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Can an honest profile work against you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here's the thing; I'm primarily looking for one on one sex, but I've always been excited by the thought of group sex (probably because I remember it as the first porn I saw), so it's something I would like to experience in the near future. I state this on my profile, but i'm starting to think it's working against me.

It seems to be when I email women that are newly single and only looking for men, they look at my profile and doesn't even bother reading the emails. Whereas other women/couples, are at least seem more receptive, and will engage.

Therefore, do you think an honest profile can go against you? Do you think you or ever have been dismissed/judged, solely for being open to more possibilities other than what a large part of society would seem as "normal" sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's the thing; I'm primarily looking for one on one sex, but I've always been excited by the thought of group sex (probably because I remember it as the first porn I saw), so it's something I would like to experience in the near future. I state this on my profile, but i'm starting to think it's working against me.

It seems to be when I email women that are newly single and only looking for men, they look at my profile and doesn't even bother reading the emails. Whereas other women/couples, are at least seem more receptive, and will engage.

Therefore, do you think an honest profile can go against you? Do you think you or ever have been dismissed/judged, solely for being open to more possibilities other than what a large part of society would seem as "normal" sex?"

This is very simple to answer. Some people into group stuff some are not. Ofcourse some people will be put off by this, same as if ur looking sub, anal etc. Theres plenty of recently single girls into group fun , they may not be up for group fun with someone theyve only met tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself to some socials or meet and greets... post away here and people will get to know you a bit...

Nothing wrong with being honest... best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,

I don't think an honest profile goes against you at all.

Mine is honest and truthful and I don't have any issues/problems

I think it's more about the person you're mailing, what they're looking for etc and also the content of your messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay honest...such a turn off wen u start sussing out lies. Plenty of kinky women on dis..I'm sure ul find one. Keep swimming Nemo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing..... "

Off to confession with you two...am shocked to hear there are liars among us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing.....

Off to confession with you two...am shocked to hear there are liars among us!"
....confession. ..?...my knees are sore from last night. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it honest, nothing worse than finding out that what's on the profile is a lie, instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half the head wreck is sussing out the bs. Honesty is what works here...and can be brutal at time's

Hat tip to yours...you are here to fulfill your needs, better to be upfront as it's harder to say stuff after. Maybe add that while it's a fantasy that you would like to try, it doesn't mean you want that from every meet. Most women will get that any way. Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always say I you don't ask , you won't get Amazing what can happen on here if ya ask the right person lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great to get some thoughts. I don't think I explained it well enough, though. When I contact a single woman, I'm solely contacting on the premise of a one-on-one meet. Only when I message couples, is under the premise of a threesome. I just thought that maybe one-on-one sex would work against me, when she reads my profile and discover I'm open to other possibilities with other people? Once again though, cheers for all the feedback!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing.....

Off to confession with you two...am shocked to hear there are liars among us!....confession. ..?...my knees are sore from last night. .... "

That was your penance...suffer in style dahling

If all else fails...look up ata girl knee pads...they work a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always say I you don't ask , you won't get Amazing what can happen on here if ya ask the right person lol "

Ya never know

Op listen to this guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single women get the most Mail on here. Therefore have the greatest choice. It may not be your preferences it could be any number of things. For every guy on here getting responses from females is difficult. Being dishonest won't make that easier. You have no real idea what the person you're mailing is going to find attractive, so how could you modify your profile to a one size fits all approach? Just be honest but accept the fact that a lot of the time you just won't get a response.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Honesty is the best policy......the instant someone lies to me the wall goes up whether it's a stranger or a friend.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great to get some thoughts. I don't think I explained it well enough, though. When I contact a single woman, I'm solely contacting on the premise of a one-on-one meet. Only when I message couples, is under the premise of a threesome. I just thought that maybe one-on-one sex would work against me, when she reads my profile and discover I'm open to other possibilities with other people? Once again though, cheers for all the feedback! "
All well and good but just dont ask the ladies to bring a friend or find another lady on here for your 3 sum .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great to get some thoughts. I don't think I explained it well enough, though. When I contact a single woman, I'm solely contacting on the premise of a one-on-one meet. Only when I message couples, is under the premise of a threesome. I just thought that maybe one-on-one sex would work against me, when she reads my profile and discover I'm open to other possibilities with other people? Once again though, cheers for all the feedback! All well and good but just dont ask the ladies to bring a friend or find another lady on here for your 3 sum . "

Note to self let Sexy blue eyes instigate the discussion don't bring it up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point in not being honest with your profile. If you don't float others boats cos of your interests then so be it. Better that, than wasting each others time. Honesty on here is best policy

Good luck OP

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By *alwayBlackcockMan
over a year ago

Galway

I wouldn't say lying on your profile will make your life any easier! Everyone has what they're into and that is yours so stick to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with being honest. You don't have to worry about getting caught up in your own lies then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always say I you don't ask , you won't get Amazing what can happen on here if ya ask the right person lol

Ya never know

Op listen to this guy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great to get some thoughts. I don't think I explained it well enough, though. When I contact a single woman, I'm solely contacting on the premise of a one-on-one meet. Only when I message couples, is under the premise of a threesome. I just thought that maybe one-on-one sex would work against me, when she reads my profile and discover I'm open to other possibilities with other people? Once again though, cheers for all the feedback! "

This is fab, everyones open to other posibilites.lol. Im sure ur wanting a threesome or moresome has no bearing on a lady wanting to meet or not. Dont over think things and get used to 90% of messages being deleted and ull do grand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No point in not being honest with your profile. If you don't float others boats cos of your interests then so be it. Better that, than wasting each others time. Honesty on here is best policy

Good luck OP "

I agree but it's very frustrating when you are completely honest on your profile and people don't read it. Then when you've chatted for a while all of a sudden someone will block you because in my case I'm married. If they had taken the time to read my profile first then it would have not wasted my time and theirs. That's why when I message someone for the first time I always ask them to have a look at my profile first before they decide wether to reply or not.

Ps I like your new tattoo.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

stay honest. its such a rare thing on here but its appreciated and noticed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No point in not being honest with your profile. If you don't float others boats cos of your interests then so be it. Better that, than wasting each others time. Honesty on here is best policy

Good luck OP

I agree but it's very frustrating when you are completely honest on your profile and people don't read it. Then when you've chatted for a while all of a sudden someone will block you because in my case I'm married. If they had taken the time to read my profile first then it would have not wasted my time and theirs. That's why when I message someone for the first time I always ask them to have a look at my profile first before they decide wether to reply or not.

Ps I like your new tattoo."
.....jesus man, what's wrong with you!!!.. coming on here ans telling everyone you're married. ... someone could get seriously injured here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No point in not being honest with your profile. If you don't float others boats cos of your interests then so be it. Better that, than wasting each others time. Honesty on here is best policy

Good luck OP

I agree but it's very frustrating when you are completely honest on your profile and people don't read it. Then when you've chatted for a while all of a sudden someone will block you because in my case I'm married. If they had taken the time to read my profile first then it would have not wasted my time and theirs. That's why when I message someone for the first time I always ask them to have a look at my profile first before they decide wether to reply or not.

Ps I like your new tattoo......jesus man, what's wrong with you!!!.. coming on here ans telling everyone you're married. ... someone could get seriously injured here "

AHHHH Bi BiBaby.... dont draw attention to someone who might bring Part 2 on this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No point in not being honest with your profile. If you don't float others boats cos of your interests then so be it. Better that, than wasting each others time. Honesty on here is best policy

Good luck OP

I agree but it's very frustrating when you are completely honest on your profile and people don't read it. Then when you've chatted for a while all of a sudden someone will block you because in my case I'm married. If they had taken the time to read my profile first then it would have not wasted my time and theirs. That's why when I message someone for the first time I always ask them to have a look at my profile first before they decide wether to reply or not.

Ps I like your new tattoo......jesus man, what's wrong with you!!!.. coming on here ans telling everyone you're married. ... someone could get seriously injured here

AHHHH Bi BiBaby.... dont draw attention to someone who might bring Part 2 on this thread lol"
....sssshh...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing.....

Off to confession with you two...am shocked to hear there are liars among us!....confession. ..?...my knees are sore from last night. ....

That was your penance...suffer in style dahling

If all else fails...look up ata girl knee pads...they work a treat"

And look up into his eyes while you're at it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and you can't go wrong...If youre not you'll not last long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no idea what your on about!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing.....

Off to confession with you two...am shocked to hear there are liars among us!....confession. ..?...my knees are sore from last night. ....

That was your penance...suffer in style dahling

If all else fails...look up ata girl knee pads...they work a treat

And look up into his eyes while you're at it...."
...There was a few of them. .do you want me to go crosseyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have absolutely no idea what your on about!!! "

Dont worry you dont wanna small joke from other thread

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

keep it honest..better chance of meeting someone with the same interest /position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing.....

Off to confession with you two...am shocked to hear there are liars among us!....confession. ..?...my knees are sore from last night. ....

That was your penance...suffer in style dahling

If all else fails...look up ata girl knee pads...they work a treat

And look up into his eyes while you're at it.......There was a few of them. .do you want me to go crosseyed "

gum shield I hope..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie through our teeth. ...thankfully nobody suspects a thing.....

Off to confession with you two...am shocked to hear there are liars among us!....confession. ..?...my knees are sore from last night. ....

That was your penance...suffer in style dahling

If all else fails...look up ata girl knee pads...they work a treat

And look up into his eyes while you're at it.......There was a few of them. .do you want me to go crosseyed

gum shield I hope.. "
....au natural for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord I can feel my soul burning already and I'm only reading this conversation!! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky you werent reading another thread convo or you would be damned to hell and burnt at the stake for yer crimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky you werent reading another thread convo or you would be damned to hell and burnt at the stake for yer crimes lol"

could turn into a bareback soon lol and get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky you werent reading another thread convo or you would be damned to hell and burnt at the stake for yer crimes lol

could turn into a bareback soon lol and get deleted "

That never happens on Fab everybody loves everybody on here there is no judgement of peoples lifestyle here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky you werent reading another thread convo or you would be damned to hell and burnt at the stake for yer crimes lol

could turn into a bareback soon lol and get deleted

That never happens on Fab everybody loves everybody on here there is no judgement of peoples lifestyle here lol"

Indeed.... especially if you have an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I missed that one I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish more men were honest. I'm a closed book if I feel someone is being dishonest to me. Very unattractive and seems kinda pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad I missed that one I think."

i wish i had as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish more men were honest. I'm a closed book if I feel someone is being dishonest to me. Very unattractive and seems kinda pointless "

This is a question that has proved difficult about honesty. How would you feel if someone had a different DOB on here than their real one..... In the light of it being an 'underground' activity, being an Internet site, being viewed by many even under aged people and with the way that Google, FB and many other apps infiltrate you contacts and activities often without you reaslising?

My DOB is not my real one because I learnt the hard way unfortunately....even with the FAB so called search engine filter on. All those I've met know that and have know it before we have met and it's never lost me a meet....but on here in display it's not .

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'd always be honest on here. I don't need to lie because I have a 14" cock and a beautifully sculpted body.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

An honest profile should never work against you. It's just another filter. If they don't like your honesty that's their problem, not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself. What happens if you lie and attract the woman of your dreams but she sees you are not 4 inches taller (or longer) or not into pegging (random example). Why would she have sex with you?

Or what if you attract someone you are not attracted to and they turn up looking to get laid ??

Nah. I would rather be alone than lie and be with someone under false pretences lying is too much work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's quite a difference between being honest and divulging too much information about yourself.

Keep it to the point and relevant to this site.

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