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I'm here not long but finding hard to break into this hermetic closed society.
Would you have any advice, is there anything wrong with my profile?
I've chatted with few ladies here with positive vibe, but they seem to be very careful when contacting me when it comes to make things happen like coffee meet.
OH yes, another thing. Why people do drink only coffee?
Thank you for reading my post and hope to hear from you
Yours Sincerely Rutboi | |||
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"Good things come to those who wait....and they may come a few times ifyou are lucky or good or both...be yourself and be patient... Best of luck "Well thanks man, I guess patience is a key I'll give it a try once more | |||
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"Good things come to those who wait....and they may come a few times ifyou are lucky or good or both...be yourself and be patient... Best of luck
Well thanks man, I guess patience is a key I'll give it a try once more "Or maybe I should work more on my profile? | |||
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"Lost me after the word hermetic " Which part? About that people don't drink anything else but coffee? | |||
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"Lost me after the word hermetic Which part? About that people don't drink anything else but coffee? " I don't drink coffee - or tea. But am I feck gonna ask someone to meet me for a milk | |||
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"Lost me after the word hermetic Which part? About that people don't drink anything else but coffee? I don't drink coffee - or tea. But am I feck gonna ask someone to meet me for a milk" LOL, I suppose you can ask someone for a regular date... Without description of beverage you are about to consume | |||
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"coffee is just a term for a social meet to see if there's attraction do you expect people to fuck just for the sake of it? and if you think that people on here do nothing but coffee meets you have a lot to learn " Well, you are mistaken. What I think, and is no important cause what me, newbie I could know. I'm only teasing and you seem to be very touched by what I've said about tea/coffee issue. To it doesn't matter, people could meet for glass of milk lije your man have mentioned. I'm just teasing people
I came here with the same purpose like other people on this site. To have fun and meet new people.
I hope I didn't interfered with your personal feelings. If yes I do apologise.
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"coffee is just a term for a social meet to see if there's attraction do you expect people to fuck just for the sake of it? and if you think that people on here do nothing but coffee meets you have a lot to learn Well, you are mistaken. What I think, and is no important cause what me, newbie I could know. I'm only teasing and you seem to be very touched by what I've said about tea/coffee issue. To it doesn't matter, people could meet for glass of milk lije your man have mentioned. I'm just teasing people
I came here with the same purpose like other people on this site. To have fun and meet new people.
I hope I didn't interfered with your personal feelings. If yes I do apologise.
"P.s. Sorry for my mistypes cause my fingers are to big for my phone | |||
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"coffee is just a term for a social meet to see if there's attraction do you expect people to fuck just for the sake of it? and if you think that people on here do nothing but coffee meets you have a lot to learn Well, you are mistaken. What I think, and is no important cause what me, newbie I could know. I'm only teasing and you seem to be very touched by what I've said about tea/coffee issue. To it doesn't matter, people could meet for glass of milk lije your man have mentioned. I'm just teasing people
I came here with the same purpose like other people on this site. To have fun and meet new people.
I hope I didn't interfered with your personal feelings. If yes I do apologise.
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"coffee is just a term for a social meet to see if there's attraction do you expect people to fuck just for the sake of it? and if you think that people on here do nothing but coffee meets you have a lot to learn Well, you are mistaken. What I think, and is no important cause what me, newbie I could know. I'm only teasing and you seem to be very touched by what I've said about tea/coffee issue. To it doesn't matter, people could meet for glass of milk lije your man have mentioned. I'm just teasing people
I came here with the same purpose like other people on this site. To have fun and meet new people.
I hope I didn't interfered with your personal feelings. If yes I do apologise.
I'm not a man "Sorry lol, just checked it lol. Anyways it ain't easy to be a newbie maybe one day I'll change | |||
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"coffee is just a term for a social meet to see if there's attraction do you expect people to fuck just for the sake of it? and if you think that people on here do nothing but coffee meets you have a lot to learn Well, you are mistaken. What I think, and is no important cause what me, newbie I could know. I'm only teasing and you seem to be very touched by what I've said about tea/coffee issue. To it doesn't matter, people could meet for glass of milk lije your man have mentioned. I'm just teasing people
I came here with the same purpose like other people on this site. To have fun and meet new people.
I hope I didn't interfered with your personal feelings. If yes I do apologise.
I'm not a man
Sorry lol, just checked it lol.
Anyways it ain't easy to be a newbie maybe one day I'll change "It's not easy - keep at it Good Luck | |||
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"coffee is just a term for a social meet to see if there's attraction do you expect people to fuck just for the sake of it? and if you think that people on here do nothing but coffee meets you have a lot to learn Well, you are mistaken. What I think, and is no important cause what me, newbie I could know. I'm only teasing and you seem to be very touched by what I've said about tea/coffee issue. To it doesn't matter, people could meet for glass of milk lije your man have mentioned. I'm just teasing people
I came here with the same purpose like other people on this site. To have fun and meet new people.
I hope I didn't interfered with your personal feelings. If yes I do apologise.
I'm not a man
Sorry lol, just checked it lol.
Anyways it ain't easy to be a newbie maybe one day I'll change
It's not easy - keep at it Good Luck"I'll need it | |||
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"I'd be scared to meet you in case you were Hannibal going by your status X "Well, I can bite... But only if you ask me for it... I rather to be gentle at start...smooth slow motions I could change my nickname to Slow Moe | |||
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"I'd be scared to meet you in case you were Hannibal going by your status X
Well, I can bite... But only if you ask me for it... I rather to be gentle at start...smooth slow motions I could change my nickname to Slow Moe "You've got the lines anyway | |||
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"I had a look at your profile and I like the way your mind thinks, I would meet you for a Diet Coke if only we didn't live so far apart....... "Diet Coke... I'm making some progress here
Diet Coke with on rocks
Ice cubes in my mouth could do the trick when pleasing | |||
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"Good things come to those who wait....and they may come a few times ifyou are lucky or good or both...be yourself and be patient... Best of luck
Well thanks man, I guess patience is a key I'll give it a try once more
Or maybe I should work more on my profile? "I like your profile | |||
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"I had a look at your profile and I like the way your mind thinks, I would meet you for a Diet Coke if only we didn't live so far apart.......
Diet Coke... I'm making some progress here
Diet Coke with on rocks
Ice cubes in my mouth could do the trick when pleasing "They sure could......   | |||
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"Building up trust takes time but as the last few messages show you are not far away. Being non creepy, non pushy helps So does the fact you were not blaming the other people on here for your seemingly lack of progress. (I would argue that you are doing well,from what I see) If you put yourself into a woman's shoe's, so to speak, meeting a stranger for coffee or milk as the case may be, is potentially dangerous. We men tend to not see this because there is an inbuilt knowledge that we are usually just as strong as the next guy. So look at things from the ladies perspective. Let the ladies dictate the pace of progress. Just be open to the idea it could take time. If you are pushy or needy in messages, then you are less likely to get a meet. Just relax and enjoy the chat. Good things come to those who are patient Mr Arrow" Mr Arrow
I have to say that you are absolutely right...few people told me to be patient... I understand and I respect women's desicions therfore I don't want to be pushy... But on the other hand it is hard to do it especially if lady is really really attractive...
Well I guess wish me luck and thank you for positive feedback
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"You have a good profile and a great attitude OP. Maybe throw up a few more public pics? I'm not sure what your messages are like but be careful not to ramble and send big walls of text. I'm sure you won't be long getting a meet, best of luck "Dear Cremo,thank you for being supportive I do really appreciate what you have said
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Maybe soon I could conquer East Coast lol
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