FabSwingers.com forum: Advice to your younger self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A few threads recently looking advice, so instead of giving others advice, think about if you could go back in time and tell your younger self or maybe even pre-fab self some advice, what would it be?

To my younger self - Don't waste time sweating the small stuff, and maybe that its actually cool to be a redhead

To early pre fab or early fab self - to know that everyone is not who they say they are. Time will always show true colours so don't be in any rush to meet.

Mine is not very witty so let's be hearing your wise words for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I'd have an immediate answer to this I don't. But its got me thinking

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

My advice to my younger self would be more confident and dont meet my ex

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

Hmmm....real good topic!

To my younger self....travel more, be true to yourself....remember family is everything.

To myself pre-Fab.....stick it out and bear with it. You'll finally find what you are looking for as cream always rises to top!

Oh and always be respectful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm....real good topic!

To my younger self....travel more, be true to yourself....remember family is everything.

To myself pre-Fab.....stick it out and bear with it. You'll finally find what you are looking for as cream always rises to top!

Oh and always be respectful!"

What you said there is actually very good

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

Mine ur knees !! Save more spend more laugh more

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

"Hmmm....real good topic!

To my younger self....travel more, be true to yourself....remember family is everything.

To myself pre-Fab.....stick it out and bear with it. You'll finally find what you are looking for as cream always rises to top!

Oh and always be respectful!

What you said there is actually very good"

Thanks Lon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice to me this time last year....

Back Leicester to win the league 2015/2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to be more fearless. I let fear make choices for me. Have the awkward conversations with wifey. Don't hide what you want to do, tell her and it will be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

Listen to your father on the morning of your wedding.

Think before you speak, keeps you out of a lot of trouble.

If it's not right don't try to fix it.

And finally have as much fun as you possibly can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to the advice, if you're in doubt always whip it out

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

Don't put your mouth in motion till your brain is in gear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could write a book to my younger self and i'm only 26

there's a lot i would do differently and a lot i wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i could go bk, would b to finish college, save more, travel alot and leave love till later in life

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I would tell my younger self don't worry you are going to be really rich as you will invent a time machine when you are older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't push it in that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step out of my 20's.. Look hard at it and redo the whole thing

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By *ornybarMan
over a year ago

clonmel

Don't let her walk away you 22 year old fool. She's the love of your life. Fight for her.

That's what I'd say to a younger me

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

For the love of God, do not start smoking

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I would not tell my younger self anything other than 'it'll all be ok'

Over the last 15 years there have been so many things that sometimes I wish hadn't happened but when I look back I realise all of those things lead me to where I am now and I wouldn't change a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother, it's not as if I would listen anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry as much. Travel more. Explore more of life and myself sooner and stay away from the mad one from rathvilly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The €190,000,000 Lotto Euromillions on August 16th 2012 numbers were 9, 16, 26, 40 & 42...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The €190,000,000 Lotto Euromillions on August 16th 2012 numbers were 9, 16, 26, 40 & 42..."

Best one yet

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Relax

Don't do it!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Never eat yellow snow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relax

Don't do it!

Young Kaizer was cray cray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be sticking my willy into the hover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don,t try crack, it's too addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never judge everyone has there own story

Treat others as you'd like to be treated

Nice to be nice cost fuck all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel more

Party more

Care less what others thing

Have more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travel more

Party more

Care less what others thing

Have more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not as big as you imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my younger self - life is for enjoying and there will come a time that you realise you will regret not doing stuff as opposed to the stuff you have done...so live it up and ignore the moral hangover that other people's Judgement's try to put on you. Each experience will lead you to figuring it all out and that is your lifelong journey. Travel more while you can, love your body... it's the only one you get, embrace each experience for what it is...not what you think it can be and enjoy those moments...they will one day be your memories.

Swing more and enjoy every minute.

Do not settle... believe in your own worth and enjoy the ride

To my pre fab self - don't believe everything you are told... don't sweat it...be true to who you are and it will pay off.

Great thread op

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"My advice to my younger self would be more confident and dont meet my ex "

I'd be the same as this poster

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i don't know why so many people would tell their younger self to change or do something different. everything we have done has led us to the people we are today. the only advice id give is keep doing what your doing but do more of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I would change anything. I'm pretty happy with life atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't change my past, everything happens for a reason but if I could give myself any advice it would be to stop worrying, embrace being a weirdo - it's who you are and the right people will love you for it.

Forget about the people that don't understand you, they aren't worth trying to impress.

Believe you can - and you will (what ever it may be)

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

Be less tolerant would be my advice. Also avoid blondes them be crazy !!!

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"My advice to my younger self would be more confident and dont meet my ex

I'd be the same as this poster "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my younger self...

..you have a good heart and a strong back, stop trying to fit others agendas and trust your own instincts, they will carry you places that most people will never get to see...

.quite philosophical for a hidden profile of a monday afternoon!!!...

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Advice to my younger self..... "Get the Fcuk out of this rip off of a country"!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To my younger self...

..you have a good heart and a strong back, stop trying to fit others agendas and trust your own instincts, they will carry you places that most people will never get to see...

.quite philosophical for a hidden profile of a monday afternoon!!!...

Ohhh you dark horse you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than cool to be a red...

Fire in your hair and fire in your eyes...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Buy Google stock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buy Google stock

Invent Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Party more!

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Don't worry

Come out of your shell

Enjoy yourself earlier

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Buy Google stock

Invent Google

Know ur limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind your back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not get a tattoo on ur boobs at 16!!!!!

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would tell my younger self (age 5 ) to start doing taekwondo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't changed anything that has happened in the past as it has made me the person I am now. The only thing I would tell my younger self is to be more confident and that if people don't like you so what it's their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not get a tattoo on ur boobs at 16!!!!!"

It will cost 100s to try remove lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible "

And longer to get rid of them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes doing the right thing is embarrassing and not cool. Get over that early on...and listen to what I just told you! Some of the smartest people are good listeners.

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim

At the risk of possibly changing who I am today but freeing me up for at least a 29 yr change in my life I'd tell myself not to go on the first date with my Ex never mind marry her....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!"

God yes!!!

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!! "

Not if you get the right help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!!

Not if you get the right help"

Thank god for legal aid is all I can say!!

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!!

Not if you get the right help

Thank god for legal aid is all I can say!!"

Quicker to do it yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!!

Not if you get the right help

Thank god for legal aid is all I can say!!

Quicker to do it yourself

More satisfying too

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!!

Not if you get the right help

Thank god for legal aid is all I can say!!

Quicker to do it yourself

More satisfying too

Depends what your doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!!

Not if you get the right help

Thank god for legal aid is all I can say!!

Quicker to do it yourself

More satisfying too

Depends what your doing

Painting, of course, you brought up DIY first

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!!

Not if you get the right help

Thank god for legal aid is all I can say!!

Quicker to do it yourself

More satisfying too

Depends what your doing

Painting, of course, you brought up DIY first

Oh goodie, i could do with a bit of green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get married, it'll land you in more shit than you ever dreamt possible

And longer to get rid of them!!

God yes!!!

Not if you get the right help

Thank god for legal aid is all I can say!!

Quicker to do it yourself

More satisfying too

Depends what your doing

Painting, of course, you brought up DIY first

Oh goodie, i could do with a bit of green

Nah green's my colour, get your own

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

What about a flesh colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol"

What will we hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!"

No we can hide the stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

No we can hide the stick"

Ah the big sthick

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

No we can hide the stick

Ah the big sthick"

Yes the branch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

No we can hide the stick

Ah the big sthick

Yes the branch

And now we're back to gardening

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

No we can hide the stick

Ah the big sthick

Yes the branch

And now we're back to gardening

Yes so trim your bushes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

No we can hide the stick

Ah the big sthick

Yes the branch

And now we're back to gardening

Yes so trim your bushes

You tend to your own bushes first

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

No we can hide the stick

Ah the big sthick

Yes the branch

And now we're back to gardening

Yes so trim your bushes

You tend to your own bushes first

Ok you trim yours and i will trim mine have the lawn all nice and smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a flesh colour

Great then we can camouflage lol

What will we hide

I'm sure you've got a suggestion

Something big

Not the sofa again?!

No we can hide the stick

Ah the big sthick

Yes the branch

And now we're back to gardening

Yes so trim your bushes

You tend to your own bushes first

Ok you trim yours and i will trim mine have the lawn all nice and smooth

And once it's smooth?

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

You can sit on the lawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can sit on the lawn"

And chill?

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By *entleman36Man
over a year ago

dublin

"You can sit on the lawn

And chill? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To my younger self - Don't waste time sweating the small stuff...

Mine is not very witty so let's be hearing your wise words for yourself.

Perhaps not witty but certainly wise

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Don't be afraid to try on that dress!

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By *itandhotCouple
over a year ago

citywest

Fuck a lot

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Fuck a lot

Sometimes the simplest advice is the best!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can never have enough lube.

Don't spend time worrying about what others think of you "be yourself"

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

"Advice to me this time last year....

Back Leicester to win the league 2015/2016

You still wouldn't have believed it

What would I tell my younger self? "Commit more of your time to doing the things you enjoy. Time passes by very quickly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not get a tattoo on ur boobs at 16!!!!!"

Haha now I want to see your tattoo

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