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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female ratio that they expect to get what they want and can't bare the taught of rejection on them as so seldom happens.

This is by no way meant to offend any woman here it just maddened me that people think that they have the higher authority and wish everyone would just behave and not abuse people cause they did not get the attention they looked for. It's genuinely disturbing and I've taught about a few things which were said since and bang outta order.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female ratio that they expect to get what they want and can't bare the taught of rejection on them as so seldom happens.

This is by no way meant to offend any woman here it just maddened me that people think that they have the higher authority and wish everyone would just behave and not abuse people cause they did not get the attention they looked for. It's genuinely disturbing and I've taught about a few things which were said since and bang outta order."

The name and shame thread is a good read

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female ratio that they expect to get what they want and can't bare the taught of rejection on them as so seldom happens.

This is by no way meant to offend any woman here it just maddened me that people think that they have the higher authority and wish everyone would just behave and not abuse people cause they did not get the attention they looked for. It's genuinely disturbing and I've taught about a few things which were said since and bang outta order."

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Wouldn't worry about it... just Block and move on!

Of course it is a bit annoying etc when I don't get a reply from a message but one learns to just accept it...

These days I just try to WOO them with Lilt etc... don't send many messages!

FAB is what it is.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female

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Wouldn't worry about it... just Block and move on!

Of course it is a bit annoying etc when I don't get a reply from a message but one learns to just accept it...

These days I just try to WOO them with Lilt etc... don't send many messages!

FAB is what it is..... "

Just pissed me off that some people expect to get what they want cause every other guy is falling at there feet that's all.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female

.

Wouldn't worry about it... just Block and move on!

Of course it is a bit annoying etc when I don't get a reply from a message but one learns to just accept it...

These days I just try to WOO them with Lilt etc... don't send many messages!

FAB is what it is.....

Just pissed me off that some people expect to get what they want cause every other guy is falling at there feet that's all. "

Block report and move on is always best

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Theres always going to some who assume the role of Xena Warrior Princess with the mouth of Joan Rivers. If thats how she behaves in a message, in all honesty would you like to have any dealings with her?

Put in behind you and best foot forward

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female

.

Wouldn't worry about it... just Block and move on!

Of course it is a bit annoying etc when I don't get a reply from a message but one learns to just accept it...

These days I just try to WOO them with Lilt etc... don't send many messages!

FAB is what it is.....

Just pissed me off that some people expect to get what they want cause every other guy is falling at there feet that's all. "

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At least someone messaged you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres always going to some who assume the role of Xena Warrior Princess with the mouth of Joan Rivers. If thats how she behaves in a message, in all honesty would you like to have any dealings with her?

Put in behind you and best foot forward "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Theres always going to some who assume the role of Xena Warrior Princess with the mouth of Joan Rivers. If thats how she behaves in a message, in all honesty would you like to have any dealings with her?

Put in behind you and best foot forward "

Xena now there's a woman that can abuse me anyway she likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres always going to some who assume the role of Xena Warrior Princess with the mouth of Joan Rivers. If thats how she behaves in a message, in all honesty would you like to have any dealings with her?

Put in behind you and best foot forward "

This makes good sense!!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres always going to some who assume the role of Xena Warrior Princess with the mouth of Joan Rivers. If thats how she behaves in a message, in all honesty would you like to have any dealings with her?

Put in behind you and best foot forward "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure I will get over it haha its just how disgusting people can be is the worrying thing that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pm us her name....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I do I'm at her level aren't I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I do I'm at her level aren't I "

No

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I'm sure I will get over it haha its just how disgusting people can be is the worrying thing that's all. "

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A lot of ladies have to deal with stuff like that regularly!

Don't worry about it!

At least you know your Inbox works...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"If I do I'm at her level aren't I "

Yes

So far in my book u had a rant nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I do I'm at her level aren't I

No "
....congratulations D..you've just been elected official seconder at the next agm. Unfortunately the phone box is a non smoking one... but we'll leave the door open. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report her profile and report the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope she didn't upset you too much Op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report her profile and report the message. "

Exactly, why get into all the gossip and backstabbing that some here seem to live for. Report and block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female ratio that they expect to get what they want and can't bare the taught of rejection on them as so seldom happens.

This is by no way meant to offend any woman here it just maddened me that people think that they have the higher authority and wish everyone would just behave and not abuse people cause they did not get the attention they looked for. It's genuinely disturbing and I've taught about a few things which were said since and bang outta order.

.

Wouldn't worry about it... just Block and move on!

Of course it is a bit annoying etc when I don't get a reply from a message but one learns to just accept it...

These days I just try to WOO them with Lilt etc... don't send many messages!

FAB is what it is..... "

Words can't deceive how much I'd love a can of Lilt right now, or a bottle of club orange, a pack of tayato or king crisps, Jaysus I'd be happy with a half pound of Kerry gold and a few bags of Barry's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report her profile and report the message.

Exactly, why get into all the gossip and backstabbing that some here seem to live for. Report and block and move on."
....don't know about backstabbing. ....gossiping. ..definitely .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So over the years being on and off here all I hear is men giving out when women don't respond to mail and women getting abuse over this which should not be the case and it's shameful really.

last evening I got a message from a well established female fabber with numerous verifications. I did not find any attraction for me and I did not respond. Okay maybe I should but what came out of her mouth in a mail afterwards was nothing short of disgraceful.

My question here is do women some women here think because there is a massive male to female ratio that they expect to get what they want and can't bare the taught of rejection on them as so seldom happens.

This is by no way meant to offend any woman here it just maddened me that people think that they have the higher authority and wish everyone would just behave and not abuse people cause they did not get the attention they looked for. It's genuinely disturbing and I've taught about a few things which were said since and bang outta order.

.

Wouldn't worry about it... just Block and move on!

Of course it is a bit annoying etc when I don't get a reply from a message but one learns to just accept it...

These days I just try to WOO them with Lilt etc... don't send many messages!

FAB is what it is.....

Words can't deceive how much I'd love a can of Lilt right now, or a bottle of club orange, a pack of tayato or king crisps, Jaysus I'd be happy with a half pound of Kerry gold and a few bags of Barry's"

Nahhhhh no Barry's tea,,, coffee all the way,, you'd need a fresh batch loaf to go with the tayto or king and the half pound of Kerry gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send her a message back saying her sister is a better ride lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Being abusive and being insulting isn't an attitude that only men adopt. Also op never lower your standards to comply to anyone's overinflated expectations on here regardless of the male female ratio. Just stick to your style, report and move on. I would not even pass on the name of said fabette, it's not going to change anything, you only pour fuel on a fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully I've never gotten one .. ..but I wouldn't go off mailing everyone who wants to know.... gossip here, as everywhere doesn't do anyone any good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got a melitta caffeO machine in the crew mess, solid piece of kit. Coffee gets me through my days, but an auld cuppa Barry's with a few buttered slices outta batch loaf filled with a pack of cheese n onion King. Now that's heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I do I'm at her level aren't I

No ....congratulations D..you've just been elected official seconder at the next agm. Unfortunately the phone box is a non smoking one... but we'll leave the door open. .. "

Would you need to leave the door open? do any phone boxes have glass left in the windows nowadays?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The name will not be revealed as I said for my own safety haha. And I have posted this as it has pissed of off since day one that some people paint all single males with same brush. Im all for if not interested delete and move on but not only guys can get abusive for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I do I'm at her level aren't I

No ....congratulations D..you've just been elected official seconder at the next agm. Unfortunately the phone box is a non smoking one... but we'll leave the door open. ..

Would you need to leave the door open? do any phone boxes have glass left in the windows nowadays?"
....ours is posh. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The name will not be revealed as I said for my own safety haha. And I have posted this as it has pissed of off since day one that some people paint all single males with same brush. Im all for if not interested delete and move on but not only guys can get abusive for this."
.......call me sceptical op....but you don't have to look very far on forums to see that there are two sides to every story. Not doubting you in the slightest, but would have been good to hear the alleged abuser's side as well. ..

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

I have met the OP before and he is a genuinely nice guy so this "lady" must be a number short of a full house.

Keep on moving plenty more cookies in the jar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very abusive msg every day what I usually do is block or when a guy contact me if not interested just say not interested or don't replay as we women get thousands msg a day so just move on life still on good luck press block job sorted

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report and block rather than air it on the forum and break forum rules please

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