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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are going to our first even next weekend. This is super exciting and terrifying all at the same time. I can't explain how deep each emotion is for us.

I find comfort in being organised so I have started a check list. Things that need to be done to ensure that the night goes as well as possible. It's been 20 years since I had to think of this sorta thing so I'm worried I will miss stuff. So far I have

There is the obvious cleanliness stuff, Baby sitters, hotel, haircut, beard trim, nails cut nice and short, condoms, rope x 2 ... and I'm sure I'm forgetting a heap.

What's your check list before you go to a meet or event?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are going to our first even next weekend. This is super exciting and terrifying all at the same time. I can't explain how deep each emotion is for us.

I find comfort in being organised so I have started a check list. Things that need to be done to ensure that the night goes as well as possible. It's been 20 years since I had to think of this sorta thing so I'm worried I will miss stuff. So far I have

There is the obvious cleanliness stuff, Baby sitters, hotel, haircut, beard trim, nails cut nice and short, condoms, rope x 2 ... and I'm sure I'm forgetting a heap.

What's your check list before you go to a meet or event?

"

Number 1 on your checklist, don't over think it otherwise it'll be a serious let down!!

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I keep my bold bag in the Jeep so I'm always good to go so don't need to think of anything really.

Has the usual stuff i might need.

condoms

shower gel

lube

wet wipes

Mouth wash

Toothbrush and toothpaste

Toys

Other more kinky items that can be seen on one of my pics .....

I like to be ready in case I'm required somewhere..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep my bold bag in the Jeep so I'm always good to go so don't need to think of anything really.

Has the usual stuff i might need.

condoms

shower gel

lube

wet wipes

Mouth wash

Toothbrush and toothpaste

Toys

Other more kinky items that can be seen on one of my pics .....

I like to be ready in case I'm required somewhere..

"
gotcha

Like a kinky batman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are going to our first even next weekend. This is super exciting and terrifying all at the same time. I can't explain how deep each emotion is for us.

I find comfort in being organised so I have started a check list. Things that need to be done to ensure that the night goes as well as possible. It's been 20 years since I had to think of this sorta thing so I'm worried I will miss stuff. So far I have

There is the obvious cleanliness stuff, Baby sitters, hotel, haircut, beard trim, nails cut nice and short, condoms, rope x 2 ... and I'm sure I'm forgetting a heap.

What's your check list before you go to a meet or event?

Number 1 on your checklist, don't over think it otherwise it'll be a serious let down!!"

I agree. I know I am over thinking it but I have control issues. Planning let's me get my control nut off and then when I get there I can relax. After I tie my wife up. After that I will be the most chilled person there.

But your point is excellent

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Maybe go with low expectations. That way if it's a no show or not exactly fits the bill you won't get too disappointed

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Ye both will have a great time there was my first time at venue few weeks back and was made very welcome i would have been at this one but on a stag next wknd but hopefully i be there at the next one depending on how busy work is enjoy guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Viagra

Go pro

Extra Tena pants

Toothpicks (pubic hair removal)

Wet and dry hoover (squirting)

De fib...just being cautious. .

Good splash of brut

Oil the zimmer frame wheels. .quick getaway. ...they could be mingers.

lots of BLJ... (bareback lubrication jelly)

fill the hiace with green

Party time !!!!!

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By *utieAndBootyCouple
over a year ago

SoCal

Making sure we're clean and trimmed in all the right places. Shower.

Proper outfit, something easy to take off (and something sexy underneath).

Condoms, mints.

Prepared for possible hotel stay somewhere.

And expect the unexpected lol. We were totally blown away by our first party. We were intimidated and nervous and quite surprised by how free everyone was! But after we relaxed it was so much fun!

Oh and if it's a BYOB make sure to bring some wine. We'll be bringing a bottle to the Venue next weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck on your meet , you guys will have a great time. Try not to worry too much.

My check list goes as follows,

Wash bag

Toys

Condoms

Sexy underwear

Comfortable clothes

Change of underwear/clothes

Then everything else you take with you if your going away for a night with the hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Viagra

Go pro

Extra Tena pants

Toothpicks (pubic hair removal)

Wet and dry hoover (squirting)

De fib...just being cautious. .

Good splash of brut

Oil the zimmer frame wheels. .quick getaway. ...they could be mingers.

lots of BLJ... (bareback lubrication jelly)

fill the hiace with green

Party time !!!!!"

Lmfao....green diesel...#borderpeeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Viagra

Go pro

Extra Tena pants

Toothpicks (pubic hair removal)

Wet and dry hoover (squirting)

De fib...just being cautious. .

Good splash of brut

Oil the zimmer frame wheels. .quick getaway. ...they could be mingers.

lots of BLJ... (bareback lubrication jelly)

fill the hiace with green

Party time !!!!!

Lmfao....green diesel...#borderpeeps"
......yes......we operate a ..ahem. ...laundry. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Towel...

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Viagra

Go pro

Extra Tena pants

Toothpicks (pubic hair removal)

Wet and dry hoover (squirting)

De fib...just being cautious. .

Good splash of brut

Oil the zimmer frame wheels. .quick getaway. ...they could be mingers.

lots of BLJ... (bareback lubrication jelly)

fill the hiace with green

Party time !!!!!"

We have used a go pro before they are quite handy lol

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By *ubFunHuntersCouple
over a year ago

dublin


"We are going to our first even next weekend. This is super exciting and terrifying all at the same time. I can't explain how deep each emotion is for us.

I find comfort in being organised so I have started a check list. Things that need to be done to ensure that the night goes as well as possible. It's been 20 years since I had to think of this sorta thing so I'm worried I will miss stuff. So far I have

There is the obvious cleanliness stuff, Baby sitters, hotel, haircut, beard trim, nails cut nice and short, condoms, rope x 2 ... and I'm sure I'm forgetting a heap.

What's your check list before you go to a meet or event?

"

If its in a private venue dont forget a bottle for your hosts, its still a party after all and its good to be a good guest.

Something we find people often forget esp the effort some people often go to host

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excellent points made there. Many thanks to you all. You have helped put our minds at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handsome - check

That is all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Handsome - check

That is all "

Some of us need all the help we can get tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Handsome - check

That is all

Some of us need all the help we can get tho "

Some of us do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1)Perfume

2)Extra nickers if staying overnight

3)Plastic bag for your dirty nickers etc

3)Change of shirt/top

4)a pair of flat shoes

5)a vest top for wearing in bed in case you get cold

6)Money of course

7)Make sure car is filled up with petrol if driving

8)make-up

9)toothbrush & toothpaste

10)chewing gum

11)condoms & toys

That's it for now!! Will come back if there's more!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u arrived at mine with rope id b like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If u arrived at mine with rope id b like "

The rope is for wifey. It's an acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1)Perfume

2)Extra nickers if staying overnight

3)Plastic bag for your dirty nickers etc

3)Change of shirt/top

4)a pair of flat shoes

5)a vest top for wearing in bed in case you get cold

6)Money of course

7)Make sure car is filled up with petrol if driving

8)make-up

9)toothbrush & toothpaste

10)chewing gum

11)condoms & toys

That's it for now!! Will come back if there's more!! "
They are good ones. Gum is essential

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"I keep my bold bag in the Jeep so I'm always good to go so don't need to think of anything really.

Has the usual stuff i might need.

condoms

shower gel

lube

wet wipes

Mouth wash

Toothbrush and toothpaste

Toys

Other more kinky items that can be seen on one of my pics .....

I like to be ready in case I'm required somewhere..

"

He's more like a sexy McIvor!

Al sorts of goodies in that bag.,

I've a little bag I bring with:

Lube

Condoms

Wipes

Mini vibe

Mints

Paracetamol

More condoms that are used for toys only

Then the other bag with various stuff..

Undies/stockings/knickers/corsets

Also.. Bring a few bottles of water!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"If u arrived at mine with rope id b like

The rope is for wifey. It's an acquired taste "

I was left with 10ft of rope after a meet recently.. Much better than using cable ties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u arrived at mine with rope id b like

The rope is for wifey. It's an acquired taste

I was left with 10ft of rope after a meet recently.. Much better than using cable ties "

good stuff , anyone who uses cable ties for play is quite silly .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If u arrived at mine with rope id b like

The rope is for wifey. It's an acquired taste

I was left with 10ft of rope after a meet recently.. Much better than using cable ties

good stuff , anyone who uses cable ties for play is quite silly . "

I tried cable ties once but it didn't feel right. Ugly and cold. And getting them off wasn't nice either. Rope is much better

Taking off rope is part of the scene. It gives finality to the play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are going to our first even next weekend. This is super exciting and terrifying all at the same time. I can't explain how deep each emotion is for us.

I find comfort in being organised so I have started a check list. Things that need to be done to ensure that the night goes as well as possible. It's been 20 years since I had to think of this sorta thing so I'm worried I will miss stuff. So far I have

There is the obvious cleanliness stuff, Baby sitters, hotel, haircut, beard trim, nails cut nice and short, condoms, rope x 2 ... and I'm sure I'm forgetting a heap.

What's your check list before you go to a meet or event?

i think you are prepared well enough,just one thing make sure you both enjoy your night

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"We are going to our first even next weekend. This is super exciting and terrifying all at the same time. I can't explain how deep each emotion is for us.

I find comfort in being organised so I have started a check list. Things that need to be done to ensure that the night goes as well as possible. It's been 20 years since I had to think of this sorta thing so I'm worried I will miss stuff. So far I have

There is the obvious cleanliness stuff, Baby sitters, hotel, haircut, beard trim, nails cut nice and short, condoms, rope x 2 ... and I'm sure I'm forgetting a heap.

What's your check list before you go to a meet or event?

"
cable ties...

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Fail to prepare, prepare to fail...

But don't be stressing just go and enjoy it.

It's usually better that way

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