FabSwingers.com forum: Take a chance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many on here just take a chance when meeting someone or do u listen to what other people tell you? (We all know women and some men talk on here). For eg "oh they have to be meet verified" before I'll consider meeting them. If that's the case by many, no newbies will get a start. Remember everybody was a newbie one day. What's your take on it? Before anyone whines, this is an open thread where all views are challanged/ accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met unverifieds. I go on my own instincts not anyone elses

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've met unverifieds. I go on my own instincts not anyone elses"

fair play

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By *avid40701Man
over a year ago

mayo

Its not easy for genuine guys to get verified on here!, have been chatting to some very interesting and nice people on fab but I think that's as far as it goes without being verified!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met unverified , everyone needs to start somewhere . we always go on our own gut instincts although have started having coffee meets first after being stood up a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met unverified before but honestly have to say that veris do influence the decision to meet sometimes especially when there is not much to go on in someone's profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will try to arrange a meet if we look like a good match.

Verified or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot of heresay on a site like this but for the most part I tend to trust my instincts in relation to people

It's easy to listen to what others say but then if that's anything to go by we are all exactly what fab is all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats what we employ a pa. for....we don't have time to do it ourselves. ..let alone listen to gossip on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets were unverified before I met them .. I specificly met only newbies. Until they kept cancelling or not showing up without an explaination..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are grand and lots will meet once they think they will get along.....butyou will find some who may find you gguilty by association because you are friends with or have met someone who they don't like ..

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people are grand and lots will meet once they think they will get along.....butyou will find some who may find you gguilty by association because you are friends with or have met someone who they don't like ..

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

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ye this is absolutley ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

ye this is absolutley ridiculous "

Yep but their lose !! We are nice people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

ye this is absolutley ridiculous

Yep but their lose !! We are nice people

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Ah sure some on here run with themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

ye this is absolutley ridiculous

Yep but their lose !! We are nice people

Yeah yeah

lol only joking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i have met newbies in the past but because of the amount of fakes i don't bother anymore

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By *unsterStagMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? "

I prefer the blue...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? "
because as my op says we all started out as newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? because as my op says we all started out as newbies"

Okay. So some people will meet newbies. Others prefer not to. Whether that's right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? because as my op says we all started out as newbies

Okay. So some people will meet newbies. Others prefer not to. Whether that's right or wrong "
it's about giving somebody a chance simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

ye this is absolutley ridiculous

Yep but their lose !! We are nice people

Yeah yeah

lol only joking!"

Shut up you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

ye this is absolutley ridiculous

Yep but their lose !! We are nice people

Ah sure some on here run with themselves "
...tbh..if everyone just did their own thing, and not worry about other people's friends list or lifestyle choice. .taking cheap shots is so unattractive. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I guess, if everyone never met newbies, this site would never have got off the ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

ye this is absolutley ridiculous

Yep but their lose !! We are nice people

Yeah yeah

lol only joking!

Shut up you

Make me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

ye this is absolutley ridiculous

Yep but their lose !! We are nice people

Ah sure some on here run with themselves ...tbh..if everyone just did their own thing, and not worry about other people's friends list or lifestyle choice. .taking cheap shots is so unattractive. .."
that's a fact like it or lump it

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? because as my op says we all started out as newbies

Okay. So some people will meet newbies. Others prefer not to. Whether that's right or wrong it's about giving somebody a chance simple as that "

People go with their own experiences... even at Socials newbies can get invites and not show, which seems to be quite common.

Females/Couples are busy so are they going to be bothered meeting newbies even for a Coffee?

Some ladies do meet guys for Coffee but, as some have experienced, the further they travel the more they expect! They can't even accept a Coffee meet as meeting for a Coffee!

One lady met a guy for coffee and he just whipped his cock out in front of her.

So why should women/couples put up with crap like that?

Guys fuck things up for other guys!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"We will try to arrange a meet if we look like a good match.

Verified or not.

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet plenty newbies for coffee and iv been lucky to play wit sum after that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? because as my op says we all started out as newbies

Okay. So some people will meet newbies. Others prefer not to. Whether that's right or wrong it's about giving somebody a chance simple as that

People go with their own experiences... even at Socials newbies can get invites and not show, which seems to be quite common.

Females/Couples are busy so are they going to be bothered meeting newbies even for a Coffee?

Some ladies do meet guys for Coffee but, as some have experienced, the further they travel the more they expect! They can't even accept a Coffee meet as meeting for a Coffee!

One lady met a guy for coffee and he just whipped his cock out in front of her.

So why should women/couples put up with crap like that?

Guys fuck things up for other guys!!"
in fairness for eg if u are 2 hours from Dublin and u specifically go there just for a coffee Imo u would want to be stone mad. If u are there for other purposes to, fair enough. I'm just saying we all started as newbies so Imo people deserve a chance. Not every newbie Is the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick and has nothing to do with anyone else but pics must be on profile and photo verie at least (shows some commitment!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I pick and has nothing to do with anyone else but pics must be on profile and photo verie at least (shows some commitment!)"
in agree with photo veri. That's important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See. Plenty will meet newbies or unverified. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"See. Plenty will meet newbies or unverified. Happy days "
Plus attraction needs to be there 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See. Plenty will meet newbies or unverified. Happy days Plus attraction needs to be there 2 "

Of course! There it is, the old line.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? because as my op says we all started out as newbies

Okay. So some people will meet newbies. Others prefer not to. Whether that's right or wrong it's about giving somebody a chance simple as that

People go with their own experiences... even at Socials newbies can get invites and not show, which seems to be quite common.

Females/Couples are busy so are they going to be bothered meeting newbies even for a Coffee?

Some ladies do meet guys for Coffee but, as some have experienced, the further they travel the more they expect! They can't even accept a Coffee meet as meeting for a Coffee!

One lady met a guy for coffee and he just whipped his cock out in front of her.

So why should women/couples put up with crap like that?

Guys fuck things up for other guys!!

in fairness for eg if u are 2 hours from Dublin and u specifically go there just for a coffee Imo u would want to be stone mad. If u are there for other purposes to, fair enough. I'm just saying we all started as newbies so Imo people deserve a chance. Not every newbie Is the same "

So, for you, the further they are away them more you'd expect... that is the exact point some ladies made!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People have their preferences. Why not leave them to it? because as my op says we all started out as newbies

Okay. So some people will meet newbies. Others prefer not to. Whether that's right or wrong it's about giving somebody a chance simple as that

People go with their own experiences... even at Socials newbies can get invites and not show, which seems to be quite common.

Females/Couples are busy so are they going to be bothered meeting newbies even for a Coffee?

Some ladies do meet guys for Coffee but, as some have experienced, the further they travel the more they expect! They can't even accept a Coffee meet as meeting for a Coffee!

One lady met a guy for coffee and he just whipped his cock out in front of her.

So why should women/couples put up with crap like that?

Guys fuck things up for other guys!!

So, for you, the further they are away them more you'd expect... that is the exact point some ladies made!"
no. The further away they are I woukdnt be going for just coffee unless I was there 4 something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"See. Plenty will meet newbies or unverified. Happy days Plus attraction needs to be there 2

Of course! There it is, the old line."
the obvious line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"See."
ye I can see thank God

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And so will all the other forumites. Are you still peddling this same old shite?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old."

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And so will all the other forumites. Are you still peddling this same old shite?

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no shite just something most people look for, physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

"
no expectation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See. Plenty will meet newbies or unverified. Happy days Plus attraction needs to be there 2

Of course! There it is, the old line."

And don't forget...

He'll do coffee meets (as long as it includes a shag)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"See. Plenty will meet newbies or unverified. Happy days Plus attraction needs to be there 2

Of course! There it is, the old line.

And don't forget...

He'll do coffee meets (as long as it includes a shag)

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Not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed "
.....so flicking the bean is followed by percolation of the bean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed "

you could bring your own beans..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed .....so flicking the bean is followed by percolation of the bean?

Those beans are versatile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So anyone want to take a chance and see if we're compatible to Meet? Pop me a private message

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"So anyone want to take a chance and see if we're compatible to Meet? Pop me a private message "

Doesn't a lady in cork fancy you? Or is that too far for coffee...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed "

and the further you travel the more coffee you expect!

You'd probably demand Free Trade Coffee Beans too!

I only have Italian, German, French, Polish coffee at the moment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So anyone want to take a chance and see if we're compatible to Meet? Pop me a private message

Doesn't a lady in cork fancy you? Or is that too far for coffee..."
that's complicated. Not straightforward

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

0-10 miles: expectations : show up, smile and good coffee...tea serves too

11-20 miles: expectations : show up, smile and good coffee...tea serves too

20 - make an educated guess -----/yes : expectations : show up, smile and good coffee...tea serves too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else think this was about ABBA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a Chance on me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed

and the further you travel the more coffee you expect!

You'd probably demand Free Trade Coffee Beans too!

I only have Italian, German, French, Polish coffee at the moment!"

A good quality coffee in Leitrim...well what do you know!

Loads expected and fair conditions to the suppliers of good coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

0-10 miles: expectations : show up, smile and good coffee...tea serves too

11-20 miles: expectations : show up, smile and good coffee...tea serves too

20 - make an educated guess -----/yes : expectations : show up, smile and good coffee...tea serves too"

Cuban...coffee and cigars

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed

and the further you travel the more coffee you expect!

You'd probably demand Free Trade Coffee Beans too!

I only have Italian, German, French, Polish coffee at the moment!

A good quality coffee in Leitrim...well what do you know!

Loads expected and fair conditions to the suppliers of good coffee "

All Organic of course!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed

and the further you travel the more coffee you expect!

You'd probably demand Free Trade Coffee Beans too!

I only have Italian, German, French, Polish coffee at the moment!

A good quality coffee in Leitrim...well what do you know!

Loads expected and fair conditions to the suppliers of good coffee

All Organic of course!!

And slow roasted

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"And he won't be willing to travel far unless it suits (he won't drive far if it's just for coffee). Same old, same old.

0-10 miles expectation is ?

11-20 miles expectation is ??

21-30 miles expectation is ???

..plus of course the Coffee Quality needs to be taken into account!!

Has to be the best bean...finding quality coffee is really fucking difficult... I won't go for a shag unless coffee is guaranteed

and the further you travel the more coffee you expect!

You'd probably demand Free Trade Coffee Beans too!

I only have Italian, German, French, Polish coffee at the moment!

A good quality coffee in Leitrim...well what do you know!

Loads expected and fair conditions to the suppliers of good coffee

All Organic of course!!

And slow roasted "

extremely slow roasted for quality!

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

9 thousand is grand.. If we start talking now we could meet by Christmas

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

9 thousand is grand.. If we start talking now we could meet by Christmas

How many do I need to get correct to pass??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty people out there that will give you the chance ... just be patient

This is so true , I've been unfriended / blocked because of who I'm friends with . I would much prefer for people to judge me & hubby for who we are

That's it. I has the same for who is on my freinds list or I have met.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

9 thousand is grand.. If we start talking now we could meet by Christmas

How many do I need to get correct to pass?? "

Only 8,999 .. ye be graaand

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

9 thousand is grand.. If we start talking now we could meet by Christmas

How many do I need to get correct to pass??

Only 8,999 .. ye be graaand

Ah not too bad so.... I only need to be almost perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't listen ..if i want to meet someone i will..have heard stories but wouldn't put me off

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

9 thousand is grand.. If we start talking now we could meet by Christmas

How many do I need to get correct to pass??

Only 8,999 .. ye be graaand

Ah not too bad so.... I only need to be almost perfect!

And with an ass like yours sure your nearly there already..

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

9 thousand is grand.. If we start talking now we could meet by Christmas

How many do I need to get correct to pass??

Only 8,999 .. ye be graaand

Ah not too bad so.... I only need to be almost perfect!

And with an ass like yours sure your nearly there already..

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"For me ... I've been like a paranoid fbi agent when it's come to meets ... ask for several ID etc... The guy I met not long after I joined the site asked....

''Am I meeting you or signing up for a bleedin library account "" ha

But I've since calmed down with the ten thousand questions .... only 9 thousand now

OK... will wait til you calm down more!!

9 thousand is grand.. If we start talking now we could meet by Christmas

How many do I need to get correct to pass??

Only 8,999 .. ye be graaand

Ah not too bad so.... I only need to be almost perfect!

And with an ass like yours sure your nearly there already..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust my instincts and make my own decisions about whether to meet someone or not. It's not influenced by a third party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes your instinct is just right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes your instinct is just right

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i have found also my instinct to be wrong but I agree 9 times outta 10 it's right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on here over a year.not one has givin me the chance.a real struggle

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By *irty MurtyMan
over a year ago

my place

To be honest if your here over 4 or 5 months and unverified your not really trying or your doing something wrong.

There's plenty of couples/women out there who'll give unverified guys a chance, even if it's only coffee.

We all had to start somewhere and it's up to you to put in the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met loads of unverified people, just depends on who I click with, verified or not.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Has met unverified members but always for a vanilla meet first.

Need to see if the spark is there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest if your here over 4 or 5 months and unverified your not really trying or your doing something wrong.

There's plenty of couples/women out there who'll give unverified guys a chance, even if it's only coffee.

We all had to start somewhere and it's up to you to put in the effort "
Probably easy meet 4 a coffee with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't the be all and end all, but they give people a degree of safety though, or maybe even a degree of don't want to meet them, you could meet someone and still not get verified by them....each to their own I'd say, we all know they can be faked to an extent, and I'm sure some people like meeting unverified, new people here and there, reckon it's a even enough playing field either way and the verification thing is a good addition to these sites either way.

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