FabSwingers.com forum: The word slut??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious as to what the word slut means to ppl? I know some of you may wanna be careful cause you don't wanna upset potential meets lol but be honest with your meaning of the word.

For example, If a girl is having casual fun with various men regularly. Let's say a different guy every weekend... Is she slutty? Or is she just having fun?

And where do you draw the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it gender based?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it gender based? "

Sorry, didn't intend for it to seem that way. Just gave an example using a woman as i reflecting on a past experience. Obviously it applies to guys to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not even sure the word is relevant anymore apart from when being used in role play. It came from a time when it was the norm for guys to have a different sexual partner every week and be a hero while his female equivalent was a slut, a word used in a derogatory sense for doing the same. We are way past that now. There should be a room 101 for some words depending in the context they are used in. This is one that has no real use anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think guys were ever hero's for having multiple partners / being "sluts". I do think there's a fine line between having fun and degrading yourself though but where do you draw the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"where do you draw the line"

Wherever you to decide to draw it yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure they are only words... depends on the context used... for instance around here, there's not many prostitutes but there's a load of hoors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think guys were ever hero's for having multiple partners / being "sluts". I do think there's a fine line between having fun and degrading yourself though but where do you draw the line"

So what is your interpretation of the word slut in today's world. Just someone who sleeps around a bit or ??? . A prostitute might only do it once a month when money is tight, would you consider a prostitute a slut. so I'm not sure the frequency on sex has much of a bearing on the term

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think a slut is someone that craves lust / attention and uses sex to get it. If a woman has a high sex drive then why not just stick with one guy and fuck him frequently. There is no actual need for multiple guys or a new guy every week unless ur tryin to recreate that lust you feel when u meet someone new. Personally i think alot of ppl are literally addicted to that hence why they never stick to one person. This is where the word "slut" comes in. I think it's used to describe someone that's using sex to fill an emptiness inside them.

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I think a slut is someone that craves lust / attention and uses sex to get it. If a woman has a high sex drive then why not just stick with one guy and fuck him frequently. There is no actual need for multiple guys or a new guy every week unless ur tryin to recreate that lust you feel when u meet someone new. Personally i think alot of ppl are literally addicted to that hence why they never stick to one person. This is where the word "slut" comes in. I think it's used to describe someone that's using sex to fill an emptiness inside them.

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha "

Perfect sence fab may not be a place for u maybe e-harmony might suit u better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha

Perfect sence fab may not be a place for u maybe e-harmony might suit u better

Maybe

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"I don't think guys were ever hero's for having multiple partners / being "sluts". I do think there's a fine line between having fun and degrading yourself though but where do you draw the line

Thoroughly agree. I would describe myself as a slut even if I hadn't had "company" for a while. Ie it's a state of mind rather than action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it gender based? "

I love this reply, thank you.

Yrs ago i was called a slut, but i wasnt sleeping around, but women would target me coz they didn't want me talking to their fellas, sad really.

Now thou men get high fived and women are sluts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called a slut before by the woman i had sex with after a first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha

Perfect sence fab may not be a place for u maybe e-harmony might suit u better

agree 100% cj.

This is a swinging site where people have sex with multiple partners. It's the name of the game here. E-harmony is definitely more suited to your needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the word slut or whore.. I think it's a degrading word to women yes we sleep around same as men were all equal or are we? Not everyone fucks the same and not every gets what they want evening in relationships

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

Simple thing to do is never use it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha

Perfect sence fab may not be a place for u maybe e-harmony might suit u better

agree 100% cj.

This is a swinging site where people have sex with multiple partners. It's the name of the game here. E-harmony is definitely more suited to your needs! "

Sure every guy here sees all woman here as sluts. They just are clever enough to know not to say it as telling them what they wanna hear gets you further. Does that mean every guy here should be on e harmony??

Surely it's for me to decide what site i use and who i meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha

Perfect sence fab may not be a place for u maybe e-harmony might suit u better

agree 100% cj.

This is a swinging site where people have sex with multiple partners. It's the name of the game here. E-harmony is definitely more suited to your needs!

Surely it's for me to decide what site i use and who i meet. "

So now you are speaking for every guy on here?! All the women on here are sluts?? Yeh you are definitely on the wrong site. Virginsrus.com.bullshit is that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha

Perfect sence fab may not be a place for u maybe e-harmony might suit u better

agree 100% cj.

This is a swinging site where people have sex with multiple partners. It's the name of the game here. E-harmony is definitely more suited to your needs!

Surely it's for me to decide what site i use and who i meet. "

I think you're absolutely wrong with your assumption that every guy sees all the girls here as sluts. It's a sexually liberal site with everyone having fun. You don't need to label people?!? I'm not even quite sure why you're here. Or at least why you're expressing such views in the forums. Freedom of speech and all that - I just don't think you're doing yourself any favours!

And of course you free to decide what site you use.. Some might be more suited to you than others, that's all I was saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Sure every guy here sees all woman here as sluts. They just are clever enough to know not to say it as telling them what they wanna hear gets you further. Does that mean every guy here should be on e harmony??

Surely it's for me to decide what site i use and who i meet. "

Really?? Of course it is up to you which site you use. But if your opinion of the women on this site is so low why would you want to be here?

And no I don't believe every man here sees all the women as 'sluts'. You seem to be back in the dark ages.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha

Perfect sence fab may not be a place for u maybe e-harmony might suit u better

agree 100% cj.

This is a swinging site where people have sex with multiple partners. It's the name of the game here. E-harmony is definitely more suited to your needs!

Surely it's for me to decide what site i use and who i meet. "

That's where u are wrong not every guy thinks with such a closed mind as u,are women not to be allowed to explore their sexuality as men do after all u earlier said it's not gender specific make up ur mind

U remind me of a guy who's happy to sleep with other guys wife's and g/fs but wouldn't share his

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Love the notes feature on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love the notes feature on here...

Haha was waiting for that!!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Love the notes feature on here...

Haha was waiting for that!!

The green arrow works wonders aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehm what notes feature?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah sure they are only words... depends on the context used... for instance around here, there's not many prostitutes but there's a load of hoors

Says the male wellie wearer hoor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah sure they are only words... depends on the context used... for instance around here, there's not many prostitutes but there's a load of hoors

Says the male wellie wearer hoor

"
... you've the cure for the wellie wearing hoor

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

I always thought slut meant a female stud. Always viewed it as a positive word and have great respect for ladies that do describe themselves as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought slut meant a female stud. Always viewed it as a positive word and have great respect for ladies that do describe themselves as such.

Women call themselves that??

I only like it been used in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love the notes feature on here...

Alongside the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what a "slut" is ... But I'm very good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a muppet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on your group and how you see urself

I know a few girls who call each other sluts as a compliment, especially younger, early 20s they sleep around more it's just what they do.

I've been called a slut, so can be used for both sexes

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

Dunno if ive explained that well or if it makes sense to you but that's just my opinion on the word ha "

Wow okay? And since slut is a term used for women I'm guessing that you don't think men can be addicted to sex? And if they are sure its alright they are men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought slut meant a female stud. Always viewed it as a positive word and have great respect for ladies that do describe themselves as such.

Would u still take it positively if they called ur mum or sis that. I know i sure as fuck wouldnt. Its ok to be used in a playful way tho if the lady is into that sort of thing. Some ladies would slap u before u got the t out.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah sure they are only words... depends on the context used... for instance around here, there's not many prostitutes but there's a load of hoors

Says the male wellie wearer hoor

... you've the cure for the wellie wearing hoor

Tell me more Dumbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda like a guy calling me a slut in the bedroom

But if it's over a coffee then he's likely to have some coffee on his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I called a girl a slut over coffee, she was telling me her latest sex adventure, she took it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a muppet."

Snickers bracket. Good friends I'd imagine.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I love men,I love the open minded guys who love women. Men that think every woman on here is a slut is too old fashioned for me. I decide who and what I do, men do not dictate how I should behave. Why should I have just one guy, I had that in my extremely boring marriage for over 20yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is why some boys use certain words to try & make us feel bad. I take it not many remember this plum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dose it matter she is probably full of shit anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a derogatory way it was used to describe women in a bye gone age today the term is used more loosely usually between open minded people in a play full manner or role play.

However there are still those wearing blinkers that view the term as a discription they can use to put a woman down because she enjoys sex and isn't afraid to say so and do something aboutit.

These sad people usually end up alone and spiteful for the things they never got to enjoy to refer to all women here as sluts shows the narrow mindless of the indivual not someone I'd like to be associated with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the word slut as a positive word. To my mind it's a good thing. I identify it with traits I admire.

I use slut as a term of endearment with my wife and a few close personal friends who deserve the accolade

it's not something I would say to random people or as a word to pass judgment on people. THAT use of the word I detest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr Arrow ^

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

"I always thought slut meant a female stud. Always viewed it as a positive word and have great respect for ladies that do describe themselves as such.

"They" calling themselves sluts no prob and if the word is used by others in the right context then yes i would still interpret it as a postitive word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Sunday Sluts

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

U can have male sluts as much as female sluts both as bad as each other

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

In the right context, the word slut shouldn't be derogatory .. I have a a FB who loves to be called a 'cum slut' during sex .. It works for her !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U can have male sluts as much as female sluts both as bad as each other "

Or as good as each other. Being a slut isn't hurting anyone so I'll say as good as each other

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

"U can have male sluts as much as female sluts both as bad as each other

Or as good as each other. Being a slut isn't hurting anyone so I'll say as good as each other

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

"U can have male sluts as much as female sluts both as bad as each other "

So don't use the word for either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey you naughty tuls.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U can have male sluts as much as female sluts both as bad as each other "

Why is it bad?

Who here on THIS site in particular, believes that there should be a limit on how many people you can have sex with ?

Let's be honest. Most of us want to have as much sex as possible. Sooooooo why is it bad?

I want to be a male slut. And i will get there eventually

Mr Arrow

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"U can have male sluts as much as female sluts both as bad as each other

Why is it bad?

Who here on THIS site in particular, believes that there should be a limit on how many people you can have sex with ?

Let's be honest. Most of us want to have as much sex as possible. Sooooooo why is it bad?

I want to be a male slut. And i will get there eventually

Mr Arrow"

Very true and this isn't a place to be judgemental

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Why is it gender based? "

Because the origin of the word equates to the female gender perhaps?

slut

sl?t/Submit

nounderogatory

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

synonyms: promiscuous woman; More

dated

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

Doesn't make it right but that would explain the gender equation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it gender based?

Because the origin of the word equates to the female gender perhaps?

slut

sl?t/Submit

nounderogatory

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

synonyms: promiscuous woman; More

dated

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

Doesn't make it right but that would explain the gender equation."
that doesn't explain why it's gender based. That just states that it is so.

Its a word used to shame women into behaving how society wants it to behave. Why would we do that? Antrapologically speaking it could be to limit the strife within a small tribal unit. If you only have a small community in pre - historic times you don't want your hunters killing themselves for available women. Violent men, who lived in a violent time where, the strength of your arm was the most persuasive argument they had, were not about limit themselves. Easier to bully women.

Think of the 10 commandments as a good example of a tribal community setting out laws to limit strife within its people. God says don't steal or fuck other people cos we are crossing the desert and that shit would be bad cos we need all our people for fighting the hitites.

We are more evolved socially now. We are not exactly in the promised land yet but we can all do our bit by being a bit less judgemental/jealous of people who are doing exactly what you want to be doing

Mr Arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noting I like more than being called a slut,cum whore,while having a good slap on my arse,hair tugged tight and getting fcked hell for leather from behind...

Ride my cock you slut once I hear that I swooonnnn...mmmmm

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

Why do we have to put a label on it, slut is and can be used in a negative. There's no right or wrong way to label men or women especially on this a sex site. I'm called a slut by my partner which I find sexy in a filthy way. As for him when he's online looking at the pics or the hot photos list I call him the male form of slut. He nor I are offended by it. We use it as a play word and nothing more.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Why is it gender based?

Because the origin of the word equates to the female gender perhaps?

slut

sl?t/Submit

nounderogatory

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

synonyms: promiscuous woman; More

dated

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

Doesn't make it right but that would explain the gender equation.that doesn't explain why it's gender based. That just states that it is so.

Mr Arrow"

I'm not saying it is correct or incorrect to use it but the origin of the word is in a female context,people have taken control of the word to turn a negative into what some now see as a positive depending on the context.It just is what it is and at the end of the day it's only a word.

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By *unAngelWoman
over a year ago

City

WOWZERS.....shock/horror

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By *olyhumorousMan
over a year ago

Over here

i was actually thinking about this recently and did a bit of research. Unfortunately the term slut is gender specific

boo.. although i read a good quote, of a definition for slut, that went

"slut: a woman with the standards of a man"

made me chuckle, because it's true, we're all sluts. Sexy, sexy sluts the whole fabbing lot of us lol. That's why we're here

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By *olyhumorousMan
over a year ago

Over here

"Why do we have to put a label on it, slut is and can be used in a negative. There's no right or wrong way to label men or women especially on this a sex site. I'm called a slut by my partner which I find sexy in a filthy way. As for him when he's online looking at the pics or the hot photos list I call him the male form of slut. He nor I are offended by it. We use it as a play word and nothing more."

agreed, it's all context

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer the word hoor meself

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Prefer the word hoor meself

geordie ya huer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer the word hoor meself

geordie ya huer

You're the biggest hoor i know

Btw it's a term of endearment in geordieland

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Prefer the word hoor meself

geordie ya huer

You're the biggest hoor i know

Btw it's a term of endearment in geordieland

but you know so many hoors how can little innocent me be the biggest??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer the word hoor meself

geordie ya huer

You're the biggest hoor i know

Btw it's a term of endearment in geordieland

but you know so many hoors how can little innocent me be the biggest?? "

Suck it up an take the compliment

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