the sexual chat they get here no one should dictate what anyone is here for .
Perhaps change your own selection process where you establish fairly quickly whether people are her to meet or not
The OP and other people have specifically said that they have arranged meets with others only for them to go quiet. How do you suppose people establish whether a person is here to meet or not if they're lying or just using them for titillation? This is a swinging site. People's profiles by default say they are looking to meet. If they're not looking to meet then they should be upfront from the start. It's implausible how you can somehow twist this to make it out that someone's "selection process" is to be blamed. "I think most of us have the ability to know if we are being strung along or not. Some will tell you anything. I'd be questioning my own selection process if it was hopping to me time and time again . | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.maybe because they like the sexual chat they get here no one should dictate what anyone is here for .
Perhaps change your own selection process where you establish fairly quickly whether people are her to meet or not
The OP and other people have specifically said that they have arranged meets with others only for them to go quiet. How do you suppose people establish whether a person is here to meet or not if they're lying or just using them for titillation? This is a swinging site. People's profiles by default say they are looking to meet. If they're not looking to meet then they should be upfront from the start. It's implausible how you can somehow twist this to make it out that someone's "selection process" is to be blamed. "Exactly! Well said. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think most of us have the ability to know if we are being strung along or not. Some will tell you anything. I'd be questioning my own selection process if it was hopping to me time and time again ." You must have some great psychic abilities so. It hasn't happened us time and time again...maybe two or three times. But each time we have swapped numbers and a selection of photos with the other party and conversation has been easy and natural up until the day of, or the day before, the planned meet. We didn't come down in the last shower, we don't believe "anything" that people tell us, we're quite selective when it comes to who we let things get to that stage with and we're both clued in, receptive and sociable people. So I'd love to know how we should expect to know that we're being strung along like "most" other people would according to you! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. " Yes there are people here who have no intention of meeting. Men, women and couples. Not a lot you can do, except hone your time waster radar a little. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ive no intention of ever going to galway but you always catch my attention pp. .. :p" You have no intention of going to galway, i would move there | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ive no intention of ever going to galway but you always catch my attention pp. .. :p" That's a shame | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think most of us have the ability to know if we are being strung along or not. Some will tell you anything. I'd be questioning my own selection process if it was hopping to me time and time again . You must have some great psychic abilities so. It hasn't happened us time and time again...maybe two or three times. But each time we have swapped numbers and a selection of photos with the other party and conversation has been easy and natural up until the day of, or the day before, the planned meet. We didn't come down in the last shower, we don't believe "anything" that people tell us, we're quite selective when it comes to who we let things get to that stage with and we're both clued in, receptive and sociable people. So I'd love to know how we should expect to know that we're being strung along like "most" other people would according to you!" of course there are many on here who set out to decieve men women and couples. No one knows if they are being strung along 100% of the time but that gut instinct we all have is very good at giving us the heads up if we are. Perhaps some are just better at picking up on that than others is all Im trying to say. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP is right though. There are a lot of timewasters on here and nothing wrong with discussing it. We've had it happen a few times where we'll be chatting for ages with someone, they've seen plenty of pics of us, nothing has changed with the conversation, meet is planned...and then all of a sudden radio silence for absolutely no apparent reason. Very frustrating. Of course it happens. Because people get nervous, overwhelmed; wife or hubby finds out etc. It's not always about you.. it's in their heads mostly. But you brush it off and move on. There's numerous posts on this every week. So? It happens a lot so people are going to discuss it, and not all of us sit on the forums all day every day, so we don't know what conversations go on weekly. I don't think anyone was alluding to things being all about them, but it's an annoying and prevalent part of the experience on this site. Along with "regulars" on the forum trying to dictate to others what they should and shouldn't talk about. Along with those and their sly digs too. I never said he couldn't post about it what I said was there's numerous posts about it. Which might offer some advice to him. "Cannot message you on you profile because of Filters. Answer to your update is Maryborough Hotel in Cork. Unbelievable. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe they're just not into you "They definitely aren't now! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting
If people aren't here to meet them go somewhere else! They're plenty of sites for that and you don't waste peoples time.
I'm here since January. .
But I'm not meeting at the minute for personal reasons. ..but I still like chatting to people. .. should I not be here ????
Well I presume your not chatting organising meets and then not turning up or cancelling....
True. .. good point "Lol | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"To reply to your original post....'yes I do think we all want something a little different from fab..... Some like to have their Top Pic's right up there....constantly!!!!!! So that's their thing.... And who are we to judge....? I'm shite at taking a nice photo so you'll never see me up there.... Others like the banter on the forums both good & bad! Fab is here for all our wants & needs.... Now it's just aligning up the stars to make it happen, but it can and will happen albeit can be hit & miss...., Overall.... We don't take Fab too seriously .... It's there when we need it, like a big comfy blanket " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Op... so I've had a conversation with someone on here. . I'll be honest ..I had been chatting to him and had wanted to meet. ..honestly I did. .. but when it comes down to it I chicken out... The reason I'm saying this is im Honest ...I realise it's not nice to chicken out ..and there is no badness intended. ..There are some personal factors that leads me to chicken out . so anyway op try not get pissed off too much with them. ..as there is more then likely a good reason they chicken out ..If they are a genuine person like I am Best of luck xx" . Nothing wrong with some banter at times even if a profile says "Not meeting at moment"... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Op... so I've had a conversation with someone on here. . I'll be honest ..I had been chatting to him and had wanted to meet. ..honestly I did. .. but when it comes down to it I chicken out... The reason I'm saying this is im Honest ...I realise it's not nice to chicken out ..and there is no badness intended. ..There are some personal factors that leads me to chicken out . so anyway op try not get pissed off too much with them. ..as there is more then likely a good reason they chicken out ..If they are a genuine person like I am Best of luck xx . Nothing wrong with some banter at times even if a profile says "Not meeting at moment"..." | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think everyone on here has met d time wasters at some time r other . I got chatting to women couples etc n they just vanished on me . " . Wrong After Shave!! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think everyone on here has met d time wasters at some time r other . I got chatting to women couples etc n they just vanished on me . " I wouldn't call myself a time waster cause I chickened out that one time though... life gets in the way kids ..work... general stuff. .. plus nerves. .. But that's in my opinion of course | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think everyone on here has met d time wasters at some time r other . I got chatting to women couples etc n they just vanished on me . I wouldn't call myself a time waster cause I chickened out that one time though... life gets in the way kids ..work... general stuff. .. plus nerves. .. But that's in my opinion of course " . With so many fake profiles in the 31 counties why wouldn't you be nervous?? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think everyone on here has met d time wasters at some time r other . I got chatting to women couples etc n they just vanished on me . I wouldn't call myself a time waster cause I chickened out that one time though... life gets in the way kids ..work... general stuff. .. plus nerves. .. But that's in my opinion of course . With so many fake profiles in the 31 counties why wouldn't you be nervous?? "
Lol.. no idea ... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm not meeting for now but still like the banter and who knows, might meet later when I'm available again with the very people I chat with." | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No one is obliged to meet. You can change your mind at any time. Just like you can change your mind about sex. At any time. I would just hope people would have the decency and respect to let me know as soon as they know. There isn't even a reason to lie. If you are not feeling it, just say so. " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"But yeah, most people seek attention on here with pics or posts or whatever, or on the internet in general, if you aren't then you would never be seen." Oh...definitely on the picks! Sad really... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"But yeah, most people seek attention on here with pics or posts or whatever, or on the internet in general, if you aren't then you would never be seen." Exactly | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If you're posting on this or any other forum you're attention seeking. As for people getting cold feet and backing out it happens. That's just part and parcel of this scene. I have found over the years it happens a lot with couples. Probably because there's two people involved and one person might be more up for it than the other. There could be a multitude of reasons, non of which are really your concern. You just have to roll with it and move. Or make choices. I don't contact couples anymore at all and I only chat to verified couples if they contact me. It doesn't stop it completely but it minimize's it. " Most people post because they have an opinion not necessarily attention seeking... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'd say it's a mixture....everybody's trying to catch somebodies attention on here, some might crave it, probably more than than the type that just wanna voice their opinion, but yeah they're here too..but seeking attention is almost part of human nature anyway, if you get your hair cut or wear clothes you think look nice in you're probably subconsciously doing it to attract attention, obviously not to an extreme degree for most, but it's there in everyday life, no harm in it....even my dogs seek attention. I'm usually voicing my opinion and seeking attention simultaneously on these threads....keeps me busy....particularly in work. " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
)
2) your profile has zero effort! Do you know how many lads there are here?
Anyways you doing a good job seeking for attention  the irony  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
No point taking it so serious...ya win some ya lose some.. it's a small part of most people's real lives ! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I've been on this site for a while and have managed just 2 meets. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of people on here who just like to chat and get attention but have no intention of actually ever meeting! What's the point on been here or am I missing something? Obviously not everyone is willing to meet me which is fair enough but why chat for hours on end, swap numbers and then when it comes to meeting they usually come up with an excuse or even worse don't bother coming. by having a profile on here then surly each and everyone of us seek attention? Not everyone is here to meet.. some are quite happy to have nawty chats and flirt with no intention of ever meeting " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If you're posting on this or any other forum you're attention seeking. As for people getting cold feet and backing out it happens. That's just part and parcel of this scene. I have found over the years it happens a lot with couples. Probably because there's two people involved and one person might be more up for it than the other. There could be a multitude of reasons, non of which are really your concern. You just have to roll with it and move. Or make choices. I don't contact couples anymore at all and I only chat to verified couples if they contact me. It doesn't stop it completely but it minimize's it. Most people post because they have an opinion not necessarily attention seeking..." Posting an opinion on a public forum is seeking attention to that opinion. Having an opinion and sharing your opinion are not the same thing. Nor is attention seeking necessarily a bad thing, everyone does it. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Im kinda surprised at this thread OP! You might say it like it is but instead of writing here bitchy, bruised ego thread maybe have a look at your profile! 1) one cock pic, maybe you dont wanna put more up in case wife or gf recognises you! (oh shit they are here too!!!!! )
2) your profile has zero effort! Do you know how many lads there are here?
Anyways you doing a good job seeking for attention the irony "Says the man with no photos. Read my original post before commenting please. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Well... I just got a darling little mail that went some thing like this... I'm a fat tub of shit who won't actually meet and is attention seeking (I have veris?), fat girls like me should have their thongs around their ankles ready to relieve the bored married men on here. I can smell the frustration from him from here. I don't meet alot but if I do at the moment it's been repeats, people I know I get along with and can have fun with. People like that just ruin it for meeting new guys.  "Pay no attention to the sad loser, some guys cant take rejection and other guys get off on abusing girls. From what i can see you look great and be safe in the knowledge that he will never get a meet from you and other women from here as other women will want to know who it is so they can avoid him. Dont name him here though | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
