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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From chatting to a few women on here location seems to be a major stumbling block even though I drive. How much for you is location am issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location is quite an issue for me.

I don't have a car so can't travel. I don't like anyone saying they'll travel a long way to meet me as I promise nothing more than a coffee on a first meet. For some that message me that live a distance away theres an expectation of more as they are travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sur as long as it's not decaf.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theirs or yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sur as long as it's not decaf....."

Never decaf! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sur as long as it's not decaf.....

Never decaf! Lol "

What a waste of a trip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theirs or yours?"
theirs. I have yet to talk too a woman who said she would travel to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theirs or yours?theirs. I have yet to talk too a woman who said she would travel to me "

So they won't let you travel to them?

I travelled further than the last person I met for coffee...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theirs or yours?theirs. I have yet to talk too a woman who said she would travel to me

So they won't let you travel to them?

I travelled further than the last person I met for coffee..."
exactly to your first bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theirs or yours?theirs. I have yet to talk too a woman who said she would travel to me

So they won't let you travel to them?

I travelled further than the last person I met for coffee...exactly to your first bit"

Hmmmm? Strange alright.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theirs or yours?theirs. I have yet to talk too a woman who said she would travel to me

So they won't let you travel to them?

I travelled further than the last person I met for coffee...exactly to your first bit

Hmmmm? Strange alright."
my thoughts exactly

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Maybe it's just an excuse...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just an excuse..."
possibly. Who knows

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I'd be the same.

Someone travelling from Mayo for example will be expecting more than just a coffee. Sorry.. It's a coffee. So I'm not going to have them drive that distance.

It's also a convenience thing.. You're certainly not going to get to booty call someone 250km away on a Saturday night or whatever. Whereas if the person is close by and you hit it off then there's the option of playtime without a 2-3hr drive involved.. More time for play than feckin driving.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be the same.

Someone travelling from Mayo for example will be expecting more than just a coffee. Sorry.. It's a coffee. So I'm not going to have them drive that distance.

It's also a convenience thing.. You're certainly not going to get to booty call someone 250km away on a Saturday night or whatever. Whereas if the person is close by and you hit it off then there's the option of playtime without a 2-3hr drive involved.. More time for play than feckin driving. "
If someone happened to be in dublin 4 something and asked would you Meet them, what would you say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be the same.

Someone travelling from Mayo for example will be expecting more than just a coffee. Sorry.. It's a coffee. So I'm not going to have them drive that distance.

It's also a convenience thing.. You're certainly not going to get to booty call someone 250km away on a Saturday night or whatever. Whereas if the person is close by and you hit it off then there's the option of playtime without a 2-3hr drive involved.. More time for play than feckin driving. If someone happened to be in dublin 4 something and asked would you Meet them, what would you say?"
sorry meath

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Feckin dubs trying to take over parts of Meath as well as Kildare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always end up doing the travelling! And usually cross country too! Although I agree with the added pressure if someone travelled to me. Least if I'm the one that travelled I can hop in the car guilt free and head off home if there was no connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always end up doing the travelling! And usually cross country too! Although I agree with the added pressure if someone travelled to me. Least if I'm the one that travelled I can hop in the car guilt free and head off home if there was no connection "

Exactly this! ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always end up doing the travelling! And usually cross country too! Although I agree with the added pressure if someone travelled to me. Least if I'm the one that travelled I can hop in the car guilt free and head off home if there was no connection "

Clever gal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree when said it's alot to travel for just a tea/coffee. It must be nice living in the bigger cities with the choice u have

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I always end up doing the travelling! And usually cross country too! Although I agree with the added pressure if someone travelled to me. Least if I'm the one that travelled I can hop in the car guilt free and head off home if there was no connection "

Most women drivers go cross country, mostly unintentionally though.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I always end up doing the travelling! And usually cross country too! Although I agree with the added pressure if someone travelled to me. Least if I'm the one that travelled I can hop in the car guilt free and head off home if there was no connection

Most women drivers go cross country, mostly unintentionally though. "

I'm a good girl and always do what the Garmin tells me

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure. "

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!! "

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?"

Well if a guy travels hours he will be hungry, bit mean if he can only have a coffee and not be allowed a sandwich!!

Not sure what Sub of the Day is... need to check what's on the Menu!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?

Well if a guy travels hours he will be hungry, bit mean if he can only have a coffee and not be allowed a sandwich!!

Not sure what Sub of the Day is... need to check what's on the Menu! "

Tasty delight's

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?

Well if a guy travels hours he will be hungry, bit mean if he can only have a coffee and not be allowed a sandwich!!

Not sure what Sub of the Day is... need to check what's on the Menu!

Tasty delight's "

Something hot and spicy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?

Well if a guy travels hours he will be hungry, bit mean if he can only have a coffee and not be allowed a sandwich!!

Not sure what Sub of the Day is... need to check what's on the Menu!

Tasty delight's

Something hot and spicy?? "

The spice of life...can you handle the heat

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?

Well if a guy travels hours he will be hungry, bit mean if he can only have a coffee and not be allowed a sandwich!!

Not sure what Sub of the Day is... need to check what's on the Menu!

Tasty delight's

Something hot and spicy??

The spice of life...can you handle the heat"

Much better than the cold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hot n spicy, i like ur thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?

Well if a guy travels hours he will be hungry, bit mean if he can only have a coffee and not be allowed a sandwich!!

Not sure what Sub of the Day is... need to check what's on the Menu!

Tasty delight's

Something hot and spicy??

The spice of life...can you handle the heat

Much better than the cold! "

Me too... can't handle the cold at all...and it looks more complimentary on women than guy's

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Its an issue for me also, as someone has said, i wouldn't expect them to drive hours just for a coffee and i don't need the extra pressure.

Nothing wrong if guy wants to get a sandwich with his coffee!!

Guy's and their sambo's ....obsessed enough to go to great lengths for it....so what's the sub of the day?

Well if a guy travels hours he will be hungry, bit mean if he can only have a coffee and not be allowed a sandwich!!

Not sure what Sub of the Day is... need to check what's on the Menu!

Tasty delight's

Something hot and spicy??

The spice of life...can you handle the heat

Much better than the cold!

Me too... can't handle the cold at all...and it looks more complimentary on women than guy's"

AHHH.. ye olde goose pimples I presume!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location is a problem at times.

Too close is a no no - I don't wanna bump into you on my lunch break!

Too far is just Gona create frustrations

My ideal meet would live a max 40 min drive away and could accomdate and travel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Location is a problem at times.

Too close is a no no - I don't wanna bump into you on my lunch break!

Too far is just Gona create frustrations

My ideal meet would live a max 40 min drive away and could accomdate and travel.

"
Would it make a difference if ye did bump into him?

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By *avid40701Man
over a year ago

mayo

Its a big kicker in mayo, even though I don't mind travelling!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I always end up doing the travelling! And usually cross country too! Although I agree with the added pressure if someone travelled to me. Least if I'm the one that travelled I can hop in the car guilt free and head off home if there was no connection

Most women drivers go cross country, mostly unintentionally though.

I'm a good girl and always do what the Garmin tells me "

When yer wan wrote that book "to school through the fields" what she failed to mention was that she was trying to drive on the road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Location is a problem at times.

Too close is a no no - I don't wanna bump into you on my lunch break!

Too far is just Gona create frustrations

My ideal meet would live a max 40 min drive away and could accomdate and travel.

Would it make a difference if ye did bump into him?"

I just prefer to reduce the risk of that happening... Or worse he could come into my work with the wife and kids. No ta!

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By *urganguy123sMan
over a year ago

magheralin


"Location is a problem at times.

Too close is a no no - I don't wanna bump into you on my lunch break!

Too far is just Gona create frustrations

My ideal meet would live a max 40 min drive away and could accomdate and travel.

Would it make a difference if ye did bump into him?

I just prefer to reduce the risk of that happening... Or worse he could come into my work with the wife and kids. No ta!"

I'm 40 mins away from you think I could help lol. Jkjk.

Just to follow up on other people's thoughts I have no issue travelling long distances as if their is no attraction on their side then it means they haven't wasted a journey.

If they were travelling to me tho I would feel terrible so I get the distance issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location is huge, we have a young family so getting time to set aside to meet is difficult.

People usually say oh we'll drive or we can meet half way but it's not really an option and especially for unverified people.

We like the distance to be short enough that if in an emergency we can rush home or that we could have a fun night and then head home after easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anything more than an hours drive is too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Realistically best way to meet with a location problem is at a meet and greet

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We dont mind travelling for parties or to meet people we have met before , for new people , we would defo have to have that connection with them if they lived a good distance away .

Mrs crazy

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