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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I approach the subject of swinging with my partner as I have been swinging before and interested to see what her feelings are on the subject. She did confess one night that she has been with other women many years ago. All advice will be greatly accepted.

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and ask. If she says no she's says no. Don't try and convince her to do anything she doesn't want to do

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Tell her you have been on a swinging site for over year. Stand back and wait.....

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Tell her you have been on a swinging site for over year. Stand back and wait..... "

And have your webcam open in the chatroom when you do it.. give us plenty of notice so we can get the beer and popcorn supplies in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her you have been on a swinging site for over year. Stand back and wait.....

And have your webcam open in the chatroom when you do it.. give us plenty of notice so we can get the beer and popcorn supplies in "

Fooey has a BBQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't coax.

Just be honest. You have swung in the past and if it's something that she is interested in, you can answer any questions she has.

It's something she has to want in herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, openness and clarity with mutual respect and consent is how I see it. Good luck and hope it swings your way

Hope to see you in the couple's list soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty, openness and clarity with mutual respect and consent is how I see it. Good luck and hope it swings your way

Hope to see you in the couple's list soon

"

^ What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty, openness and clarity with mutual respect and consent is how I see it. Good luck and hope it swings your way

Hope to see you in the couple's list soon

^ What she said "

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty, openness and clarity with mutual respect and consent is how I see it. Good luck and hope it swings your way

Hope to see you in the couple's list soon

^ What she said

;)"

you said it better

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Tell her you have been on a swinging site for over year. Stand back and wait.....

And have your webcam open in the chatroom when you do it.. give us plenty of notice so we can get the beer and popcorn supplies in

Fooey has a BBQ "
better than the ireland match lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks every one for the advice and yes I think honesty is the best way but will see how it goes, Our sex life has not been great since our child was born 2 years ago but know that can put some women off fun times and am just being patient here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks every one for the advice and yes I think honesty is the best way but will see how it goes, Our sex life has not been great since our child was born 2 years ago but know that can put some women off fun times and am just being patient here."

Swinging might not help with that. To be honest, to swing as a couple you guys need to be strong in your relationship

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Thanks every one for the advice and yes I think honesty is the best way but will see how it goes, Our sex life has not been great since our child was born 2 years ago but know that can put some women off fun times and am just being patient here."

So let me get this straight you think honesty is the best policy . But you have been swinging for over a year after you had a child

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Thanks every one for the advice and yes I think honesty is the best way but will see how it goes, Our sex life has not been great since our child was born 2 years ago but know that can put some women off fun times and am just being patient here.

So let me get this straight you think honesty is the best policy . But you have been swinging for over a year after you had a child "

And he's being patient.

By swinging for a year, behind her back, after she's had a child and isn't feeling great about herself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I was swinging before I met her and have been a member of this site since 2000 can I just clear this up here (not been active since meeting her 3 years ago). I have a few good friends on here and was just wondering what would be the best way to spice our sex life up again hence asking the advice on here

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"No I was swinging before I met her and have been a member of this site since 2000 can I just clear this up here (not been active since meeting her 3 years ago). I have a few good friends on here and was just wondering what would be the best way to spice our sex life up again hence asking the advice on here"

Ok well then tell her about your past sex life and ask if its something she would like to do ?

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