FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on it's not worth getting involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the BF if you're a little bitch, move on if you're a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest moving on, but out of curiosity.. is this on Fab or real world? If Fab, how do you know the boyfriend in order to tell him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell the BF if you're a little bitch, move on if you're a man."

Maybe you believe the bf deserves to know? Maybe you feel you shouldn't get involved for your own sake. How one makes you a lil bitch just because it's your opinion is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd suggest moving on, but out of curiosity.. is this on Fab or real world? If Fab, how do you know the boyfriend in order to tell him?"

In the real world. The bf is a personal trainer who i don't know personally but mates of mine kno him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth the trouble. Move on.

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

"Tell the BF if you're a little bitch, move on if you're a man."

Bit harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So she's cheating on fab....big fuckin deal...why on earth did you confront her?....free sex...with no hassles? ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Organise a 3some with them!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So she's cheating on fab....big fuckin deal...why on earth did you confront her?....free sex...with no hassles? ..

She's not on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Organise a 3some with them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention?? "

From the boy that she was seeing? Good plan Batman, in fact I've changed my mind. Please go & tell him, pretty please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So she's cheating on fab....big fuckin deal...why on earth did you confront her?....free sex...with no hassles? ..

She's not on fab. "
...she blocked you? ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is NSA. People's lives beyond it have nothing to do with it. You haven't given the full details op. Did you meet on fab? If so you were not seeing her, you had a meet...fab is open. Did you both say that you were single?

All just my opinion but I think you need to examine your reasons behind wanting to tell him...are you really trying to help him or hurt her?

Move on without a word is my suggestion and be grateful it didn't go any further. That guy will eventually figure it out and that is his life lesson, this is one of your life lesson's. Good luck with your fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention?? "

Chances are that it will be twisted so the blame goes on you, you already know she is a liar...

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Why would you want to tell him? Does it matter to you what she does? This sounds like you'd tell him out of spite and for no other reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So she's cheating on fab....big fuckin deal...why on earth did you confront her?....free sex...with no hassles? ..

She's not on fab. ...she blocked you? ...."

She's not on fab. Never was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you want to tell him? Does it matter to you what she does? This sounds like you'd tell him out of spite and for no other reason.

Nobody said i want to tell him. Fuckin hell. Iam done here. Some of you are mental patients

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

If I was the man that has bein cheated on if like to find out but I'm not him so that choice is a hard one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you want to tell him? Does it matter to you what she does? This sounds like you'd tell him out of spite and for no other reason.

Nobody said i want to tell him. Fuckin hell. Iam done here. Some of you are mental patients "

More "they don't understand me Ma"?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why would you want to tell him? Does it matter to you what she does? This sounds like you'd tell him out of spite and for no other reason.

Nobody said i want to tell him. Fuckin hell. Iam done here. Some of you are mental patients "

Lol how am i a mental patient for asking you questions?

calm the ham dear, your blood pressure will rise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it your business to tell him. You don't know him, or anything about their relationship. Just because you'd like to know, doesn't mean he would. He very much might want the opposite. Potentially breaking up a relationship based on what you think is rather selfish imho. If you don't want to be involved in cheating that's fine, move on and don't go there. But making decisions that will impact on other people's lives to cleanse your own conscience is just selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol....I just wondered why you're looking a gift horse in the mouth. ...sex on tap..no pesky feelings. ..etc....I'd have shagged away. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on, I don't think he'd thank you somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell the priest....and he can go after her with a big stick saying things like " I'll put an end to your gallop ya brazen hussy" or other non biblical phrases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to be told about it from a person I don't know. I would prefer not to be told but at the very least I'd rather be told by a good friend.

Why people would tell a complete stranger of their cheating husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend is something I cannot comprehend!! It's not for a stranger to interfere.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello stranger, first of all, are you been honest .. Did she reject you n now u want pay back??

I seem to remember u don't like the word no...

Leave the girl n her fella alone, i feel sorry for her now . poor thing.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"I'd tell the priest....and he can go after her with a big stick saying things like " I'll put an end to your gallop ya brazen hussy" or other non biblical phrases

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on?? "

You were only seeing her a week. What's the big deal. It's not like ye were planning an engagement party or buying a house together...IT WAS A WEEK!!!! And to slag people off for being on fab when their giving honest opinions. You're on fab so it's a bit of the pot calling the kettle black

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

The op said it was in real life not fab

Tell the boyfriend. If she was straight up from the start it would be a different story

Poor fool hasn't a clue. And if he does they canalwYs join here and have a ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The op said it was in real life not fab

Tell the boyfriend. If she was straight up from the start it would be a different story

Poor fool hasn't a clue. And if he does they canalwYs join here and have a ball"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

Bro code

And you should do the same for a sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

Sneaky fucker lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

I know.. but funny as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were the boyfriend what would you want the guy to do? The answer to that question should decide what you do. If it was me I'd definitely tell the boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...? "

I just think, in my opinion, it's nobodys business....... as I've said in a few previous posts, I'd rather not know or at the very least would to find out from a good friend not a complete stranger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...?

Would want to find out from a good friend!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...? "
....alleged cheating on her boyfriend. .no reflection on the op....but we have heard one side of the story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...? ....alleged cheating on her boyfriend. .no reflection on the op....but we have heard one side of the story. "

Exactly & well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just keep yourself to yourself and dont get involved? Dont know about you but i prefare a quiet life without drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...? ....alleged cheating on her boyfriend. .no reflection on the op....but we have heard one side of the story. "

My comment wasn't in specifically in relation to the OP. Related about the guy in the toilet story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...?

But some people would want to know. At the end of the day all the OP can do is what he feels is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...? ....alleged cheating on her boyfriend. .no reflection on the op....but we have heard one side of the story.

My comment wasn't in specifically in relation to the OP. Related about the guy in the toilet story. "

Well I thought it was funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...? ....alleged cheating on her boyfriend. .no reflection on the op....but we have heard one side of the story.

My comment wasn't in specifically in relation to the OP. Related about the guy in the toilet story. "
..ah ok......I misunderstood you...apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

That's shitty & sneaky!!

Where as cheating on your boyfriend is...? ....alleged cheating on her boyfriend. .no reflection on the op....but we have heard one side of the story.

My comment wasn't in specifically in relation to the OP. Related about the guy in the toilet story.

Well I thought it was funny

Genius on the guys part!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on?? "

Not your circus, not your monkeys. You did your bit by confronting her about it. She did hers by blocking you. Leave it to them, the rest is not your business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Not your circus, not your monkeys. You did your bit by confronting her about it. She did hers by blocking you. Leave it to them, the rest is not your business. "

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

Snitches get stitches!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So some would rather know but how would you like to find out about it?

A) from a complete stranger...

B) from a friend.

Who would rather not know....?

With me, I'd rather not know.... like, at the end of the day, people will know there's something's up so you'll either confront the boyfriend or girlfriend or do your own investigation & catch them in the act...... well, you'd know the complete truth then....

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

He got his a answer butt out with the block button. Not your business op not your concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact an engineer and building contractor to get cracking on a new bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contact an engineer and building contractor to get cracking on a new bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Snitches get stitches!!

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oh shit.... we got a bad ass here

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

"Snitches get stitches!!

oh shit.... we got a bad ass here

Sorry that wasn't a threat, its more of a mantra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So some would rather know but how would you like to find out about it?

A) from a complete stranger...

B) from a friend.

Who would rather not know....?

I'd rather know I wouldn't really care from who as long as I wasn't wasting my time with a liar and a cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Snitches get stitches!!

oh shit.... we got a bad ass here

Sorry that wasn't a threat, its more of a mantra.

"
im rakin your bacon, calm your ham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Snitches get stitches!!

oh shit.... we got a bad ass here

Sorry that wasn't a threat, its more of a mantra.

"
...I like......fridge pickers wear big knickers. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Snitches get stitches!!

oh shit.... we got a bad ass here

Sorry that wasn't a threat, its more of a mantra.

...I like......fridge pickers wear big knickers. ...

Ha ha that's a good one lol!!!

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

"Snitches get stitches!!

oh shit.... we got a bad ass here

Sorry that wasn't a threat, its more of a mantra.

...I like......fridge pickers wear big knickers. ...

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By *xhibitACouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on?? "

Dude these numpties would be the last lot id ask for advice about for problems in the real world.

I think the guy deserves to know he's being ripped off. You weren't to know, not your fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So she's cheating on fab....big fuckin deal...why on earth did you confront her?....free sex...with no hassles? ..

She's not on fab. "

Kinda read through all and i go back to this one... you say she is not on fab but initial post you said you confronted her and she blocked you... how can you block someone in real world did she put hand up to face and said your blocked , she not answering door to you or phone calls...term blocked is a Fab term so it gives me impression she is on Fab and thats where ya met.... well for me simple rule what happens on Fab stays on Fab ... people live there own lives you might disagree but its there lives. I understand your reasons but I personally wouldnt tell BF in real world what happened in Fab.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Boooooooobs. ....

jus thought I'd lighten the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boooooooobs. ....

jus thought I'd lighten the thread

Ha ha ha, that would certainly do it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on?? "

Consider it lady luck telling you that you have somewhat dodged a bullet, if I were you I certainly wouldn't be going anywhere near it anymore, the chap will find out in his own time, fuck knows it might even be an open relationship between em, I wouldn't bother or be arsed to know either or!

Move the fuck on & forget her lad, you'll thank yourself for not bringing unnecessary hassle to your "door" so to speak.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"Boooooooobs. ....

jus thought I'd lighten the thread

Ha ha ha, that would certainly do it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy read all comments..

well I wouldnt like find out that way but same time I wouldnt wanna keep dating/loving whatever they have, and being cheated!

Do how you feel is best!

I probably couldnt go and tell as I believe karma is bitch and she will get back all..

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Dude these numpties would be the last lot id ask for advice about for problems in the real world.

I think the guy deserves to know he's being ripped off. You weren't to know, not your fault.

Ive taken offence to being called a "numpty"! He did ask for opinions on a public forum.

Any fool can condemn,critisize and complain and most fools do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Dude these numpties would be the last lot id ask for advice about for problems in the real world.

I think the guy deserves to know he's being ripped off. You weren't to know, not your fault.

Ive taken offence to being called a "numpty"! He did ask for opinions on a public forum.

Any fool can condemn,critisize and complain and most fools do.

Well said!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'm just contemplating this scenario where the op approaches the bf telling him that his gf is cheating on him. Now the next thing the bf wants to know WHO was shagging her? What are you going to say then, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude these numpties would be the last lot id ask for advice about for problems in the real world.

I think the guy deserves to know he's being ripped off. You weren't to know, not your fault.

And

to this too.

I'd find a way to contact the bf anonymously and then move on. No drama for you but he gets to find out he's with a cheat and can deal with it however he likes.

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By *xhibitACouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Dude these numpties would be the last lot id ask for advice about for problems in the real world.

I think the guy deserves to know he's being ripped off. You weren't to know, not your fault.

Ive taken offence to being called a "numpty"! He did ask for opinions on a public forum.

Any fool can condemn,critisize and complain and most fools do.

You've blown my mind with your philosophy.

In fairness you were the first person the OP referred to as a mental patient. Take from that what you will.

When pointing at the moon don't concentrate on the finger....

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

If I was in the OP's situation I'd just walk away and mind my own business. I couldn't care less if someone is cheating on someone else, that's their own business.

I couldn't be bothered getting into all that drama.

And to anyone who asks would I like to know if it was me being cheated on..Of course I would. Doesn't mean I feel I should get involved in other peoples business.

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over a year ago

"If I was in the OP's situation I'd just walk away and mind my own business. I couldn't care less if someone is cheating on someone else, that's their own business.

I couldn't be bothered getting into all that drama.

And to anyone who asks would I like to know if it was me being cheated on..Of course I would. Doesn't mean I feel I should get involved in other peoples business."

Now, you couldn't have said truer words!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Dude these numpties would be the last lot id ask for advice about for problems in the real world.

I think the guy deserves to know he's being ripped off. You weren't to know, not your fault.

Ive taken offence to being called a "numpty"! He did ask for opinions on a public forum.

Any fool can condemn,critisize and complain and most fools do.

You've blown my mind with your philosophy.

In fairness you were the first person the OP referred to as a mental patient. Take from that what you will.

When pointing at the moon don't concentrate on the finger...."

Gosh, that's an awful thing to say guys..... I thought ye were better than that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So she's cheating on fab....big fuckin deal...why on earth did you confront her?....free sex...with no hassles? ..

She's not on fab.

The term blocked isn't just from fab. It can be done on a phone or on fb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell everyone BUT the boyfriend. He'll soon get to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention?? "

Do you feel like reporting because she blocked you or because you genuinely feel for the guy?

Think about it....its none of your business tbh and you'll only get hassle and waste alot of energy and karma over it. It's not your place to do it because you've fucked her...If however you were an innocent bystander and knew him personally as a friend then it might be a different case.

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over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention??

Do you feel like reporting because she blocked you or because you genuinely feel for the guy?

I agree

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over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention??

Do you feel like reporting because she blocked you or because you genuinely feel for the guy?

I agree "

I 2nd that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention??

Do you feel like reporting because she blocked you or because you genuinely feel for the guy?

Report to who? He said she's not on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention??

Do you feel like reporting because she blocked you or because you genuinely feel for the guy?

Report to who? He said she's not on fab"

I think he meant reporting to the boyfriend....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention??

Do you feel like reporting because she blocked you or because you genuinely feel for the guy?

Report to who? He said she's not on fab

I think he meant reporting to the boyfriend.... "

Odd choice of word - but would make more sense than reporting her to fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most ppl saying move on understandably but if your partner was cheating wouldn't you want to be told and appreciate it being brought to your attention??

Do you feel like reporting because she blocked you or because you genuinely feel for the guy?

Report to who? He said she's not on fab

I think he meant reporting to the boyfriend....

Odd choice of word - but would make more sense than reporting her to fab lol"

Tête à tête maybe then....but one tends to report information...maybe simpler inform him...or invite for a coffee if one was that way inclined...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd choice of word - but would make more sense than reporting her to fab lol"

Report isn't just A Fab word , it can be used in Reporting something over the phone or on Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did anyone pay for the pizza?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did anyone pay for the pizza?

Why you bringing pizza into a serious debate....

Mine with Cheese and Pepperoni please...

do you do home delivery or do i need to come over and collect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not his place to tell the boyfriend who he doesn't know by the way..... he's only known her a week & he wants to tell the boyfriend already!!

I saw this thing on the Internet last week where a guy had a one night stand with a girl and she only told him the next morning she had a bf.

So he wrote a note and left it under the toilet seat for her bf.

Maybe try that

Best one in a while....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd choice of word - but would make more sense than reporting her to fab lol

Report isn't just A Fab word , it can be used in Reporting something over the phone or on Facebook"

Or just use the word tell. As in 'tell her boyfriend'. Far simpler.

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By *xhibitACouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I think the OP threw the towel in way back up the top of this post after some of responses he got.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd choice of word - but would make more sense than reporting her to fab lol

Report isn't just A Fab word , it can be used in Reporting something over the phone or on Facebook

Or just use the word tell. As in 'tell her boyfriend'. Far simpler. "

Or just use the word Ignore/Ignoring ... As in I confronted her now she is ignoring me... far simpler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the OP threw the towel in way back up the top of this post after some of responses he got."

Or got barred again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd choice of word - but would make more sense than reporting her to fab lol

Report isn't just A Fab word , it can be used in Reporting something over the phone or on Facebook

Or just use the word tell. As in 'tell her boyfriend'. Far simpler.

Or just use the word Ignore/Ignoring ... As in I confronted her now she is ignoring me... far simpler"

The world would be a far simpler place if everyone spoke like we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 years ago I found out my mates fiance of two years had cheated on him more than one. I sat down with one other mate to ask what to do. Simply put he was a good guy and deserved better so for that reason alone I called to their house and told him, he was understandably devastated but glad that I told him.

I had to stick around until she got home so he could confront her with details, it was all over in less than an hour. I didn't expect or want to be involved in that end of it but it was my choice to tell him so if you do the same you best have the balls to back up your story with proof or there's a good chance he won't believe you and have a go at you. Would I have done it for a stranger, not a hope. You have no idea why she feels the need to chaet. In this case I would walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 10 years ago I found out my mates fiance of two years had cheated on him more than one. I sat down with one other mate to ask what to do. Simply put he was a good guy and deserved better so for that reason alone I called to their house and told him, he was understandably devastated but glad that I told him.

Well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult to offer advice with the limited information that the op has chosen to share on the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's difficult to offer advice with the limited information that the op has chosen to share on the thread. "

Never Stopped you Before.... BOOOOOOMMMM!!! ( User gone into hiding until everything calms down ) :D

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

just block her back and move on to the next woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd choice of word - but would make more sense than reporting her to fab lol

Report isn't just A Fab word , it can be used in Reporting something over the phone or on Facebook"

Never saw it as a fab word....its about passing on information of importantance rather than just casual commenting which in this case seemed appropriate.

I suppose I could have used a more common and simpler word...but I'm struggling. The English language is rich for very good reason...makes for variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's difficult to offer advice with the limited information that the op has chosen to share on the thread. "

Then don't. ..

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over a year ago

"It's difficult to offer advice with the limited information that the op has chosen to share on the thread.

Never Stopped you Before.... BOOOOOOMMMM!!! ( User gone into hiding until everything calms down ) :D"
..lol...we've turned over a new leaf. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's difficult to offer advice with the limited information that the op has chosen to share on the thread.

Then don't. ..

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....we didn't. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on?? "

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

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over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did anyone pay for the pizza?

Why you bringing pizza into a serious debate....

Mine with Cheese and Pepperoni please...

do you do home delivery or do i need to come over and collect

Way too easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did anyone pay for the pizza?

Why you bringing pizza into a serious debate....

Mine with Cheese and Pepperoni please...

do you do home delivery or do i need to come over and collect

Oh and a sexy Scottish accent won't save you if warrior Queen eats you up lmao cheeky

Way too easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had him blocked too... He still found a family member.
"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had him blocked too... He still found a family member. If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's... "

The OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But Sher if you were seeing her for week and your on fab then weren't you doing same !! Mmm pot kettle black !!

Just forget it if she done it with you she will do it with someone else !!

Feel for her fella tho !!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The duurty hoor! Sure ya couldn't be up to them wimmin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

The OP really found a family member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes he did. Hopefully a better outcome for whoever this post is about.

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

The OP really found a family member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let it go, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let it go, just move on

....why bring on more hassle and drama...It can find you without looking for more.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yes he did. Hopefully a better outcome for whoever this post is about.

I had him blocked too... He still found a family member. If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on??

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

The OP really found a family member?

I think i'll pull up a chair and watch Karma do its work with the block button being pressed by most ,if not all of the ladies here.And he had the cheek to call us mental patients!!

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over a year ago

"Yes he did. Hopefully a better outcome for whoever this post is about.

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

The OP really found a family member?

I think i'll pull up a chair and watch Karma do its work with the block button being pressed by most ,if not all of the ladies here.And he had the cheek to call us mental patients!!

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over a year ago

"Yes he did. Hopefully a better outcome for whoever this post is about.

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

The OP really found a family member?

I think i'll pull up a chair and watch Karma do its work with the block button being pressed by most ,if not all of the ladies here.And he had the cheek to call us mental patients!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Yes he did. Hopefully a better outcome for whoever this post is about.

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

The OP really found a family member?

I think i'll pull up a chair and watch Karma do its work with the block button being pressed by most ,if not all of the ladies here.And he had the cheek to call us mental patients!!

Age limits are a great thing, you don't even have to go through the effort of pressing the block button

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over a year ago

"Yes he did. Hopefully a better outcome for whoever this post is about.

Or you could do the same again and send naked pics to her family/boyfriend

The girl has him blocked from contacting her anyway so that's not going to happen... thank God for small mercy's...

The OP?

Yes, the OP...

The OP really found a family member?

I think i'll pull up a chair and watch Karma do its work with the block button being pressed by most ,if not all of the ladies here.And he had the cheek to call us mental patients!!

Age limits are a great thing, you don't even have to go through the effort of pressing the block button

With some people you just want to make double sure!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

.whilst there are always two sides, ill bet in this instance there are similar stories out there...so agree with above..block, report...and please dont assume all single guys are like this...these idiots spoil it for everyone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

"
...we're getting into the realms of urban myths here guys...he said she wasn't on fab..so how did we get to..."removing him"..btw..I don't know him, or agree with his posts....but this seems like a bit of a lynch mob...

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over a year ago

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

...we're getting into the realms of urban myths here guys...he said she wasn't on fab..so how did we get to..."removing him"..btw..I don't know him, or agree with his posts....but this seems like a bit of a lynch mob..."

I agree ...that's why I have "if" in there but a 2nd poster specifically mentioned OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

I agree ...that's why I have "if" in there but a 2nd poster specifically mentioned OP

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...Chinese whispers then..lol...speaking of urban myths. ...you still shagging you're way through tg4?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

I agree ...that's why I have "if" in there but a 2nd poster specifically mentioned OP

...Chinese whispers then..lol...speaking of urban myths. ...you still shagging you're way through tg4?

Sure am

Although Joe Duffy appeared the other night with Anne Doyle...

Don't know who let them in but Duffer made shite of Anne and left her cuffed for everyone to have a go after him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were seen a girl and a week later you find out she has a boyfriend? Soon as you confront her she blocks you. Do you tell the boyfriend or just say nothing and move on?? "

scrub your penis with jeyes fluid or some other harsh chemical..good chance that wan is carrying something

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

Yeah was thinking the same, everyone adds on a lil bit and the story gets bigger and bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

I agree ...that's why I have "if" in there but a 2nd poster specifically mentioned OP

...Chinese whispers then..lol...speaking of urban myths. ...you still shagging you're way through tg4?

Sure am

Although Joe Duffy appeared the other night with Anne Doyle...

Don't know who let them in but Duffer made shite of Anne and left her cuffed for everyone to have a go after him

"
.....Anne is mad for a bit of bukake. ...saw her there one nite...she looked like a fucking glazed donut....

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over a year ago

"Back up the truck there for a minute lads...

Are people saying that the OP contacted other fabbers family out of spite because of rejection?

If that's the case report him... and Fab admin ???? Remove this idiot, there should be no place for someone like that here.

If you look to a recent post, another fabber has said he did the same to her. This isn't the girl he was talking about, it's another.

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over a year ago

You move on and mind your own business.

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