FabSwingers.com forum: does any of your friends outside of fab know you are on this

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi guys,i am just wondering do many of you tell your friends that you are on this site? it just seems in our society that there is a bit of a stigma attached to things like this,what do you think? personally i havent told anyone i am on this,opinions please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my friends know, and my grandmother knows lol

Everyone just tells me to be careful

Katie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep my family and friends know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very select few know. My sex life is my own business.

Plus I think the secrecy adds an element to this...so society can stick it's stigma where the sun don't shine and go swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most of my friends know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A female friends of our knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A female friends of our knows

And it was the Mr that told her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our friends know. Family don't. As far as I'm aware anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the staff at Thunderkiss Enterprises ©

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends know. Family don't only as I wouldn't dicuss sex or relationships with them anyway! Although I came on to my cousins girlfriend recently while d*unk and told her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No none of my friends or family know and that's the way I like it

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

The Parish Priest , Sister Augustus, the woman in the post office, some bloke I was yapping with at the bar on Sat night.. Can't remember his name .. Emm let me see ... My employer ( for when I need time off) .. My mother in law .. And the ladies in the local guild of the ICA ... Pretty sure Im leaving someone out though ... Oh yeah Santa Claus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few of my friends know I'm on here as they are also on here ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends know. Family don't only as I wouldn't dicuss sex or relationships with them anyway! Although I came on to my cousins girlfriend recently while d*unk and told her

Oh lordy...those bubbly moment's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends know. Family don't only as I wouldn't dicuss sex or relationships with them anyway! Although I came on to my cousins girlfriend recently while d*unk and told her

I'd of loved to of seen that lolli was she interested ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was drinking bubbles al day and was feeling very adventurous!!! She was defo interested but she resisted. And she was gorgeous! Kept telling her to dump my cousin, she's only with him a wet day lol

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Not a sinner knows what we are at .....height of worldly discretion, me lol

Apples

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Nobody...probably the last people they'd expect to be at it!

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

No one just the 18657 people logged on to fab at the moment and the 4 ppl who tabbed my PIC today

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

OK its 24446 now are people that interested in me ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

like i dont see why there should be any problems with people on here,i would love to discuss it with people i know but hey maybe a guy is better keeping his micky buisness to himself ha ha

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

A female friend of our knows , but the family dont , or maybe they do , they have asked us twice now are we swingers

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very select few know. My sex life is my own business.

Plus I think the secrecy adds an element to this...so society can stick it's stigma where the sun don't shine and go swing

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

My family know as do my older kids and my friends all know. I see no reason to sneak around trying to hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah this is my break away from reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A select few. I always tell soneone where and when I am going for a meet so that I don't get abducted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but some fabbers have become real life friends too so does that mean yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive a mate who joined but he struggled with meets and left.lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends know hell they got me onto this lol. my family just keep asking when an I going to find a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less friends know the better.. pof is all they know pmsl

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Everyone who knows me is aware about my libertine mindset in all matters of life. If they don't know for sure they guess it . But it doesn't bother me either way. Luckily I don't need to hide anything.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I was drinking bubbles al day and was feeling very adventurous!!! She was defo interested but she resisted. And she was gorgeous! Kept telling her to dump my cousin, she's only with him a wet day lol "

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Nobody knows we are here, or anything about is swinging. We like it that way, I don't think that we know one person who would understand.

Besides the fact that it's something only we know about makes it more exciting- it's our little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure that for a lot of people, the kick is in the element of secrecy.

Personally, I've never seen the need to discuss my sex life with people who aren't involved in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone knows I'm here...... even lots of the people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think anyone knows I'm here...... even lots of the people here

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think anyone knows I'm here...... even lots of the people here

"
....don't be so modest. ..you're red wellies are legendary. ..

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm sure that for a lot of people, the kick is in the element of secrecy.

Personally, I've never seen the need to discuss my sex life with people who aren't involved in it."

That's my take on it also.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

my best mate knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much don't care who knows. Though in the end of the day, I don't really discuss my sex life with family or mates regardless. I don't make any attempt to hide it. When family ask would I not meet someone nice to share time with, I usually say I do, frequently, lots of nice people and leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya few of my friends know I'm on this !!

Never know what nut job your gonna have misfortune of meeting

So I send a location just in case

And with good reason !!

Couldn't give monkeys if Society knows not like we doing anything wrong

We r all adults after all or meant to be

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By *alwayBlackcockMan
over a year ago

Galway

Just one of my girl mates know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my 2 best friends...

Both attached...

Both very naughty girls...

One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...

I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my family and friends know but we don't flaunt anything at all. If they ask a question we give generally answers and them them if they are truly interested I tell them to do their research.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told my 2 best friends...

Both attached...

Both very naughty girls...

One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...

I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place"....

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....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I pretty much don't care who knows. Though in the end of the day, I don't really discuss my sex life with family or mates regardless. I don't make any attempt to hide it. When family ask would I not meet someone nice to share time with, I usually say I do, frequently, lots of nice people and leave it at that. "

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Most my friends know and theres even 2 of them on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i told mine after i joined as some one else recognized me and threatened to tell them . so was easier coming out .

no one bothers so long as im safe and i always let someone know where im going .

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

"Yeah i told mine after i joined as some one else recognized me and threatened to tell them . so was easier coming out .

no one bothers so long as im safe and i always let someone know where im going .

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thats it its no harm that sumone knows where your going and that your safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told my 2 best friends...

Both attached...

Both very naughty girls...

One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...

I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place"....

....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..

Ahem.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told my 2 best friends...

Both attached...

Both very naughty girls...

One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...

I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place"....

....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..

Ahem.....

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....you absolute tart...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told my 2 best friends...

Both attached...

Both very naughty girls...

One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...

I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place"....

....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..

Ahem.....

....you absolute tart...

Served with plenty of cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told my 2 best friends...

Both attached...

Both very naughty girls...

One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...

I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place"....

....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..

Ahem.....

....you absolute tart...

Served with plenty of cream

"
.....yes indeed. ..you sent us them pics...

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By *andsome-neglectedMan
over a year ago

city centre

Only a childhood friend of mine knows it and he is on the site now too. Lol

Other than that no one knows and I will keep it that way.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We have never discussed our sex life with friends or family... So why start now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's funny that society in general is easier on cheaters than swingers.

A cheater can be forgiven for breaking the rules, their behaviour rationalised and accepted. But because a swinger chooses to be ethically non monogamous they are dangerous to society and not to be trusted.

I have told no one because we live in a small rural area where you can't fart without word going round the local post office about your rich diet or need for less fiber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one knows we are on here.

Would love to be open about it But it's Ireland and everything is a no no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I know I've never told anybody, but I have a feeling that some of the people I know is on here

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

All my close family and friends know, anything that is personable to me is to them and vice versa. Mind you, nobody outside of that, for example work colleagues or acquaintances - the way I see it, it's like if you were gay,bi or lesbian...whomever you are comfortable knowing those details about you.

We need to be more liberal and understanding about people, their sexual it and their qurks.

It would make for a very boring world if we were all happily married heterosexuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys,i am just wondering do many of you tell your friends that you are on this site? it just seems in our society that there is a bit of a stigma attached to things like this,what do you think? personally i havent told anyone i am on this,opinions please "

Most of my friends in Ireland know I am a swinger and regularly meet couples and go to parties

Most of my friends in France know too as I regularly attend the swingers clubs in Cannes, Mougin and Nice, sure don't I take all my second dates with me.

But your question was, "do they know I am on Fab?" No, probably not, I think

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