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"Do u not know alot of guys think were here to have sex wit all the guys sure we dont even need to see pix of them sure . " I know is geting very sad here | |||
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"Sure I'll meet yas if you's are stuck " ha ha I know u do good luck on the site lovely man | |||
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"Sure I'll meet yas if you's are stuck ha ha I know u do good luck on the site lovely man " why lhankyou nice lady | |||
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"I know what you mean. I think as there are so many men then us women shouldn't complain. But it's tricky finding one you're attracted to that's relatively sane and not all talk " What would u'd men do if women had anything to complain about I love a good moaner though | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really" think we the same xxx | |||
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"Alot of guys are all talk, but then again some women are just as bad. But ya you have to be attracted to a person in some way. A connection is needed. People shouldn't get all bent out of shape if a person isn't attracted to them. I see that in the status' alot, people going mad because a person said they weren't their type. I hope you stick with it, you will find the one you're looking for in time." I'm straight to the point if I don't like someone I just say not my type if they get offended not my problem no point in been here chating for ages if no atraction | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really" Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly. | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world " As a man I'm finding it hard to find a genuine woman on here. Loads of guys posing as women to get attention and pics. I guess it works both ways I'm just a genuine fella looking a genuine girl. Not all the women on the site. These forums are a good way of meeting new people | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly. " I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly. I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them " I agree socials is the way | |||
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"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets. the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. " good for u enjoy and have fun I love to be fussy and I put this forum so guys see that's not only them having a problem finding meetings | |||
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"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets. the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. " I know right. Women | |||
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"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets. the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. good for u enjoy and have fun I love to be fussy and I put this forum so guys see that's not only them having a problem finding meetings " It's our right to be fussy. | |||
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"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets. the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. I know right. Women " lovely pictures | |||
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"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets. the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. I know right. Women lovely pictures " Thanks | |||
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"As a guy, who's doing a thesis on the swinging lifestyle, I'm finding it hard to get people to send me their pics..... God knows why!? " | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly. I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them I agree socials is the way " | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast " But I don't live in Belfast! | |||
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"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets. the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. " | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast But I don't live in Belfast! " Do you not realise Sydney is even further away than Belfast? | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast But I don't live in Belfast! Do you not realise Sydney is even further away than Belfast?" Ah BALLS!! | |||
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"I try to to nice and respectful when I send a message ask if the might care to chat about meet for coffee if no spark no hard but don't get many messages back so I do agree it's hard to get a meeting with a nice lady on fab but you just have to keep trying " I have to day I have not found it hard to get a meet.i have met some wonderful ladies, have great friends on here, maybe im just lucky. | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly. I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them I agree socials is the way " For some not all. As I said not for me. There have been issues here where some are not invited too or decline to return because one or two whom they have had issues with are going. I get that too especially in such a small island. So coffee or lunch it is for me. I just have socials outside of the fab arena .... | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world " in actually getting some of these messages from male users or a very good one is "Hi do you know anyone who wants to suck the big cock" with a picture attatched. Aye haul on a minute and I'll ring around for you here | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast But I don't live in Belfast! Do you not realise Sydney is even further away than Belfast? Ah BALLS!! " Let's all move.... I hear Iceland does it with cream on top | |||
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"...but I like to send cock pics. Mine is exquisite. Mine is unique. It's like me, it's special " Very special | |||
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"...but I like to send cock pics. Mine is exquisite. Mine is unique. It's like me, it's special Very special " | |||
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"...but I like to send cock pics. Mine is exquisite. Mine is unique. It's like me, it's special Very special " Oopss | |||
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"...but I like to send cock pics. Mine is exquisite. Mine is unique. It's like me, it's special Very special " I concur! | |||
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"I know what you mean. I think as there are so many men then us women shouldn't complain. But it's tricky finding one you're attracted to that's relatively sane and not all talk What would u'd men do if women had anything to complain about I love a good moaner though " Happy Moanday | |||
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"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex" I believe they call it sexstrating! | |||
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"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex I believe they call it sexstrating! " No, that's men-struating! | |||
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"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex" No ...what?...quickly looks up Google for help and is enlighten by Wikipedia on the subject... | |||
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"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex I believe they call it sexstrating! No, that's men-struating! " Haha I see what u did there! | |||
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"why don't you just do your own search on here? message the guy/guys that you might think would fit your criteria. " | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly. I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them I agree socials is the way " Plus people are way more relaxed and chilled out and flirty and really sexy looking when we're all dressed up and having fun Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! | |||
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"Funny while people finding hard to find a meet someone is organising a social event in limerick isnt that a good way to meet people. Surely OP knows about that since she organises lots of parties at her place" Dont think thats what op ment | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast " Swords isn't miles away | |||
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"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets. the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. " Oh DH please say you Are fussy, otherwise what hope is there for the likes of me (who you're not interested in) | |||
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"Hard to find women ur attracted to also. The pool is very small " It will be now! | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast " Sure move to newry , right side of the border and still close to the south if u get homesick for the strange tayto u lot eat | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly. I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them I agree socials is the way Plus people are way more relaxed and chilled out and flirty and really sexy looking when we're all dressed up and having fun Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! " Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system. | |||
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" Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system." You can't beat good coffee filters!! | |||
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" Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system. You can't beat good coffee filters!! " And the bean has to be of good quality too | |||
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" Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system. You can't beat good coffee filters!! And the bean has to be of good quality too" Of course... and hand picked! | |||
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"Same up here in Derry, hard for an ordinary decent man to get a meet of any sort " Even harder for guys in Limavady.. | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world " you have 224 verifications how much sex do you want. I think your having a laugh | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world you have 224 verifications how much sex do you want. I think your having a laugh " looks like someone cant read how sad | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world you have 224 verifications how much sex do you want. I think your having a laugh " might be wrong here but i get feeling you wont be number 225 | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world you have 224 verifications how much sex do you want. I think your having a laugh " She has no veri summary up - you surely didn't count them did you? | |||
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"I know what you mean. I think as there are so many men then us women shouldn't complain. But it's tricky finding one you're attracted to that's relatively sane and not all talk " I'm sane and talk fuck all I think | |||
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" Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system. You can't beat good coffee filters!! And the bean has to be of good quality too" Only the best selected few without a over used by date stamped clearly for all to see is used | |||
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" Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system. You can't beat good coffee filters!! And the bean has to be of good quality too Only the best selected few without a over used by date stamped clearly for all to see is used " just don't make a mug of yourself at coffee meets! | |||
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" Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!! Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system. You can't beat good coffee filters!! And the bean has to be of good quality too Only the best selected few without a over used by date stamped clearly for all to see is used " Mmm what a great brew that would be...even having to wait while it sits and stews...smelling it's aroma...almost tasting it in advance but the wait makes it all the better | |||
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"Well I mail u saying hi how are you would you like to meet for a coffee sometime and a chat just to gt to knw each other a bit and see if ur still interested after. I didn't gt a reply but I didn't send pic tho????" Maybe you are "On Hold"?? | |||
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"We haven't had any coffee meets (though we're not opposed to them), we prefer to meet over drinks at a bar. Why make a potentially awkward meet more awkward with caffeine? " Because some people don't want to drink and drive... | |||
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"We haven't had any coffee meets (though we're not opposed to them), we prefer to meet over drinks at a bar. Why make a potentially awkward meet more awkward with caffeine? Because some people don't want to drink and drive..." Neither do we, that's what Hailo is for. But that might not be the best for everyone. To each their own! | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast " I have to agree, seems like all the women and couples here that are up for meeting are all based in the North. Must be something in the air up there? | |||
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"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast I have to agree, seems like all the women and couples here that are up for meeting are all based in the North. Must be something in the air up there?" But we say the same....If you move here then the turf isn't as nice... I was contemplating moving a while back. | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world in actually getting some of these messages from male users or a very good one is "Hi do you know anyone who wants to suck the big cock" with a picture attatched. Aye haul on a minute and I'll ring around for you here " | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really" A lot of single men and women find it very difficult to get involved in those meet and greets. And if they do turn up on their own they are treated like pariahs unless they already know several people there....the odds are stacked against the singletons in that sense. | |||
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"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really A lot of single men and women find it very difficult to get involved in those meet and greets. And if they do turn up on their own they are treated like pariahs unless they already know several people there....the odds are stacked against the singletons in that sense." Wow...found a woman who makes alot of sense on the M&G topic. My 2 experiences were a complete put off by the way couples behaved towards you at them....kinda eBay for adults approach and very cliquey. As a result I've made my way on here without using them at all and much happier. I've heard they are different over here but it put me off completely. | |||
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"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world " I think i know what the problem is,you look so amazing in those pictures that actually alot of guys are starstruck of you and i wouldnt blame them!! | |||
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"I see your problem B, I'd a meet up for tonight and zilch " .i mailed ya....but ..eh..zilch... . .it's not easy to be fair... everyone has their type and can be tricky If no one your type mails... | |||
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"Are we now typing about types" ..sorry..dont type about types..just type about the type of thing typically you like... | |||
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"I see your problem B, I'd a meet up for tonight and zilch .i mailed ya....but ..eh..zilch... . .it's not easy to be fair... everyone has their type and can be tricky If no one your type mails..." I did reply back. I told u that was my most favourite place | |||
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"This site is 2 things.....addictive yet dissapointing!i love having the craic, have spoken to a couple of nice people here and there but my god it's so hard to get a meet. So hard to even get verified.....site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head " Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say. | |||
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"This site is 2 things.....addictive yet dissapointing!i love having the craic, have spoken to a couple of nice people here and there but my god it's so hard to get a meet. So hard to even get verified.....site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say. Charming Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them? " Why does it matter to you? Iv an honest profile...I could have pretended to be single and go about it that way!thats not my style so I went with honesty. It's not everyone's cup of tea but I'm entitled to go about my life how I like right? | |||
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"This site is 2 things.....addictive yet dissapointing!i love having the craic, have spoken to a couple of nice people here and there but my god it's so hard to get a meet. So hard to even get verified.....site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say. Charming Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them? Why does it matter to you? Iv an honest profile...I could have pretended to be single and go about it that way!thats not my style so I went with honesty. It's not everyone's cup of tea but I'm entitled to go about my life how I like right?" Hahaha the honest thief is it? Your profile is for any site member to view and your thread is public looking for feedback. Don't like it? Don't ask. It pisses me off because even though life is hard I try my best to live it with integrity and decency. I make mistakes but I try not to hurt people. When I do I apologise and try to learn from it. Our time on this earth is fucking short and you ate making your partners time on this earth a lie and a joke. You don't care? That's reason number uno that nobody will meet you. In my opinion you are the opposite of what swinging is supposed to be about. | |||
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"This site is 2 things.....addictive yet dissapointing!i love having the craic, have spoken to a couple of nice people here and there but my god it's so hard to get a meet. So hard to even get verified.....site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say. Charming Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them? Why does it matter to you? Iv an honest profile...I could have pretended to be single and go about it that way!thats not my style so I went with honesty. It's not everyone's cup of tea but I'm entitled to go about my life how I like right? Hahaha the honest thief is it? Your profile is for any site member to view and your thread is public looking for feedback. Don't like it? Don't ask. It pisses me off because even though life is hard I try my best to live it with integrity and decency. I make mistakes but I try not to hurt people. When I do I apologise and try to learn from it. Our time on this earth is fucking short and you ate making your partners time on this earth a lie and a joke. You don't care? That's reason number uno that nobody will meet you. In my opinion you are the opposite of what swinging is supposed to be about. " There is always one | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit " Hmmmm sporran | |||
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"This site is 2 things.....addictive yet dissapointing!i love having the craic, have spoken to a couple of nice people here and there but my god it's so hard to get a meet. So hard to even get verified.....site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say. Charming Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them? Why does it matter to you? Iv an honest profile...I could have pretended to be single and go about it that way!thats not my style so I went with honesty. It's not everyone's cup of tea but I'm entitled to go about my life how I like right? Hahaha the honest thief is it? Your profile is for any site member to view and your thread is public looking for feedback. Don't like it? Don't ask. It pisses me off because even though life is hard I try my best to live it with integrity and decency. I make mistakes but I try not to hurt people. When I do I apologise and try to learn from it. Our time on this earth is fucking short and you ate making your partners time on this earth a lie and a joke. You don't care? That's reason number uno that nobody will meet you. In my opinion you are the opposite of what swinging is supposed to be about. " Firstly I never asked anything....it was a mere opinion. Secondly, il get on with my life while you get back on your high horse pal. Everyone entitled to opinions here.... | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. " Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way " You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. " I can understand it and i think you understand what i am trying to say .... happy fabbing | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. " We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. " Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. " Its simply not your business...move along. | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Its simply not your business...move along." | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME " I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made " | |||
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" It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. I think your very unfair with your comments with that other poster.. We are all here for fun no strings yes if you don't want to meet attached people that's fine but it doesn't give you the right to abuse and judge somebody in a different situation to yours... And relationships aren't to black and white as to make a statement as to have the balls to walk away was so unfair you have no idea what goes on in other peoples relationships... Lots of different people... Lots of different situations... I try not to judge cause I'm pretty fucked up myself...... If you've problems with attached people just don't meet them... Can i just say your looking "Absolutely Fabulous" tonight " Why thank you darling | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME What are you on about? Why are you trying to justify it? People who's partners know usually say so on their profile and that's obviously fine. If he was in that situation he could have said so straight away. Who decides what's somebody else's business? Imagine this albeit unlikely scenario. I live close by to the guy. His partner funds out about his cheating. She leaves the house in a blind rage driving down the road and knocks down a family member of mine. Who makes the rules? And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point." Have you ever heard the term wash woman? | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made " I find if a rapist gets berated for the choice he made then I'd have no issue with that. | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made I find if a rapist gets berated for the choice he made then I'd have no issue with that. " Ah the straw man fallacy | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME What are you on about? Why are you trying to justify it? People who's partners know usually say so on their profile and that's obviously fine. If he was in that situation he could have said so straight away. Who decides what's somebody else's business? Imagine this albeit unlikely scenario. I live close by to the guy. His partner funds out about his cheating. She leaves the house in a blind rage driving down the road and knocks down a family member of mine. Who makes the rules? And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point." ...you've based your point on a tv fantasy? ..lol.and you're worried about family members being run down by an enraged spouse who has just found out her partner is cheating ?..may I respectfully suggest that you do as we do,and travel everywhere by submarine. That is also a fantasy.btw. whether you agree or disagree with the posters lifestyle choice, he didn't ask for a review of his profile. ..im not quite sure. ..but that may be against forum rules. It's not a good look,sitting in judgement on someone else's life. In our opinion of course. | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME What are you on about? Why are you trying to justify it? People who's partners know usually say so on their profile and that's obviously fine. If he was in that situation he could have said so straight away. Who decides what's somebody else's business? Imagine this albeit unlikely scenario. I live close by to the guy. His partner funds out about his cheating. She leaves the house in a blind rage driving down the road and knocks down a family member of mine. Who makes the rules? And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point....you've based your point on a tv fantasy? ..lol.and you're worried about family members being run down by an enraged spouse who has just found out her partner is cheating ?..may I respectfully suggest that you do as we do,and travel everywhere by submarine. That is also a fantasy.btw. whether you agree or disagree with the posters lifestyle choice, he didn't ask for a review of his profile. ..im not quite sure. ..but that may be against forum rules. It's not a good look,sitting in judgement on someone else's life. In our opinion of course. " It doesn't matter if he asked for a review of his profile. If it's on the Internet it's public domain. He viewed my profile about 20 times looking for something to throw back but couldn't find anything. If you're trying to say you've never judged anyone then I'm saying you're a liar. And that American guy brought up game of thrones so I replied. I'm genuinely curious as to why people cheat instead of breaking up with their partners but nobody has addressed that, instead you are defending the indefensible. | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME What are you on about? Why are you trying to justify it? People who's partners know usually say so on their profile and that's obviously fine. If he was in that situation he could have said so straight away. Who decides what's somebody else's business? Imagine this albeit unlikely scenario. I live close by to the guy. His partner funds out about his cheating. She leaves the house in a blind rage driving down the road and knocks down a family member of mine. Who makes the rules? And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point." It's clear from the way you post that you've been cheated on and probably have never dealt with it properly. As someone who has been cheated on I know it's not a nice feeling. However, the way I see it is this. I don't cheat because it's not for me. I won't sleep with people who are cheating because that's not for me either. I also won't judge those people because that's certainly not for me. How can you judge someone who you know f all about? You have no idea of their lives, relationships and what brought them to that place. If you climb down off that mighty steed for a minute. You might recognise that there are plenty who would judge you equally harshly, just for being on this site. Your morals should guide your choices and not dictate others. Thanks for the spoiler btw! | |||
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"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on. Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile? Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public. Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot. It made me think about being hurt and betrayed. I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly. If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy. I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here? How do you know they don't have a open marriage? When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME What are you on about? Why are you trying to justify it? People who's partners know usually say so on their profile and that's obviously fine. If he was in that situation he could have said so straight away. Who decides what's somebody else's business? Imagine this albeit unlikely scenario. I live close by to the guy. His partner funds out about his cheating. She leaves the house in a blind rage driving down the road and knocks down a family member of mine. Who makes the rules? And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point. It's clear from the way you post that you've been cheated on and probably have never dealt with it properly. As someone who has been cheated on I know it's not a nice feeling. However, the way I see it is this. I don't cheat because it's not for me. I won't sleep with people who are cheating because that's not for me either. I also won't judge those people because that's certainly not for me. How can you judge someone who you know f all about? You have no idea of their lives, relationships and what brought them to that place. If you climb down off that mighty steed for a minute. You might recognise that there are plenty who would judge you equally harshly, just for being on this site. Your morals should guide your choices and not dictate others. Thanks for the spoiler btw! " No lad. I haven't been cheated on. I've been the cheat, in my late teens and early twenties. And I've done many other shitty things for which I've been judged and I've no problem with that. The fact is that the guy was wondering why he isn't having success and I gave my opinion. I don't have a mighty steed to climb down off just an opinion. And I'm genuinely sorry about the spoiler. I never post got stuff online. I just got carried away in the emotions here. | |||
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"You are not posting an opinion because you can't have an opinion on something you know nothing about. You are attacking a posters choices based on your experiences in life, not his. In your opinion cheating is wrong, that's fine you could post that if you want. But that's not what you did here. " Your post is a bit confusing but I get the gist. Of course I can have an opinion. Anyone can, on any subject they choose. | |||
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"You are not posting an opinion because you can't have an opinion on something you know nothing about. You are attacking a posters choices based on your experiences in life, not his. In your opinion cheating is wrong, that's fine you could post that if you want. But that's not what you did here. Your post is a bit confusing but I get the gist. Of course I can have an opinion. Anyone can, on any subject they choose. " An Opinion would be like saying , It would be harder for a person who is married on this site and partner doesnt know to get a meet because like myself and say quite of few people in here don't condone cheating. But you might get lucky with the rest. What you did was make a lot of personal statements about a man's lifestyle they weren't opinions | |||
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"Listen guys. He put himself out there, he got judged. In judging him I put myself out there, I got judged for that. The circle of life is complete. If ye PC lunatics are stuck for something to do there are plenty of rapists and murderers in need of your support. If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago. Some of you need a good look in the mirror. Done with this... Happy Fabbing....." ......if not giving a fuck what someone else does on a sex site makes me a pc lunatic. ..well in definitely guilty. ..how you make the leap from cheaters to rapists and murderers. .only you know. ..but just remember that name calling. .lunatic..liar.etc and in general getting personal, is a sure sign you're losing the debate...After all isn't that you said we were doing. .?...feel free to ignore my post. .as you did the last one. .. | |||
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"Listen guys. He put himself out there, he got judged. In judging him I put myself out there, I got judged for that. The circle of life is complete. If ye PC lunatics are stuck for something to do there are plenty of rapists and murderers in need of your support. If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago. Some of you need a good look in the mirror. Done with this... Happy Fabbing...........if not giving a fuck what someone else does on a sex site makes me a pc lunatic. ..well in definitely guilty. ..how you make the leap from cheaters to rapists and murderers. .only you know. ..but just remember that name calling. .lunatic..liar.etc and in general getting personal, is a sure sign you're losing the debate...After all isn't that you said we were doing. .?...feel free to ignore my post. .as you did the last one. .. " You are clearly one of those who has an answer for everything. If you don't give a fuck what someone else does on a swing site then why are you giving me shit for something I've done on a sex site? Maybe there should be an IQ test to sign up here. | |||
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"Listen guys. He put himself out there, he got judged. In judging him I put myself out there, I got judged for that. The circle of life is complete. If ye PC lunatics are stuck for something to do there are plenty of rapists and murderers in need of your support. If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago. Some of you need a good look in the mirror. Done with this... Happy Fabbing...........if not giving a fuck what someone else does on a sex site makes me a pc lunatic. ..well in definitely guilty. ..how you make the leap from cheaters to rapists and murderers. .only you know. ..but just remember that name calling. .lunatic..liar.etc and in general getting personal, is a sure sign you're losing the debate...After all isn't that you said we were doing. .?...feel free to ignore my post. .as you did the last one. .. You are clearly one of those who has an answer for everything. If you don't give a fuck what someone else does on a swing site then why are you giving me shit for something I've done on a sex site? Maybe there should be an IQ test to sign up here. " ....but you're the one who wanted discussion and debate? ..isn't that what forums are for?...why do you question my iq?....and what does "have an answer for everything" mean?. That's what a discussion is....you say something. .and I reply, or vice versa. There's really no need to be unpleasant . I wasn't with you, so please keep your insulting remarks out of this. ..if you don't mind... | |||
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"Listen guys. He put himself out there, he got judged. In judging him I put myself out there, I got judged for that. The circle of life is complete. If ye PC lunatics are stuck for something to do there are plenty of rapists and murderers in need of your support. If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago. Some of you need a good look in the mirror. Done with this... Happy Fabbing...........if not giving a fuck what someone else does on a sex site makes me a pc lunatic. ..well in definitely guilty. ..how you make the leap from cheaters to rapists and murderers. .only you know. ..but just remember that name calling. .lunatic..liar.etc and in general getting personal, is a sure sign you're losing the debate...After all isn't that you said we were doing. .?...feel free to ignore my post. .as you did the last one. .. You are clearly one of those who has an answer for everything. If you don't give a fuck what someone else does on a swing site then why are you giving me shit for something I've done on a sex site? Maybe there should be an IQ test to sign up here. ....but you're the one who wanted discussion and debate? ..isn't that what forums are for?...why do you question my iq?....and what does "have an answer for everything" mean?. That's what a discussion is....you say something. .and I reply, or vice versa. There's really no need to be unpleasant . I wasn't with you, so please keep your insulting remarks out of this. ..if you don't mind..." You didn't answer my question. | |||
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