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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

am i right or wrong here folks, a couple text me the other day for a face pic, i do have some in prv and yes they are of my face, but any way i checked there profile and they have no face pics in prv or in public, just because im single doesnt mean im desperate, i think i should be shown the same respect as a couple, im not a desperate singleton that needs a quick wank over some face pics, ye couples complain here we send one liners, we could write an essay and still receive no reply, but yet ye demand a face pic but have no pic in return, and yes i no ye couples are going to reply here saying im twat and this and that,but u no some thing i just couldnt give a shit, had a cpl a few months ago calling me every name under the sun just because i wouldnt send a face pic when they said they had no pics and were not verified what ignorance, right couples let the abuse and stone throwing begin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone in this day and age hast got a profile picture at the very least, then, they dont deserve to get a meet, be it a couple or a single.

Every phone has a camera, Argos do them cheap. Jesus.. most lap tops have built in cams on them...

From now on we wont even be replying to profiles without some kind of a picture...

U did right m8.. If they cant be arsed to make the effort then why should u respond to them.

xxx

Happy Swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers newtownabbey, i was expecting a load of responces saying its im the plank and that im wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Did you ask them if they had a face pic they could send you in return?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Demands for face pics make me nervous. We have all had the requests for the pics then being immediately blocked when we showed one. I have also been asked by Members did I want to "swap" pics.

I honestly think pics are daft. In fairness in 20 seconds I can download off the net a pic of any type of person I want and claim its me. In any case, sexual attraction i 90% mental and 10% physical. sure you need a photo to give an idea of what the person looks like, but its a swing site, not Knock Marriage Bureau!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always ask for a face pic ,

if i dont fancy the person no way is he/she going to play with me

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

nah 100% if your going to send a face pic its only fair that people send one back, tho sending pics means nothing id much prefair to see the people on cam, ok people say cam not 100% safe aswell but its a hell of a lot better than a silly few photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do understand where you are coming from

I have to admit though to somewhat double standards myself. I do ask those that are contacting me with a view to meeting to send a picture and yet I refuse to send one myself

I just need to get an idea of what a person looks like, and that hes not a neighbour. I dont keep the pictures or collect them. I however dont know that mine are going to be treat in the same way. I will however, if I think I will be interested in meeting, go on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i total agree 1234, we always insist on cam before we meet up... that way we can see them, and, they can see us, and, if either party doesnt like wot they see on the other end.. then easy just to say "no thanks"... cams r the way forward lol

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast

I had a guy on cam once so I could see who he was and he was wearing a scarf and sunglasses kinda took away the whold point of putting on his cam.

I do ask for pictures yes and it states very very clearly on my profile that I would like to see one in advance and if I think I would like to take things further then I will of course return the favour. But I will not send a picture of me to somebody that I think is not my type. Guys sometimes refuse to send me a picture and I am very honest with them and tell then we can't take it any further.

Remember the guy has contacted me first so he has to show me what he looks like in order to get the kind of response he would like. I think the way I do it is fine for me, as I am hoping that they have at least read my profile first and seen how I go about things.

I have seen some cams and the 1st guy to show me his cam only showed me his cock well I am sorry I can see one of those anytime I like I wanted to see his face and I had to persuade him to show me his face if I have to persuade you to show me what you look like then you are wasting both our times. Once again more so if the guy contacted me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading this and having a think about it I've changed my profile to read that you don't have to send me face pix but I will insist on cam before we meet (or may do when I'm back from my wee break)

As pictures can be deceiving depending on the angle they're taken at and how old they are - I've been caught out and met a couple of totally unsuitable guys after just relying on pix

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

have never asked for pic as we wont send pics, due to the fact you dont know what is going to happen to them once sender receives it,also some pics dont look like the person as they may be of yrs ago or adapted in some way. we do however cam for such purposes, as we think cams are more reliable and accurate. (most of u have seen me anyway in chatroom)lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have no problem going on cam as iv been on cam alot to prove to ppl im not fake, its cpls requesting pics and when u ask them for one they get highly offended, and say how dare u think we are fake were a cpl its u should bow to us im not a piece of shit on the bottom of ur shoe at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wudnt put pressure on anyone for a pic as we wudnt like it ourselves and u just dont know whose hands they are going to, but we normally only meet ppl we have spoke to for a while and wud go on cam quicker then send pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good point mate, I have commented before about the fact that it is acceptable for guys to be expected to send of face pics off with out getting the same. Alot of cpls and fems make it clear that it's a must, but why should it, we are entitled to privacy too. I don't not send face pics as I have gotten nothing back too many times. If it gets to the stage of possible meet then i cam, atleast the cam is up to date and not a pic taken years ago. I am not having a go at anyone, its all about personal choice. Just cause I am a guy doesn't mean I am desperate. We are all here for different reasons and like to do things our own way there is no right or wrong. We have all experienced time wasters and weirdos. On a more light hearted note, I nearly pissed myself at the guy wearing scarf and sunglasses WTF lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ya sun glasses and scarf hillarious,, should have just worn a balaclava with a riffle on his shoulder lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you ask them if they had a face pic they could send you in return?

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i did and there reply was we are a cpl we cant possibly be fake we dont send pics and dont have a cam at the moment its broken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i always ask for a face pic ,

if i dont fancy the person no way is he/she going to play with me

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ur entitled to ask for a face pic, as u have quite a few pics on ur profile, and there nice ones by the way lol

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By *ick and MariaCouple
over a year ago

lisburn

Well we dont have face pics up for a reason but if peeps take time out to ask why we are only to happy to tell them in private we do have msn and cams so we can let people see us there xx maria

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

these cpls in question contacted me with a 1 liner, (have u face pics for us) no chit chat before hand

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"these cpls in question contacted me with a 1 liner, (have u face pics for us) no chit chat before hand"

i wud have deleted mess and moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"these cpls in question contacted me with a 1 liner, (have u face pics for us) no chit chat before hand

i wud have deleted mess and moved on "

Same here I have dont the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhhh lets all get together and have anal sex and forget about these forums !!!! xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taxi to Newtownabbey !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you right !!!

why would someone expect for you to send a face pic and not get 1 in return?

wrong wrong wrong

just because your a single guy donst mean your stupid?

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you right !!!

why would someone expect for you to send a face pic and not get 1 in return?

wrong wrong wrong

just because your a single guy donst mean your stupid?

auds xx "
Hey Audrey hun you are spot on...Phil xxxx

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over a year ago

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